:D:D @aaliyyah, the students deserve more kawar-heyn. mostly at the campuses, its difficult to hold the peer pressure, so dont you think the parents should infact encourage their kids to marry????? money money=guur wacan

~~~~~~aaliyyah, greatjoy. maxaa tiri, ? ms moon , iskajoog aa? lol. i hope ms moons, goes on even at faster pace. anyway, when a man feels he should marry,( here i am making an assumption, that the man is sane and sober,.) irrespective of the amount, he should be counting on some sort of funds, else he shouldnt even think of it all. but i also think, in lagarab qabto lamana-yaasha donaayo ineey mustaqbal wadaagaan, mana ahan in lagu xiro shuruud ah xoolo badan iyo inuu qofka shaqa mustakafi ah haayo, kifaaf umbaa loo baahan yahay, oo ah, can they source their bread. one thing is very important to appreciate, the need for marriage is a naturall necessity, and not only the well-off people feel the need, even the poor too feel it. so, dont you think, if you condition the need to marriage of the poor, solely to financial capabilities, you are limiting the avenue to meet their need? (i mean the poor) generally, in my world, marriage is all i can hear, should they utter, my utmost support runs in. be it what. from the financial to the tala bixin. i can even go the extra mile, to find a means to a needing-marriage man who doesnt work. cheers anyway, and may the almighty help us all.

~~blessed, i hope you get. when you are indifferent to the unislamic dress of your sisters, what are you implying? if you aint unhappy, does it then mean you are happy about it? i dont know. my point was, am definitely unhappy about unislamic dressed muslim girls, does this sound unhealthy? amiiin to the ducaa.

~~~~`ms moons, allah hakuu sahlo. magaran kartaa xibinta raga laga eego markaad nolal dhab ah karabto?

````AALIYYAH, big said. i cant accept more. lakiin ufiirso, however the money issue matters, everything in maritall affairs melts down to one thing, and only one thing, and that is isfahan. tell me, can money buy that? you made me laugh when u said, "let me add that I am all for a rich man who can provide the it life..mid waxbaanaya oo labo shilin uruuinaya maxa ii ag dhigay""

~~~~shimbiriyo waraf kala war la'. of late am told, the somalis, of all things, unanimously are united against these issue. and here i mean somalis. but also, it is loosing participants,

^^ a.khadaroow, ma congrat her ayeey kaamareesaa? sxb waa dil iyo nolal hadaadbo so qaado anything to do with s.land,,,,,,, u know wat? i will leaave the somali prefixed to the land for mighty reasons. :cool:

^^aaliyyah, well said. definitely, the issue of the money matters, but keeping that aside, imagine the boy is working, and the little peny he is getting is enough to drive them off safely, by then is it yet wrong for them to get married??

^^ms moons, be blessed, amiin

^^ BLessed, thats where you went wrong,,,,,,,,,,, i aint you, and neither are you me, we differ in many things, if not all, when it comes to view or opinion.period. i didnt thread on your behalf, i squarely did from my point of view, so i dont see the reason why you should put yourself in my perspective, that is you and this is me. and i dont see how the issue of being better than other muslimah's came about?

^^ is it a theory, or by far a fact, i dont know. this may be the scenario of a schooling man who thinks of marrying. nearly most parents will render such thoughts wrong and brand it un-ethical,,,, i mean, is there anything wrong with that? can schooling ''boys'' and ''girls'' get married? p.s. many were loaded with the feeling of parting their loved one's since the idea didnt click.

then fyn, here we go. what i meant by the 'allienation' and 'the shame' was, i wouldnt be happy should i see a muslim gal dressed odd, and unislamic. would you?

^^^Blessed, cool. why tha riot act? calashaan sideey kula tahay un ma ahan arinka, ee xog isweeydaarsi umbaan wadnay, lakiiin hadeey si kale kuula muuqato, roll on. as in, hv ur way

@ aaliyah, confidence building therapy formula an kusiiyo ee hoo, implement that which you are convinced is the right thing, failure to which lends you a deep regret that will haunt you for some time, or even the rest of your life. kalsoonida wexeey katimaada inaad si dhab ah oogu qanacsantahay fikir ad qabto iyo aragtida kugu duugan, may the almighty give you a true confidence, allahuma amin. @juxa, malaha qalad ayaad iga fahantay? Waxaan kawaday, magaca waxaan umaleynaayay inuu yahay mid nin,

@juxa, at the begging this name sounded masculine, lol. @aaliyah, when you say hijab, u meant niqaab??? Then thats what captures my attention, it reminds me of campus girls. Walee hadii wax laiska maqlaayo, waxaan kutalin lahaa in fuul jalabiib laxidho, waayo waa astur qiima badan, least our gals feel reciprocating modernity. I appeal to you plz start.

^^^JB, the join date of SOL, is not a parameter of logic. just respect the views of others, and mark you, somaliland is not a nation, but a big village for one family of somalis, every1 knows that. they say, the substance in you, is manifested in house-hold.

Xaaji xanjuf, you stand corrected by time, somalia is by far the hope of somalis, for NFD to join bigger somalia, is a rejoice least you call disturbing. but somaliland is a village that settles the people we know all. no point to mention more.

^^ibtisam, dont you think, if the people are 100% muslims, we can uproot the evil of drinking? am told, chewing palace on earth is some town in that "nation", any clue?

^^aaliyah, point taken. you doubt whether our moms knew abt hijab wearing? hhhmmm, no comment. but anyway, cheers.

^^^^I WAS TOLD, IN SOMALILAND ITS HARD TO BE SAFE IF YOU ARE FROM **A** , YOU RISK YOUR LIFE. WAABAN KABAQAY. by the way, aint somalis one and the same? why do i hear theres racism!!!!!!! runtii waa iga sual, i wanna know.

^^^ eti style ya dress pia, ime jipata ni fashion.?????? wa yabee intee loo socdaaa? didnt our folk mothers knew all about hijab wearing style? why do our gals alienate us from our deeply held religion?( i dont mean to hurt, baram alil ashamed, ll) its islamic way, or it is not, please choose carefully.i mean the mode of dress.

^^^ just to ask, are there any pubs in somalilan? i mean official premise? p.s. to ask doest amount to, to hurt.

^^the issue bends down to pick a fallen thing on the ground. who fell it down, we dont know. why is it being sort, may be they know. somaliland, please tell somalis why???

^^^ chimera,well said at most. but least you forget, we can attract no visitor at all, and by far, a tourist, many feel 'western'. so, at any cost ,what come may, somali should be left the way it is, and some time in the future something will happen, that will transform 'ourdreams' into realized goals. hopefully, i dont expect anyone will ask me what that something is. p.s. somalis are what we can define not.

^^ where is trusted site on the net??????? may be 'sugar coated' safety.