ha ahatee, bashiroow adiga maxad door bidi leheed??????

warka cadee hee, seed isugu hubtaa dadkoo dhan????? Lol About ur comment, hadhoow ayad rabta inan raabshad galo, ya kafiican in lanoqdo, '' ow islaxin beyna naas'' ? Wa ayad quran. Bal laba qof oo isqabo in lakala dhexdhexaadiyo is a noble chore. Walow an kurafaaday, ala maxaan kala dhex galay in badan...........

~~~~LOL;) why do you think so? malaha nin ad isku hubto ayaa kuujoogo ayaan filaa, lol wili adiga laba qof od isbartay mais guursadeen???? am that lucky. i advocate for marriage always.

somali uko juu bro. cheerss

gabar somaliyeed wanu isfahmeyna, dhib malahan. Lakin adiga, sxbeey qaali camal becaada, dee ma hal maalin kutaajir ayad wadaa? Lol when it comes to abstaining from an act you are addicted to, firstly you brain storm urself and tell the soul iga qalee camal, koley naftu wey madax adagtahay kaamana yeleeso, ee waa laga tashta. Firm, sincere decission, with a prayer to ALLAH will help to fore-go the act. Knowing what you are doing is wrong, deciding whether to stop it or continue, if u decide to stop, settle on the options available, whether to refill your ipod with quran and forrmat the music, whether to reduce ur frequency of listening to musid to two times per day each five minutes, or even is adkeee oo goan adag kagaar and say gud byee to it. Lakiin wa suale, naag hees dhageesato armaa lasoo furaaa???? Lol

madaama ad rabto halfkii kale, i will pay a quarter of it, is it ok now? Lol in the what r u listening thread, after the dua and is afagarad kadib, u posted a clip, walee adaaa?lol

funny yu aaliyyah. lol. Suasha hore i meant gabdhaha hadii lagu dhoho naa ninkaan aayad mahaayo oo wax looga dhinto malahan ee isaga har, waa hal bacaad lagu lisay. Dumarka lagama reebi karo wexey magaan, ma nin jecelbaa mise whole hearted ayeey oogu qancan sheekada raga, magaranaayo ila hada. Xaajada dambe oo ah ehelka laguursanaayo ishaad katuurtay. Lol mataqan xibinta raga lagula xisaabtamo? Cakega lacagta hadaan half bixiyo, maxa kaa bi'i? Walee aaliyoy mirir ayaad tahay, warkaado dhan waa itabsii, gacan isaar, jokes. Lol

@aaliyyah, lol. i will pay half the budget, the rest wan katashaneena, hahah. Sual, dumarka hadeey nin arin guur isla garaan, ooy gabadha reerkooda didaan, mexeey gabdhaha rerkooda ooga goan oo ninka uracaan???? Tan kale, guurka ehelka isguursanaayo bal kawaran?

hahha, walee rer magal watahay, hadalkaada ayaaba lagaran. Lakiin free is better, dee lift igu sii,lol. we reappoint yu, and i mean yu.

aaliyyah, ur lively. U make me laugh and alot more happy. Ur reera bulsho. Hailaawin inaad cake iidubi and now shahna wuu kujiraa, adaa sheegay, hahahahaha

aaliyyah well said. Lakiin ya damanad qaadi ineey dumar usheganeenin dariskooda???? Dumarka qarkood warleee, lol. Mine will not do that, i guess. we reappoint you. Congrats. Xilka gudo

~~~~aaliyyahh, ;) its is a positive comment. lol you really contribute whole heartedly, which makes you an icon. lakiin hadaadan wili xil qaadin, wa yabee ya kusheegay all this 'locked' information from the people like you? hope inaad fahantay? hahahaha it is a worth course, to discuss the marital failures and come up with possible solutions, because by doing so, we might atleast prevent even one family from breaking. somalida reer yurub, fadlan xaliya mushkilada single mother.

~~~~~~~:D:D:D armeey noqotaa, qosol hiilu galaa, lol.

~~~~~Aaliyyah, wad isku fuuqsatay, lol. i concur with you absolutely. cheers p.s. i am nominating aaliyyah to 3ilaju mushkilatul usrah post. the post was vacant for very looooooooooong time.:cool:

:D:D:D:D

~~~~ sheeko macna leh waaye hadii cadeyn loo helo. hewaloland wara uyaaalo

~~~~~~let this thread spread, till all those others feel over powered. waxaan leeyahay, warkaas un hala wado, ilaa markeey cusboolayaasha ka ogolaan donaan., calashaan wixii diidan viva this noble course.

~~~~iyaa? guur iyo furniin maxaa isku rate kadhigay? iskuma dhowo, waxaa kabadan guurka waloow, the rate of divorce is hiking.

who is to blame? The men or the women? hadeynu somali nahay, waxaa naga maqan kaalinta eey waalidka kulahayeen guurka. Imagine, in an ideal somali family, it hardly happens, in walidiinta eey owladooda kala hadlaan arimaha kusaabsan guurka, astaamaha guurka xun, sababaha keeno, sida loo xusho ninka fiican, gabadha fiican and what have you. I think it is a taboo for a somali mother or father to coach his/her children about life and the realities of a prosperous marriage, or even tell their girl child about the facts of men. then the child grows up with no idea whatsoever about the other gender except what he/she hears for their pals and friends. Then the child does as the friends do. his family life is totally not connected to his marital life. Wexeey dhahaan somalidu ' ishaa falateen' happens. Iska xoogsa and explore, shekadoo dhan qas iyo lab ayeey isku rogi. Maxa lasameeyni kolka? halaiska nolaado marka, nin walboow naftaa, nabiyoow umadaa

here is the reason for the high rate of divorce. Lack of proper tools to solve disputes and dhaqan xumo katimaado from a partner which is very untolerable. Bil mathal, nag araajo ah oo hadan afxun, oo caayda faruuraha usaarantahay,. Mise nin sabool ah oon xoola heysanin hadana wuxuu soo helo jaad la aadaayo iyo qayilaad, oona macangag ah yacni dabeecad xun. Mafahantay hada? Lol

Aaliyyah;721096 wrote: You remind me of that song..my love doesn't cost a thing by Jennifer.. ..the lyrics go like this, even if you were broke my love doesn't cost a thing LOL.. Money might not be everything, but it makes life easier And, money as far as somalis goes might be the reason for a divorce. But, not because the farah has too much money as u are trying to convey, rather the case is as follows, I hear this statement all the time "faraxaas ma aragtay wax uu ii taro ma jirto wala biilka caruurtu iga bixiya wala xoog buu i tara walahi kaas wa no kala dhamaatay" so you advocating students getting married doesn't fly with me, but again as I keep repeating it is fine for those it works for..lets stop having circular arguments lol waan daalay anu shekadana waan ka baxay ..Just made a cake and tea..So I shall go and enjoy that!! salaam Here are trying to say men are miser or mean, when it comes to spending, and hence the cause of the divorce or xilkas la'an? Just to ask, mostly ma raga ayaa keeno furniinka mise dummarka????

are those cakes for the xaflada arooska? Lol. Anyway, i would have been happier to see you with faaraxs oo lacag badaaaan leh, may be you will have enjoyed that. imagine, waxaan kuweydiin lahaa how happy you were.lol. Money and happiness are mutually exclusive. You have one, you miss the other. Lakin it is relative.

@aaliyyah ur back. Lol. Lakiin money is not all about marriage. How many families that have money and yet their life is not smooth? Least you know, money is the source of family problems and the primary cause of divorce. Seriously

masha allah @sayid somal. Allah haku ziyaadiyo amiin. hope you share its merits.

~~~~nuune, afkaada caana lagu qabay sxb. guurku waa farxad iyo reyn-reyn. muhiimada waa un in labada qof wax meel isla dhigtaan, and they stick there. lakiin conditons badan, like beyond undergraduate, profesional job, wet pocket, xaax waaye. parents should encourage their young ones to assume responsibility of marriage at young age, at their(parents) coaching.