Rendezvous. As I said it was a lecture, I think it among the many asian channels on sky. WaterLily sister JZK second time.The channel has brought Nuur to our little haven and well my new companion for the time being.

Seems SOL has been hit by an image issue.Trying to define ourselves in different ways. Mmmh well why spoil the fun?. Ive always been a fan of Yoda seems we have something in common <img src=" http://www.tk421.net/character/yoda.jpg" alt="" /> A venerated sage with vast power and knowledge, you gently guide forces around you while serving as a champion of the light. Judge me by my size, do you? And well you should not - for my ally is the Force. And a powerful ally it is. Life greets it, makes it grow. Its energy surrounds us, and binds us. Luminescent beings are we, not this crude matter! You must feel the Force around you, everywhere.

-S- You are secretive, self-contained, and shy. You are very sexy, sensual, and passionate, but you do not let on to this.Only in intimate privacy will this part of your nature reveal itself. When it gets down to the nitty-gritty, you are an expert. You know all the little tricks of the trade, can play any role or any game, and take your love life very seriously. You don't fool around. You have the patience to wait for the right person to come along. wondering what nitty gritty :confused: You don't fool around.<< this is true

Im disgusted. :mad:

Thanks Water Lily .Im visiting this island of yours and was wondering with all the channels on Sky why couldnt I come across an Islamic channel. I did come across some lectures in Indian language on Hadrat Hussain dont remember the channel though.

Jazakhallah Kheir. Glad other people are getting the glimpse of the beautifulness of Hijab.

Men See You As Playful Men want a challenge and you are the perfect playmate You know how to push men's buttons and attract a wide range of guys You enjoy living and loving - it's one of your most attractive qualities Men are often consumed with desire for you, and you love that! NO COMMENT

What a laugh! After answering 27 questions-Im a Saddam Hussein like leader. Answering all the questions Ive softened to JFK. :confused: :confused:

Asalaam aleiykum 2, 3, and 8 please. Jazkhallah kheir.

Most of the time I find myself in the Ibtilaa state. And sometimes I do run out of patience but it is not a sign of ingratitude to Allah but mostly towards the wrong or uncalled for acts people tend to make. I beleive everyone has a limit and when it crosses the limit I try to be courteous as possible let it out and move on.I do apologise if Ive said anything unappropriate to the situation but mostly I stick with the topic in hand. The state I wish to be in (I think im in NOW is) the Neema state. Its a beautiful state but has its drawbacks you can get carried away and lose you bearings if u dont remember that everything we have, our body,the air we breathe belongs to Allah. Havent had family to dot me for a while and now Alhamdullilah about to feel the belonging again. Pray that I dont overdo it and use my time wisely.Having family around you is a blessing in their absence you understand more the emptiness in life which exists.

Thank you for your kind words. It is all part of Allahs plan. Every soul will taste death. We have to prepare ourselves wisely though. Ukhti Muslimah thank you sis, Im also a fellow Ukhti.

Im euphoric. Im happy Im taking a break from Uni. 6 weeks of bliss Inshallah seeing family in the Uk. And Inshallah the spring rains and gloomy british days will not keep my spirits down. ''Crossing em fingers'' Have a nice day every1. Fiamanillah

Wazee İ know long time no c nor salam. Naona vitu vyako Bi Raula. Ni vi kali. Nakupa kitu kengine, swa ya Tz.Hope u will enjoy the di-ya-logi. if u kno swahili accent ..... dis is funny An expatriate from Tanzania, Mr. Juma Kichwagumu writes: "I am very distabed by the Horribo traffic situashon in Toronto. Fast of all, they is not a singo Foriceman to be seen directing tha pipo on tha streets. To make mattas even warse they are so many cars on the rods that tha whöre prace rooks rike a farking rot. Ala ! Then you have those pipo who think they own the rods; justi breakin all the rules and zooming around rike nobodies business. But the wast are those chinese pipo. They are soooo srow and even they cannot see ova their dachboard. and theya eyes are orways crozed so they see nothing. Who tha herr gave them a Ricence. The other sro pipo are the grandmaddas. Wot business do they have on the rods at that age. They should just stay at home and tha world would be a quicka prace. I have to say something about those cerr phone usas in the cars. The car is for driving and not for talking to your laved ones on the telephone. If you reary want to talk to those pipo then take them in the car with you and talk to them. Then I see those pipo ngoing haiti when the speed rimit says sickesty. What the herr is orr the rush for, you can kirr samone you know? Then you have those pipo ngoing haiti on the highway when tha speed rimit is one masai(100). I wanda if the think they are ngoing to theya ghandFaddas funerol. Move it you nguys! But the biggest prize has to go to those ferros on the bicycols. They think that just becoz they have a Brack Mamba that they can weave in andi out of tha traffic rike a Brack Mamba snake. Risten cayafoorry you nguys: "you are not a snake" repit afta me "you are not a snake" If I catch any of you doing it again I wirr be forced to run you ova rike a rat. You know my anko is a foriceman I can get away with it. OOps I think I have said too mush" Prease mista minista do something about this Horribo situashon. Sinsiyari Juma Kichwagumu. (exfaktriate from Tanzania)

Thanks for the reminder. I just lost an uncle of mine on Sunday. May Allah forgive him and rest his soul in peace and this topic is still fresh in my mind. Ya Rabb let us die as Committed Muslims. Amin

Miles Davis You can sample some of his music And read his biography. Miles Davis

Wow, what a fan club . Its my favorite music too.Im a Mile Davis fan.

Mashallah Jazkhallah kheir . Looking forward to read more.

Sounds scary, My advice try to change your normal routine and dont go out alone. If you have a male figure(father,brother,cousin..) you respect and can confine in tell him of the problem and if possible let him met with this person.I dont think he will take no as answer especially because you bent to his wish of meeting him unaccompanied. May Allah help you overcome this problem.

Rahima Jazakhallah kheir for posting the article. As it clarifies alot of the controversy. I pray to Allah that the lady will come to her senses and the men praying behind her find the true light of Islam. Amin.

Narrated Shaddad bin Aus raa. : The Prophet Sallalaahu Alayhi wa Sallam said, "The most superior way of asking for forgiveness from Allah is: Allahumma Anta Rabbi, la ilaha illa Anta. Anta khalaqtani wa ana abduka, wa ana ala ahdikawa wadika mastatatu. Audhu bika min sharri ma sanatu, abuu laka binimatika alaiya, wa abuu laka bidhanbi faghfirli fa innahu la yaghfiru adhdhunuba illa Anta."*** The Prophet saws. added: "If somebody recites them during the day with firm faith in it, and dies on the same day before the evening, he will be from the people of Paradise; and if somebody recites it at night with firm faith in it, and dies before the morning, he will be from the people of Paradise." [sahih Al-Bukhari, 8/6306(O.P.318)] ***O Allah, You are my Lord! None has the right to be worshipped but You. You created me and I am Your slave, and I am faithful to my covenant and my promise(to You) as much as I can. I seek refuge with You from all the evil I have done. I acknowledge before You all the blessings You have bestowed upon me, and I confess to You all my sins. So I entreat You to forgive my sins, for nobody can forgive sins except You.

Asalaam Aleykum Deeq, May Allah bless you too. Thank you for the encouragement, looking forward to read your posts. Al Ustadh Nur, Glad to hear your back. And Jazakhallah Khair for the objective analysis of the duas. Brother it was your idea we are acting on.May Allah guide, protect and enrich you with more ideas so that we collectively as an Ummah,work and increase ourselves with the knowledge of the Quraan and gain the titles of Muminun and Muminati and have a grandeous ending .Amin. Wiilo, Looking forward to read your post. I know its not against the rules want to share a verse of the Quraan which really touches me.From surat An Nur 24:35. The parable of the light of Allah. The verse when read in arabic is prosed very poetically and the words are also amazing. Allah is the Light of the heavens and the earth. The parable of His Light is as (if there were) a niche and within it a lamp, the lamp is in glass, the glass as it were a brilliant star, lit from a blessed tree, an olive, neither of the east (i.e. neither it gets sun-rays only in the morning) nor of the west (i.e. nor it gets sun-rays only in the afternoon, but it is exposed to the sun all day long), whose oil would almost glow forth (of itself), though no fire touched it. Light upon Light! Allah guides to His Light whom He wills. And Allah sets forth parables for mankind, and Allah is All-Knower of everything. Allah Akbar!! Of the translations ,I like reading Ibn Qathirs Hope you will find it enriching The Parable of the Light of Allah Wishing you all a blessed Jumaah. Fiamanillah.

That was beautiful. You have a talent,Mashallah.

Asalaam aleykum Some alien the best thing to do when in such a situation is first take in a deep breathe, Say Audhubillahi Mina shaytani Rajiim. Sit if you were standing for a while till you feel better(the anger , rage disappeared or subdued) or just quickly run to the bathroom take ablution. Shaytan will lose the battle and you will get the dhawab as being patient and in control of yourself. Add a couple of rakats if you like. To thank Allah and ask to curb your anger and control your tongue. And I know its a tough battle.People tend to think of you as stup1d if you dont counteract there and then but I prefer doing so when all my thoughts are recollected and when the anger, resentment is gone.And with no regrets. May Allah help you its an attainable character just need practice. Remember when there is will there is a way. And we will be judged by our niyah-intentions. Fiamanillah

Asalaam aleykum Mine is an Amana overdue. In these couple of months of reading,noticed that the Quran apart from being a guidance it is also a Mercy to beleivers as Allah Himself says. Thus on this light I started to collect verses from the Quran of prayers of the Prophets mentioned therein. As the Prophets were human like us and they were choosen to perfect our religion.And like every human we make mistakes and ask Allah for Mercy. The Prophets were either Taught by Allah -Kul to say those duas or read them by theır own accord. And from the duas we learn how to invoke to Allah in the humbliest way. Prayers of the Prophets in the Quraan(So far the ones Ive come across) 1.Prophet Adams (AS)and Hawas dua “….Our Lord! We have wronged ourselves. If You can forgive us not, and bestow not upon us Your Mercy, we shall certainly be of the losers.†Al A`raf 7: verse 23 2. Prophet Nuh (A.S) dua “…My Lord! Forgive me, and my parents, and him who enters my home as a believer, and all believing men and women…..†Nuh 72: verse 28 3. Prophet Nuh(A.S ) dua “O my Lord! I seek refuge with You from asking You that of which I have no knowledge. And unless You forgive me and have Mercy on me, I would indeed be one of the losers.†Hud 11:verse 47 4.Prophet Nuh(A.S ) dua “…My Lord! Cause me to land at a blessed landing place, for You are the Best of those who bring to land.†Al Muminun 23:29 5 . Prophet Nuh(A.S ) dua “O lord! I have been overcome, so help me.†Al Qamar 54:Verse 10 6. Prophet Ibrahims(A.S ) dua “O my Lord! Make me one who offers prayers perfectly and also from my offsprings, our Lord! And accept my invocation†Ibrahim 14:verse 40 7. Prophet Ibrahims(A.S ) dua “Our Lord! Forgive me and my parents, and all the believers on the Day when the reckoning will be established.†Ibrahim 14:verse 41 8. Prophet Ibrahims(A.S ) dua “My Lord! Bestow hukman(religious knowledge, right judgement of the affairs and Prophethood) on me, and join me with the righteous.†Ash –Shu`ara 26:verse83 9. Prophet Ibrahims(A.S ) dua “My Lord! Grant me offsprings from the righteous.†As Saffat 37:verse 100 10. Prophet Ibrahims(A.S ) dua “Our Lord! In You we put our trust, and to You we turn to repentance, and to You is our final return.†Al Mumtahinah 60:verse 4. 11. Prophet Ibrahims(A.S ) dua “Our Lord! Make us not a trail for the disbelievers, and forgive us, Our Lord! Verily, You, only You are the All Mighty, the All Wise.†Al Mumtahinah 60:verse 5 12.Prophet Luts (A.S) dua “My Lord! Grant me victory over the people who are Mufsidun(those who commit great crimes and sins, oppressors, tyrants, mischief-makers, corrupts).†Al Ankabut 28:30 13.Prophet Ismail(A.S) and Prophet Ibrahim(A.S) S dua “Our Lord! Accept this service from us. Verily! You are the All Hearer, the All Knower.†Al Baqarah 2: verse 127 14.Prophet Ismail(A.S) and Prophet Ibrahim(A.S) S dua “Our Lord! And make us submissive unto You and of our offspring a nation submissive unto You, and show us our Manasik(all the ceremonies of pilgrimage-Hajj and Umra etc) and accept our repentance. Truly, You are the One Who accepts repentance, the Most Merciful.†Al Baqarah 2: verse 128 15. Prophet Yaqub A.S dua “I only complain of my grief and sorrow to Allah…..†Yusuf 12:verse 86 16.Prophet Yusuf A.S s dua “…..The Creator of the heavens and the earth. You are my Wali (protector,guardian, helper) in this world and in the hereafter , cause me to die as a Muslim and join me with the righteous.†Yusuf 12:verse 101 17.Prophet Ayub A.S dua “…. Verily, distress has seized me, and You are the most Merciful of all those who show Mercy.†Al Anbiya 21 :83 18.Prophet Yunus(Dhan Nun-Jonah) A.S dua “La Ilaha illa Anta (none has the right to be worshipped but You, glorified be You) I have been of the wrongdoers.†Al Anbiya 21:87 19. Prophet Zachariah A.S dua “ O my Lord! Leave me not single (childless), though You are the Best of the inheritors.†Al Anbiya 21:89 20.Prophet Musa s AS dua “……Glory be to You, I turn to You in repentance and I am the first of the believers.†Al A`raf 7;verse 143 21. Prophet Musa s AS dua “O my Lord! Forgive me and my brother, and make us enter into Your mercy, for you are the Most Merciful of those who show mercy.†Al A`raf 7: 151 22.Prophet Musa s AS dua “ ….You are our wali, so forgive us and have mercy on us, for You are the best of those who forgive.†Al A`raf 7: 155 23. Prophet Musa s AS dua “An ordain for us good in this world, and in the Hereafter. Certainly we have turned to You……†Al A`raf 7: 156 24 . Prophet Musa s AS dua “O my Lord! Open for me my chest, and ease my task for me ; and make loose the knot from my tongue.†Taha 20: verses 25-27 25 . Prophet Musa s AS dua “My Lord! Verily, I have wronged myself, so forgive me.â€â€¦ Al Qasas28:verse 16 26. Prophet Musa s AS dua “My Lord! For that with which You have favoured me, I will never be a helper for the Mujrimun.†Al Qasas28 verse 17. 27. Prophet Musa s AS dua “….My Lord! Truly, I am in need of whatever good that You bestow on me!†Al Qasas 28: verse 24 28. Prophet Musa s AS dua “Verily , I seek refuge in my Lord and your Lord from every arrogant who believes not in the Day of reckoning!†Gafir/ Al Mumin 40:verse 27 29.Prophet Suleiman AS dua “My Lord! Inspire and bestow upon me the power and the ability that I may be grateful for Your Favours which You have bestowed on me and on my parents, and that I may do righteous good deeds that will please You, and admit me by Your Mercy among Your righteous slaves.†An-Naml 27:verse 19 30 .Prophet Suleiman AS dua “My Lord! Forgive me, and bestow on me a kingdom such as shall not belong to any other after me. Verily, You are the bestower.†Sad 38: verse 35 31.Prophet Zachariah AS. dua “O my Lord! Grant me from You, a good offspring. You are indeed the AllHearer of invocation.†Al Imran 3: verse 38 32. Prophet Muhammad SAW dua “ My Lord! Judge you in truth! Our Lord is the Most Beneficent, Whose help is to be sought against that which you attribute.†Al Anbiya21:verse 112 33. Prophet Muhammad SAW dua “My Lord! Let my entry be good, and likewise my exit be good. And grant me from You an authority to help me.†Al Isra 17:80 34. Prophet Muhammad SAW dua “.. Allah is sufficient for me. La ilaha illa huwa(none has the right to be worshipped but He), in Him I put my trust and He is the Lord of the Mighty Throne.†At Tauba 9:129 35. Prophet Muhammad SAW dua “ O Allah! Creator of the heavens and the earth! All knower of the Ghaib and the seen. You will judge between your slaves about that wherein they used to differ.†Az Zumar 39:46 36. Prophet Muhammad SAW dua. “My Lord! I seek refuge with You from the whisperings of the devils. And I seek refuge with You, My lord! Lest they may attend (or come near )me.†Al Mu`minun 23: 97-98. 37: Prophet Muhammad SAW dua “My lord! Forgive and have mercy, for you are the best of those who show mercy!†Al Mu`minun 23:118 38.Duas the Angels say for the believers: “ Our Lord! You comprehend all things in mercy and knowledge, so forgive those who repent and follow Your way, and save them from the torment of the blazing fire.†Gafir/Al Mumin 40:verse 7. Other duas in the Quran Al Araf 7:verse 47 “…Our Lord! Place us not with the people who are zalimun.†Al Araf 7. verse 89 “…Our Lord comprehends all things in His knowledge. In Allah we put our trust. Our Lord! Judge between us and our people in truth, for You are the Best of those who give j judgement.†Al Araf 7.126 “… our Lord! Pour out on us patience, and cause us to die as Muslims.†Al Araf 7 verse 149 “….if Our Lord have not mercy upon us and forgive us, we shall certainly be of the losers.†Al furqan 25:verse 65 “Our Lord! Avert from us the torment of Hell. Verily !its torment is ever an inseparable, permanent punishment†An Naml 27:59 “Praise and thanks be to Allah, and peace be on His slaves whom He has chosen! Is Allah better or all that you ascribe as partners? Al Baqarah 2: 286 “…. Our Lord! Punish us not if we forget or fall into error, our Lord! Lay not on us a burden like that which You did lay on those before us; Our Lord! Put not on us a burden greater than we have strength to bear, Pardon us and grant us forgiveness. Have mercy on us. You are our Maula and give us victory over the disbelieving people.†Al Imran 3:verses 191-194 “……Our Lord! You have not created this without purpose glory be to you1 Give us salvation from the torment of the fire.â€191 “Our Lord! Verily, whom You admit to the fire indeed, You have disgraced him, and never will the zalimun find any helpers.â€192 “Our Lord! Verily we have heard the call of one calling to faith: Beleive in your lordâ€and we believed. Our Lord! Forgive us our sins and remit from us our evil deeds, and make us die in the state of righteousness along the Al Abrar(obedient)â€.193 Our Lord! Grant us what You promised unto us through Your Messengers and disgrace us not on the Day of Resurrection, for You never break Promise.â€194 Al Ahqaf 46: verses 15 “ My Lord! Grant me the power and ability that I may be grateful for Your favour which you have bestowed upon me and upon my parents , and that I may do righteous good deeds, such as please You, and make my offspring good. Truly, I have turned to You in repentance, and truly, I am one of the Muslims.†Al Furqan 25:74 “Our Lord! Bestow on us from our wives and our offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and make us leaders for the Muttaqun.†At Tahrim 66:8 “ Our Lord! Keep perfect our Light for us(do not put it off till we cross the Sirat) and grant us forgiveness. Verily, you are Able to do all things.†Al Araf 7:43 “ All praises and thanks to Allah, Who has guided us to this, never could we have found guidance, were it not that Allah had guided us! Indeed, the Messengers of our Lord did come with the truth.†As Saffat 37:180-182 “ Glorified be Your Lord, the Lord of Honour and Power! (He is free) from what they attribute unto Him! “and peace be on the Messengers!†“And all the praise and thanks be to Allah, Lord of the Alamin. Al Mu`minun 23:109 “ Our Lord! We believe, so forgive us and have mercy on us, for You are the Best of all who show mercy.†Al Imran 3: 8-9 “Our Lord’ Let not our hearts deviate after You have guided us, and grant us mercy from You. Truly you are the Bestower.†“Our Lord! Verily, it is You Who will gather mankind together on a day about which there is no doubt. Verily, Allah never breaks His Promise.†Ash Shu`ara 26:85 “And make me one of the inheritors of the Paradise of delight.†Al Kahf 18:10 “…Our Lord! Bestow on us mercy from Yourself, and facilitate for us our affair in the right way!†Al Hashr 59:10 “…Our Lord! Forgive us and our brethren who have preceded us in Faith, and put not in our hearts any hatred against those who believed. Our Lord! You are indeed full of kindness, Most Merciful. Bro Nur, does this pass as a lesson??? Or I still have to write up more? Fiamanillah

Mashallah thats what I call marriage. >>>sighs sings along toI swear by the moon and the stars in the sky , I'll be there. For better or worst, till death do us part, I will love you to every beat of my heart , I swear.... Alle ubaahne, uve got issues bro. Idiotic?? U forget that women metamorphise.They never stay the same.