Hi there; Around seven months ago,A friend of mine,28,was suppose to get married, to a beautiful Somali girl,she was yound,25,and she was good masha Allah, and they have been dating 4 almost 3 years. Anyways, she asked him to contact his family, as usual, and he called his father, uncles, cousins, and friends,and a date was set for formal Doonidii. We went to the girl’s house, and were welcomed warmly, and we all went to the living room, beautifully decorated. After shaah, some sweets, and some jokes, the boy’s uncle started, and, said the traditional staff. But, everything did not go as planned, something happen, one of the guys from girl’s family, said, The girl has a sister, older than her, and it is not our custom to let marry the younger one first, But since u ar such and such, We can let him marry the older one. (waxaan idin siinay gabadha wayn!!). That was a day! My Q is how would you feel if your younger sis is ready to get married, and finds her soul mate? Would your family accept it? Or, it would be like the above situation. And if you’re the younger sis, what would you do? Please Discuss....

Who,Orgi,i thought he was married? or he is looking for minyaro. why not,Some of the girls who are lonely at ur place would be happy for that position.... Orgi, GOod luck...

Originally posted by Bishaaro: quote:Originally posted by Farxan: YEs, When a woman can no longer bear a child,then difinitely she is HABAR and for men,they are old,when they no longer can fullfill thier duties,unless aided by V And you think there's no aid for women because...? Guess its one rule for men and another for women!! With hormone pills and technology everything is possible sxb, so don't count older women out yet.. Sis, My point was that this the face where will join "THE HABRO CLUB",Say there is everthing availabe , but hadanaan waxba laga so qadayn soo hal bacad lagu lisay maaha.. BTW is there something Like V out there 4 women?

Jacayl Baro, don't kill the topic, Orgi,are u also arranging meet-up?,

Good luck,n wish u good results,and welcome to the world.

^^lol @ maroodiga dabadiisa ka Go antahay! Tuujiye,Waxan oo dada Xagee isku jiidheen.

Good pics,I assume he is the one with glasses.

lol , very good viking,that is America 4 sure.

Originally posted by Jamaal11: For women, its 45 and over, or soon as their womb is dry. ^^YEs, When a woman can no longer bear a child,then difinitely she is HABAR and for men,they are old,when they no longer can fullfill thier duties,unless aided by V Gabayaagi caanka aha Essa Hayle,(AUN)once said CALANkaa Jab waa Qoodhaha oo caajiskaa Galo eh

Akhyaarta wala idin salamay dhamaan,maxa cusb.. Animal farm,how many did show up 4 ur meet-ups,non!?

Subhanalaah,Who would do that? Send pms to make two friends fight. OG_girl you should hve not acted they u did,condidering legal actions!!, You should understand the objective of those individuals.

Hibo,It is beautiful Work,setting up website exclusivly for this would do. Animal Farm, Majority of Somalis still consider tribe as big factor when it comes to marriege,

I would say 50,it sounds old, very old.

Originally posted by Bishaaro: Qaylo iyo baryo badnaa! Where's the contact information? mise waa scam? :rolleyes: Very sad,be patient,Your small comment can deflect many potential donors,who could help,if you don't have the heart to contribute,FADLAN don't discourage others. ORgi: saxib where are the details?

Great topic, i believe other than proper understning of Diin,pple sometimes backbite,gossip etc because they are bored and have nothing to do.If all thse people were engaged in activities, the problem of Xan,Character assasination, would reduce dramaticly. Kuu sheekeeye,Kaa sheekeeye,Ha la sheekaysan, next someone comesup with Xan abt another person, be direct and tell tim/him,i don't wanna hear.

Masha allah, Allahu akbar, interesingg news,she is very lucky woman.

Next time remember come up with reference,the author,the name of the book,the page num,the publisher etc,this will help others to help u easily, and i guess your Qs has been already answered. And this is islamic section, No silly comments of who is hairy,and who is not? :mad:

Congratualions,Duke.

This topic suppose to be in the islamic section. Is dating halal,Is boyfriend/girl friend allowed? these are the questions coming back over and over again here!!! I guess it is a very popular in the arab world, where the boy's family chose a girl 4 him,(mostly from his relatives,and in this case they know each other from childhood)and all the famliy get togeher ,and that is the only time when the boy and the girl see each other,but don't talk to each other. This is arranged marriege,and where some are getting "The chaperoning" stuff.Arranged marrieges exist among somalis,but are limited.

^^Waxa Fiican is fara,Waxa xuna Iskana Nahya, you are right there,I say, critiziing and and doing nothing abt won't help, So it is our duty to fix those "rotten apples". Salaam

We have pple of all color in somalia,From arab countries,Europe,Asia, and Majority from africa, so yes, some somalis have a fair color.

Originally posted by Jacaylbaro: Can anyone tell me when i can listen/download songs for free like KAZAA ,,,, which is safer and clearer than kazaa ?? [/QB] SaXB,Check Morpheus or Edonkey,i used to use them adn they way better than Kazaa morpheus Edonkey But for large files,such as movies, i would recommend 4 you to use the best p2p application,bittorent and its clients. I find BItcomet,a bittornet client 2 be very good>>> bitcomet bittorrent Btw,what kinda connection you got? If you are usign dail-up,You can never enjoy these softwares.

Only In Africa series!

Wanted Somali,He must out of the country,maybe already in Somalia,and reading this.