marcassmith and they accuse me of drinking too much....

kismayo and some of our raxween xaliimos...

^but theres the hadeeth that states (correct me if an mistaken) that parridice will not be open to thoes who are caasi to their parents

oh ib, one day the amount of single woman will exceed the amount of single men, if we reach that situation in out life time woman if they want to get married have the only option of attaching to an already married man...or remain barren till their 80. lool @ blessed, greedy brothers and fathers indeed

check it right it kinda makes sence, a divorcee, a widow, or even an older woman who has never married; all fine examples of second wives a single brother could marry. I agree that my question seems a little confusing, but if you think about it, it really makes sense. There are so many women out there who are ready to be second wives, why not tap into that resource? Why suffer the hardship and indignity of finding a first wife when you can marry a second wife at the drop of a hat?

I was speaking with a friend recently, a single brother who has not been married before. He said that he has given up on finding a first wife and wants to go straight to a second one. His rationale is that he has so far found it difficult to find a first wife, and since it appears that many married brothers have no problems finding a second wife, that he should perhaps go down that route instead. This did not make much sense to me, but then it occurred to me that perhaps he is trying to find a second wife to be his first wife. That if he could find a woman who was ready to be his second wife that he could just accept her as such, which would do away with the need to find a first wife in the first place. I was happy with this assumption and so I did not question his logic, but I did challenge him on the relative merits of such a move. He then shared some of the advantages, one being that a woman who is prepared to be a second wife will, in general, have lower expectations in a husband, which should result in more marital harmony (married men will understand this). He also mentioned the subsequent ease of marrying a third wife in future, or even skipping third and going straight to fourth. From the way that he explained it, it seems that everyone wins, but I am still not sure about it. What do the brothers think? Are you adamant on marrying a first wife first, or would you consider marrying a second wife to begin with?

jb i want ur old aviator back, its weird seeing ur name with out the guy and the hat...

yeh like when u get married u promis ur wife a roof over her head in turn for satisfying ur manly needs

ur too fat if cant to this better get in shape

uuhm

loool, she more like fugly tho

wow toure your words are full of spite, admittedly i agree with you, A/Y has been negotiating a minefield for a long time its about time one of them blew up on his face....

is this a twist of ayan hirsi's alsylam process?

heres an idea can u co-share a womb, like genetically manipulate the egg to split into two and form twins! so, like having flat mates u could have a womb mate.

malcolm X was a kaafir that believed and practised shirk, that did not know the meaning of islam. the person that i believe you refer to is the evelution of x, El-Hajj Malik El-Shabazz...

It’s all very simply, if you want your way put up the $.$.$, lobbying is a fancy word for donation which is a covert way of bribing ...

charity is charity and if these rich qamiis wearing fock want to splash out, let them....

no such thing as mr right, lily can testify to that right...

ooop 358 now....

only 359 post to go

^ exactly what just happend to me

^kiwi not aussie kiwi

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how bizar is this? ...Rich infertile couples living in Canada, USA, Britain and Australia are hiring poor women in India etc to carry their baby in her womb until the baby is born. This is called surrogate mothers. The women are part of womb renting industry that has spawned in the rural hinterland of Anand in India’s state of Gujarat. Primarily catering to couples living in Canada, Britain, Australia and the United States, the professional surrogates get paid between one and two lakh rupees (about C$2,500 and C$5,000) to improve their poor and landless lives..... not only that but it is becoming a convenience for the rich. You can picture the wealthy couples of the West deciding that pregnancy is just not worth the trouble anymore and they would instead hire a poor women to carry their baby in her womb for some money....., .... sourse