hey lulla, it is a very interesting and important topic u have broughtout. Well since i am woman i really cannot give u a great input, but i think there is something that can be done in terms of avoiding that sitution of being divorced for not being able to bear children. Women before marriage should do a full physical check-up and also heredity tests to avoid complication later. If a couple would like to raise a child there are the option of adaption, there are a lot of somali children(orphanage) that needs homes and someone to love them, which could be provided by childless couples. well that's my 2cents in this issue