hey sofine , just wanted to say.. that we as friends and sister are the mirrors of one another, and if u knw something bad is gana happen to ur friend u should let her know ... inorder to proctect her, it up her than to either take ur adive or disbelieve u... but that ur job as friend.... remerember u either say whtz is good or keep quite.
the other thing is here in da west today 3 in every 5 girls in relationship outside marriage suffer from emational abuse and neglect or rejection, and that cos their mans are not fully committed and he will never be until he finds his soul mate.... he will be insearch to the last day whn he rigns da bells 4 marriage.... like the prophet (SAW) said that the only thing that can make a man lower his gaze fully is only marriage. and keep in mind ladies 2day r as many as the fish in da sea..........
neways, we girls are the treasure of islam and any brother who doesnt understand dat, it shame on him. so wht i suggest to all is > u should never give u self to a man whos aim is not marraige, in da first plc ...other wise the whole realtionship is a game, so why not play da game aswell.
Salamz !! :cool:
