Femme...and you would sacrifice your own happiness just because you don’t like breaking hearts? :confused: Originally posted by Sharmarkee: Imagination playing havoc here! You could say that again so lose both guys, Where's the fun in that...of course the story is fiction

^^ Sure thing dear… I’ll take care of it for you for a small fee

^^ will you be doing Self Assessement at the end of the tax year? if so you'll be laughing...coz the first year you don't pay any tax [if you fill the form right ] It all goes to "setting up" cost. since you're all so bored...how about you try this little task .. Lift up your right foot slightly over the ground…turn it clockwise [just your foot, not your whole leg] Now while doing that write the number 6 in the air….if you’re following the instructions is going to be pretty impossible.

^^ which one is that...the devil in you, who likes to see what's on the other side of the coin or the sensible and safe Farax who does the right thing Tyjwania...knowing her, she will always be wondering..What if. Lily My point exactly...she should explore her options.

lol@ Val & Lily...united we are when it comes such Q... Waa adoo indha cad ku dhe a Faarax maad i guursan...lol waa habeen xalay tagay.

For those of you who are jumping to conclusions like a lost kangaroo…Xalimo’s loyalty still lies with Farax #1…and Farax #2 has not been encouraged in any form or shape…this is just her brain doing over time. LoL@ Zu, Well there is a reason why she’s still with Farax numero uno, and that is he possesses some of the qualities mentioned above…he’s the type of Farax she could grow to love in the foreseeable future [after marriage] However, he lacks oomph… hence, Farax #2 sounds more enticing to her.

A House by the Beach, something close to this... though my dream home would be custom build.

LoL, I like the way everyone presumes that this is my personal dilemma…though I don’t blame you…I would probably assume the same thing. Anyhow, I see most of you advice her to take the safe option and go with Farax#1 [with the exception of Pierre-Faarax, who provided her with the “alternative†choice :eek: ] Lakiin, isn’t life about taking risks? What if….as Val puts it …"he dumps her the next day for his own flash-in-the-pan xaliimoâ€â€¦Playing safe isn’t always the key to happiness.

LoL Val that will be the day, waa sheeko khayaali nooh..... Lakiin, what if this thing with Farax No.2 is just an infatuation…what are the chances that she will get bored of him after the “honeymoon†period? Is he worth throwing away all the effort, time, dedication and trust she put onto the relationship with Farax No.1.? At the same time, this might be her only chance of real happiness… Could you, Would you be just content with what you have?

Here's a question for the ladies... You are with a certain Farax whom you’ve known for some time and in more ways than one adores you to bits...[and it’s not long before he comes knocking on your door asking Aabo and Hooyo for your hand in marriage]… no doubt you have some love for him….until you met Farax No.2…who’s Confident Humble, Responsible, Intelligent, Attractive, he has a good sense of humor, he is adventurous…basically, he is what you would call your “ideal guy†and you connect with him more ways than thought possible…he ticks all the boxes and beyond….(yeah, I know what you’re thinking…there is no such Farax, but hey it looks though this xalimo is under the influence [love] so lets go with the flow ) Consequently, you started to question your love for Farax No.1…you’re not sure if this is the lifetime kind of love or just a brotherly love and the more you befriend Farax No.2 the apparent it becomes… So ladies, [and I said ladies because guys are not that emotionally sophisticated when it comes to these situations] Who would you choose, be honest and answer as though You were faced with such predicament.

Yes, a girl and guy can be friends on the basis that their friendship is some what “genericâ€. Otherwise, No…because as their friendship deepens one will eventually develop some sort of feelings for the other.

Have you considered any natural remedies to treat your Acne? If not...you might wanna look into it. The following Chinese herbal patent formulas can help treat acne. Recommendations squash, cucumbers, watermelon, winter melon, celery, carrots, cabbage, beet tops, dandelions, aloe vera, mulberry leaves and plenty of fresh fruits Remedies: · Blend a cucumber, apply externally; leave on for twenty minutes then wash off. · Apply plain, low fat organic yogurt; leave on for twenty minutes then wash off. · Rub watermelon rind on the acne. · Apply aloe vera. · Eat watermelon or drink watermelon juice. · Drink dandelion and beet top tea. · Drink lukewarm water with two teaspoons of honey every morning on an empty stomach. This effectively lubricates the intestines. If one does not evacuate the intestines regularly, the toxins either end up in the liver or coming out on the skin. Avoid fried foods, fatty foods, spicy foods, oily foods, coffee, alcohol, sugar, smoking, stress, constipation, makeup, washing with chemicals or soap. Rather, wash with cool water. If the face is dirty, steam it with hot water to induce sweating; then wash with cold water. References: Dr. Maoshing Ni and Cathy McNease from the Tao of Nutrition More Info Hope that helps. p.s. It will be a good idea to Detox yourself before you start the treatment.

How can one help shivering with delight when one's hot fingers close around the stem of a live flower, cool from the shade and stiff with newborn vigor! Colette

Originally posted by Brownie: ^N** Dooq(Dookh)xumidaa? Waxay baaburka nuuca u eg? Hargeysa maba lagu wadi karee;Meeday Leenkaruusadii iyo bajeerada somalidu qiimeneysay? LoL, kee nee dookh xun, Maaarashandiis hadaad tiraa la garay, wixii 19 kala yaacii baad ka hadlaysaaye, keep up with the times nooh

^^^ I see your point sis, and yes there are certain aspects in life you can prepare yourself, [i.e test, job, personal goal ect]…in order to face those future challenges….and that is all well and good because ultimately is you and you alone who has the final say in whatever the outcome. However, as you know when there is more than one party involved things can get rather complex…psyche yourself up, but when it comes to the crunch, it is make or break for those who possess and those who lack.

Originally posted by WaTerLily Don't be fooled though, just because women don't want to have a huge wedding doesn't mean there isn't something alternative and as expensive that they would rather spend their money on Damn right...I can think of many....but this one comes to mind almost instantaniously

^^^ No, because there is no way “theoretically†one can teach such skills. Marriage, as with any other life experiences unfolds with current events, thus their future will lie upon certain outcome and or quandary. However much one ties to “prepareâ€, eventually it will come down to characteristics…Are you Serene? How much can you tolerate? Can you admit when you’re wrong? ect ect… Q. Have Somali men/woman become that incompetent, that eNuri Social Work has been forced to take action? :confused:

ala muxuu Farax iska ba'ay. Yes, there are few rich Somali men (mostly old), as there are few rich men in every nation. But if one has a decent job and can provide for his family…..(and there are plenty [young] Somali men who fit that profile). Why are you not content with that? Dadka qaar maxay Independent khalad ka fahmeen. Vibe If You think you’ve learnt enough skills and knowledge that will equipped you to accomplish goals you would have been incapable of achieving at an earlier stage of your life….then quit! But it sounds like you’ve made your mind up already, maybe you just needed a raison d'etre, who knows.

Originally posted by Endeavour No stress carefree life , look pretty all day since you have all the time in the world Kids and stress carefree do not go together huuno….Being a mother is the hardest job one can have....it's a 24hr thing.... That is if you are concerned about the upbringing of your child[ren]. As for your question. It depends on the individual….I wouldn’t mind staying home and looking after the child[ren]….but I wouldn’t give up my career completely; I would instead become a freelancer and work from home….If he objects to that well waa sii soco Marriage is all about compromise and finding the middle ground

This photo was taken last year while on holiday. View from Kerry Park on Queen Anne Hill, Seattle WA.

LoL@Zu bal u kaadi ha na khashifine...I was going to inherit all his lagac, then rescue you from the mountains, waa ku sidee.

oo waaba heer saree, well "educated" and making lots of money, what more can you ask for, as long as he's got those 2 waaba istareex :rolleyes:

LoL@ Val What is this world coming to ey…Siday u dhacday? How is it possible? Sideen Faarax Foolxun ula shaqeen karaa? :confused: It’s hazardous not mention a violation of “human†rights…How dare HE…How dare THEY? :mad: I should be compensated for this long and distress encounter with this excruciatingly agonizing and unbearable “Ugly†individual. :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

Seef la bood miidhan baa miskiinta ka nixiyey....She is having second thoughts now...and right after Zafir made his public announcement....What could have been ey

worse cheesy pick up lines... Are your legs tired, because you've been running through my mind all day long. Would you like some raisins? No, thank you... How about a date? I must admit at the time that sounded original.