Before........i used to look for sisters with a medium skin complextions,nice azz,big chest,no belly at all,slim and tall not to mention a good sense of humour and good manners.U guess those were the days i was naive. Now.....big chest is completely eliminated from the picture,ya'll somali woman have none at all and its time i accepted the reality.U can have a belly but it shouldn't look like a pregnant 40 yrs old woman.I might give u more point in simplicty and decency than the overall looks. I believe i had unrealistic expectations before..........

^^ now or before

Originally posted by Continental Batchelor: Having given the advice of how a girl can like you, can you plz also highlight to me shyhem the ways that you can get a somali girl(excluding fufu from nigeria) in the first place!. This seems to be the hardest task!. Its like saying that eggs come before chicken although some people will disagree with that scientific hypothesis!...egg or chicken first or vice versa!. LOOool i do understand u'r problem brother,trust me from my experience dating somali women is the most frustrating think u could possible do in America.u either don't find asister with a sense of humour in u'r hood or the rlationship just dies natural death after weeks,neither u or her can spoil it. As for for u'r Original question, i think i had a thread that goes like this "how to seduce a pretty somali lady" i will try to update.

Originally posted by stpaulchick: [ Know one's talking about making the Somali men feel as if they were gay...where do u get these assumptions from??? :confused: I understand with the whole staring problem...that issue has been cleared....but when u can't even shop 'cause they wanna holla at u...and what is worest is when u tell them to leave u alone. I think that turns them on or something. :rolleyes: [/QB] I used the gay thing as just as an example,my bad assumption ain't the best thing i do however its quite unrealistic of u to expect men not to feel u'r presence especially whe u're blessed with a booty and u are wearing a hip hugging jeans. Now as for the part where the guy insist on even after u have told him to get lost.I can hoenstly say i do agree with u on that and there si nothing manly about running after a woman who is not in you.I believ those brothers need some social ethics instilled in their head before its too late. Shyham----blah blah blah...no offense but u didn't tell me why....so I'm still gonna be saying that oh so loved question "WHY"???? I have no problem with u asking a "why" and i don't think i have the final answer for u'r question but i hope next time u see those guys u might as well go ahead and ask u'rself "what if it was me standing right there and why on earth will i stand there"

Originally posted by Continental Batchelor: SHYHEM: LOOOL...go shyhem....go shyhem...Man you always hit the right spots with your comments!. Have you ever considered replacing Rage Omar from the BBC?. . ST PAUL CHICK: quote: Con_Bach--It has nothing to do with shuukansii!! We go for certain things....maybe we happen to want to purchase that new kammar and diira we say last week...but they be there all the time..WHY??? Read SHYHEMS commments sis!!! Peace. LOOLL Brother i don't think i have what it takes to replace that Raage Omar,the brother is one talented somali. Meeeeeeeeeeeen i had to tell the sister how we do and how it is,otherwise she will keep on asking "why" instead of giving benefit of doubt to the brothers. U see somali in the diaspora are in most cases harsh on the brothers and in xtreme cases biased against the somali brother.They put a negative connotation on the word "nin somali" and when somali man rolls with other woman they later cry"uff what the hell is he doing with white trash or ghetto mama" I personally believe that a somali man or a somali woman is innocent "in behaviour" until proven otherwise, and as such i'm caustiously optimistic that somali men and woman will met somewhere in the middle where none speaks ill of the other.

diamond princess Interesting...What do the guys have to say on this?! Does this really work?! Hmmm...I agree these are good points but what if a brother takes these tips and believes the girl loves him and proposes, next thing you know BANG the girl didn't really love him after all. I hope that doesn't really happen, but I'm just wondering if you absolutely sure. Shyhem you don't wanna wrong a brother now do you I'm absolutely sure and if for some strange reasons the sister doesn't love him,well there is nothing we can do about.However men specially the "unmarried" ones ain't supposed to get emotionally attached to woman they just met,thats so gay princess sexy So when do we get to find out the 5 steps to when a somali guy really loves you.... Mmmmmmmmmmmh what should i say {scratching his head} well i was neva loved by men,i mean to the best of my knowledge but i will try my best to answer that question later raula Shyhem...lol..Under the influence of Miraa hah!!! and by the way, you gave out the script but how do they found out if the hints really work????..maybe you can update us when the Research is complete? They have to give it a try in order to know if it really works,same as the procedure or the manual they give u in the lab,follow the instructions,observe what u see and write down u'r observation easy like dialing 1800 at &* magnoona girl that is what im sayin too... so shyhem since u opened this whole thing u better finish and do the other half of the work I'm working on it,but i must say its hard to know thats which u haven't experienced.I know about when a woman likes me or loves but men............let me just say i neva had interest in finding out whether a guy loves a woman or not.

Lets just say that when the somali ladies talk about 6feet,6packs and 6plus inches..........just remember, that which u judge opon others will be judged upon u.U shouldn't be surprised at somali men talking about the ideal woman, her weight and all that bullshi-t.

Originally posted by stpaulchick: I'm not gonna lie...that we appreciate it when u guys greet us...that's a good sign. But when they start following u inside/outside...how long does he want to greet me :confused: LOOool so u think greeting is free,how do u expect a brother to greet u and than just walk away like he is gay.Give me a break pretty lady,as long as u look pretty, men regardless of their color will stare at u and in some cases follow u.{why do u think woman organisations have come up with the add "no means no" i don't think they had somali men in mind when said so. soamli men hanging around the malll,while thats totally a different story,u see somali men mostly don't like hanging out with pple of other races and as such they find a sense of belonging at the mall.And that enviroment{@mall} kind reminds the somali man the village he come from.

Lucky shyhem thats some good points that you brought up. Maybe they can have better Luck now that they know what to Look for huh? I wouLd Like to hear what the guys have to say on this Hope is the word here and i can only hope we see the little things that make all the difference in a relationship or should i say future relationship. Magnona woow shyhem.. dude u sure had time to stay ladies or what? just wonderin.. but u had so many good points there.. any chance u got some kinda of list for ladies? i wouldn't mind knowin some signs on if somali guy sure loves ya.. u know what i mean.. n ones again thanks.. i truly love ur posts bro... Ofcourse i had to be ,or else how would u expect me to win myself a somali queen in the near future.I take the study of somali women seriously,i give it the attention it deserves and ots of all i handle it with care. Lakkkad Shyhem---i would take ur advice if you were a qualified socialscience worker or a SHRINK---dont mislead the faraxs-those signs R universal! ----one thing i have realised is my sisters have the best supressing gene to hide things-cajiib! And Oh Yea--if we hang around Malls--thats coz we know YALL come in there--like Flying did say LOOL U 're one funny brother. thats all i can say for today. Flying still parachute symbolizing what? a Back up plan? Parachute symbolizing, back up plan and all that comes with safety manual.U should be ready for the consequances of u'r action and if it doesn't go as planned u should not blame u'rself or regret later.U should be caustiously optimistic about u'r future

Flying still Why there is a will, there is a way and the heart is where the matter is, and i'm caustiously optimistic that at the end of the day u'r cousin,will make a decision that she won't regret in the near future.

Not only will she get tested,she better come with her medical reocrds from the last four years and if her medical history is unremarkable,then she better be ready for another test six months after the first one.H.I.V can only be comfirmed after six months and i ain't ready 2 burn my azz up in the last minute. If she has Cureble stds i will pay for her treatment and wait until she is cured but if she Is H.I.V +ve she better go to the mosque ans start making peace with Allah, a brother ain't ready to go down just like that.

Silent Sista We the Somalis indeed have some weird real messed up characters amidst us.Of late i have been bumping into so many of this charcters,complete strangers constantly asking u,how much u earn, whose are family{qabil} are u or how about those annoying somalis who disclose T.M.I. {Too Much Information} about 'emselves. Sister i'm sure by now u have discovered that life ain't what it was when we was young but i'm caustiously optimist that in the near future u will certainly stumble upon somalis with real sense.

Yap U heard me,its about time pple realised that a somali is in America to make money,however due to the senseless killing of innocent somalis by pple with animal instincts...........all that has changed, defending ourselves is necessary,and making money is now secondary to that. Shooting unarmed somali from the back is uacceptable under any circumstance.If we the somali wanted to die from gunshots we would have stayed in somalia where atleast u know who is attacking u and why he is attacking.But this constant attacks on somalis in America is really getting out of hand and i believe its time we armed ourselves for our own safety.The police have failled us and the leaders of somali community are doing nothing.The only thing, the somali community leaders know how to organise is "high school graduation", and i say f^^k that off.We ain't here see federal money for somali community wasted on high school graduation when our own safety is endangered. Ladies and gentlemen get U'rself a gun,before U become history.Check the Gun laws of u'r state and if u qualify,don't hesitate to take advantage of the conceal and carry guns laws in u'r state.

What two sides of the story are u guys talking about.There is no two sides to this story.In this case, and under any circumstances i believe the parent or the father is,was and will be right.The girl has not only made up stories;she actually deserves to be shipped back to Somalia, where she will discover the stress her parents under go daily just to make sure she, indeed is safe and well taken care of in this damn nation. Foster home is not a place any somali should be seen hanging around.She will not only lose her faith and culture she will be physically and psychologically be abused by this strangers claiming to be helping her today. From what i have seen in my city,two months in foster care, is basically the begining of self destruction of this individual,i won't be surprised if she seen in public drunk and hanging out with other corrupt somalis. The best among us are those who obey their parents, and the best parents are those who discpline their children regardless of where they reside.

I said close u'r eyes and jump,but u seem to have forgoten the most important part of the information,before u jump make sure u have u'r parachute strapped on u'r back.

TRust me its like that,remember anything that doesn't kill u makes u stronger,taking u'r chances in this case might not work exactly the way u wanted, but it won't certainly kill u which means u will only grow stronger,and the strongest among us are the survivors of any hardship.

WHO TOLD U SO,If she is a lady she is already busy helping herslf to the guys you're waiting for and if he is a man,well he just said so in order to discover knew virgin lands while u sit and wait.Furthermore, Nobody was hurt by looking for what she/he wants

I didn't exactly say so, but i believe its a possibility.Have ever heard of the proverb "alazy man blames his tools"........at the end of the day its u'r responsibility to exhaust all means necessary to find that which u believe in it.

Whta about u think the other way,what if the all the men go gay,its already hapening in this damn nation,so i suggest u take what u see and u might as well go a head and bless it too.Appreciaton is the keyword here.

LOoool............i guess women were not meant to be understood.If the guys ignore u'r azz u will complain,they don't know what they want.If scan u,up and down u jump into the defensive and pull u'r cannons up.You either on the offensive or defensive,either way it ain't gonna bring u a husband home remember.Its hard for men not to look at u epecially when u're busy buying stuff or looking the other side. I gues u might as well accept it as been part of the reality.The only for them not look at u is to amke u'rself ugly and i doubt if u will be a woman enough to deliebrately make azz look ugly

I know about that how about "fine things don't last forever" and a diamond is for cheaters{courtesy of kobe} Since u will only be there for afew seconds i think the guys should scan u up and donw like an X-ray machine,fill enough with eyes to last for a week or until u hit the place the next weekend.

Like a queen u spoke the truth today,i knew the guys won't hang around there without finding something attractive in the zone and since the like of u go there once in a while i guess the guys afterall are not that desperate,they just want to be near the vicinity of the unnsi smell got my drift?

I sincerely think, they mean no harm,they just think parading u'r azz infront of somali mall is their own version of "show whta u'r mama give ya" But a wait a minute,this guys are still as manly as in any other somali men.Why would u or any other somali woman find them disgusting

While after looking at the state of somali men hopelessly standing in front of the somali mall i thought someone should rescue some of the brothers.I discovered that there are 10% of the somali men having all the women and the rest are good fellows but they need to see the signs in clear and bold letters.

Good idea,but What we gonna talk about "how to enalarge u'r thing with yoga exercise"