I think we defenitely have some incredible problems when it comes to marital relationships in our culture. I always grew up thinking that you receive what you get . Therefore treat others just like you want to be treated. Seems, thats rarely the case in relationships. I agree with some of you in here. I think when 2 people marry they have responsibilities towards themselves and their kids. They each should invest in making the other party happy if not whats the point? Somali men YES have alot of faults. But ladies aren’t better either, when a man isn’t treating you right instead of trying to change him.......LEAVE HIM! Im not saying people shouldn’t work things out, but some mistakes are impossible to forgive. Shaqsii.....YES theirs alot of men that leave angels. Theirs plenty of good women out there who are being disrespected and mistreated on a daily basis. Women have huge problems, lack self respect, lack of confidence, blurred vision ect... Men have huge problems too, lack of respect towards anything thats good, ect.... but i have a solution for our problems.......its the greatest book of all times Its called the KURAN read it, learn it, live by it,...believe me you’ll see life in a different light! Peace N luv 2 all

[Jill Scott] Love rain down on me, on me, down on me Met him on a Thursday, sunny afternoon Cumulus clouds, 84 degrees He was brown, deep Said he wanted to talk about my mission Listen to my past lives. (Word?) Took me on long walks to places where butterflies rest easy Talked about Moses and Mumia Reparations, blue colors, memories of shell-topped Adidas He was fresh, like summer peaches Sweet on my mind like block parties and penny candy Us was nice and warm, no jacket, no umbrella, just warm At night we would watch the stars And he would physically give me each and every one I felt like cayenne pepper, red, hot, spicy I felt dizzy and so near heaven and miles between my thighs Better than love, we made delicious He me had, had me he He had me tongue tied I could hear his rhythm in my thoughts I was his sharp, his horn section His boom and his bip And he was my love Love rain down on me, on me, down on me The rain was fallin' and, and slowly and sweetly and stinging my eyes And I could not see that he became my voodoo priest And I was his faithful concubine Wide open, wide, loose like bowels after collard greens The mistake was made Love slipped from my lips Dripped down my chin and landed in his lap And us became new Now me non-clarivoyant and in love Made the coochie easy and the obvious invisible The rain was falling And I couldn't see the season changing And the vibe slipping off it's axis Our beautiful melody became wildly staccato The rain was falling and I could not see That I was to be plowed and sowed and fertilized And left to drown in his sunny afternoon Cumulus clouds, 84 degrees, melody Love rain down on me, on me, down on me

I prayed and he still hasn’t come instead i felt for anotha crook read my mind like an easy book he used all the tricks to play his game but i still stayed i wasn’t about fame yeah i know it sounds real lame when your eyes can barely see and your heart is drowning in a sea you can’t reasonably reason still i stayed thinking things would change i gave my heart and my mind really tried to be his dime but he had commited the biggest crime in his eyes i saw my worth in his black book i was fourth unlike MC to him i wasn’t priceless tried to make me feel worst then useless less then the best, put me below the rest he was beyond any test tougher to overcome then any stress he tried to undersell me not just leave me, but hurt me, play me jerk me and desert me tried, tried, but still failed now your caged soul, lost morals who will bail? I made u laught, but you’d rather what makes u cry till this day your still crying make this your lesson before you start lying every girl has a limit. L.L

Thx, I like yours too, Agreed, mental stimulation, and verbal connection take you beyond any artificial physical attraction quick judgement is a great destruction to any humans emotions don’t let hurt and anger blurry your vision your not seing in my direction I understand your seing left but what if im seing right does that mean im not right? appreciated is the advice but misunderstood is the purpose just for the record my mind is free as one can be and yes i flourished like a rose not meaning i felt beautiful in my skin only in his presence cause hun’ i put myself at the highest just an inch below the conceited line but i received a good dose of mind stimulation hence making my mind flourish like a rose like a beautiful rose hope that helps you understand my flow sis

excellent story ......I really liked it thx OG_girl

Salam to all Masha Allah ...glad to see we got some real poets in here. Let me add my 2/3 cent. Met him on a cold monday afternoon, he had me at hello....my heart felt like jello around him I saw purity and security neva really felt this way before then again neva let them approach me late night crookz, i wasn’t into meaningless conversations lame assumptions, forged impressions, false passions fake complements to get in that motion plenty came by, few really stuck by but only him had me this high before him my heart was deserted but now I was delighted, in his presence I flourished, like a beautiful rose he was undescribable........he was only felt like a king he walked proudly no he danced...no he glided...no he shined throught the masses DAMN! He had me dazed and confused speechless, I just stood there breathless, I could only stare let his essence comsume me all while I murmured prayers that he was sent for me L.L

Salam VAgirl, this is my advice If you like the guy then thats another story but ..if you realy don't appreciat what his doing then let him know. Even though he should already know this. I mean where do you get the idea of gropping ppl at the work place? :rolleyes: If you wanna take the nice route tell him to stop if that doesn't work tell your boss....file a police report and whatnot. but if you wanna take the rightfuly normal route.......i say stapple his *** and threaten him that you'll "cut" him off if he doesn't point his sexual frustration elsewhere Hope it helps

May bod bless them.

May bod bless them. This is the first time I hear something even close to this. It really makes you think. I mean here we are (some of us) with all these great opportunities but yet we rather not take full advantage of it. While some of our brothers and sisters are dying to just have a taste of this plate that got us "full" WE should really be grateful for what we have and neva forget that the struggle still lives on in our land. god bless to you all........take few seconds and thank ALLAH for giving you what you have. ~AFRICA MOTHER OF ALL~