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CARA, You want some Common sense my sista? Really,? Is it not true that women in general are in fact %90 Emotion and %10 in logic? And vice verse in men? First off,that itself should demonstrate how common sense should really be looked at. Vertebrae, Why not? It takes a smart woman to make great man>.. patriarch? I am bit old school, Sometimes best things are learned from history. Is this a way of testing the waters?if it is wear you life jackets. Ps.I won't even get to the religious part. Not in the mood to make another Ayan Hirsi come out. so lets skip that for another time.

kk. u single? lol (jk) On the serious note family value and marriege played big role in our tradition as society of collectivism instead of the wests individualism. Namer one thing that was wrong with the ways we were raised? In a society were everyone played roles and collisions hardly happen as often as these days everyone knew their lanes(collision= counterpoise for divorce). Don't give me that "who needs men".When you know what your answer will be. There is one way to win this argument, lets Compromise and comprehend with one another. You are the back bone for men,we can go far enough but the force to carry on is with you sista's. So lets cut the crap and Opt-Out for a blessed home. Pujah the ocean is sure big but you'll drown alone,with your heritages sis'.

Another fanatics,what makes them different from those they're pointing fingers on.Humans will never be satisfied, Econ-101 "Scarcity". In War everyone thinks they're Right. This things will only matter if it personally effects you. Our time on Earth Is short.Really if your very lucky you'll live to 400,000 hours or maybe not. Point being Smile lot don't take things too serious,really who ever made it out alive anyway. Ps.Ayan Hirsi Ali is on the team of speakers. Well we'll see if you ever make it to U of M.

RED SEA What can i say,perhaps my mind still set on that past InstinctPoet mode. I guess i'm not the only one,however. CARA What is it men in women do require? The lineaments of gratified desire. What is it women in men do require? The lineaments of gratified desire. guess many of you misunderstood me,I apologize for my lack explanation on this particular topic. Basically, my implementation of the subject of matter is that the number of married sista's with advanced degrees has decreased dramatically in our community.This enormity has created mass concern within our community.Wait! let me tell you a little story. Here in Minneapolis we have a weekly "Young Somali Professionals Rotary" meetings. Where minds alike gather and discuss current affairs from varies topics such politics religion culture education relationships and etc.Among us are Doctors,Teachers,professors,IT's,Engineers, Architect's,Entrepreneurs,Realtors,Brokers,Financiers& Bankers. Accountants,Nurses, and Pharmacist. A week past we took survey of 32 current member of which 17 of the group were sisters. The purpose for that survey was to identify relationship problems in our growing community specially in diaspora.Therefore,among the 17 sisters 2 were married 1 was engaged 14 were single, on the other hand out of 15 brothers 11 were married 2 were posted soon and 2 were single. We're a small number,but compared to Somali population we represent a great percentage in the professional fields. With that story in mind now,What seems to be the problem? The reason I said Invest in good man is that, the rate you sisters are going you will surely surpass the Somali brothers.Therefore,when that happens,well nothing like brushing up a diamond in the rough and start wearing it. For those of you whom i have hard time cracking their skull here is a image. This>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> Or>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> That

Halima has 3yr old son living in Swansea. married to Underdog. myth from grapevine.

Originally posted by Cara: [QB] Maybe it's not a problem to be "mediated", Clever-Trevor. Is it possible that being "desirable" to men is not point #1 on the agenda of women with high IQs anyway? But if they're REALLY unhappy with their lot in life they could get a frontal lobotomy and men would be panting after them in no time lol, You do make a good point.However,lets keep in mind in our community it is a priority #1 for most Somali women to ideally marry and have kids eventually.The society dictates on free choice for most part or to certain extent, but in the end the simple rules that are overlooked may haunt you.Such rules apply to importance of family value, like natures course, where the mother nurtures and presence need to be a full time role at home.Now, i ask you, how could this be possible if natures laws are being rebelled against? I think the investment should be a good man. Build him, encourage him.Instead of a dead end career 9-5. Ps.This has nothing to do, with womens rights. So please, lets save that for another time. I'm in favor for Independence and opportunity.

it has appealed to me strangely,and some of us may not be aware of it. But unfortunately,the sad fate of high-achieving sista's who have climbed too high to find a suitable mate has increased in our community.Sista's will move up on society competing with men on every level,now,sista's moving up still strive to marry up.When realistically Men moving up still tend to marry down. The two sexes' going in opposite directions has led to an epidemic of professional sista's missing out on husbands and kids.I've read somewhere a study which found that women's "desirability" dropped as their IQs increased.Talk about too smart for your own good.Don't get the wrong impression of this topic. This was written just to give you snapshot of a reality that i had witnessed repetitive times here in Minneapolis.I believe this case exists elsewhere as we're all embrace in the 21st century. Question??? How can we mediate this problem?

Originally posted by Gediid: Do I hear a PreNup... But a question to the ladies,isnt that what every woman looks for....A rich guy who caters to their every need, material and otherwise? Who really knows what woman want.?I mean, isn't that the big question?everyone is asking, Depending on the circumstances,They sail where the wind takes them.

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What a way to end a career... I think everyone should face the consequences of their actions. Only god knows if he had done it or not. Regardless I still think we're not in position to judge people, but until the truth surfaces have respect for the elderly who had done so much for our people. Ps. funny thing 4 out of 10 most wanted in Minneapolis are Somalis god help us. what a way to make statement. See your fellow Somalis here.

Originally posted by Zenobia: ^Nuke Somalia? So we...what? 'We' who Trevor? You've exiled yourself.. removed yourself. You sit in warmth and comfort in a land far away and comment on the suffering of those who stayed on, to rebuild, to keep the hope..... stayed on to be punished and killed by people most of those of have removed themselves cheer for, clap for. Nuke Somalia? What's it to you? It's unfortunate,You didn't truly understand what I've said. We are all moved by it, we stand helplessly for almost 2decades, Shameful same feeling.In addition, I'm easily offended as Somalia becomes the new face of Starvation. Somethings i take personal, like where my ancestors and even my father and uncles have fought effortlessly swore to keep it a country that belongs to the people that deserve it the most, Somalis. If few are ruining the way of life and passing on the virus of vengeance and ignorance,our country is far beyond mending. Now, we are left over with zombies that breed hate, the relatives you once loved, have sadly fallen to that decease,I have siblings that reside in Somalia this day, I'm sorry to say, we no longer speak,lives they've chosen is that of no good deed. NUKE IT Why I resolute to that is, There is nothing better than a fresh Start.I WILL SHED TEARS, for the loss allot of it too. The mistakes made we learned from it.We all will feel our responsible roles, you can't turn your head away. Not the Somali in you at least. Something tragic must happen for us to get our unity back,and that old ONE SOMALIA feeling. How else could you bring us from diaspora and those that still reside in Somalia into a civil understanding?impossible.. But than again, lets be realistic, we are Africans we befallen the stereotype curse of being yet Un-resourceful Apes. I know it sounds so cruel of me, I tell you I'm far from that. Many of you know me in person.so Just my Opinion. I'm just tired of The killings. look at japan"Hiroshima" Look at Germany. Look at Europe altogether.After the ottomans and WW1 And WW2 look at America. Civil Wars WW1 WW2 Veitnam World Trade. I will now take your response positive or negatives. Thanx

Serenity..Thanx for sharing the glimpse of our befallen nation and making the situation aware to those of us that are out of touch with the reality of our state. ^^ Che' Good points, if many of us read back on history particularly ours we would think twice before repeating mistakes that cause us to loose twice. Jimcaale...Anger,I sense, Brotha everyone sees things differently, And the brother with comb over un-fortunately sees it as fault of the Somalis itself, and you may perceive it as the apposite. We have a long way to go, We lack for most part a sense of unity and belonging.Being a Somali a phrase now a days to hesitate,or deny of being any part. I've seen people whom will sware they are not somalis, and that they just speak the language alone. I don't blame them for their arrogance. I blame us,as a whole, I see images like this which than in turn gives me heart ache. Excuse my absurd idea, for it is due to emotions, But i think Somalia should get nuked, So we can get over all the nonsense and feel the need to start from scratch, And the relatives i loose,I'll accepted as casualty for a greater good.

Masha'allah Is good to see everyone running back to the faith, and some of us are so ignorent and can't even see the truth blinded by the glitter and the fake hallucinations of the world. I met Dave chappelle here in Minneapolis 3yrs back in my restaurant we cater to him and his staff for the week they were in Minneapolis shooting a show. I was impresed fisrt to find out his manager was a Arab guy named Mustafa and that most of the staff were muslims, non like the 5%'ers, I mean beard and the salaats and just very impressive. I also found out that Daz dillinger from Dog pound and long time friend Kurupt were practicing. Really in person. I thing Hip-Hop is turning from Bling Blaw to Islam Now. eventually ,you'll see rhymes Starting with BIsmillahi Rahmani Raheem..

Never heard of her but, Soo Maal I'm glad you brought her to my attention. I want to see what her views are..

something had to be wrong. Northerner,funnything about it is, I train atleas twice a week.. I eat healthy. Maybe because I'm single. That must be it. otherwise,i don't have too much time.lol Red Sea>>The restaurant is fine thanx for asking, in Minnesota as the new thing to try, We have our hands full. I'm just kind of bit disappointed for i couldn't close for the month of Ramadan because of our location inside of a market.which caters to 100% non Muslims. So i staffed all non muslims for this month.

It is estimated that you will die at the age of 46 Years Old. Well atleast they noticed i was a Somalian..lol Hope that isn't true in the end..

They're still not for sure. But all the prayers with her and her family.

I'm still here.. This is my #1 resource. Though i'm sad i don't contribute much these days, gave up on the typing, my fingers ache from Cooking..lol..Believe it or not. My cuzzin Abdinuur Aka Kaafi Aka Bighead Hope all is well Missed ya, Give me a holla sometime 612-@)#-(%$$ And Libaax, Whats up? I thought you were on your way here sometime? Perhaps you changed your mind? What has beggoten this fiasco?or escapade?

lol...only in India...

Who rem this>? DADARAN....SLAM SLAM ONYX EVEN BETTER... REMEMBER KRISS KROSS.. I GOT SUSPENDED FROM 6TH GRADE LOL... FOR PUTTING ON MY JEANS BACKWARDS.. KRISS KROSS JUMP

It's bullshit.... They kicked me out, after taking an I.Q test and than we got into an argumentative about living a life of lie.To believe and to accept he said were too diffrent things.. WTF, was he trying to convince me? like the christins and their trinity trick ,they can never explain to me the dea with 1 in 3 and three in one.. SAD case.. Islam is beautiful, elimanates confusion

I see nothing..my eyelidz are stitched,living the a day as blind person,hibernate my other senses.. my sight is the blame for my obssession with pretty women.. now i use my other sense to guide me. peace.. what do you see.

this is another one.. Bari waxa Jiray reer reermiyi ah oo lahaa afar caruur ah oo walaalo ah oo kala bah ah. Labana fariido ayey ahaayeen, labana nacasyo. Maalin maalmaa ka mid ah ayaa hooyadii labada fariidada ah dhashay waxay u dhigtay ninkeedii oo safar ku maqnaa caano ay ka listay naaskeeda iyo kuwo riyaad oo ay iskudartay ayadoo xiligunna yahay Jiilaal. Markii uu yimid ayuu yidhi, " Caanahan xagaad ka keentay illayn waa Jiilaalle?" Hadaad caruurta habaabisid, markasta caano ayaad heli", gabadhi tidhi. Subaxiidanbe ayuu caruurtii iyo awrkii kaxeeyay oo ku yidhi, "Midhaynu soo guranaynaaye inna keena". Way foggaadeen oo wuxu geeyey meeshii midhaha laga soo gurayey. Wuxu yidhi "Inoo gura midhaha waan seexanayaaye. "Geed hoostiis ayuu ku goglay go`iisii cadaa, koortii awrkana wuxu sudhay geed si dabayshu u ruxdo oo caruurtu istidhaahdo aabihhiin iyo awrkiiba way joogaan. Mar casarkii ahayd ayey isyidhaahdeen aabihiin soo toosiya, dabadeed way ka waayeen oo go' qudha ayey ku arkeen meeshii iyo koortii geedka sudhnayd. Way iska socdeen, waxaanay la kulmen guri Jees ah. Dabadeed way gallen, Waxay uugu tageen gabadh ku tidhi waxan ahay inna "Dhagdheer", gurigana hooyaday ayaa leh. "BIyo nasii", ayay caruurtii tidhi. "Haantaa waxa la yidhaahdaa-Bowdheer-, markaa hooyaday ayaa maqlaysee hadaad kor ka furtaan waayo sanqadh dheer ayay bixisaa. Markaa mudac ku muda, dabadeed halkaa ka cabba. Markay cabbeen waxay yidhaahdeen "meel naseexi". "Hooyaday waa dad qalato markaa harrar ayaan idinku duubayaa oo aqalka dabadiisa ayaan idinku qarinayaa". ayay gabadhi uugu Jawaabtay. "Dhagdheer kolkay timid way urisay caruurtii. Naas gabdheed ayaa uraya". ayay tidhi dhagdheer. "Hooyo waa naaskayga ", ayay tidhi inantii. Markii ay dhagdheer erayadii ku celcelisay ayey cabsootay gabadhi:"Hooyo caruurta waan soo saarayaaye ha cunin". Caruurtii ayey soo saartay, habeenkiina dadqalatadii way barisay. Subaxnimadii markay ahayd ayey tidhi dhagdheer, "Yaan u xiiraa inankooda?" Nacastiiba tidhi "Inankayaga u xiir". "Hablaha! midayna xaabo doon, midayna biyo doon", ayey ku amartay dadqalatadii. "Inankayagu biyaha ayuu ila doonayaa, fariidii ayaa tidhi. Waanu raacay. Nacastiina kaligeed ayey xaabadii doontay oo inankoodii way qalatay. Iyana markay timid ayey cuntay. Labadii biyaha doonay way baxsadeen, dabadeed habartii ayaa eryatay. Ayagoo ordaya ayey arkeen Mas Weyn oo dabadiisa iyo madaxiisu isu kala Jiro meesha cirka iyo dhulku iskahaystaan. "Masow meel no bannee cadow ayaa na eryanayee". ayey caruurtii waydiisteen. "Hadaydaan ciid iyo saxarnna igu duulinayn iga talaabsada". ayuu maskii ku celiyey. Dabadeed waxba kumay tuurin ee way ka gudbeen. Dhagdheer oo ordaysa ayaa iyana maskii soo gaadhay, intii inleeg ayey isyidhaahdeen, laakiin dadqalatadii ciid iyo saxarba way ku daadisay maskii, dabadeed wuu cunay. Markaa Caruurtii waxay ku heeseen: "Dhagdheer dhimatoo dhulkii nabadee" "dadoo ma isu soo dhawaanaa?" Hope this helped.. BTW i like ur new name ..kreepy kid..

Can you read Somali? If so this is how the story went.. Dhegdheer.. Waxa la yidhi nin baa naag aad u qurux badan qabay, naagtu ninka wiil bay u lahayd. Reerkuna reer iska ladan oo xoolo leh bay ahaayeen. Ninkii baa siduu isaga joogay naag kale guursaday. Markaasuu xoolihii minweyntu haysatay ayuu minyardii yabadh uga soocay ( xoolihii reerkuu u kala badhay ) aqal cusubna minweyntii baa looga ag dhisay. Minweyntii baa markay aqalkii cusbaa iyo gabadha yar quruxdeedii aragtay masayrtay oo maryihii tuuri gaadhay. Ileen waa naag hinaastaye, habeenkii dambe ayey intay yarkeedii xambaaratay reerkii ka guuraysay. Ninkeediina naagtii kaluu la jiifaa oo waxba ma oga. Subaxdii markii la ogaaday baa la baadi doonay oo waa laga quustay. Naagtii duddayna way ambatoo reerohooda meeshii ugu dambaysay bay ka ambatay. Waxay maalmo iyo habeeno badan sii socotaba dooxadii nogaal bay gaadhay. Halkaasoo ahayd meel aad u cabsi badan oo laguna yiqiin dadqalatadii dhegdheer ee dadkaba madhisay. Iyadoo iska socota ayay aragtay qof ka soo daba ordaya. Hadaba orodku kay arki jirtay muu ahayne wuxuu ahaa mid boodhka, habaaska iyo siigada ka kacaysa aad yaabayso. Markaasay garatay qofka sidaa u soo gurdamaya ee waxaas oo habaas ah kicinayaa inay dhegdheer oo cunno doon ah tahay. Markaasay cagaha wax ka dayday Dhegdheerna way is daba dhigtay Hooyada iyo wiilkeeduba aad bay u buurraayeen. Dhegdheer waxii oo baruur ah markay aragtay bay gaajadii ku sii kacday. Dhagdheer aad bay u dheerayn jirtay walligeedna qof ay eryatay kama baxsan. Nagtii iyo wiilkeediina intaa way ku soo dhowaanaysay laakiin hooyada qudheedu naflacaari bay ahaydoo dab yar may shidayn. Sidii laysu eryanayay baa waxa lugu soo baxay Boholaha Xargaga. Hooyadii markii ay aragtay in aanay bohosha docna uga baydhi karin bay Bisinka qabsatay oo wiilkeedii kala dul booday. Dhegdheeroo aad u buuraydna way ha’katay. Markay ka dul boodi kari wayday bay tidhi; Bal naagtaa badhida daya bal bowdyo cadaanta daya bal buluq-buluqdeeda daya bal bacoolkay sidato daya hoh iyo Boholaha Xargaga qof xiimayay xidhaan qof duulayay dabraan