Castro, You know I am fully offended with those comments. You once told me to 'turn off my cap key' on my keyboard. We are trying saaxib. Take it easy on us.

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Thanks sis... U too and take care for me. bye and Asalamu calaykum.

I don't understand what the other guy is saying. community community community that is all I understand.

Religiously speaking you did not answer my question. Did you really think you can take up 3wives, assuming role and responsibility fairly for each to the standard they were use to? In the past yes. But since my senses got hold of me, I am now not into that anymore. However that is only at the moment though. You never know what I will do in the future.

If I wasn't confident enought to take care of them all and be responsible for my spouses, I wouldn't attempt it. I had strong family ties as well as I was a person that can be entrusted with someone else. The age just killed me that is it. They assumed I couldn't care for their daughter. That girl and I grew up together and even fled to the hawd during the Hargeysa wars. She still lives back home and I do keep in touch. Ps. I learned my little English just few years ago. I left home only the year of 1998 and I arrived here in the states early 2001.

How bout Siyad Barre' favorite song: "waxaan jeclahay heesta dhahda DADKAAGA DHINAC KARAAC"...LOOOOL..

Amazing how death doesn't miss even if you think you are at safe place. The guy sheilded himself with three children, but death found him first.

Ibtisam, I think it's cute. Laba X, Good to know you are doing good brother. Saaxib everything is good with me. I have been staying out of trouble.

NO NO not big wedding for all. Just whatever I could afford for each. Saaxib, what do you think I should have said to her parents 'Hey folks, in case you don't know by now, I am planning to get few more girls like yours'...loool...co'mon. The girl knew about it and she is the one that gave me the green light so I thought that is all I needed. And religiously speaking that is all the approval you need. So I don't think I lied to anyone. Waxba maqariyo anigu.

Originally posted by Adam Zayla: what's abufaas? like Vicks? Abufaash stems from the logo of one of the brand which had a hand holding hammer on it. You know hammer in somali is call faash, so it's abufaash. So yeah kinda like vicks.

^^^Waryaa haye nafta kasheekee saaxib. Dadkii way soo wada noqdeen layaqaanay.

^loool...well looking back and seeing how these people just ganged up on you and I was there siding with them against what I view my best pal on SOL, Ibtisam was totally uncharactirsitic of me. I should have been on your side instead. Nonetheless you are one tough dayday girl and you didn't need much of a help. You dealt with us all quite easily. Good job. BTW...I really do like your somali. I might switch to your version of Afsomali. Onekiii kuteh...ahahhahahahaha

^^loool....no no walal. I do respect offcourse. Just because I seek more doesn't mean I have no respect for them. I actually love women so much that I feel getting with each one that crawls on this planet. Well not really. Offcourse, I do treat them with respect, and I am sure if I ever married more than one, I would treat them with equal amount of respect. Don't be fooled by those who say that one who marries more than one has no respect for women. I actually give more respect to women than those who advocate for women's rights like Oprah and Tyra Banks. You have seen on their show how they say going naked in front of the camera is suppose to make you feel free and boost your confidence. When in reality they just want to get their tv ratings up and could give flying pig about benefits of women. So it all depends from which prespective you looks things from. ps. There is only 1 now walale. They are all gone except this one that still around. But that girl in Hargeysa was way back and it's all over.

Originally posted by Xanthus: [QB] Me washing my feet in my dad's berkad, my mothers haan (for water storage--i took the daan that day ) some adeei and my dad's geel. and ofcourse riidi and oneki naalo qaale... Xalimop ur wlc sis, hope you are well. ahahahaha@ onekii....wallahi you are sound so funny with your somali. Keep it that way. ps. Your dad's geel=geeliinii...

Ibtisam, Is it too late to say sorry about the comment I made. Clearly those were off the mark. Sorry inabti gacaliso.

loool..Ibtisam thanks saaxib. The thing is I have been able to keep her quite for a while, because I would tell her I am busy with school, I was really. But since it's summer and school is closed I have no other excuse to fall back on or not answer the phone. She leaves me with all sorts of messeges. She calls my sister when I don't answer(she knows my whole family). Ps. You said 2. I actually wanted to marry little bit ago. People started to call me insane. I opt out the last minute. The other girl was from Hargeysa that I wanted to get married to. I took my uncle with me to her family, they said yes we gave them the gabaati. We were almost about to get married when things went crazy with her family and mind, because they found out that I was also arranging to have a second wife and possibly third. No joke. I have....

Zack, I have tried that already. Not gonna work. Loool@Nephys...thanks for your good advice. I think you said it. This is emotional blackmailing. Nothing much. I too know she won't commit suicide. KK..lool... Ibtisam. Thanks. Cadaan, you got it. Malika, Victim? I am not playing no victim here so take it easy. I am very compassianate person to all people. Yes this girl has no interests in my looks (am not claiming to be good looking guy or anything) nor anything else, simply she fell for my good personality, that is my strength that everyone that knows me agrees with. However I have not sweet- talked to her or promised her marriage and haven't gotten intimate with her. This is an odd case, that is why I presented to you. It's an odd case that I can't find any solutions to. She even told her whole family that we were getting married, although I swear I didnt' say or mention that to her. She told her mom and all her friends. That is not normal walal. That being said, she is not crazy or mentally insane, but she is simply looking to advance her personal wants on me, and I cannot except that. I want to be able to choose who I want to. That is a right that each and every human should have. The only problem is how can I get over this without her suffering for another human being. I have already told her that there are many more men that alot better than I am and thus she should seek other men that would be interested in relationship with her. But just I am not into her, because I have already made other promises which I will not opt out of just because someone else is dying for me. MMA, she has all that a woman could have, beauty, brains and everything. And yes the other girl and I have everything set up Insha Allah and I don't want any distractions right now. That is why I am complaining alot about this one here.

Dear Cadaani, I would try to get away from the network that your wife introduce into. Maybe get a new guy friend that can hook you up with others that may not know too much about your life. Losing weight and getting education and what not I think has nothing to do with it. It's all going according To God's plan. So yeah little patience might do. Also don't give up just yet. Good luck friend.

loool funny suggestions. Allah knows best.

loool.. Gabadh ayaa noo dhimanaysa ayaan kunidhi ninyow, niyada redsea meel kale ayey jirtaa. Taasi dadbadan way ku dhacday baan umalayaan. Laakin anigu waxaan rabaa in aan si yar oo fiican anoo midna xumayn ana waxaan rabay helay in aan kabaxo sheekada dhan. Now what do you got for me?

Is he in that picture?

salamu calaykum somaliyey, Waxan hada ka hor xidhidh yar oo khafiif ah na dhex maray gabar. Gabadha way iga heshay runtii anigu laakin layma saaqin oo jacayl iyo arimahaas ma la abuurin. Waxay igu tiri iguurso , ana wax jawaab ah oo cad masiin ilaa hada oo markasta waan kawar wareegaa ay jawaab iwaydiiso.waxan ka cabsadaa in ay qalbiga kajabo, maxaa yeelay waxay igu tiri hadii aan iswayno oo iga tagtid waan Isdilayaa. Gabadhii waxba makusamayn waligay (I swear) still way ijeceshahay oo waxay rabtaa in aan isguursano oo xataa waxay tiri hadii gabadh kale aad guursatid, tii labaad baan kuu noqon. Ana guur waan jeclahay oo qayb dhan oo Imaanka ka mid ah weeyan laakin hadii runta la isku sheego xaalku iska guurso maaha qofkasta. Waa inaad qofka iska heshaan xaga dhaqan, diin iyo dabeecad ba. Runtii gabadhan wax xumaan maleh laakin dhibtu waxay tahay marabo in aan qalbiga kajabiyo, inaan guur lawadaagana sidoo kale marabo. WAIT IT GETS COMPLICATED.... Gabadh kala ayaa jirta oo aan rabo in aan isguursano. :confused: Hadii aan isla guursan lahaa sharcigan America ma ogala laba sawj. Maxaan sameeyaa oo idila haboon. Anigoo xaq dhawraya labada gabdhood ee fiican? Salamu Calaykum, Red,

waar niyow gabayga maad silica kadaysid.

Nope.