Slow down macaanto, 26 is not old, I personaly don't plan to get married till afetr 25. You have plenty of things to keep you preoccupied as you wait for the right brother to come along. You know, getting married is not simply having a wedding but making the biggest life ultering decision in your entire life. this person will be the one you will (Allah willing) spend the rest of your life with and most importnatly the father of your children, the person who'll you'll be sharing happiness, sadness with - and as the Messenger (saw) your husband is your aakhira and your jannah... you must make sure he is the right person. by the right person I don't mean, he has to be educated to a certain level or look a certain way, laakin he must be some1 you can live with, that shares the same outlook in life... please don't just marry the first dude thats asks, check him out first! In the mean time, make the most of your days as a single and free inan, you'll miss it. I think, you should focus in reaching happiness on your own and become comfortable in your own skin. In sha Allah, I hope Allah blesses you with a good husband.

Ahem, what seems to be the problem? I am lost, Og_girl, speak to Barwaqo in private, I think you'll reach a better conclusion like that. and ya'll chill, this is supposed to be about love.. where is all the jacayl vibes gone?

Salaamz people, I've read this article a while back and it sort of got me thinking about Somali Women here and back at home in Somalia. Is the case really as the lady in the article states mise inantu wey ku yara dareysaa? Share your thoughts ya'll. I'll share mine later Not House Keepers anymore

Women, it is advocated by and practiced by women. Most Somali men are quiet obliviouse to the whole idea.

Isn't lying to impress a daily activity of faraxs? I mean, you making it sound like ya'll don't lie unless we make you lie. hmmmm. Originally posted by Latiif: lool@Ameenah, nice try sis but how many times do you think the average farah being asked that q? Btw, yaawaaye ninka kudhihi virgin ma ihi? Ninkaasu qaynuunka raganimada ayuu meelkadhacay marka waaba inaa la karbaasho for real!! Okay, this is how its done... He starts bragging (as ya'll do)and giving details, and as he gets into his macho talk.. you gasp and say ' Allah, waryaahe, waad ba'dey, your such a tart, you've been with all that :eek: :eek: ' And start advicing him on safe, sex and suggest that he immediately taks an aids test and not share this lil information with anyone else - as that will kill his reputation!! Now, if he was for real he will get defencive and if he wasn't he will get annoyed but admit to being a good, boy. Trust me, its been tried. Nefertiti lol@ We accept Visa. I think, ya'll own me $20 for sharing that with ya card details, to my PM. Thank you,

Wrayaa, guuleeed, ileeyn daba ma shdeysid.. that was hectic bro. Man Sha Allah, please post more of your poetry when you get the time. I really love hadraawis poetry, espcially Sirta Nolosha and Jacayl Dhiig ma lagu qorey.. those poem are just full of philosophy

^^^ Nice repost I don't think you can, I'd go for Barwaqos bull detector thing though. Just tell him, 'babes its cool, I prefer a brother with prior experience anyway..' and watch him run his mouth lol

I was reading some article taht said, that motherhood makes one smart.. as you'd be taking care of another and all! So, since out brothers are incapable of mtherhood, I guess they aren't blessed with the samrtness of mothers. However, the story ^^^ doesn't prove that we are smarter but that we have the ability to manipulate men using our looks - (I don't know to what extent I like that) .. but men, are certainly weaker

From experience, I don't believe in True love, its a few day 'ting, ting'... and somehow, it is over, most of the time over the smallest thing. It is an illusion, and nothing leads you on like an illusion, I'd rather be free from it God, I sound sickening... I better let ya'll be

Siman, You know, I absolutley and totaly LOVE that song. It so beautiful when our men praise us like that isn't it?

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Originally posted by rudy: all i know is that islam is religion that was imported to us and we accepted. that said, if one does not accepted then, he is free to choice whatever he/she likes. ... ce the thing that i dont understand about the new islam fantatics these days, is they are adaption of the wahabi techings and applying it to life in general while ignoring their original root like being Hanfi...which all malis were before. Tell me love, whats with your facination with the Saudis? and waht makes the Hanafi school of thought more special than the other three? Quoting Instinctive Poet Is not that anyone is beefing or porking anything. Is just simply being excepted.How could you say I'm muslim/christian?Your Either somali+muslim Or neither. The way i se it,SOMALI is and east african person whom has the dialect of somali tongue culture based on ISLAM.Anything out of that Catogory, Isn't somali but just another Degraded Used to be somali.. What Is somali To you? A Somali to me is some who originates or is born to parents who originate from the Somalia of The Horn of Africa. Although, traditionaly Somalis are muslim by the majority we have to accept the non-Muslim minority. I don't think that ethinicity (being Somali) and relgion (being Muslim) are always dependent on each other.

Nice, hope it works out for them!

Nice, hope it works out for them!

Men! Ya'll just can't handle a woman in power can ya? According to some reliable sources, she really wasn't much like the monster people paint her as :rolleyes: The following link is an essay written about her- enjoy Queen Araweelo Tis time for a revival. :cool:

Gediid and Lakakd it isn'y about the bod. but how you carry it, na mean? and Lakkad, you just don't know whats good for ya. But I accpet your wish to remain an ugly unwanted duckling.. just don't come begging for my help later Originally posted by CarbonBasedLifeform: Congratulations to Barwaaqo and Ameenah ! The Cat will definately be at the front of the queue to test your new powers Great to see you back darling, and no doubt will be using my powers on ya. Give us your best shot, aight Barwaaqo, Why you... :mad: :mad: Just as well, I gave Gediid and co their first lessons on loyalty *sits back and tests her farax's on the loyalty* Flying still, it is proving harder then I've anticipated but I am hopeful **** Thanks to all the sisters

lol test aah, waxay jaraan ma isgaa leh? Laakin, I don't wanna mess with Athenas ideas, I am sure she has already drawn out a plan for him. You my friend, will just have to make due with being on your own for now Now, hurry along, otherwise we'll be late for the barbers

I'll give you a hint. She was the Juliet of Somalia... beautiful name indeed

Barwaqo, girl, markii hore ayeey kaa ahayd, you didn't want them then .. and now tehy are all mine (ahahahaha). Gediid, Awalba iga maad dheereeyn...first stop, the barbers lol

OMG. Look at all these caseeris. :eek: :eek: I was born in Abha - most beautiful city in Saudi Arabia, moved to Somalia - Burco was there for 5 years, lived in Jeddah - Khamis Musheyt for 3 years and spent the rest of my days in London.. and now, I don't speak Arabic :rolleyes:

Miss, Miss! I know, I know.. can I pleeease tell the class and show them how clever I am. Pleeease Miss?

Originally posted by king_450: Well what you know, we need to put the house inorder,specially i hate to see btfl Somali sisters argue for simple matter. So Here is to ------> Aminah;Sister Aminah since you been here longer then the sister, why not take the first crack and show some love to the sister, and put this matter into rest,before we all get depressed in here(SOL) seondly sister Athena, you have every right to show your anger , but blv me sister aminah for all the time i have been here, i have never seen her disrespect to any Alien or Nomad, so i think you 2 need to shake hand and finish this nonsense. and that is my take. LOL bro, how sweet of you. But like Athena said, it has been put to rest No problems on my part. Naayaa, Athena give me a hug dee

Thank you all Originally posted by Gediid: We pick Ameenah, we don't want a girl with a short fuse. Allah, waryaa! Who said ya'll can just select me in my absence. :mad: :mad: I say, ya'll have a re-think, your messing with Araweelos daughter here .. if I don't lose my temper some1 will ... On, second thoughts, I think the uglies (Gediid and co) will benefit highly from me. Will start with the abs and work our way up to the goaties... what do you say boys? And ladies, once I transform these boys into perfect hunkz, ya'll cannot and will not try and befriend them .... ya hear?

^^^ LOL - I was actually quiet generouse in my speculations. Seems like they only wanna talk about US now. Ameenah badly........ Sounz serious to me :rolleyes: :rolleyes: What badly, you seemed to have forgot the rest of your sentence :confused: :confused: You like Ameenah badly? Is that What your saying? Rudy lol Did'nt know you were the crying type .. and now you wanna know hpw good a swimmers we are? Well, theres only one way of finding out..... Ameenah you should support your brother. Be fair as often. Heey, I support ya'll fully, just kidding around with yous, thats all. But, prove me wrong and discuss anything other then one for like 5 posts.. I dare ya

^^ Thanks, really appreaciated. I think am print your post and staple it on my forhead :rolleyes: :rolleyes: Please continue..!