LOL@ Che and Castro.. In my isolation from Somalis, I forgot how things work.

^Pray and tell.. What exactly makes a woman a woman? :confused:

Reer hebel this, reer hebel that .. *BARF* Are people really that simple, sida adhigaa the qabils position loo qataa? There's absolutely no room for differences of opinion within clan groupings, different reasons for supporting / opposing a particular political position. Every one does as dictated by the qabils latest press release. Everyone, who fails to follow the heard is not being real. Hmmm! Somali maskax, eh?

Zafir, I shouldn't be this nice to you seeing that I'm not good enough to be in your heavey weights list but if you want more Somali kids rhymes with translations PM me your email address.. currently working on a circular for a few friends.

^LOL@ Shopping for minyaro, you won't have much luck with these lot. Anyway, old is dahab, dear. I'm loving it. :cool: Where I grew up, the word 'geezer' would be used to describe this lovely fellow.

@ Castro.. You couldn't just let it slide, could you? And did you just imply that I was a geezah? Allah -i- lehe, waad gabyeysaa. :mad:

Considering the high divorce rate in our community, I don't know how anyone can come to such a conclusion. :confused: Originally posted by Adam-Zayla: Why ''Somali Marriage'' why not simply ''marriage'' why is it always one rule for the entire planet and another for us? LOL. ...off course our own relatives are always the exception to the rule. Originally posted by Pujah: Well many dysfunctional families do hide behind their children. Obviously they have other reasons for sticking around mainly fear of the unknown but they always claim to be stuck with him/her for the sake of the kids :eek: and the poor kids get abused in the process..

^LOL. That memory always brings a smile to ma face. p.s glad your as keen on the idea. Talk soon, i'a.

^Hey you.. Remember this?

LOL@ you two.. Castro and Ibtisaam.. iska warama? I was the same, until someone sent me one of their campaign ads, which was blatantly anti-Muslim. It had a woman in shorts and a vest top.. with men in thawbs making sujood to her, with the words 'be in demand' on the title. Uff! I was always a Reeboks girl, anyway.

Hmmm. Interesting. I think some here have a very narrow view of the hijab as a symbol which sexualises the female form rather than a symbol of worship and identity and hence their disgust with the notion of a child in hijab. At least that's how I understand JBs first post. Children learn what they live, if their parents pray, wear hijab, read Quraan and teach them the purpose and intent of these practices they will insha Allah, follow in their footsteps. Having said that, your expectations have to be age appropriate. To a two year old, a hijab is no different to shorts. It has no significance what's so ever. My two year old likes to ‘allahu akbak’ (pray) with me and mimics all my movements, not because she understands it but because it’s a fun game to play with mummy. I encourage it, because I know this will insha Allah make the task of introducing the salah when she’s 7 and enforcing it when she’s 10, easier. As far as the debate is concerned, the prayer is a harder concept to teach and maintain, and yet we know through the sunnah that it is possible. The hijab, time keeping, cleanliness are all an extension of those lessons and for me would be an easier concepts to teach and explain than the salah. For me, the ages between 7-10 would be ideal time to start thinking about introducing it but we have to remember that a girl is free to not wear hijab until the age of puberty. This does not make them any different to other kids of that age, they are simply blessed with a unique and beautiful way of life and deserve to understand this gift from a young age. My nieces who are 10 and 11 wear hijab without any coercion from us because they love it and want to look like the older girls in the family. I had to explain to my younger niece that she didn’t have to wear it all the time and that her time hasn’t come recently because I’ve noticed that she had her hijaab on all day, everyday.. She was like, ’I know, I just like wearing it’. I hope she keeps with her love for Allah and his deen.. Insha Allah, Ameen. I know, girls who loved hijab as kids and have discarded it when they needed to be in hijaab and many others who never considered it and are still struggling with it as adults.. or those like me who struggled with it.. because it became an expectation when I reached a certain age. It amazes me how such a simple action can create so much emotion and debate. The best lesson you can give your child is to practice the deen and understand it yourself, which will make as normal as sleeping and eating.

Originally posted by Skipper: quote:Originally posted by NGONGE: Sounds like Skipper went to White Heart Lane School. I know a few people that went there. Yeah i went to white hart lane school, and to say i had a hard time there is an understatement. If you fight with person then the rest will join in the fight and beat you up. I was only 11 years old and learned some valuable lessons. The somalis there never game me a helping hand, it was me against the school bad boys. LOL. Miskiin. When were you there?

Originally posted by Ibtisam: hmmm 9 1/2 stones, don't know what that is in pounds. But I'm here too, I just want to eat better, rather than lose weigh. With you height and that weight, you're at at the lower level of your BMI..maxaa ku soo galiyey these threads.. :confused: I'll join ya'll in January...Insha Allah..I'm all about stuffing ma face now... All the best... p.s *waves @ Cadaan*

^OMG.. does he drive it, tolow? What a waste, Subhan Allah. Originally posted by NGONGE: NOTHING wrong with plastic flowers, ayeeyo. They last forever. LMAO. I was honestly not thinking about that. Thanks for the reminder, I don't have green fingers, so I have to agree. Tehehehe. Cynical.. A womans inherited right? If you request a diamond ring as mahr, yeah. Otherwise, I'm not sure, you'll have to break the theory down for me. Nephthys, LOL. I like your hooyo. These two waa laisu qoray, though.

BULSHIDH hateration!!! How was Chelsea more deserving???? United were on top form all season. In this game both teams played as well as each other, with United dominating first half and Chelsea the second. Chelsea missed twice.. Further more, united played with grace and a fantastic attitude whilst Chelsea started getting desperate at the end. The best team [united Legends] has won it... again. :cool:

^It's a ladies event, darling. There'll be an online launch for those outside the UK (and brothers). Speak to Naima in the facebook group, here. Thanks for the update Sue, that number does get busy. I can't believe I was there when she got the inspriration to write the novel, no wonder she was so interested in the Somali culture. Wow, that's cool, how did that get started?

^Corsas are cute but I second Serenity, golfs are great cars. Also, head North where you'll have more choice and cars are cheaper. p.s why is this thread here?

I don't know Nephthys, some girls are so dhuuni that men feel obliged to buy big impressive gifts and that could put them into a situation where they have no choice but to lie. If it was a case of me going on and on and on about getting a diamond ring and he delivered what he can afford, I’d be happy to forgive. However, if it was a case of him just getting me a ring just to show off or to impress me, I’d question his integrity and yes that would worry me, piss me off and he'd get a wagar moment but it still wouldn’t be a deal breaker. People make mistakes and he would (should) have other lovable qualities to him, if he’s someone you were willing to marry, noh? I don't believe in pressurising men into buying you 'love tokens'. Though it is nice to be surprised, those who place their loves worth on the bling factor deserve glass rings, plastic flowers and silly faaraxs. :rolleyes:

I can't remember the last time I followed a musasal, they require too much commitment and I hate the fact that all the new, interesting shows are launched in Ramadan and you get recycled rubbish throughout the rest of the year.. :mad: I love freej, though. :cool:

A new book written by Sister Naima B Roberts, the author of 'From My Sister Lips'. The aim of the book is partly to bring Somali culture to the mainstream. Please, spread the word and give her as much support as possible.. The Somali Integration Team presents 'From Somalia, with love' a Somali cultural event for women and girls from every culture Featuring: the official launch of 'From Somalia, with love', the new book by Na'ima B. Robert, author of 'From my sisters' lips' Somali cultural showcase & performance Somali fashion and food exhibition Traditional and modern Somali poetry (Warsan Shire confirmed) Presentation on Somali Integration Team and other Tower Hamlets youth services Competitions and give-aways Date: Friday, 13th June 2008 Time: 9:30 - 1:30pm Venue: The Brady Art & Community Centre 192-196 Hanbury Street, London, E1 5HU Entrance: booking required As spaces are VERY limited, please call 07984 854 191 to confirm attendance School groups welcome - please call the above number for a school invitation. Copies of 'From Somalia, with love' will be available as well as 'From my sisters' lips' and the latest issue of SISTERS magazine. Non-UK residents can attend the online launch on Saturday 14th June - more details soon!

You'll ace it Insha Allah. Have to run..tlk to you soon. xxx

^Always have been but I usually get with the programme at the 11th hour..and then only if my team makes it to the finals. Unlike those silly people who eat, breath, talk, walk and dream football 24/7 ..even in the summer. p.s How's revision going?

Masha Allah she's super cute. Masha Allah, tabbarak Allah. Waxaan ka baqayaa inaan cawriyo. May Allah bless her. Ibti, qumayo. Kick her **** ku teh. :mad: Hana soo ag marin, pls. *crosses Ibti out off cool habo / babysitter list*

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Fatima has improved so much, she's evolved in to a sort of butterfly. Win or lose, she's done really well to make it this far and I think she'll be a top model regardless. So, will Anya, love her. Whiney, whitney really got on my nerves with her fake, *****y, slutty .. insecure self.