Red sea, thank you very much for the clarification.

Red sea, thank you very much for the clarification.

if your interested in disussing skinny men, your free to start a topic on that subject.

Yeniceri, lets keep to the topic of discussion here. This isn't about men, it's about fat women. I wanna know what these ladies have to say.

Whats with this talk about “men need to loss weigh t tooâ€. obesity is not a male problem! Warrior, the size of their posterior says they've lost their dignity. I understand that culture maybe be at fault here to an extent, but that is not an excuse. You said yourself that even though culture dictates otherwise, you've been able to maintain a healthy BMI, so why can't these gigantic somali women do the same? Culture is not holding a gun to their head telling them to eat, eat, and eat some more! True that there maybe a medical condition at play or that depression or other mental conditions maybe the cause, but this is the case in only a minority of these larger then appropriate women. I disagree with you that the solution lays with community or family or even men! This is a female problem and females need to solve it. You women need to stop getting us men to solve all your problems and do something for yourselfs for once!

She deserves to die. Why was she engaging in illicit sexual relations in the first place, doesn't she know zina is forbidden? Somali girls these days; they so out of control!

Why don't they respect themselves and attempt to keep their dignity as human beings? Just because food is available doesn't mean you should eat it! We need to start training out young girls to learn to control their weight and register them at gyms as soon they reach the teen years. I am tired of seeing somali women weighing in at 200+ pounds. For you here with body mass indexes over 35, I assure you I am not Anti-fat people, but life with obesity is not even worth living. Get some help and get off your a-ss. If nothing else works, lets send all these fat somali women back to Africa so they can starve down to a healthy weight and acceptable appearance.

it seem a little gaalo-centric to me.

it seem a little gaalo-centric to me.

Originally posted by Uma: God!!!! Why do you ppl make big issue out of small tissue!? :confused: because SOL needs drama!

All the things that the sister mentioned are great. But one doesn't need to get married to get all those things. Many people are living life without the hassle of marriage yet with all the benefits of marriage. So is marriage needed any longer? What’s the point of marriage then?

... fighting over tree. Lord help us!

Yeah, Somali are very much influenced by outside forces. Which is understandable taken where they live and how small and powerless they are. I wonder how much of what we think of as "Somali" culture is in fact east African culture. For example, I was very surprised recently to learn how much Somali music and Eritrean music sound alike.

what is this, the catro fan club! I guess we know who the winner is! :rolleyes: :mad: .......and who has manic depression

Reminds me of that Destiny's Child song: Destiny's Child - Cater 2 U Lyrics [Verse 1 Beyonce] Baby I See You Working Hard I Want To Let You Know I'm Proud, Let You Know That I Admire What You Do The More If I Need To Reassure You, My Life Would Be Purposeless Without You (Yeah) If I Want It (Got It) When I Ask You (You Provide It) You Inspire Me To Be Better You Challenge Me For The Better Sit Back And Let Me Pour Out My Love Letter Let Me Help You Take Off Your Shoes Untie You Shoestrings Take Off Your Cufflinks (Yeah) What You Want To Eat Boo? (Yeah) Let Me Feed You Let Me Run Your Bathwater Whatever You Desire, I'll Aspire Sing You A Song Turn My Game On I'll Brush Your Hair Help Put Your Do Rag On Want A Foot Rub? (Yeah) You Want A Manicure? Baby I'm Yours I Want To Cater To You Boy [Chorus] Let Me Cater To You Cause Baby This Is Your Day Do Anything For My Man Baby You Blow Me Away I Got Your Slippers, Your Dinner, Your Dessert, And So Much More Anything You Want Just Let Me Cater To You Inspire Me From The Heart, Can't Nothing Tear Us Apart You're All That I Want In A Man; I Put My Life In Your Hands I Got Your Slippers, Your Dinner, Your Dessert, And So Much More Anything You Want, I Want To Cater To You [Verse 2 Kelly] Baby I'm Happy You're Home, Let Me Hold You In My Arms I Just Want To Take The Stress Away From You Making Sure That I'm Doing My Part (Oh) Boy Is There Something You Need Me To Do (Oh) If You Want It (I Got It) Say The Word (I Will Try It) I Know Whatever I'm Not Fulfilling (Oh) No Other Woman Is Willing (Oh) I'm Going To Fulfill Your Mind, Body, And Spirit I Promise You (Promise You) I'll Keep Myself Up (Oh) Remain The Same Chick (Yeah) You Fell In Love With (Yeah) I'll Keep It Tight, I'll Keep My Figure Right I'll Keep My Hair Fixed, Keep Rocking The Hottest Outfits When You Come Home Late Tap Me On My Shoulder, I'll Roll Over Baby I Heard You, I'm Here To Serve You (I'm Lovin It, I'm Lovin It) If It's Love You Need, To Give It Is My Joy All I Want To Do, Is Cater To You Boy [Chorus] [bridge Michelle] I Want To Give You My Breath, My Strength, My Will To Be Here That's The Least I Can Do, Let Me Cater To You Through The Good (Good) The Bad (Through The Bad) The Ups And Downs (Ups And Downs) I'll Still Be Here For You Let Me Cater To You Cause You're Beautiful (You're Beautiful) I Love The Way You Are (You Are) Fulfill Your Every Desire (Desire) Your Wish Is My Command (Command) I Want To Cater To My Man Your Heart (Your Heart) So Pure Your Love Shines Through(Shines Through) The Darkness We'll Get Through (So Much) So Much Of Me Is You (Is You) I Want To Cater To My Man Yoonis_Cadue, am sure you wouldn't mind getting with Kelly. But in like 15, verse 2 she makes a promise that might conflict with your goal of many kids

Castro, you too... and eeeh happy holidays

I think the larger point in question is why do people feel they have to "protect" females far more than males? Example, why is it a guy can drive and girl can't? Why does a women need a mahram to take her everywhere? Let's take the case of the women needing a man to watch over her while she's on the Internet. Is a women unable to make the right choice?

Castro, Hitler.... whats this fascination with dictators? :confused:

Wallahi that's a good question.

i would say there poetry, their music, the way they dress (the women) and the life stype of the nomads (if there are still any). There is also the traditions they have and the family structures qabiil and all that. whats so hard to define about it?

why is Farhio showing off so much... she could have been like am going to school soon and working. She didn't have to say she was going for her masters, she didn't have to say she was making all that money at her nice new government job. She didn’t have to be so explicit

With all this talk of the Somali state breaking up, it recently came to my attention that I might have to choose which of the new state I want to live in. So I am asking you Somali experts here to tell me which state would be best to live in. Some characteristics I desire in a state are: *personal safety and security *a good climate *a good economy *an educated populace *a strong and just state (it doesn’t have to be democratic so long as they don’t interfere with my life too much) *stable political situation Thanks.

LayZieGirl , what the problem? Do you need someone to kiss you on your forhead? Why do you care who others kiss each other..... if you need someone to kiss you on your forehead, am sure there's many Farax that are more then willing

thank God for the edit fuction

I was gonna go on a rant about how I hate these gaal loving **** like iman and how she isn't that good looking anyone and all this... then I thought, why don't I look up a pic of her on google to support my point. thats when I discovered that this girls isn't bad looking at all! As a matter of act he's got a fine rack! See for yourself! Uma, do you look anything like her?