Scuse me...say wat???chek out aa??...wow..wabaladhalace??? gal this Q is related to Zinnah..if Ican refrase it 4 ya...would U guyz be willin' to engage in Zinnah B4 marriage?..just chekin'.. No hard feelin' gal..but that's just my opinion.. midwesta

Scuse me...say wat???chek out aa??...wow..wabaladhalace??? gal this Q is related to Zinnah..if Ican refrase it 4 ya...would U guyz be willin' to engage in Zinnah B4 marriage?..just chekin'.. No hard feelin' gal..but that's just my opinion.. midwesta

Scuse me...say wat???chek out aa??...wow..wabaladhalace??? gal this Q is related to Zinnah..if Ican refrase it 4 ya...would U guyz be willin' to engage in Zinnah B4 marriage?..just chekin'.. No hard feelin' gal..but that's just my opinion.. midwesta

Gal..science is really lackin' behind....everything that's being discovered is mentioned in tha Quran..science is just some kinda "false treasure" waiting to be discovered by the Jaahils of this world.... Now back 2 ur Q..no society will not view me as selfish..since it doesn't provide me w/ my daily necessities...However, I would say,if u meet the right person(@ macquul age) who can support a family, then there is no need to postponed ur "precious gift(having children)" 4 later...Allah knows if u gonna have some anywayz...Honestly, no matter wat kinda degree U got, the weight of ur account is more than xagdhaaf, U got everything U need in this world...there is no precious gift in this world than having kids..... Midwesta

yaw..crack me up..walaahi... 4 me..I dont think so..unless Iam unconcious..or have some kinda mental blindness...Aha! & dont preach me bout Islam on that subjest..yes he can marry up to 4...but there r some conditions that accompany that... midwesta

Mine would be ...chinchila...meanin' quite colors... midwesta

LF..if I double-chek...aah!!! u passed ur due date gal...so betta chek ur local listings 4 any male...4get bout da crib sheet u dat lists all da criteria & so forth....gal Iam tellin' ya its tyme...Yeah. I'll spare u the pity of kashiifayin' ur age... midwesta

gals...get back 2 the subject...whoeva posted specifically inquired bout height....so Iam just satisfying the criteria here ... LF...gal.. hash..or I will stick som' duck tape on ur mouth..aight.. midwesta

man..I can only see 7..4get the others..my eye's pupil is strained already that wont even contract back..Ismahan..c watchu got me into now gal??? LF& Naasir...u 2 cracked me up walaahi... midwesta

damn..I guess most of dem gals in dis forum r short...not to diss yaw galz...but like dey said...hell no..I wont marry/date a guy who is less dan 6' babe...coz myself is 5'9 already...yaqee...+ 1 who is more dan 6'5 is just 2 much 4 me...we dont wanna break da record....I think genetics & past records r enuf already.... midwesta

being somali is being asked "r u somali"..all da tyme...& starring @ the unnorms..very weirdly & blantly.. Moreover, isfanis..is very common among somalis...4 godsake..stop claiming the watch u aint.. midwesta

Honey..if u mean..a woman that was married b4..I dont see anything wrong w/ dat...but if's sleeping around...now that's som' else...besides...talking bout sexual experiences...outside marriage...isn't gonna gain u jack..galfriend...check tis out...a gal messes up her dignity, no respect 4 urself, STD's, abondoned by family.& most of all committing ZINNAH....& besides this world isn't fair...so gal...think bout double standards that MOTOR CYLE CRUISER...mentioned...it's only us(gals) who will end up getting all the blame...& loosin' respect from other... midwesta

Lailaha...walaahi..dat son of a gun..is really sick...bismilahi.raxmani raxiim... but Abdinuur...u r 1 inventive guy..in this joke...

Soul lady...I agree w/uu...the lady got da voice ...but I really dont get dat hell she talkin' bout...awaal anoba aha sijui...& now i gotta figure out wat da lyrics r...4get it...s'pecially this lady is singing from the last tissue of the tongue..I tried to follow her lyrics but I kept on spitting...xaaqo...lool midwesta

I think wat most of us r sayin' is that STOP bashin' each other in PUBLIC.....that's like denying ur identity s'pecially when u r somali ur self....however, notin' wrong w/ correcting ur mistakes & tellin' da truth.. LST...dat story was funny as hell...r U sure u r not related to MMA... ...alaa qoosol badanaa..lool

Hibo walaalo.. I agree w/u..totally..but roles r not set from the beginning....ofcourse that was then when oppression of somali women existed, but it also depends on how ur parents raise u sis..walaahi.. take it from me..I didn't grow-up w/both my parents...I have raised myself since I was 4yrs old....I consider myself a very strong woman..but shyt happens...4 real...life has ups & downs...it's only u who got to make the decision to do the right thing...sometimes things might be rocky..& u gotta except that when u get ur self into marriage...however, it's ur courage/strengh, endurance, communication, tonicity of voice,love....etc..that makes a difference..neva take shyt from a guy..walaahi, even if it means 2 die..I would rather die..than live in hell-life... our culture has a hierachial system that ranks everyone,but it seems to be changing...however, u got to make that transitions & long search to find the 1...that'll suit u...a man might have all the qualities u r looking 4..ie...education, money, materials, successful, comes from a well-known family,..etc..but if he is not willing to put up w/ the hardships of marriage inorder to keep his family 2gether...& doesn't truely luv his family...he is upto no good... Patience is a virtue, but suffering is a vice... Personally, I will neva put up w/shyt from a guy, I learned the hard way....If I witness anything wrong happening 2 my family, I/we take care of business...no negotiations(oodoyaal..oodoyaal) or watever that our culture follows...2 hell w/dat... midwesta

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4 got to mention wat pisses me off...bout our commu...... Parents...marrying off their gals to older men...4 doh( Nyiado-Money)..when they r bout to go overseas.....this is sick...& later the gal..faces the drama of raising the kids w/out their dad...& culture shock.... Midwesta

Lady Fatima...U did a good job of analyzation...galfriend...BRAVO... However, gals, 1 thing U got to understand is that every culture has up's & downs, they have the nastiest & the betta one, the got the ugly and the cutests, the un-civilized( in other words...washamba in swahili) & the modernized, the backbitters & the calm-non of my business ones.......... in short pointing out of the negative issues that exist in ur community will not only create a different view about ur culture from a "foreigners" perspective ...but will also accelerate hate within ur inner self...i.e...this will just make u hate ur pple even more...thus increasing the tensions of Qaabil & confuse ur bout ur identity of being a somali...... Frankly speaking, I have witnessed all those negative factors in our pple...but if I use it against 'em .....wat is that gonna gain me with....notha!! ....except fight w/ my instincts to the fact that Iam facing an identity crisis....i.e...do I really wanna be a somali coz of all the negative factors sorrounding my community??...or maybe I need to act a certain way ...in order to potray my image of being a "different" Somali........but the fact in the end come 2 dat U r a somali....so betta accept wat U r...or otherwise change ur identity @ all... basically, all iam saying is that IGNORE everything that u see,.....avoid the VICE....& keep the VALUES, & THE VIRTUES......b/c there is no betta virtue than having a culture that GUIDES u to the shining light @ the end of the tunnel........ Oh! &..to be honest...having a galfriend to share secrets w/...is much more relief than w/ guyz....even though I've got mostly male friends.... No offense to anyone...just a piece of my ulitimate honesty...( thx to Hibo)... Midwesta

my fav...r LST, MMA & LadyFatima...they r all cool... BUt I think Raula is Unique

LF..Qumayo aa?....xaasidad..man..especially when it comes 2 ur sleep...damn gal..u were bout to beat the crap out me..1 tyme...u scary.....loooooool... me: polite... midwesta

gal...if u've been w/ him 4 3 yrs ..u dont need an advice..otherwise, u could've done it long time ago...& by the way, if he is not muslim...then wat other choice do u need...besides there r plenty of muslim bros around...dont waste ur tyme..... midwesta

thx Ismahan 4 the lit' eye-workout...U know I saw 11 of'em.....but in reality I really not very observant...now gotta calm the nerves down

thx Ismahan 4 the lit' eye-workout...U know I saw 11 of'em.....but in reality I really not very observant...now gotta calm the nerves down

Kraaaazy but Kool.... midwesta