Originally posted by Dabshid: quote: Dabshid: Lol, what can I say, he is nice, loves his ladies…Lol Munira, what ladies? I guess it takes lots to know a person that thru SOL pages.. Lol,so you agree your the man! waar hedee you ouze manliness.. [by the way its a compliment ]. Ah Lily,how could I have forgotten you! The young sophisticated,trendy sis,my first impression of you was,the girl is cool,calm and have collective thoughts. Waxaad tirii,am chirpy!Lol you made me sound like twitty bird..Lol,as for being Happy,its all about being in the real!

Brother Nur, 3,4&6 would be much appreciated,Jazakhallah Kheyr!

^^^Ah Just like the Somalis, more kids means more benefits..

^^^We are not mad,we just hope to bump into him in a dark alley way!...Lol am kidding.

Chief, am assuming he[Rudy] was refused a sister from Lascanood,hence his obsession with the town and its people..hadhee saas tahay naa wilkaa haloo qaleyoo oo gabadh halaguu daroo.. Back to the topic,MMA dont you think he was a tad bit arrogant our late president?Assuming he could play the game well without crambling at some point,one minute being all african,next a socialist,next imperialist,next an arab...hmmm. :rolleyes:

^^^Lol,you sound bitter hadhee, maxaa dacee arent all Somali politics "Mafia-cell-looklike-organisation's???? Or your propaganda is much valid with its multi computer's connected to the net? I am still yet to be convinced either way!

Chubaka,its all about what you want to know about that person,there are something you honestly dont want to know...like what noises he makes when he is in the toilet. On a serious note; In the begining of a relationship[courting] we are at our best to impress the other person and we start accepting each other the way we like to see each other..But gradually after marriage when we slip into our natural self,that time we have to accept each other as we are.To avoid contradictins in later time, it's important that when you love a person love him the way he is and not the way you want him to be. Again ask question,try to find out what are his views on issues important to you,and listen attentively,at how he responds to your questions, read his body language too if he is trying to muffle his way out of topic he feels uncomfortable with..One thing for sure,its all about compatibility,the mind and soul one,once you that got all is set..well hopefully!

Kashaf,I read this stuff long time ago,so there might be some mistakes in my previous comments but here read these. Qoute: “Only that evening did we begin to discuss specific problems, at my residence. It was clear to me that we had to be careful because surely the interior minister had installed bugs. This same evening Siad Barre finally talked about Ethiopia. He compared it to the Tsarist Empire and said that Ethiopia was the only surviving colonial power. Thanks to Lenin's wisdom, the Tsarist Empire had disappeared, but it lived on in Ethiopia. He had proposed to the Ethiopians, some time ago, to establish a federation or even a unification of the two countries. Ethiopia had not reacted then, but was now itself proposing this solution. He spoke very enthusiastically about his efforts to reach a solution with Ethiopia. I used the occasion to tell Siad Barre that I would travel to Ethiopia the next day and asked him if he would be willing to meet with Mengistu. He agreed.” Here is the link: www.banadir.com/77/9.shtml http://www.banadir.com/77/9.shtml Or these versions http://www.denden.com/Conflict/newscom/ethiopian_myth.html http://countrystudies.us/somalia/78.htm http://wilsoncenter.org/index.cfm?topic_id=1409&fuseaction=va2.browse&sort=Collection&item=The%20Horn%20of%20Africa%20Crisis

Am sure his nick will prevail all assumptions,his reign of hate shall continue,this dude posts also in other sites and in a most distasteful way too..dont be fooled by his nick!

Originally posted by rudy: isnt this the flag of laas caanood!! ^^^You probably know nothing about history bro,reer laascanood are the real Mccoy of somalinimo! show some respect boy! Back to the topic, I believe at some point before the Ethio-Somali war,during a meeting with Castro,Mengistu and Siad Barre.The late Siad Barre did talk about creating a federation goverment,the two countries uniting up under the banner of Socialism..I will try to find the source,inshaallah will post it.

Originally posted by Dahia al Kahina: Alxamdulillah,Khalaf brother from your last post,I dont know if one should cry for you or laugh out loud..Its trully a tragic wallahi how young minds are corrupted in our community..Subhannallah..oh and under the banner of Islam...kulaha my sheikh[atheer]...Lol ^^I apologies for my little outburst,that wasnt called for,your indeed not a corrupt soul,but just a politically inqusitive young man,whom unfortunately had grown up amidst the most challenging times in Somali History,when politics had turned to family feuds subhanallah!..So dear young brother,I hope you forgive me for my ranting.. P.S, when I said the community,I meant the majority of the Somali Community way of thinking has became corrupt,paranoia to the max!

Why deny oneself of this natural experience,its a natural process, for a being to be born,grow,produce and then die!...cruel reality of time and life.. If parenthood is viewed negatively,it sure looks like doomsdale,but when you embrace it in a positively ,oh lord,its the most amazing experience! Those little hands,that smile when they see you,that laughter when you tickle them,ah! the way they smell..,those cute tantrums..all in all,I wouldnt have had it otherwise!

Ghanima,Lol,your crazy indeed..Hehehe@"women, do you not recognize me? I am the one who owns a space in the middle of you." Looooooooool, you made him sound so Segsi now!..lol Me: You want me to pick a fight?...cat fights arent my style dee,am a gentle soul[Mother Theresa in disguise] Khashaf:Inquisitive natured,but just need to learn how to phrase his questions.

^^^He was a mean ,mean,mean man, far from being smart.. why not just say,"honey you look fabulous just the way you are,I like you just the way God intended you to be."

Originally posted by Nephthys: OK, this one is funny. I can only hope there are no men this dumb, or women dumb enough needing a man's opinion. quote: Fresh from my shower, I stand in front of the mirror, complaining to my husband that my breasts are too small. Instead of characteristically telling me it's not so, he uncharacteristically comes up with a suggestion: "If you want your breasts to grow, then every day take a piece of toilet paper and rub it between them for a few seconds." Willing to try anything, I fetch a piece of toilet paper and I stand in front of the mirror, rubbing it between my breasts. "How long will this take?" I ask. "They will grow larger over a period of years," he replies. I stop. "Do you really think rubbing a piece of toilet paper between my breasts every day will make them larger?" Without missing a beat he says, "Worked for your butt, didn't it?" He's still alive, and with a great deal of therapy, he may even walk again, although he will probably continue to take his meals through a straw. S-t-u-p-i-d, s-t-u-p-i-d man. , so who was the ****** one here the man or woman...Lol

^^^I agree,whats love got to do with[marriage],to sustain a marriage,there ought to be more then lovey dovey love,patients,tolerance,maturity etc etc Can one help who they fall in love with? Oh yeah,I believe there is a certain amount of calculation that goes in whom you fall in love with, for example do they posses what your seeking,because you are only attracted to those whom you assume have the qualities you like..so mahaan?

This is indeed great, thanks Zenobia..Jazakhallah Kheyr sis..

Lol, Ghanima… only genuinely nice!! Ghanima aka Xanthus, my day time Somali online friend, sometimes I think you were created and moulded from the same dough as my mother[not that your old ]but the way you express yourself, my mother is a true warrior. Jaceylbaro: Friendly, half the time day dreams about something illicit and just loves to laugh...Looooooooooooool Ngonge: Okay this dude here, is the ultimate champion, he cracks me up...Am aware of his intelligence Mash Allah! [Yes I know he is happily married…lol] Northerner: Proud Burcawii, a genuine nice guy! Ms Dhuc Dhuc: Oh what can I say about the sister; girl got her feet firmly on the ground. Sound as they say! Nephyts: I usually read the sister’s posts with great anticipation, truly an amazing and fascinating woman. Kool-Kat- I always imagine her with a great hair do, singing her heart out while driving. A cool cat indeed! Aaliyah614: The girl would make a wonderful wife [for my brother], genuine, traditional and religious. ME: He loves to argue for the sake of argument, but a nice guy all around. Baashi: I am intrigued by Baashi, hmmm Zenobia: A wise sister [me like her] Dabshid: Lol, what can I say, he is nice, loves his ladies…Lol Che: His nick was attractive, yes am fascinated with the Cuban. Val: Kind, intelligent and most the likeable person here! [Yeah, my guy friends are just besotted I tell ya!] Nur: Not only knowledgeable in the matters of deen, but a great human being [thanks yaa Nur] I would love to nip into the politic section and comment, but the response from some of them might be 1000 word essay..

^^^Xasiidad,Let the brother do his thing..

Originally posted by Observer: Q: Anybody had idea where the WSLF's are and what have they achieved if anything? After the defeat by Ethiopian and Cuban Forces in Feb 79,where 3,000 Somali troops lost their lives and the main cities were retaken back by Ethiopia . Siad Barre gave the orders for the SNA troops to pull out of the Ethiopia, after the withdrawal the WSLF and few small SNA units reverted to guerrilla tactics. In the early 1980 it was confirmed that the WSLF once again controlled the countryside and many main roads, also “volunteers” believed by many to have been troops of the SNA were reportedly to had rejoined the WSLF. Meanwhile, Ethiopia had started training and equipping the Somali Salvation Democratic Front[sSDF] and later the Somali National Movement [sNM],both group were against the Siad Barre regime. The Somali government subsequently forbade the WSLF to use its territory to launch attacks into Ethiopia, with this decision the struggle wasn’t effective enough hence the formation of a splinter group ONLF which was formed in 1984 outside Somalia&Ethiopia,the organisation slipped back into Og-aden in 1988 where its still operating… As for Somalia, what a shame huh! Ethiopia seems to have had us on a leash for along long time! Observer did I answer your question,oh heck felt like telling the story..

^^^I agree with Kool Kat, why bother with changing gears,every traffic stop,every roundabout....

Originally posted by -Lily-: ^^^Yeah sure and you’ll end up a lonely & loony skinny old Farax screaming how they all wanted your money and weren’t ‘down’ with rudy’s laws :rolleyes: . ,Thanks Lily,that made my day! alla beerka!

So Jaceylbaro your officially the tour guide miyaa,I want to book you for next year, haduu illahi naftaa noo dayoo..what say? North,..am envious! which isnt a good thing,so I must say,I would love to experiece what you had experienced. Some of us,have never seen that land of ours,cant imagine a land filled with Somalis..Lol,reminds me of when a friend went to Somalia,she just stood in the middle of a street and stared at people,the venders,traffic warden..etc,you can imagine the insults hurled at her,,,but for her it was just so amazing to see,hear and smell home!

^^^Ooow, Ms Dh&Dh, hmmm,am curious now,had you recenlty experienced something?..I hear you on the captivasion and attractiveness of a man your linkend romantically cries ,......to be able to wipe his tears,to console his pain..that is segsi!..Lol The first time to saw a man cry,its was when embarking on my journey to the west, oh my dear father,cried as if he was told I died...that was something I tell ya!

Alxamdulillah,Khalaf brother from your last post,I dont know if one should cry for you or laugh out loud..Its trully a tragic wallahi how young minds are corrupted in our community..Subhannallah..oh and under the banner of Islam...kulaha my sheikh[atheer]...Lol