Malika

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  1. Malika

    Motherhood

    Lol..Nephthys I had a mother like yours,oh boy! the whooping,the pinching and the cursings..Lol You got to love their version of tough love though..but after she whoops you my mother would buy you Ice cream or buy you fanta! I am sure that was her way of apologising. I am a softy softy mother,I believe if I spend the whole day being nice to others and tolerant of them why cant I do the same with my own flesh and blood...
  2. Lol@Lodi lofa,thats is taking me back... Fanya haraka urudi nyumbani,naona uko home sick kweli kweli.Natania kuhusu msonjo wangu,lol acha tuu mambo moto moto.. Lol@sheik on speed dial..
  3. *waves back at CL* mambo poa! buzi langu halina lake jambo,nimesha tayarisha mfuko wake.. ati,atani suprise,msonjo wangu maskini! Ms DD, JB has been gearing himself for today since last week,am sure he is having a whale of a time at his house party.
  4. ^Ha Ha Ha..allah berka! you guys are hilarious,now you got me all panicking about what to wear to who's wedding...horta find these men. Ibti,you know the salwar khamiz will be top of the range hadhaa,with match shoes,bag,accessories..maxaa kalee,I would also come with a bundle of money..[trying hard to undo the damage done]
  5. ^Lol..Aaliyah,for your wedding I would make sure I am dress to kill as they say..The salwar Khamiz was for Ibti and the Bengali hadhee.. Ibti,darn the superstitious Bengalis,I even imagine wearing matching shoes and accessories..
  6. ^A punjabi dress,What Pakistanis and Bengali wear..@Aaaliyah
  7. Ibtisam,I even pictured my self in a red salwar khamiz at your wedding..darn you Aaliyah! Buuxo,Malika is Dahia aka Munira..and many other nicks around the cyber world..
  8. Ibti,a geek is a safe bet,there is a gurantee he will be a whiz in some high flying paying job..maarka waa runtaa. Lol@Aaliyah,I told you before dont spend too much time with Islamahaa..
  9. ^LOL..Aaliyah,when did this happen? Ibti /Bengali guy/lecture/crush.... Now you dont want a dog,just a guy that knows what he is all about!..a man with a presence...xaax!
  10. Ibti,geeks can be a bore! You want someone that is partially geek and partially a player.. Oh dont forget he has to have a healthy balance in his account too..
  11. Malika

    Motherhood

    Last night, my baby girl wanted to tell me all about the haunted house she saw on the news, she was so excited and was getting louder and louder as she spook. It was late evening I was tired and busy, I got impatient; my response to her excitement was “its late go to bed now”. As she walked away I could see and feel her disappointment and bruised soul, as the tone of my voice was harsh. I sat there, caught in the realisation of what I had just done, looking at what I was doing, in front of me a student’s homework with a very positive comment written by me on it. The realisation hit me hard; there I was being positive and thoughtful at how I should encourage so and so to produce high quality work. At the same here I was crushing my little girl’s confidence and self esteem. I got up and followed her to her room, kneed down next to her bed and did my best to apologies for the uncalled harshness. She accepted my apology and I asked her if I could slide next to her in bed, so she can tell me all about the haunted house. That gave us the opportunity to talk about the existence of Ghost and so on. As I was leaving the room, we hugged and kissed, I left her knowing she is very important to me and my love for her is unconditional and am only human so to keep in mind my shortness. The moral of my little story is the revelation I had. If I were to die last night, the child/ern I was focusing hard on to improve will forget who I was in few years time, but my daughter will remember me for the rest of her life. Hence the importance of investing all my energy to build and sustain a balanced relationship with her…Invest in those you love I say!
  12. ^A faraax with a bunch of flowers? what a rare sight,did you take a picture of him?
  13. ^Lol..darling what does "mataah" mean? did you want to write maanta?[smug]..yaab yabkisa,me correcting Ibti's afsomali..heh. p.s am sure she is just teasing.
  14. Originally posted by cynical lady: "Baal kuu hadal on our next video " Our aah mhh Ibti i demand an explanation here ^Looool.. Ibti iskaa celi qoftanii before the rumours circulate futher in SOL..
  15. ^Girl,am envious. *note to self,must move to London*
  16. Ibti,there was an original Malika!! Ooow..argh! there goes my originality stance.. CL,Sema?
  17. Lol..CL,It felt right..An angelic name!
  18. Mandarin is simplified Cantonese,so it will be slightly easier[i hope]
  19. ^Lol..dee Mr Shades[mar..] CL,nini tena? Its a beautiful day, the sun is shining the birds are singing[they woke me up this morning..bless their beautiful chirpy noises! And I got two more days before half term..hurray!
  20. 1.English 2.Swahili 3.Somali[erm,I can honestly speak fluently..but writting tends to be tricky business] 4.Swedish[can still make myself understood even after many years not speaking or writing the lingo] 5.Hindi[ah,my childhood lingo,learnt from neighbours/friends and ofcourse those darn India Movies] I am currenlty trying to learn Polish and Mandarin [Chinese]
  21. Maasha'allah..So touching!
  22. ^Aaliyah, it would be a pleasure to accomodate you darling...But one little mishap I dont live in London but tulo yaar London uu dhoow...Saying that London is only 35min away!
  23. ^ , JB is young at heart,didnt you see his valentine thread, he is planning to throw a house party..goormee tasi noo dambeysee[speaking for oneself].. JB congrats you turned 21 today!
  24. ^When are you coming to UK ? @ Aaliyah