^I am assuming its Faarax,as you throw at him to notice you ..Looooool.

^ ,Ignorance is bliss they say,but not an excuse to utter nonsense Mr Peace,you say women cant lead? and if suggested its a western idea?..Lol thats funny! Anywho,here is a link might educate you on your stance with women leaders.Women were leaders in our parts of the world way before the western civilazations. http://www.guide2womenleaders.com/Muslim_Leaders.htm

^LOL I hate cats too,since I stepped and crushed my kitten to death. ,they just freak me out with their blue/green eyes!..

Looooooooool@LOZ, nice one!

Lily, You didnt know,our Ngonge has phobia of people,erm I mean people at the Gym or Park or anywhere there are people in spandex.. Hello LOZ.

^She will be too busy,trying to cover her eyes and ears to take notes..She can record it for you though..

^Dhuxul for the face? I know it can be used for cleaning teeth..

Loooooooooool@Mr Darcy on slowmo,ah if memory serves me right was he blessed? Nuune,if only the party was in London,but Dublin is like 6hrs away on Train, unless there is a private plane..Ah,what dreams are made of life style..

CL,that sounds like a good plan,a doze of Mr Darcy eey? Lily,where I come from they even get married only for Ramadan.Mke wa uji[ porridge wife]..Lol your only married so you could cook for him during ramadan,now I dont know if this was widely practiced but you would hear it mentioned..

Nuune,You dont want to go out? Can I take your place,as am so in need of some fun. erm its called vunja jungu in swahili,just before Ramadan folks go crazy partying..

Hello mpendwa! Are you off to somewhere nice for the bank holiday?

^Its not friday yaa nuune,its Thursday!..Lol your not having a day like mine are you?

^ Loooooooooooool,Oh my!,I am getting worried now,you know me so much! ps.What is going on in the Politic Section,its too quiet and boring..Where is everybody nowdays?

Nephthys,they could have been taxi drivers,Khat merchants,drug dealers,two/three wives jugglers.. ,Somalis love to talk,kamaa maarmir karayaan while eating not to talk too..

^Afternoon. I had one of those strange early morning dreams,somehow I was in EastEnders!..

Anyone watched this programme? Flying: Confessions of a Free Woman... ...Storyville 1/2. Filmed over five years, with stories from 17 countries across four continents, this programme talks to women about their lives and looks at what it means to be a free woman today. Made by Jennifer Fox whose life was turned around when her best friend is diagnosed with a brain tumour, Jennifer decides to take her confusion and her camera out on the road to talk to women about their lives. It was aired on channel 4,tonight was the last episode..It was a good watch,reminded me of a book I read few years ago of one Nancy Friday about Mothers and daughters..How we assume we are different yet,so similar only born in different era's but the ropes of tradition,culture are still tightly tied around us even in our modern day lives! I am sure you can find the episodes in Youtube or BBC iplay. http://www.flyingconfessions.com/press/BlogHer.pdf

God! the men are so useless in this thread..The Zack,I think that is usually adviced on men. Is'nt black seed a God sent!..Alhamdulillah.

^Looool@mini football..I miss mishikaki ya jamatini and that cold fresh passion juice! badae badae,wacha nipite mitaani kidogo..

^In other words xalaal booty call.

^Hello Mpenzi, how are you this fine afternoon? Ulimaliza vitumbua? *Hi LOZ

Wcs Wr Wb. Subaax Wanaagsan folks, sabax Kheyr,Asubuhi Njema etc oh,its afternoon already? Ngonge, how could you? I so trusted you with my secrets! The outcome of that fire,am now off to the Candian mountains am told my native Indian is now based in a resevation centre,and since then he has married an eskimo woman..How dare he anigoo inaa ***************** oo reer ************, how dare he! :mad:

Nature? I mean we are different,biological make up is different.Had you observed little girls play? automatically they become these little mothers,nurturing and caring for their dolls and the little men,drive their cars carefree knocking anything standing,or kicking a ball or as for my 4yr old nephew he is already eyeing up the girls..What am saying is we are different,and perhaps our roles in Societies are also different. :confused: [am a beaten woman,dont pay attention to me,where do I hand back the feminist card?]..

LOL@Ngonge, I though I would help make it clear for him. Anyway my understanding of this is, as a society we were very sucessful for generations to stay homogeneous but as circumstances and enviroment we had found ourselves has changed there is bound to be some changes to the homogeneous-ness make up of our society..The influence of the communities we live in,interact with surely can influence our choices in marriage and way of life. But,I know that for others it has been due to lack of finding quality men or women, some it was a reaction after being hurt or played by a Somali be it a woman or a man. You say,its different for a man to marry a non Somali but if a non Somali woman is raising those Somali children, will they really be SOMALI? am out!

CL,I would say not yet!,We are still underpaid, overworked..I mean the woman is expected to earn her bread,give birth,raise kids,change the tires on the car,oh stay slim[a sex godddess]clean, cook, garderner,sportwoman etc etc.. Men,overpaid lazy so and so's..

Nuune,afsomaliga is heavy duty wallahi its like reading latin.. I am getting Che's,koleybaa waxnaa imaa damoo, lakin yours is just a class of its own.