There is something uplifting about kicking a ball around,I urge women to give it a go,it is fun.. As for the ayeyos,bless them!..lol

Juxa,deep fried it is!,I have come to terms with my hips..heh C&H,ah! welcome to the club! your officially a troller now..lol

Baked fish or deep fried fish? Rain,rain,rain go away ! Hello trollers!

^Yakhi!Reer Burco waad isku shegtaa and you apologies for highlighting the truth? ps.Max,so growing up in ghetto's of London entitles you to dig at Somalis? Hence you forget,you have posted more threads here condemning Somalis for various issues,marka just answer the questions CL posed without getting too emotional.

CL,mpendwa define 'beauty'? It seems to me your saying beauty can be found in jars,syringes[botox] weight watchers clubs or perhaps the toilet sink[if bulimic]..lol Who's standards of beauty do you feel,Somali women aren't meeting? As for getting fat and ugly once married..lol, may I say we are loved just like that! Honestly, any normal[non celeb] woman's body change after child birth,how is it to stay the same? Age is also a natural process,it sure does take its toll on the body..marka we cant all be Demi Moore,pump our selves with botox,have plastic surgery.. I agree about looking after one self,excising, eating well and grooming is important,not only for self image but for the betterment of oneself as a whole.

Gobsmacked! A senseless cause,killing much needed people in a country on its knees is beyond belief! So senseless!

^Yet another thread! ..*waves back at CL*

^Now we know where your from..Loooool

lol@juxa..I have never thought of reporting anyone, despite of how I feel. There is a better way of getting the message through,if you talk through options with those whom you know..Sometimes,they dont know its is possible to live without claiming cayda.

Originally posted by Blessed.*: quote:Originally posted by Dabshid: I am totally against spoon feeding some of the Somali migrants rely on, It kills their creativity, No wonder why nomands in Gulf are very hardworking. You'll notice a difference in family units too. So much respect, kala danbayn and nidaam in Gulf families. Masha Allah. I guess those who are milking it in the welfare states have under estimated the barakah in earning your own bread. ^Voice of reason,it is about dignity. Every time,you earn your keep however small,Illahi naa uukuu barakeneyaa this is what I believe in. I wish Sheikhs and those in the know how tell people of the disadvantages of life on welfare[the lies],and the benefits of earning your own bread,and the values of hard working,its rewards not only here in duniya but in akhira too.

Another thread,..Gee! This is fun..

^ ,naa nenda kalale. ,cry me a river,so emotional! @ Paragon Nevertheless,I do agree with you these issues are real and need to be addressed as a matter of urgency.Educating the community,not only about the legal aspect of it but also about the moral,ethical and mostly accountability to God. As far as am concern,lying,cheating and acquiring xaraam money is wrong no matter who that person is..

Hmmmm..Where are the defenders?? Qoftan tol uuma joogto miya,kuwii meyeen macawistaa kaa dacdaceyee illa xaleytoo?..Lool Paragon ,what is your take on the issue of fraud at this scale? I mean where by,someone can deny their marriage,call their children *******s only so to acquire 'money',that is someone else sweat and blood?

Juje,meel baa lagaa qabtee,is he your relative?..warya macawistaa yeesaan kaa daciin..I dont do *****es! As I said,I careless about his man or his family,am GENERALLY talking about the culture of dependancy.. Now,iga leexo!

^It's interesting how all sort of reasoning to justify 'milking the system' is being argued here..cajiib! ps.Abwaan,I dont know them neither do I care about knowing them.. You can all attack,accuse..it just highlights the extent 'we' as a community have gone to normalize 'extreme welfare dependency'..professional beggars ayaa laa noqdee..waa iska cadhi!..Lol Work Ethics must be an alien phenomenal huh?

^ ..faraa waaweyn maa ugu qorti,a visit to spec savers is due for Ngonge..heh

^ ,that's talk of defeat my sister,why not look at what we have achieved so far,we have come a long way..There are mosques everywhere,Islamic schools everywhere in Europe today..Marka,why focus on minor set backs,when there are bigger achievements already taking place right across Europe..Islam after all is the fastest growing religion, its so visible in Europe..so a missing minaret here and there shouldn't be something we dwell on and on..Alhamdulillah!

Miyaaaaaaaaaaw! ..LOL, it just gets to me when people want to justify milking the system,as if to say if it matters not because this is 'gaalo' wadaan..No! It matters,because we should know as Muslims that we cant just lie,cheat,sponge off others hard earned cash when we are capable of working for ourselves..How is this ever justifiable? ps.And am not specifically talking about this couple am generalizing here before am accused of being a farm nigger..

Originally posted by Juje: quote:Originally posted by Malika: ^Do they work? Are they active contributing citizens is the question here not, how they are good people or good mothers. Horta runtaa ayaa iska ficaan,this is not the only family,nor the only people that are milking the system,without any prospect of ever putting anything back into it.. This is like the house nigger ridiculing the one on the street. Malika both Bashir and Nasra are one of the best parents in the Somali community residing in NW London. Just because you saw their story in the tabloid doesn't mean you can have a go at them and question their integrity. milking the system,without any prospect of ever putting anything back into it what do you think you are doing now? Paying back all the time you were on Social welfare. And that is exactly what their offspring will do Insha Allah. LOL,Somehow I seem to have touched a nerve with you Juje. You can protest all you like,but the facts remains is that they did put themselves out there for all of us to judge them,and as for the matter of what am doing now,you know shit about me! And yes,they are a parasites,like many others whom live off others sweats..Since when has being jobless,milking off others sweat a noble thing? Your making them sound as if they are NOBLE just because they are good parents,the question isnt about them being good parents or not..It is about them milking the state..and that my friend is questionable even to GOD..ish! As for calling me a house nigger,geez! Dont judge me by your standards. ps.I can judge them, as they made their business public,the nation is judging them iyagaa Tabloid isku soo sawireen,perhaps you should question their integrity there..

^Too long in this place,we turn sour at any mention of 'tax payers money'..lol BNP,has nothing on a Somali Brit.tax payer.. Anyways,whatever!..

^Do they work? Are they active contributing citizens is the question here not, how they are good people or good mothers. Horta runtaa ayaa iska ficaan,this is not the only family,nor the only people that are milking the system,without any prospect of ever putting anything back into it.. Lol@1/3 of what I earned@ faheema..lol,have you seen the cars they drive,some of us will have to save,scrap or perhaps borrow to afford the wheels some of these people drive[i just want to rant about cars,as mine is crappy one..lol]

LOL@Moral of the story..lol I am starting to lean toward Ngonge's theory on the sanity of women..Some are truly mad!

^I agree,these kind of debates enables us to challenge their policies,constitutions etc etc.. I honestly,believe there is going to be further changes in Europe,we are European citizens,and through laws, we are going to fight for what is rightly ours,including what we believe in,how and where we worship etc etc. I remember the times,when schools shun upon hijabs to now promoting hijabs as part of their school uniforms..Time,in time even minarets will be the norm.

Yaa @ The Zack! maxaa tiriid? Gabdhaa laa qabo walagaa xishooni jiiree,gabadha haakaa gefina..now ya all beat it! Today, I wish for more money..if only,if only...

Lily, Switzerland has always been accused of its xenophobic culture,especially when it turned a blind eye on the persecution of the jews by Hitler,on grounds they didnt want to cause trouble in their land,but mostly was due to religion. Johnny, When was Switzerland the Vatican City? Comparing,towns in Switzerland to Mecca is just ignorant.