^You know, all you had to do was comment on the topic, not post a counter to what the brother did. U.D; i believe a true man can TAME all these 11 types of women. No Need to Avoid em.simpletons sir. Loved the Miss Bi+ch tho'

I’m I’m sure you heard people (some of them Athiests) who donate (ananymously) millions to international charities, some volunteer their time to society’s less fortunate. One would be hard pressed to claim that these altuiristic deeds are done in the hope of a return favor Baashow BashBashleeya, Lookie here sir, you have managed to swing the entire argument to alms giving and charities. You have got to look at the bigger picture of selfishness itself. When one gives out those millions anonymously, they are definitely doing it for a reason, I.E Feeling Good [or whatever the reason they gave them millions for]. On the other hand, the selfish fellow didn’t give his millions, because he feels good by keeping what is his [more] than having less!. Both thought of ‘self’. Granted different. But nonetheless self-ish. When the generous altruist gives out part of his money, I am sure he does it so that he can help others which in turn makes him feel good. Otherwise, if it was just about getting rid of the money, he could just go to Buula Xuubey and literally bury it in the ground. There is got TO be a motive [not necessarily monetary or name recognition], but an inner Motive. Sense of pride. Looking at it from another view here; You mentioned religion, which in the case of Islam REWARDS those who give to the less fortunate a good life in the here after. Someone could say that is selfish,NO? A combative farax/xalimo will probably jump on my neck for the above comment. Most likely though, a moderate thinking one will come and say ‘but Afro that’s a duty’ Which one might reply, why is that duty performed in the first place?? Dig? Stoic, it’s a completely different issue when someone is in public office. For their duty is not for self, but rather for serving the public. And if a leader as such breaches his duty, then the legal system of that particular place should charge him for vicarious liability. Still selfish it is.

Tough, and rough with my Afro puffs, sometimes you have to be selfish to be unselfish Aha! Therefore,in essence, to be succesful[in being unselfish,watever], is it safe to conclude that, it’s a must have virtue’ as stated by Qaliirow[boombale looking buddy of mine]

But unlike the selfish person, this person is compassionate enough and wise enough to share his blessing with the unfortunate folk Baashi! Baashi Baashi!, When the altruist does all the good,hes doing it so he can feel better, when the Selfish person doesnt give,he gives so he can get more[more for him,feel better] I beleive when someone gives for the sake of deriving good feelings, they act selfishly. So in essence, everyone is selfish in some way. MsWord: Basically, if you expect others to help you out in your time of need then you should be willing to do the same for them Doin' it so that you get a return?[For your own Good?], tsk tsk tsk...its got selfish written all over it. Your reason for doing something is in order to get something back when needed???? isn't that selfishness too? Bingo!

Being selfish is having a character flaw. Selfish folks are stingier and they are unlikely to help brother/friend out when bro/sxb are in need. Unlikely To help? Is one to Required to Help to appear Unselfish? How about Donations? Charity?, Helping etc as opposed to 'sacrificing ones own Gain for another' Theres gotta be a fine line between the two, NO? A.Ladif. Sure.

^LooL. You sound like Mark Jackson of NBA Fast Break. Wtf is wrong with ESPN jiggas,asking Former Pacers[more like Loosers]about the Pistons. Refusing to Give the Detroit Pistons Credit. Tell You waht,Eff all yall. Shaq This,Wade that!,Zo this, Jones that!, Gimme a Break!!. At the End of the day, CLearly the better Coach won, Stan Van Gundy is not a Larry Brown Calibre! or a Pop calibre. What the hell was he thinking Banking on a clearly Injured player?, why is he refusing to MAKE SHAQ the MAN?, hes more focused on Dwayne than Shaq. I tell you, Stan Van Gundy should Go, Perhaps Riley should Come back now that he has TALENT Ps. This is a hard series for me. My Detroit Pistons Vs My Spurs! :confused: :confused:

YoU aRe such a .............

You can want all the educated Somali girls you want. Most importantly perhaps would be, would an educated Somali girl want you? Besides, your heading and the body of the topic are not matching, what’s up dude?

Are you selfish you asked Did i? Are u sure A.Ladif?

But if you belong to the group-that is if you are not selfish-you will gain pre-requisite for life comfort since no humanbeing have been able entirely to be self sufficient Stoic! Aha! Must one be unselfish to have ‘life comfort’? Am I [Expected?] to sacrifice my benefits (*MY*), so as to be comfortable among ‘Homo sapiens’? Why should it matter to the altruistic person? [if am selfish or not, as stated by Stoic?] If that’s the road they chose to be [Of being giving, inclusive and general et al] why should A‘PRE-Requisite for life comfort’ be expected from me? Shouldn’t they be ‘equally considerate’ regardless of my status? Juxa,Precisly My point.

Is being selfish a bad trait? My freind the other day, out of no where, says to me something; Kulaha "selfishness is the essence of successes" I pondered and thought about for a minute and asked him, ‘the essence’? He retorted back, in his high pitched annoying voice; ‘it’s a must have virtue’ Hmmm,i said reluctantly, 'I believe it’s an indispensable and unavoidable thing' . He shook his rather oversized and shapeless head.I thought to myself. Rebel!, Crazy as usual,i added See. He is a character. A skinny 6’3 and slightly UN proportional. You'd confuse him for a statue[boombale?]. Smart eloquent and combative. Constantly yapping. He always has a hard time convincing people. It surely had to be even harder,tryna convince a self declared pessimist. People often just waive him off.[i did the same]. The conversation went a little longer, and I couldn’t but agree with him on almost everything. We parted ways that day, but it had me going for a bit, actually for a little longer than usual. Then it dawned on me that am selfish too. Friends and family alike refer to me as a ‘selfish SOB’. So?. I dont care. Most people, WILL get defensive and probably deny the allegation. I don’t. Matter of fact, am quite happy and proud to be selfish. Reason being, I believe that I have no obligation to please and make anyone happy. If there is nothing in there for me why should I be there? Should I sacrifice my own gains, benefits and bounties so as not to be ‘selfish’? Is one born being selfish? Or are environment, surrounding and upbringing a major factor? I believe am selfish because I think of myself, put me first and I have no one to please. I don’t need acceptance from no one. I please myself and not the public. Am i a Bad person?, more importantly, should i care if people find me bad? Is it ok to be selfish?

BTW, I have been on a mary Jane free diet for the last 19 years dude :eek: , Down here in my 'Neck of da woods', you have to be 18yrs to smoke that ish. *Thinking to myself* mhmm..19yrs ago + 18=35years old ..... Btw, Good to know you 'Like so awesome'

Afro give it to me... *holding breath* Ahem!, How do you want it??[Rather Give you what?] :confused: Edit: Silly Me. You MEANT the Worse name than the Evil Mod, aahhh...Let me clean my filthy head first. BRB...........

Congrats Khayrow! May you be together long, really long time. A Dude/Dudette and Milk be plenty :cool:

Originally posted by *Diamante*: Afro, Oh you're darn right I'm all worked up. Today is the worst and since you are in my view, I feel the need to broom slap your A$$! Now bend over and tell me who's been a naughty boy! Kir!!! Anyway, see what i was talkin about? You can Never Take Critism WELL. Nver have i seen you respond to any critism well. You become sweaty,worked out and all GrouchY. Lets try this one more time dear, shall we? Diam, Walaalo Your Joke Really SUCKED! damn....diamnte...crack that whip.... Beautiful! She now has a side kick. 2 girls one man, a whip!..mhmmm...... Naahh!, i will pass!

Originally posted by PlayMaker: Anyway the series is going to game 7 not that i care these two boring teams, but it is game 7 and i still got my money on that heat will lose! PlayM. Sxb are you nuts? Lol, how can they be boring teams while the series is tied? Shaq is boring? Dwayne is boring?, Eddie .Jones is Boring? Wallace and Wallace Incorporated are boring? , Rip and what is his name, damn Billups? Maynnnnn……………………………..You don’t like both teams but give em credit Dawg??

^Good stuff kid. Am feeling your environmental campaign. I have planted numerous trees, i drive an eco freindly CAR and i recycle soda cans. good stuff,son

N** ?? What does ** stand for? Curious ….

Ladies is their any topic or something I can perhaps do to persuade her to open You don’t persuade people to open up. You bring interesting topics, issues, and matters and interests that make her talk. Perhaps watch Oprah or some silly female talk show. If I were you, I will abandon ship and move on to the next task. Its not worth the hassle, am sure there is an equally hot (hotter?) sister somewhere in the vicinity.

evil mod you say? Coming right up! Khalid, good morning walashis? I fail to see why people call you evil. You come across as charming, even though I don’t know you very well.[And no I don’t want nothing from you!] Of all the negative words to describe you, I wouldn’t use evil. I personally have a word for you, but will I dare?

Callous?? Jaded?? How so?? LOL. Blue.E. Call it Gut feeling. call it bias reading. call it wrong interpretation,whatever the case, i cant help but picture you as "an outsider".[i dont 'see' a connection btwn you and the sea]. Maybe thats how you wanted your piece to appear. And like i said,parhaps all this is due to MY personal experience as a young adventorous daring child. Anyway, i beleive am over analysing this whole scene. Quick Question, how long was the WALK?][in relation to time vs distance] I would think a broke man would enjoy the open water more than anyone else I'd assume he'd want money more than the open waters, NO?

Three women die together in an accident and go to heaven. I stopped reading right here. Diamente,funny joke![ok am lying,but i wanna make you feel better! ],coz everytime someone attacks you,you get all sweaty. Wazzup? :confused:

ROTF. LMAO Diam,Ileen U gat Jowkes. Copy N Paste Mistress

What about this study that proved that bigger women earn less money for doing the exact samej job as a normal weight woman? Jawahir! We were talkin about women with curves and the life expectancy. Cut this discrimination crap will YA?, discuss the issue @hand here. Hibo.looool, dont blama Mama on dis one dear!

Originally posted by Sky: . differences, the ppl from the northwest that call themself somaliland have brown teeth, they chew khat like theres no tomorrow, they cant pronounce the letter "R" and they are allowed to say "nayaa" to their female counterparts without facing serious physical damage. for the rest we are the same. :cool: You are such an ANAL, i tell you bud.You need to take that back. and when bro Somerican ttried to bring sense to you, you had the nerves to yell bla bla bla,like an adolocent white girl! Did it occur to you that,paharps you are the one WHo is mispronouncing the 'DH' instead of the "R"? ponder on that. All this on the month of 'SOMALINIMO' :eek: :eek: