^The series Aint over. You may wanna hold your celebrations. Sheed W. F****KED up for us. Nigga goes to double team PARKER when he leaves HORRY alone. Who leaves HORRY ALONE? *&^$(*^#%!!! i tell you!!

^Damn right! Well, the issue is if you gonna get video taped in the first place, what difference would it make if its done by a man or a woman? You are eventually gonna be seen by thousands of men anyway? Its the double standard that has me scratching my hairless head! DUH!! USELESS!!

This is very silly. I always figured the men video taping the events are professional men PAID to do the job. I would like to know the logic behind having a female video recorder When there is a TAPE that has the potential to be seen by thousands of non maxram males, why should ONE or TWO male professionals be an ISSUE????? If you don’t want a man doing his JOB, then why limit it to the video taping? Lets take a notch up and also make sure NOT TO SEE A MALE doctor. Plain lack of common sense from you lots out here. Separate professionalism from personal life.

^Hey,Who are the members of this awarding commitee? Who Vets these BATON WAVING MAN EATERS? ey? What criteria was used to MAKE U.D, the SOLE candidate? EY EY!!

Well well well, Ms. Kaleido... you're becoming the Ken Starr to My Bill Clinton. Bill C? Wadh,Hold your horses and ZEBRAS dude. If you ask me,more like Pat BUCHANAN Or Rose PEROT....

we got 3 there, k+i+r=3, that is when u look in another angle Yahuu! That stuff you nimbling on must be the true MIIRO JAD.

^^Kir! Dadka Haa waalin

2. lid the candles, when u have normal light working for u, at home OK, i need help here; How does one exactly 'LID' a candle? :confused: I am interested in this phenomenon and i have this sudden urge to impress one certain lady. Am sure just like her,she would be interested in this new 'LIDING of the candles'. wooo hoo.!! Lid the CANDLES!....lets merrry FOR WE ARE LIDDING THE CANDLES!

Salaams Bambi. welc back. How rude of this people not to even bother replying to a sister? What is up with that? Anyway, am replying to you because I don’t wanna let you hanging. Just kidding,good observations there darl; To answer your Q, the suggestion will be to simply offer a small but decent play ground for the kids, or provide toys and or have a couple of volunteers to baby sit the little rascals. Of course if it were up to me, I would have given them a major whoop A$$. I really don’t like MISBEHAVING CHILDREN. Someone should JAIL them. And a simple strict rule of ‘NO KIDS’ should do. Little advice, don’t sweat about Somalis, or else you will have a MIGRAINE.

^How was it hijacked? We were discussing the issue itself. Hello))))))

^It’s not so much about safety, as it is the ISMACNEES. Am sure there is a way to kindly decline to answer someone without all those faces. You don’t have to make silly facial expressions, and puff your nose [or as they call it, HURUF?]. to a total stranger. And mind you, that look is a very awkward one. Seriously, that SUURO thing is soooo 1990’s.

^Hey Lad Zeph, You signature is not funny! Afrosomali..I think the guys black relatives were muslims OK, Maybe the didnt want their son to marry a BLACK AFRICAN WOMAN! Maybe.Just a maybe

^LoooL. ***** HEHEHE. Some of the sisters take it a TAD too far. What is the harm of being polite to a fellow Muslim? It’s the double standard here that has me shaking my big head. Based on that particular experience that I had, and having seen others [for I refused to repeat the same mistake], I see the same women, clearly fraternizing with non Somalis quite well, but when it comes to Somalis, oh hell breaks loose. That’s when the SUURO comes down. Her face literally looks like she has a LEMON in her mouth, and the bitter taste makes her make those silly faces. Shove off a brother if you want, but please don’t make that silly face.

You know, that is the epitome of ISMACNEES among the Maali, err Somali Sisters. Had that been a non somali who approached her as respectfully as G.Jire did, I bet you on my last bite of this delicious Chicken sandwich, that she will not only give directions, but probably even volunteer to tell him ‘oh I will show you, am going that way anyway’. I don’t think Geel Jire was shocked of her non-Somali traits, but rather the ‘facial expressions’ she gave him. Although I will not bet on it, am sure she gave the classic SUURO face. What is so dangerous about being friendly or respectful to a fellow human being, a fellow Somali? They need to give themselves and others a break. Someone should tell them to get off the high horse. To answer your Q, yes it did happen to me. I said Asalaam Aleykum to this girl, and she forced a rather weak salaam back at me, while facing the other way. She might have been in a bad mood, God knows. I just kept quite. All I wanted to ask was if there was a SOMALI shop around the neighborhood! I was THIS “†close to giving her a lecture, but the cool in me prevailed.

Wouldn't want a 'leaked memo' tarnishing the 'Ms. sweet & innocent"/ "Mr. Decent and honourable" image that they spent all this energy fronting HeHe, UD wallahi you are bad.

The reason probably why the black family, was not happy could be as simple as, them not wanting their son to wed an AFRICAN MUSLIM WOMAN. They could have been bitter parents and family members. To add on that, like DAWACO said, the family of the girl pretty much runs the show. It’s always a tug of war in Somali weddings. Its not surprise, I wouldn’t call that sickening. Relax, it’s a harsh world, you will see people who hate others because they like eating cheetos instead of say OREOS. Besides, you can not say the Somali Dhaqan is sickening simply based on a silly wedding.

Since you're advocating selfish behavior, you tell me if there is any case where you would feel a need to tell your boy anything he might need to know Oh definitely yes If she: A. Wants to kill him B. Has killed someone and or is a wanted fugitive C. Wants to Repot him to the authorities for past felonies etc D. Rob him off his wealth E. Has Sexually transmitted disease [how would I know?] F. Is a poor cook In otherworlds, I will tell him of life threatening issues.

Why isnt anyone saying the OBVIOUS? Those are UGLY ANIMALS

Great! Now we have a scale of ‘mistakes’ if you will to work with. If ‘she hits the bottle and is a potential serial killer’, wouldn’t one know that by the time you dating? And if or and its ‘too late’, what would telling it have an impact on? To add on that, the ‘hitting the bottle’ thing is not something that really determines a partners personality, ability to flip them Malawaxs or fold my Speedo, for me at least. I have seen many Muslims/Farahs who married white/black Ajnabis who guzzle the cold ones faster than a HUMMER guzzles the precious fluids from the desert. If that’s a determinant in finding a partner rather watching out for your homie, then the heck is it only limited to a Farah?[or Halimo?]relationship?. shouldn’t the farah/halimo who married the AJNABI be looked out for too?, did it perhaps had something to do with the fact that, they already knew this person ‘hits the bottle’? If that’s the case, shouldn’t your friend already know what his/her potential partner has been upto?[As earlier said by Zeph?] Loads of horse and sheep manure combined, is what I would say. As my cousin ShaxShaxley would say, ‘What’s fifteen on you’?

^I asked you the extent of the mistake. you brushed me off.

Afro, you like clarification don't you? are one of those people that have to always answer a question with a question? Oh gets off it will ya? It was a simple inquisitive question. You don’t expect me to let you go UN questioned now did you? You said ‘Mistakes’; there are wide ranges of mistakes people make in their life times. Man on the street: Excuse me young man, what time is it? Afromali: what do you mean? eastern, central, mountain or pacific That depends on the mode of communication between the man on the street and me. If the mode of communication was a telephone or the man was on his laptop in a Starbucks café on a street then it will be sensible to ask him. You never clearly said if the man and me were face to face. So technically your example is subject to questions. Be specific dude, and if you want an objective answer to your wide-open question,then youve got to be ready for grilling. You the one who is asking the question. And last time I checked, there was no law prohibiting asking a question with a question, that’s unless you the sheriff of SOL.

Question for the guys: If your friend has met a girl and he likes her, but you know this girl and she has "made mistakes" in the past, Do you tell him? What kinda Mistakes? Some are severe others are relatively simple

^Hello? Perhaps? Just a wild guess Rahima

“Condescending pig†that blames all faults on women and refuses to acknowledge womens’ contribution to the world you know today. Well why don’t you bring forth a list of contributions women made to make this earth more livable? And we will see if the men here will fault women and more importantly, see if they will refuse to acknowledge those contributions. And don’t you dare take me to the biological route. Sue, horta why do you have to bring about ‘Types of Men’ into this topic? The topic is about ‘women to avoid’; you could comment on them, agree/disagree, refute or re affirm on the topic. Veering off to a totally different issue [Men in your case], is not of benefit to the topic.Although I can see where you coming from.

Ofleh dude! Oh for heaven and earth’s sake, stand by your words. Dude, there was no need for you to have retracted the statement you made. Sucking up to the female crowd of this place will get you know where. Partly because according to chief Under Dog, the median age is ‘forty and above’. You come across as a young one. The rest of the crowd is much younger, very much younger. It will have been much more fun, had you just stood your ground, because honestly this business of apologizing is somewhat boring. You also ruined a perfectly good argument in the making. You get an A for effort and F for Flip floping. Khaleido, coof? Sister am going BALD.[Yes i shaved] :cool: Bitter Bitter Bitter. Its sweet-smelling compared to the pungent odour that was emanating from this post all along. But hey, if its any consolation, ur pong doesn’t bother me anymore. Call it immunity That should make the list of memorable quotes.