^Dont you have other plans on Friday?

^Shanlo

Zenobia, what is KBDS? Hopefully its not something I'm supposed to know 'cause I'm 'single'. As for the spineless Faraxs, they are only looking out for their interests. Really, who wouldn't? Whats the motive of the bimbo Xalimos who agree with them? ii sheeg bal. UnderDog, thats what I'm talking about. If one is going to air their insecurities, at least they should mask them as negative attributes.

This thread is missing some REAL caveman contribution. UnderDog, where art thou? I also lost the plot amid the site downtime... but it looks like Zenobia ayaa dadka ku qaboojisey anyway, so no more fireworks! p.s. The Clairvoyance joke = very funny Naden.

Awowgey igu salaan.

LOZ, you sad cow, stop spreading crap like that... it so close to the truth, it hurts! :mad:

Zenobia, feeling lost, are you? Dont want to be entirely snotty and agree with the married woman, yet, dont want to align with the 'singletons'. Difficult place ey? Ghanima, wuu af dheer yahay inyar, I know. But what to do, we must accept our friends with all their shortcomings.

Muufo looks like a Sabaayad to me... but I'm told its softer and fluffier.

One wonders how one gains this inside knowledge of people's minds and feelings?

^LOL. Well, for some people marriage is their biggest achievement, so lets allow them to bask in their glory

Ina Libaax Sankataabte needs to migrate this place to a different server cause this one is C R A P. :mad:

Originally posted by Kool_Kat: I really love how some single women put on this 'I don't care if I ever get married' face...Deep down inside that's what they all want...Jiq markey ku noqoto bay waxeey iska dhaadhacsiiyaan qof wax bartay baan ahay, lacagteyda anaa shaqeysta, garigeyga anaa gatay, yaa nin ubaahan...You can do all that and be married... :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

Dabshid, is that supposed to hurt our feelings and make us enter holy-matrimony with the next faarax we think we can dust-up?

^You really have to stop writing 'looool' in posts. Its very very silly.

D/P

^I would be very happy if you could enlighten me with your version of it

LoL@Jannah... so delusional! There was a time S.Barre believed in unity and Somalihood, no doubt and there was a time Somalia was doing amazing thanks to him. But towards the latter part in his presidentship, he turned into a qabilist tyrant. Thats a fact, live with it!

Inanka carab is moodey, you've some cheek asking NGONGE that Q! Ma inaad dhaanto ayaad is moodey?

Originally posted by Kool_Kat: Once a woman reachs certain age, educated or not, she NEEDS a husband and family life...Been yeeynaan isku sheegin... KK. no1 is contesting that having a loving husband and a great family is what every woman wants. Its how far one should sacrifice self to achieve that state we are debating here.

^Blv it or not, I'm still a few months shy of the 5yr mark. But I can understand why you would feel I've been here for ages - I move fast

Originally posted by NGONGE: ^^ Here stands gabadh finally sharciga ingreeska heshay. Yaan lala hadlin please; qofka waxan qoray iyada maaha, waa farxada sharciga First of all, your Soomaali is very understandable.. so kudos for the improvement! Secondly, sharcigii weli lama hayo. So waxaad ka hadleysid ma garanayo.

Wadankaasi wuu dhintey. Lets bury it.

Originally posted by Zenobia: The Faarax needs to be decent though, mid reerka dhaqi kara , not any old Faarax. And that ladies and gentleman is the crux of the matter. If he cant fulfill his simple role in the ‘union’, muxuu aroos ka soo dooni? Encouraging girls to marry men who don’t bring anything to the table is ludicrous not to mention is the perpetuation of the real problems of our community. There are too many people marrying and reproducing without being able to shoulder the responsibility of a home and family. This is why we have recently been proclaimed as the community that is the maximum burden on social systems in the UK! While having an educated woman in the marriage is a plus, if she has to reproduce, earn and look after the family, that’s just plain silic iyo sakaraad. I wouldn’t do it and I wouldn’t ask anyone to do it. Having a family is not worth all that effort! While a degree or education shouldn’t be the only deciding factor (being able to take on the responsibility of taking care of a family should be), it’s important to acknowledge that education is a means to a good livelihood. It is the most certain (not absolutely certainty) way to earn a decent living. So there should really be no compromise there. Then there is also the small matter of sharing a life with someone who doesn’t value the things you do – learning! p.s. You should take Cara's advice on dismissing those married men in your forums. Maxay meesha ka soo doonayaan anyway? We all know these 'young professional meet-ups' are nothing but a cover for matching young faaraxs and xalimos who are on the same level... not that there is anything wrong with it .

Che, just put all this mystery to rest and sawirkaago na tus. A picture is worth a thousand words as they say. Let that speak for itself.

Not-so-Clever Trevor (...ok.. j/k) Although the cause you're championing is noble, and one should always look internally in the community for prospective partners, reality is that most of these girls do not have the luxury of time to make these boys into men. I know I certainly dont, and altho some would consider me a spring chicken right now , and fresh where career is concerned, I certainly do not envision setting up home with someone who needs to trek through school for another 3-4yrs and then another 2-3yrs to find his footing. Thats a minimum of 5yrs. For a girl who has her life in order, and whose next goal is to get married and have a family, thats too much of a wait, effort and scraffle with an unhealthy dose of risk and uncertainly. I wouldn't be quick to advice anyone to take that route.