So what are some of the compatibility factors that you'll be considering? For example, correct matching of the sex organs for easy mating!

They're protesting at their parents! If they want to put the wrong shoe on the wrong foot, let them do it and experience how uncomfortable it is.

what do you expect from a butt! Ooch! Sorry, it's Ramadan.

Ghanima, you're so right! I read the same story about a year ago through unsolicited email. Those kind of stories are made for the weak-minded. If you want, go and google the story. ANGELS IN THE ALLEY Diane, a young university student, was home for the summer. She had gone to visit some friends one evening and time passed quickly as each shared their various experiences of the past year. She ended up staying longer than planned, and had to walk home alone. She wasn't afraid because it was a small town and she lived only a few blocks away. As she walked along under the tall elm trees, Diane asked "God" to keep her safe from harm and danger. When she reached the alley, which was a short cut to her house, she decided to take it, however, halfway down the alley she noticed a man standing at the end as though he were waiting for her. She became uneasy and began to pray, asking for "God's" protection. Instantly a comforting feeling of quietness and security wrapped around her, she felt as though someone was walking with her. When she reached the end of the alley, she walked right past the man and arrived home safely. The following day, she read in the newspaper that a young girl had been raped in the same alley, just twenty minutes after she had been there. Feeling overwhelmed by this tragedy and the fact that it could have been her, she began to weep. Thanking the Lord for her safety and to help this young woman, she decided to go to the police station. She felt she could recognize the man, so she told them her story. The police asked her if she would be willing to look at a lineup to see if she could identify him. She agreed and immediately pointed out the man she had seen in the alley the night before. When the man was told he had been identified, he immediately broke down and confessed. The officer thanked Diane for her bravery and asked if there was anything they could do for her. She asked if they would ask the man one question. Diane was curious as to why he had not attacked her. When the policeman asked him, he answered, "Because she wasn't alone. She had two tall men walking on either side of her." Don't underestimate the power of Prayer! The Christian Worker is a private web page out of the heart of a Christian worker.

------------------------------------------------ My Dearest Sister De Novo... ------------------------------------------------- lool@De nova is a guy. Apology accepted brother! Peplow, it's my intention to increase my knowledge about my faith. Thanks!

Posted by Bob: Abaayo wax la qar-qariyo ma aqaan and pardon me if I come across as some one who lacks diplomacy as I hate politics and its hypocrisy with passion marka qofka qoray this topic is as confused as the topic itself and what he or she's asking of us is...is it OK for us to pimp our own children under our own watchful supervision... Bob, you've resorted to calling names instead of debating and trying to convince us why such question in this topic is not allowed in Islam. There are many good Muslim families living in the West trying hard to make their families stay intact. Some of those parents have to deal with the freedom that their Western raised kids demand and bending the rules so the kid won't leave the family and go to a foster home. If you let them go, then the probability is that they will go to a non-Muslim family and become raised as such. The point of the topic is not about changing the rules of Islam, but to understand it. If there is specific rule in Islam that clearly prohibits such kind of marriages, then I'm happy to know about it. If there is no such, then opinions of the confused Muslim hardliners won't serve any good to such families.

Ngonge, as a parent, I will bet anything that you will not allow your son or daughter to marry their significant other on a temporary capacity , in the name of shagging.(Dont even try to convince me or anyone else otherwise) I get that you are always defending for the hell of defending(because you like seing yourself in almost every topic), but defending the shia practice inorder to cover your position on this very same topic is just lame, eedo. LazyGirl, you must be itching to be in the ring with NGONGE for mud wrestling! I don't like him either, but for different reasons. For one, he's more articulate and famous than me, and I do not like that. But,serously, read his previous arguments. Unlike me, he's not discussing about 'temporary marriage.' And anyone who has an issue with that must be needing badly to have a special tutoring. Because that argument has been settled long time ago. However, there's a room of discussion in my 'temporary marriage' topic. So, let me hear from you now for what you've to say. And hopefully, NGONGE will later change his mind and join you in the ring for the mud smear!

Dear Naden, we need to care about how our kids feel and behave. Things are not the same here as back home, and there's a lot of sex exposure and promotion here in the west. As a parent, if you've to choose bw having a boyfried for your daughter or being married to him temporarily, which one will you choose? Again, this is not something that every parent will face during raising their kids, however, this idea may solve problems that some parents have here in the West.

It is us, newbies, who make you 'oldies' look cool!

Bravo NGONGE! Please lets not divide Muslims into Shia and Sunnis. I'm tired of that logic. Islam is one, and the best logic in Islam is the one that is based on the Quran and Haddis. My aim of posting this was and still is to see if this logic of temporary marriage does not go against the rules of Islam. Lets keep in mind that rules of Islam is there to solve our everyday problems. And as you can imagine, we have problems with teenage and sex among others. For those of you who fear that unintentional pregnancy would cause kids to dropout of school, there are lots of solutions that work satisfactorily.

Why don't we let our kids to date in their teenage years? What if we let them marry each other, temporarily, with the consent of their parents with a condition that they stay married until they finish high school and sleep together only during the weekends in one of parents' homes. And that they should only do it using a condom. With this, there should be no worry of dropping-out of school because of pregnancy. And after finishing high school, they can upgrade their marriage to a full status or terminate it if they choose to. I believe this will help our kids to date each other legally and reduce to committing a sin!

Now SOL started editing posts and not noting that post has been edited. You should have not cut in the middle of a sentence.

Typical rudy! Don't you get sometimes bored with playing this character all the time? Get in touch with your feminine side!

Faahiye, nothing is wrong SOL but you and the likes. How come you did not even mention all those SOL girls that continue to be the live-line of SOL discussions. Their topics are more interested than yours and your favorite old GUYS you keep boring on us! Keep surfing and don't post anymore until your

Faahiye, nothing is wrong SOL but you and the likes. How come you did not even mention all those SOL girls that continue to be the live-line of SOL discussions. Their topics are more interested than yours and your favorite old GUYS you keep boring on us! Keep surfing and don't post anymore until you learn to

I only see here older men and ladies commenting. Where are the young boys. I need to hear from them? Legend Zu, If I hadn't walked the walk, I wouldn't have declared my love and appreciation for them in public. So, don't try to scare me off. And share with us your real true feeling about them. By the way, still there'll be more left for you, so don't get scared, saaxiib!

Now to all 24 year old ladies(rudy cybertalk), I say take it easy. I do prefer the older women! Now many of you are gonna say, so what? I like mature women because they are selfless and are happy to share their experiences and all the other good stuff with pleasure. They offer credit with no limit on it. Come on fire, she is ready to distinguish it and does not complain. Committ a minor mistake, she will correct it with love. Forget that promise, she will say 'this is not a problem.' The thirty and plus years know how to treat us fairly and make us perfect! To SOLER men, which one do you prefer, younger or older ones?

To all Londoners, what other problems other than transportation and lack of understanding between your men and women that you would like to share with the rest of us? Of course, many of us on the other side of the world would like to learn from you how you continue to handle this and other problems. Please note that no place is perfect, but I would love to know about the other problems such as the problems of plumbing (hot & cold water coming from different vaucets) and heating (honey, do you've a change to feed the meter!) ps. NGONGE (and Londoners) I'm not trying to change the topic, but if you need to take a jab at me just try not to throw a hook and combinations to finish me off!

I do prefer older ones. If she is less than thirty, then she is not gonna be my teammate. Older ladies offer much less noice and share more of their stuff!

Scientists previosly thought that human's genetic codes are 99.9 percent identical. However, a new sequence released today estimates the difference may be up to 1.0 percent. This new study differs from the 2001 human genome project because the DNA was first seperated into maternal and paternal segments before analyzes. This is also important because the analysis will tell you which of your parents, mom or dad, to blame for your frequent illnesses or diseases that you may have. Mom's Genes or Dad's? Map Can Tell.

Dear Naomi_B, you come across to me as a confused lady who is unable to decide by herself. You seem someone who wants to settle down soon but is unable to choose whom she wants to marry without the approval of her friends. This is typically true for teenagers who struggle with lack of self-confidence. Remember that you already stated that you want to settle down soon. Lately me and my friends have given up! we are waving that white flag and have surrendered to being single 4 life.. But soon afterwards, your own words reveal that you have an issue that you need to address. I will NEVER EVER allow myself to get 2 know a guy even 5 months older than me let alone one younger than me! I am sure you're a good lady, but you should first examine yourself and stop being dependent on others. Soon, you'll find the reward! Insha Allah.

JB, it's very sad brother! It is really painful to hear that some of our children's lives are getting shortened as the result of such horrible crimes. There should be a law in our land that restrict parents to use primary school-age children as their laborers since most of those violent murderers are nowadays targetting those children.

I do believe that evolution exists. If you believe that the existance of human beings started with Adam and Eve, then you have to appreciate the small changes and slow process of human evolution that has been taking place for the last millions of years. People who live nowadays do not have the same phenotype such as the skin color or the texture of their hair or skin. Even their DNAs differ though slightly. Compare this to small organism's evolution such as bacteria. In the research labs, scientists are able to see how changes in DNA enables some species of bacteria to acquire traits after change in its DNA that suits them to survive in harsh environment or gives them an edge in live. This can happen within few hours in a petri dish. So, what's evolution? It's nothing more than than a change in organism's DNA during successive generations. Therefore, evolution exists, but that humans came from, for example, an ape does not hold water. Though humans and apes only differ in about one percent of their DNA (humans and corn plant differ only less than forthy percent of their DNA's)means to me this is due to a common designer, which is Allah. He made things similar to prove to us that there is one creator.

You can fall in love with someone and think you're made for each other, but that is not a real love. It takes years, may be, four years to feel a real love, if you're lucky, with your mate. So, unless you fill her tank or his tank as someone puts it, again and again, you would'nt know if your's the 'real one'. If lucky, that is when you can call each other as 'soul mates'. My advice to ladies, keep filling him until your fourth aniversary. That's when you can sit back and reevaluate your relationship.

He does not have much support in UDUB party. But if he does that and fails to get support, is he going to join Kulmiye as Dr. Abdi Aw-Dahir has done years back?