First of all dear, Just cuz your married, doesn't mean your mother might rest in peace, its for allah to decide. Having said that. This is what you need to do. You want the ni99a back, you love him, he loves you, you know how it goes. Put your femininity to use. Seduce the nigga. You know how the game is played. Drop by victoria secret, treat your self with whatever is there. Drop by his house, in a rain coat . YOu have watched too many moves to know whats going to happen next..... If that doesn't work, than be honest with the nigga. Tell him how you feel. If he really loves you and adore's you, he will accept you with open arms, if he doesn't, than shouldn't it be up to you to move on and get on with life. You can make your mother happy, by being happy yourself. ciao :cool:

First of all dear, Just cuz your married, doesn't mean your mother might rest in peace, its for allah to decide. Having said that. This is what you need to do. You want the ni99a back, you love him, he loves you, you know how it goes. Put your femininity to use. Seduce the nigga. You know how the game is played. Drop by victoria secret, treat your self with whatever is there. Drop by his house, in a rain coat . YOu have watched too many moves to know whats going to happen next..... If that doesn't work, than be honest with the nigga. Tell him how you feel. If he really loves you and adore's you, he will accept you with open arms, if he doesn't, than shouldn't it be up to you to move on and get on with life. You can make your mother happy, by being happy yourself. ciao :cool:

First of all dear, Just cuz your married, doesn't mean your mother might rest in peace, its for allah to decide. Having said that. This is what you need to do. You want the ni99a back, you love him, he loves you, you know how it goes. Put your femininity to use. Seduce the nigga. You know how the game is played. Drop by victoria secret, treat your self with whatever is there. Drop by his house, in a rain coat . YOu have watched too many moves to know whats going to happen next..... If that doesn't work, than be honest with the nigga. Tell him how you feel. If he really loves you and adore's you, he will accept you with open arms, if he doesn't, than shouldn't it be up to you to move on and get on with life. You can make your mother happy, by being happy yourself. ciao :cool:

First of all dear, Just cuz your married, doesn't mean your mother might rest in peace, its for allah to decide. Having said that. This is what you need to do. You want the ni99a back, you love him, he loves you, you know how it goes. Put your femininity to use. Seduce the nigga. You know how the game is played. Drop by victoria secret, treat your self with whatever is there. Drop by his house, in a rain coat . YOu have watched too many moves to know whats going to happen next..... If that doesn't work, than be honest with the nigga. Tell him how you feel. If he really loves you and adore's you, he will accept you with open arms, if he doesn't, than shouldn't it be up to you to move on and get on with life. You can make your mother happy, by being happy yourself. ciao :cool:

Like MN'fynezt stated, good lookin out suga. Being said that. Let me tell you somthin. You know all these lil "players" you see running around, Poppin them collerz, talkin this and that, Its not happening. Masakeen wish they knew how to play the game. But they got their game all twisted. Its weak. Ni99a's need to learn the game, before they gear up and try to play in the big field. Its like this... Men: 1) When you try to play some chicken head, plzz, oh plzz, don't try to play her with her friend, or neighbor, or someone she knows, thats just being stupid 2) Don't brag to your bois, about how you hit it, cuz the more you brag, the less your gettin it. 3) Don't give out your home number to other girls, thats just settin your self up. 4) Buy her a pager or a cell phone, so that way you can keep tabs on her. She might think she got you on locked down, but actually its you who is doin the lockin. 5) Whatever you do, don't lie bout nuttin you didn't do. Cuz sooner or later its going to blow up on your face. 6) When your trying to get your freak on...NIgga don't do it at your place, your car, or anything that belongs to you, where your girl has access to. TAke it to the other girl's house. 7) Don't let the other girls, know bout your girl, or each other. Ladies.. When a ni99a talks shit in front of his bois, you should know he is a talker not a walker, so you better get to walkin. When your tryin to play a ni99a, whatever you do, don't let anyone know about it, cuz thats just going to label you as a hoe. keep your game underwraps. Don't be a gold digga to begin with...don't use the poor guy for his credit card..be independant..buy your own damn things.. Now a days its the girls who are poppin them collerz, well ....well ladies, pop on... ciao

Like MN'fynezt stated, good lookin out suga. Being said that. Let me tell you somthin. You know all these lil "players" you see running around, Poppin them collerz, talkin this and that, Its not happening. Masakeen wish they knew how to play the game. But they got their game all twisted. Its weak. Ni99a's need to learn the game, before they gear up and try to play in the big field. Its like this... Men: 1) When you try to play some chicken head, plzz, oh plzz, don't try to play her with her friend, or neighbor, or someone she knows, thats just being stupid 2) Don't brag to your bois, about how you hit it, cuz the more you brag, the less your gettin it. 3) Don't give out your home number to other girls, thats just settin your self up. 4) Buy her a pager or a cell phone, so that way you can keep tabs on her. She might think she got you on locked down, but actually its you who is doin the lockin. 5) Whatever you do, don't lie bout nuttin you didn't do. Cuz sooner or later its going to blow up on your face. 6) When your trying to get your freak on...NIgga don't do it at your place, your car, or anything that belongs to you, where your girl has access to. TAke it to the other girl's house. 7) Don't let the other girls, know bout your girl, or each other. Ladies.. When a ni99a talks shit in front of his bois, you should know he is a talker not a walker, so you better get to walkin. When your tryin to play a ni99a, whatever you do, don't let anyone know about it, cuz thats just going to label you as a hoe. keep your game underwraps. Don't be a gold digga to begin with...don't use the poor guy for his credit card..be independant..buy your own damn things.. Now a days its the girls who are poppin them collerz, well ....well ladies, pop on... ciao

Like MN'fynezt stated, good lookin out suga. Being said that. Let me tell you somthin. You know all these lil "players" you see running around, Poppin them collerz, talkin this and that, Its not happening. Masakeen wish they knew how to play the game. But they got their game all twisted. Its weak. Ni99a's need to learn the game, before they gear up and try to play in the big field. Its like this... Men: 1) When you try to play some chicken head, plzz, oh plzz, don't try to play her with her friend, or neighbor, or someone she knows, thats just being stupid 2) Don't brag to your bois, about how you hit it, cuz the more you brag, the less your gettin it. 3) Don't give out your home number to other girls, thats just settin your self up. 4) Buy her a pager or a cell phone, so that way you can keep tabs on her. She might think she got you on locked down, but actually its you who is doin the lockin. 5) Whatever you do, don't lie bout nuttin you didn't do. Cuz sooner or later its going to blow up on your face. 6) When your trying to get your freak on...NIgga don't do it at your place, your car, or anything that belongs to you, where your girl has access to. TAke it to the other girl's house. 7) Don't let the other girls, know bout your girl, or each other. Ladies.. When a ni99a talks shit in front of his bois, you should know he is a talker not a walker, so you better get to walkin. When your tryin to play a ni99a, whatever you do, don't let anyone know about it, cuz thats just going to label you as a hoe. keep your game underwraps. Don't be a gold digga to begin with...don't use the poor guy for his credit card..be independant..buy your own damn things.. Now a days its the girls who are poppin them collerz, well ....well ladies, pop on... ciao

Like MN'fynezt stated, good lookin out suga. Being said that. Let me tell you somthin. You know all these lil "players" you see running around, Poppin them collerz, talkin this and that, Its not happening. Masakeen wish they knew how to play the game. But they got their game all twisted. Its weak. Ni99a's need to learn the game, before they gear up and try to play in the big field. Its like this... Men: 1) When you try to play some chicken head, plzz, oh plzz, don't try to play her with her friend, or neighbor, or someone she knows, thats just being stupid 2) Don't brag to your bois, about how you hit it, cuz the more you brag, the less your gettin it. 3) Don't give out your home number to other girls, thats just settin your self up. 4) Buy her a pager or a cell phone, so that way you can keep tabs on her. She might think she got you on locked down, but actually its you who is doin the lockin. 5) Whatever you do, don't lie bout nuttin you didn't do. Cuz sooner or later its going to blow up on your face. 6) When your trying to get your freak on...NIgga don't do it at your place, your car, or anything that belongs to you, where your girl has access to. TAke it to the other girl's house. 7) Don't let the other girls, know bout your girl, or each other. Ladies.. When a ni99a talks shit in front of his bois, you should know he is a talker not a walker, so you better get to walkin. When your tryin to play a ni99a, whatever you do, don't let anyone know about it, cuz thats just going to label you as a hoe. keep your game underwraps. Don't be a gold digga to begin with...don't use the poor guy for his credit card..be independant..buy your own damn things.. Now a days its the girls who are poppin them collerz, well ....well ladies, pop on... ciao

Well I'm not going to disrespect you and say you dress like a whore and your a skank, and your a b*tch, and you lower your self to others expectations..I wont say that, cuz you might or might not be, Its not my place to judge you. However I'll tell you this, the reason ni99a's do that is cuz maybe they see you as an easy target. I aint never had a nigga who disrespected me..never, whether they are hollerin, or just passing by. Thats all due to the way I carry myself. If I acted like a classless wench on da corner, than they would have treated me with the foulest disrespect that you can think of. However I carry myself like a classy $1 billion doller princess, and thats how i'm treated. Ever heard of this expression. ( My somali sucks, so bare with me) " ree walbaa mashaay is digto ayaa luku qaali" meaning that everyone will treat you the way you act or appear. I bet its not ALL da brotha's who do that. Its just the classless flight 13's who don't know anything bout how a woman should be treated. If its all da brotha's you came against, than damn girl, what have you been doing?? :eek: I'm just kidding. Hoped I helped..... ciao

Well I'm not going to disrespect you and say you dress like a whore and your a skank, and your a b*tch, and you lower your self to others expectations..I wont say that, cuz you might or might not be, Its not my place to judge you. However I'll tell you this, the reason ni99a's do that is cuz maybe they see you as an easy target. I aint never had a nigga who disrespected me..never, whether they are hollerin, or just passing by. Thats all due to the way I carry myself. If I acted like a classless wench on da corner, than they would have treated me with the foulest disrespect that you can think of. However I carry myself like a classy $1 billion doller princess, and thats how i'm treated. Ever heard of this expression. ( My somali sucks, so bare with me) " ree walbaa mashaay is digto ayaa luku qaali" meaning that everyone will treat you the way you act or appear. I bet its not ALL da brotha's who do that. Its just the classless flight 13's who don't know anything bout how a woman should be treated. If its all da brotha's you came against, than damn girl, what have you been doing?? :eek: I'm just kidding. Hoped I helped..... ciao

Well I'm not going to disrespect you and say you dress like a whore and your a skank, and your a b*tch, and you lower your self to others expectations..I wont say that, cuz you might or might not be, Its not my place to judge you. However I'll tell you this, the reason ni99a's do that is cuz maybe they see you as an easy target. I aint never had a nigga who disrespected me..never, whether they are hollerin, or just passing by. Thats all due to the way I carry myself. If I acted like a classless wench on da corner, than they would have treated me with the foulest disrespect that you can think of. However I carry myself like a classy $1 billion doller princess, and thats how i'm treated. Ever heard of this expression. ( My somali sucks, so bare with me) " ree walbaa mashaay is digto ayaa luku qaali" meaning that everyone will treat you the way you act or appear. I bet its not ALL da brotha's who do that. Its just the classless flight 13's who don't know anything bout how a woman should be treated. If its all da brotha's you came against, than damn girl, what have you been doing?? :eek: I'm just kidding. Hoped I helped..... ciao

Thats sweet mohammed, but your a bit conceited. Lool its all good though, never hurts to have a bit of self esteem. Barlin you nailed it. However you forget to include the following... 1) you forgive his ass, you make him believe that your over it, after a while, you get back on his ass, by playin him with either his best friend in the whole world, or his brother, ( who ever he admire's), than you ask him "How you like me now?" 2)seize to acknowledge his presence, ignore him, take it as if he was nuttin much to you but a credit card. Make him believe that, by doing whatever is necessary. 3)tell him its okay that y'll are just friends, make him believe that you weren't hurt by what he did. So that way he things you didn't care for his cheatin lieing, decieving ass.. 4) Or you can just leave the nigga be, and stuff your self with ice cream, and listen to my baby avant playin in the back ground..... I like #1 and 2....It goes straight to their hearts...in another words, it hurts them like hell... ayy thats about it... peace.. ciao...

Thats sweet mohammed, but your a bit conceited. Lool its all good though, never hurts to have a bit of self esteem. Barlin you nailed it. However you forget to include the following... 1) you forgive his ass, you make him believe that your over it, after a while, you get back on his ass, by playin him with either his best friend in the whole world, or his brother, ( who ever he admire's), than you ask him "How you like me now?" 2)seize to acknowledge his presence, ignore him, take it as if he was nuttin much to you but a credit card. Make him believe that, by doing whatever is necessary. 3)tell him its okay that y'll are just friends, make him believe that you weren't hurt by what he did. So that way he things you didn't care for his cheatin lieing, decieving ass.. 4) Or you can just leave the nigga be, and stuff your self with ice cream, and listen to my baby avant playin in the back ground..... I like #1 and 2....It goes straight to their hearts...in another words, it hurts them like hell... ayy thats about it... peace.. ciao...

Thats sweet mohammed, but your a bit conceited. Lool its all good though, never hurts to have a bit of self esteem. Barlin you nailed it. However you forget to include the following... 1) you forgive his ass, you make him believe that your over it, after a while, you get back on his ass, by playin him with either his best friend in the whole world, or his brother, ( who ever he admire's), than you ask him "How you like me now?" 2)seize to acknowledge his presence, ignore him, take it as if he was nuttin much to you but a credit card. Make him believe that, by doing whatever is necessary. 3)tell him its okay that y'll are just friends, make him believe that you weren't hurt by what he did. So that way he things you didn't care for his cheatin lieing, decieving ass.. 4) Or you can just leave the nigga be, and stuff your self with ice cream, and listen to my baby avant playin in the back ground..... I like #1 and 2....It goes straight to their hearts...in another words, it hurts them like hell... ayy thats about it... peace.. ciao...

Thats sweet mohammed, but your a bit conceited. Lool its all good though, never hurts to have a bit of self esteem. Barlin you nailed it. However you forget to include the following... 1) you forgive his ass, you make him believe that your over it, after a while, you get back on his ass, by playin him with either his best friend in the whole world, or his brother, ( who ever he admire's), than you ask him "How you like me now?" 2)seize to acknowledge his presence, ignore him, take it as if he was nuttin much to you but a credit card. Make him believe that, by doing whatever is necessary. 3)tell him its okay that y'll are just friends, make him believe that you weren't hurt by what he did. So that way he things you didn't care for his cheatin lieing, decieving ass.. 4) Or you can just leave the nigga be, and stuff your self with ice cream, and listen to my baby avant playin in the back ground..... I like #1 and 2....It goes straight to their hearts...in another words, it hurts them like hell... ayy thats about it... peace.. ciao...

Dear Macanto (fear allah) The reason they are doing this, is cuz you are too damn sweet. Maybe you shouldn't trust so easily. C'mon on now, you know how some ni99a's are, they drive on vulnerability. Its human nature, to take advantage of the sweet, kind sensitive type. So You need to be lil bit harder. I know you already stated that you are fearful of allah, and you dont want to do harm to anyone. I understand, I'm very fearful of allah, but there is no way in hell I'm a take shit from a ni99a, any brothah. I'm a treat them the way I'm being treated, whether its good or bad. So you need to do the same. Be a B*tch to them, if you have to. Play the same game they're playing. Nuttin more, nuttin less. When they see you are a sistah who isn't going to take sh*t from anybody, than I'll gurantee they will treat you differently. However if you are sweet to them, honest, bla bla bla, and they are treating you shit, than move the fu*ck on. There are alot of fishe's swimming around sea. Its their lost, if you move on, not yours. So stay sweet, religious, honest, and remember it doesn't hurt to be a b*tch once in a while. ciao

Dear Macanto (fear allah) The reason they are doing this, is cuz you are too damn sweet. Maybe you shouldn't trust so easily. C'mon on now, you know how some ni99a's are, they drive on vulnerability. Its human nature, to take advantage of the sweet, kind sensitive type. So You need to be lil bit harder. I know you already stated that you are fearful of allah, and you dont want to do harm to anyone. I understand, I'm very fearful of allah, but there is no way in hell I'm a take shit from a ni99a, any brothah. I'm a treat them the way I'm being treated, whether its good or bad. So you need to do the same. Be a B*tch to them, if you have to. Play the same game they're playing. Nuttin more, nuttin less. When they see you are a sistah who isn't going to take sh*t from anybody, than I'll gurantee they will treat you differently. However if you are sweet to them, honest, bla bla bla, and they are treating you shit, than move the fu*ck on. There are alot of fishe's swimming around sea. Its their lost, if you move on, not yours. So stay sweet, religious, honest, and remember it doesn't hurt to be a b*tch once in a while. ciao

Dear Macanto (fear allah) The reason they are doing this, is cuz you are too damn sweet. Maybe you shouldn't trust so easily. C'mon on now, you know how some ni99a's are, they drive on vulnerability. Its human nature, to take advantage of the sweet, kind sensitive type. So You need to be lil bit harder. I know you already stated that you are fearful of allah, and you dont want to do harm to anyone. I understand, I'm very fearful of allah, but there is no way in hell I'm a take shit from a ni99a, any brothah. I'm a treat them the way I'm being treated, whether its good or bad. So you need to do the same. Be a B*tch to them, if you have to. Play the same game they're playing. Nuttin more, nuttin less. When they see you are a sistah who isn't going to take sh*t from anybody, than I'll gurantee they will treat you differently. However if you are sweet to them, honest, bla bla bla, and they are treating you shit, than move the fu*ck on. There are alot of fishe's swimming around sea. Its their lost, if you move on, not yours. So stay sweet, religious, honest, and remember it doesn't hurt to be a b*tch once in a while. ciao

I can't say, cuz I aint never tried it. I don't think I'll ever do either. Shit thats very dangerous and weird. Shit who knows you might be making plans to date your long lost uncle from baria who is an ex con rapist. You never know, so I play it save. If I were ever to be intrested in someone over da net ( which will never happen) than who knows, I'll ask them to meet me somewhere, descripe an atire that I know one of my friends will wear, and when he shows up for the date, (thinking i'm my friend) I'm a ask my friend to go with him. Presuade her. when she agrees i'm ask her how it went? how he is? and shit, if it works out for the better. That he is a good guy. Honest. Sweet. bla bla.. than i'm a snatch him away....lool... Okay I wouldn't actually do that, but I wouldn't meet him either. I guess its a lost cost. There is no way in hell I'm a go with some one I don't even know, regardless of how much I cyper digg him. Shit I love my life too damn much. Besides I have enuff problems dealing with the actual non cyper nigga's, I don't need this on my plate either. Its full enuff. ciao so there you have it folks...

I can't say, cuz I aint never tried it. I don't think I'll ever do either. Shit thats very dangerous and weird. Shit who knows you might be making plans to date your long lost uncle from baria who is an ex con rapist. You never know, so I play it save. If I were ever to be intrested in someone over da net ( which will never happen) than who knows, I'll ask them to meet me somewhere, descripe an atire that I know one of my friends will wear, and when he shows up for the date, (thinking i'm my friend) I'm a ask my friend to go with him. Presuade her. when she agrees i'm ask her how it went? how he is? and shit, if it works out for the better. That he is a good guy. Honest. Sweet. bla bla.. than i'm a snatch him away....lool... Okay I wouldn't actually do that, but I wouldn't meet him either. I guess its a lost cost. There is no way in hell I'm a go with some one I don't even know, regardless of how much I cyper digg him. Shit I love my life too damn much. Besides I have enuff problems dealing with the actual non cyper nigga's, I don't need this on my plate either. Its full enuff. ciao so there you have it folks...

I can't say, cuz I aint never tried it. I don't think I'll ever do either. Shit thats very dangerous and weird. Shit who knows you might be making plans to date your long lost uncle from baria who is an ex con rapist. You never know, so I play it save. If I were ever to be intrested in someone over da net ( which will never happen) than who knows, I'll ask them to meet me somewhere, descripe an atire that I know one of my friends will wear, and when he shows up for the date, (thinking i'm my friend) I'm a ask my friend to go with him. Presuade her. when she agrees i'm ask her how it went? how he is? and shit, if it works out for the better. That he is a good guy. Honest. Sweet. bla bla.. than i'm a snatch him away....lool... Okay I wouldn't actually do that, but I wouldn't meet him either. I guess its a lost cost. There is no way in hell I'm a go with some one I don't even know, regardless of how much I cyper digg him. Shit I love my life too damn much. Besides I have enuff problems dealing with the actual non cyper nigga's, I don't need this on my plate either. Its full enuff. ciao so there you have it folks...

I can't say, cuz I aint never tried it. I don't think I'll ever do either. Shit thats very dangerous and weird. Shit who knows you might be making plans to date your long lost uncle from baria who is an ex con rapist. You never know, so I play it save. If I were ever to be intrested in someone over da net ( which will never happen) than who knows, I'll ask them to meet me somewhere, descripe an atire that I know one of my friends will wear, and when he shows up for the date, (thinking i'm my friend) I'm a ask my friend to go with him. Presuade her. when she agrees i'm ask her how it went? how he is? and shit, if it works out for the better. That he is a good guy. Honest. Sweet. bla bla.. than i'm a snatch him away....lool... Okay I wouldn't actually do that, but I wouldn't meet him either. I guess its a lost cost. There is no way in hell I'm a go with some one I don't even know, regardless of how much I cyper digg him. Shit I love my life too damn much. Besides I have enuff problems dealing with the actual non cyper nigga's, I don't need this on my plate either. Its full enuff. ciao so there you have it folks...

yea I need an advice. Hope you can help. Ya see, I just discovered My man of 8 years have been cheating on me with my best friend of 2 years. I discovered them couple of days ago, in my room, in my BED. That son of a *****. How dare they. So I did what every sane woman of 19 would. I marched up to them, I stood beside the bed, and said " what about me, when I'm i going to join" so stripped down and I joined them.... lool..I'm kidding... I figured since you weren't gettin any requests, I might make up one, somthin you can work with. So just play along. What do you think I should do??? ..plzzz help me undestand this...bla bla, you know how it goes... ciao

yea I need an advice. Hope you can help. Ya see, I just discovered My man of 8 years have been cheating on me with my best friend of 2 years. I discovered them couple of days ago, in my room, in my BED. That son of a *****. How dare they. So I did what every sane woman of 19 would. I marched up to them, I stood beside the bed, and said " what about me, when I'm i going to join" so stripped down and I joined them.... lool..I'm kidding... I figured since you weren't gettin any requests, I might make up one, somthin you can work with. So just play along. What do you think I should do??? ..plzzz help me undestand this...bla bla, you know how it goes... ciao

yea I need an advice. Hope you can help. Ya see, I just discovered My man of 8 years have been cheating on me with my best friend of 2 years. I discovered them couple of days ago, in my room, in my BED. That son of a *****. How dare they. So I did what every sane woman of 19 would. I marched up to them, I stood beside the bed, and said " what about me, when I'm i going to join" so stripped down and I joined them.... lool..I'm kidding... I figured since you weren't gettin any requests, I might make up one, somthin you can work with. So just play along. What do you think I should do??? ..plzzz help me undestand this...bla bla, you know how it goes... ciao