lol that was a good one. Turn out to be chinese women are Gold diggers but what about the somali sisters..*LOOL* The Real sistas: First date: Nice fanzy dinner. She finds out whether he is sexy, caring and understanding. Second date: Goes home and does her home work searching who he really is! Third date: He meets her bestfriend..still not sure but she smiles anyway Fourth date: that's when things either go well or the sister changes her mind about the brother.................COS MEN LIE ALOT

To be honest i prefer him to be virgin in that case we both feel confortable... I don't think a virgin brothers exist nowdays..

x_quizit great topic gurl.. Well personally speaking i love kids and I rather keep both 2gether..as usuall society is always regarding women who choose their careers over kids selfishness but AS AMEENAH SAID who says we can't have both... We can always have maternity leave which is growing pretty well..

looool damn

You guys are probably like what da..this funky^sista is over taking the forum *LOL* According to our religion it's allowed men 2 marry 4 wives right...that's if he could provide them n'equally treat them same way...But men do it regadless.... The question is would ya still stay with him? Can you stand another women sharing your husband?..LOL

X_quizit Go gurl, the bother obvoiusly needs to touch his feminen side.*LOL* OG_moti walee adaa ubahan wax bur iyo basbas kuladhaca..lol Ofcourse our mothers are happy cos they have great men who knows what women is all about unlike what our generation have to deal with nowdays..lool.people like you og_moti make women to be NUNS..LOL Adios

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Loool@x_quizit damn gurl you are funny. Sure there will always be Dumb& dumber the perfect couple.LOL..shaqsii as you got told you can't run.. try to come down a little cos this tiger of yours woun't protect ya... It's funny how always men critisis women and expected to leave easy Not anymore X_quizit we should repect elders cos shaqsii wants somebody to help cross the road..LOL

My GOD you guys have no idea how much i hate them, it's sickness to even talk about it..when i ask the brother why? he answered I don't understand WOMEN..LOL what a pathetic excuse...the question is how can we prevent? It's funny how they get up in the morning and say MY gosh i found it that i'm gay today and i was suppose to be one..lol that's what i call twisted wires..

Miss L ameenah is right...you should think about it what you getting into and it's you life so if you think it's good idea well, go for it I my self have been trying to get into n' where ever i go people assume i'm a model and when Searching for Super model came to australia i took a part of it (Ford modelling agency) at the same time i was so worried about what my parents would think but it was something that i always wanted to do so i went for it... After i passed few stages the worried increased and i became the top 60 and the result was they were after Blond chicks with blue eyes.LOL so i though damn that was a sighn.... It's huge thing and i should advice you think about it...........there different models like face modeling or hand modelling so i'm sure they will make you to wear swim suit modelling damn that's when alot of eye browes will raise..LOL so think about it if you really want it....go for it, it's worth trying sis Adios

The question is Do we have Gay somalians? or have you guys ever seen one? (somali) You guys probably wondering why i ask this but I met a somali brother who is a actually a gay...Subhana Laah....it's amezing how shit is happening beyond believe.nowdays......LOL

x_quizit isn't that so typical..running after him i didn't see anybody chazing ya shaqsii and talk about taking personal nobody is..is that how you define expressing your thought....hmmmm gee nowonder you complain alot..*LOL* X_quizit gurl he probably needs some TLC AS I SAID...*LOL* As Soul_lady mensioned you can't Hit and run you didn't expected from us to let ya go easily aight...perhabs we might let you leave easy is you shake Shaqsii don't you know we are your mother, sister, granny and your child cares...if it wasn't for women u would be been childmelestered...see where women stand even though kids like you are let go and became anti-women.. try to be cevil aight Adios

OG_MOTI LOOOL @ other nations..man is that another threat to slow down the sisters..MAN sudanes aight to be honest each nation will lead you into another culture that will freak you out....I reckon you should remain with the sisters and show some LOVE.as far i can see we fair enough..but there are little things i agree for a change but not all.. I can see the percentage is still remaining the same, well the thing is we ain't taking any sides what we spoke of is the truth and nothing but the truth...so speaking of hard headed, we are not the only ones..to be fair you gotta lose that 80% and say maybe 50%. We feel for the brothers who are taxi drivers and it's part of work what they are dealing with and it ain't shame but what about young men who can benefit from the sysytem and go to school....that was what we were indicating at if u misunderstood.. Ofcourse women don't wanna go back to a country that is not stable and God knows how long somalian would except to 4get about clans and shit like that....c'on OG_moti would you go back today and stay a place that u worried about who is gonna attack you..that needs another major debate.....

looool@Jonh Howard Buubto i feel ya gurl what's happening here is way beyond believe. Indeed we are all corrupted gurl and whatever happen to the Youth in australia?that needs another topic hey....

x_quizit that was a good one i was about to label him as he mensioned alot about labelling,feminism,protestors..etc Don't ask me to read all over again cos i can't be bothered reading that crap again..lol n' it's obvoius shaqsii needs some TLC U know what i mean. "]http://www.somaliaonline.com/ubb/cwmsmilies/cwm2.gif[/img] People often talk about "great men" but less often about great women. Yet such women certainly have existed all over the world...we have heroines of myths, legends, mothers who live in our hearts and minds. Mistresses, madwomen and wise women, angels and demons...take your pick shaqsii or u wanna me to release the DEMON TO SHOW YA AROUND where the great women are located @..lool Adios

OG_MOTI yOU SHOULD LISTEN WHAT COMMANSENSE JUST SAID AIGHT Soul_lady that was even better.. oG_MOTI i hate to pick on ya man but you still need somebody to striaght you up.*LOL* That theory of yours should be change to 80% of our beloved men have long way to go so changes will be something should be done as soon as possible cos we running out of patience... The solution would be if only men should listen what the nomad sisters have to say about their needs there might be a hope for reconciliation... Believe it or not the majority of women are staying in a marriage that has no meaning and they hate to be devorsed cos that will ruin their degnity kind of i guess cos they both frequatly fighting and where do children stand at that point ofcourse little mini him or which ever way u wanna put it..>>sons will grow up to be like their father cos they always look up to their old man.. Caano geel is what ruins the romantic mood..*LOL* what about orange juice. Lets not concentrate the wrong part of the story there are certain things men should be men about it and things that women take the role so by simply sharing things and if ur women feels bad about you always paying her stuff would it kill ya if u divide things up..i guess it's fair and it will be win win situation... Another important point to keep in mind...we do, infact, have choices and control over our responses often remains much more within our control than we realize at the time Mainly women don't call the shots when it comes devorse right it's always the brother can't take it or either the sister puts up alot of crap and there that issue raises once more WOMEN ARE USING THE WESTEARN SYSTEM....the more awarness we have of the exsisting alternatives, the more likely our ability to consider the situation in its proper perspective before we take action.. Ofcourse women had to adjust another system but stll have theirs as well forexample the sister is watching this romantic film where the husband is saying alot of sweet things about his lady where she craps the tissue near by and snores couple of times..lol and she wishes if her dude was the same.. so there the nomad brother gets home rushing from the cafe and going WHAT DA? HAVEN'T YOU COOKED..AS USUALL WE ARE THE CHEFS..LOL and she goes KANLEE AN NACAY DAMN..Probably that's where the whole thing starts aight...Is that where da brotha says DAMN this west if i only was in somalia i would of torture her..lool I hate to be the mean one n' the one leaves a book here but the truth should be unleashed...*LOL*

Damn i'm the last to post here 2 oh

Well said Buubto i couldn't have said any better. It's heart breaking when you see our somalian Australian men are all parked their asses in somali cafe's and all they chit chatting about is politics and how they will role somalia in the meanwhile their children need to be picked up from the child care or school....Nomad Australian Men need life strategiest..*LOL*

OG_MOTI I understood what you meant but what i was indicating at was how some men can't handle the fact that women want some changes..lol I don't think any sista would let a good man pass her by and not every women would use her powers unless she lost her mind...as ameenah said women are not the only one have changed...

BARWAAQO I'm sure they quite romantic but those are the only ones grow up in western world right.some of them don't even know what's the difference between "love" and "like" it's funny when they met ya first time and they say i love ya..lool ok now u scaring me aight..*LOL* The truth is they know how to express their feelings in writing but i doubt it on face to face they chicken out abdinuur that was a great..it changed my mind about somali men...lol I'm not saying they ain't all bad but few require training

Generosity is my way of living i hate people who r fake and selfish... i guess that word will make you to be all of the above......... Text

Well said Dirac_N_Timz, it's a question we all seeking so y'all men out there try to simplify this matter n' stop hiding behind Bushes.. Behind every successful man there is a strong WOMAN

As usuall i'm coming late in each topic WHAT DA...it ain't fare i was busy with school LOOL@just me He wants to grap women's attention

Ameenah i am sure there are few hitten somewhere but majority they are on denial about it..LOL sorry to spoil it for ya but that's what i thought

You are right divorce increased among somalians, you know the reason why..men ain't secure enough to let go and accept women are self relaible and the fact that women are educating themselves which few women used to back in somalia....now things went ballistic cos men want women who stay at home and looking after children regadless what her oponion is...hello!! Brotha believe it or not this is called everybody is entitled to have an opinion cos women want to be part of the world as much as men want and nobody lives on island anymore....the other thing is that i want to specify most of somali men love to torture their women i don't get it whether it's some kind of peer pressure or something*LOL* but this has to stop peroid.....no wonder why men feel they lost their degnity..brothe it ain't shame if women takes her part of her role.......i think it's fair enough if the husband can't get a job and his wife does atleast ur woman is taking care of ya....i know for sure men want to boss around and act like ladies are nothing but a chef.lol It's funny what we call tradition...cos i don't see anything is wrong if a woman stands for her right...i am probably leading you to the wrong direction but i guess somali brothers fear that women are now well educated and they have this theory of you will live under her shadow...about timei say cos even today in australia there are so many sisters live under domestic voilence.... i hope this answers your question. adios