Choco...Why not??? I'mean u could outgrow out of how he looks after a while later, i think that's what the Classique means' when she say's 'brains'...by the way how do u judge someone and consider them ugly? Do u clarify by whether they r short? fat?skinny? or their skin complexions????.....i thought everyone looks good in their own individual ways.....

lol^^^^Da, ya there was a similar one that was bein' discussed maybe a weeks ago or somethin'...lol except Bombasa_Q likes to bring the old' one's back....just for Old' times Sake...

Originally posted by silent-sistah: firstly do u prefer guys that u can control, or guys that control u? secondly does age really matter 1. Well ya @ the moment I luv. controllin' guys brains for a while...i'mean it's every girl/women's ambitios to control a man. But then after a while u realized, maybe who knows they r just letting u think u r controlling them ya know..lol...So 2 answer ur Q na, I woudln't wanna control a man neither do i wanna be controlled mentally, physically and phycology..that's just crazy...Nobody wants to be in that position..or else u'll just breakdown...and it's NOt a Healthy Relationship either...were ur so tighted up 2 this person's controlling..naah' I rather live in the streets then...lol 2. "Age aint'NOthing but a NUmber". It does matter for me @ the moment, can't pic. myself with a younger man not even one' that is my age. Even lets say this person is very mature enough than the average man out there, u'll still feel like he's still a baby ya know lol...well, in the old' days, it was alright for a man 2 be Older than a girl/woman by 10 or even 20 years. That age gap wasn't a big deal. But now it also has being reversed...u'll c women who r with younger men...as 2 to 5 or even 15 years(AShton and Demi Moore...lol)...Hey maybe when I"m 40, sure i might not mind who knows getting with a younger man haha....I'mean If "STella Got Her Grooves Back"..Remember that movie...Why couldn't i get mine too....

SS, hey girl...i' c ya luving life now more than eva....i'm glad u are,...enjoy life while u' still experiencing the ups and down's. It's all part of growing up ya know,,..the pain, the laughter and everything else that comes between it...ya know everyone has a philosphy of their own about luv. some of us r 2 hard'headed 2 fall in luv..others can' let go their heart' in the moment of a silent'..ya know...well i'm glad that u found ur heart'back...i'm glad u did...alxamdulillaah'..life's about giving and taking...u love some and u hate some. Essentially it becomes equal....ya know..lol..(i don't know where that comment came from)...But it's great 2 c that U still SMiling ...Not many people can go back with their life..ya know it takes time to recover over relationship...gives ya magrain headache's just remember that men come and go..plenty of them in the sea...ya know, i'mean u still young...Insha allah, Allah has the best one store 4 ya...just remember that none'of them might be worth ya luv...well for now dat is looool'...girl' take care alright...ya don't need' anyone's advice now....Walashiis, Live Life 2 the Fullest!!! HappyNess is how u make it...so enjoy everymoment that u have it.... Ya SIsta, Ta Ta Tiya*

lol^^and when u borrow other words from other countries it's alright to use it huh' and make it ur's??? Cajiib dheh'bal....

This Whole FLower proportion was just to heleriouz to read...i can't believe i missed it...M_Q summed the whole thing up in a short over all. Originally posted by Mombasa_QUEEN: it really does not matter who send who a flower both mate can share what they have inside if its a word or gift or whatever it could be. Flowers, candy's, hilib, loundry'...damn' ppl...u all must luv. to do a whole lot' of work there....if ur one of those ppl that like to give gifts or treatments to their mates then go for it..if not then, its not like u'were expected 2 do...ya feel me..sometimes why go throught all those hazzle'z??hehe...well count me out @ the moment....i sure can use some flowers @ the moment..... Where is J11? those r nice flowers...ever thought of sending them? lololol...well u can alway's send those one's via'satelight....b4 Summer leaves in the air or else' there' won't be any flowers sparklin' durin' winter... and Plz NO fake One's 2...Real one's does it all... UD still got Fan club'z huh'....i'm afraid from now on' he's gonna need an Escore' 2 walk down the Red Carpet...

WHoa, now that's beyond braveness...she got more guts than the average person in this planet does....i couldn't even sit with a bee' for 2 mins. let alone a scorpion for a ten more seconds and here she lives with scorpions for more than a Month :eek: ....that's Unbelievable, i dont' even know what to say'bout da....damnnn...

naa B i thought that was U' with the Pink' Gabasaar and those Yellow Sandal's that u had...not 2 mention the Orange Earings u had at least don't try 2 match them with Bluue NEcklace girl and red top or tht's just One Woman' GoNne Wrong... ...hopefully it wasn't rainin' or all those colour cordanators u were wearin' must all got demished lolll.. Hey like some1 already said, bein' Somali woman' is like havin' all kind of colour cordinator. We love to wear clothes that are so colourfull so we can outstand for some oddreason, it seems as if that's a good thing..u know and wether it's good or not bad I believe whatever makes ya day is whatever u should be floatin'with. Every culture have customes of clothes and Somali's aren't different from it, and if our clothes happend to be colourfull then it's what makes us SOmali's then...it's part of our culture...so whatever colour that makes u go Brighter by the day..lool...then go head sista's and blend with it. We really aren't a big fan of black or white colours except if it's maybe xijaab/jilbaabs. I believe one'should be wearing whatever makes them confortable. Just remember at the end of the day that u looked good with it ...ala niyada in' liii dhiso waayo... ya Sista In islam, Ta Ta Tiya*

lol^^^^^^@Aboya... girl since when did u start using "Aboya" for men's...

my mom try to reach me on the phone and i dont pick up my cell she usually come in chat coz she knws wt site i chat at and she tell me hey call me loooooooooooooooool girl' that's unbelievable, and so strange at the same time...and here i thought mom's didn't know how 2 go to chatrooms....shout...

Originally posted by besbaaso: didn't none u live alone or at a dorm?...by now u should have learned how to make at least passable baris, pasta iyo suugo.... That's exactly what i thought 2..at least those that lived in their own would knot how 2 cook one or two things...but it'll be Qasaaro.Com if they don't know how to. Originally posted by Nyce: The day they get Nyce in the kitchen cooking , thats when you know judgement day is near us Acuudkiyow, adiga saas mee kaaga talaa??? xataa shaah'ma karin kartid???...feel sorry for tii ku' qabeeso adiga then....ya should have took lesson's from Martha b4 they put her in the cell'...lol.. Originally posted by Aeryn Sun: Maybe you should talk to some of the married brothers in here before you tie the knot hadaadan rabin in bac madow dibada laguugu tuuro adna lagaa dabo geeyo soon after getting hitched. girl i'm afraid that more than half of these brotha's might experience that syndrome's as soon as they are married....hehe....

I would who knows...that's actually great idea...lol who knows me and my feature husband might even go there 4 Our HoneyMoon too haha ...Ya never know..the experience Might Last a LifeTime... After all who can recist Dacaska iyo bacaadka in a hot sunny day in baadiyo?lol...Now now now, dont' many of u be sayin' "HELL NO" cuz it might be One Hell of a Journey ya never seen' b4..

What Law says that Married PEople can't be using a Computer???? :confused: Sorry bro, but what makes u think some of them don't be using the computer for their own interest wether it be school or work??? not to mention if they wanna kill 5 min of their time and wanna discuss a topic that might interest them????....so what if they do that??? What i can't put 2 my head is the fact that how one can be thinking the way ur thinking now??? Strange world we must be Living it'huh..telling PPL they Can and CANNOT do??? Where did u learn that??? Not 2 mention what makes u think that they can't be Able 2 take care of their own family???Ma adigaa la dagan kaalay??? so what if she feed the kids and put them 2 bed and she's waiting her husband 2 show up????...DOnt' get me wrong, i'm not married and I just wouldn't understand how one can say one of those weird things that ju7st don't make sense...ya feel...till next time...Ina a'deer hade soo bari, kolayba waxaa u egtahay koo oo xaaskiisa garaaci lahaa' haduu xataa ku arko iyadoo phonka ku jirto lololol... :eek: p.s by the way there r alot of Married FOLKS up in here...Kolayba ha'isku soo kicin kuligood hadaba'bal or else they might just tear ya apart..lol

Be All U can Be...I like Dat...It's hard 2 do all those above...but if one can succeed on doing all that, then they can overcome under many shadows then....Thnxs girl for sharin' da.... Ta Ta Tiya*

.....Nice Story there Capone.....

looool@@@rudy must u alway's suprise ppl kaalay, hadana ur sweatin' ova ya high school sweetheart.....glad that u learn alot in them day's instead of doin' ya homework...lol

Oh God gracious....U people have 2 much Time in Ur hands..and When I say that, i'mean it U PPL can Talk POINTLESS 4 HOurs and HOurs...for once in ur life can u ppl not get along Even ONLINE????? I'mean It's just a FORUM, it's not like We are FIghting to decide wether to eat Bariis mise Baasto 4 the day...lol... So for those of U Who doens't SPeak SOmali,maybe who know's u'll pick it up faster than u thought after all somali ain't that hard 2 write and read. And for those of u that speak Somali fluently, easy on those that don't speak the language..alright..u guys should be the one's that should be making the effort of explaining things 2 the one's who don't know understand ya...REMEMBEr back in the days when U didn't speak 1word of ENGLISH?? How did it felt???? So think b4 u write somethin' that others might not understand specially when it's directed 2 them...Hade soo bariya....meesha waa ka dhaqaa jinayaayee'...Allah ha nii' wada cafiyo..>AMiin!!!

^^^^^^^^^lol...Batch yep yep and yesss...i do agree with everyone of them' ya know, u just can't be changing a man's habbits ova night....specially if he has bad habbits...no point of tryin' 2 change, cuz it's just waste of a time..why not just go 4 the one's that don't have those habbits....Women' love 2 change Men...they just simply don't know why persue into a relationship in the first place...lol...and 4 ya second comment, if a man walks out, well what the hell is a girl suppost 2 be doin??? Cryin' after his azz for leavin' her?????..hehe...hopefully dat doesn't happend 2 any of my sisters..or else, i'll say break his legs lolol kidddddddddddddddddddddingggg... 4. If you want a committed man...Look in a mental hospital. Gotta luv. this one out of all of them...Any1 know's where the nearest mental hospital is???

lol^^what a joke!!!!! Raula wlcm back baby' girl...it's great to hear that ya doing much better..alxamdulilaah'..u'll be fine...keep smilin' as everyday' gets better, insha allah....and don't pull another string like this on' us...aight!!!!

It's good 2 be back 2 SomaliaOnline when peeps r deparching up in here Hey Derman, ya know like the other's say, it' ain't like ya ain't never gonna see a p.c anywhere in this world unless u gonna move 2 a jungle where there is no electricity...so come back every couple months like some of us do...till then, take care hade... lol@@Layzie...

^^Bee were u like one of those girlz that'll come to school every mornin' with timo biyo and saliid ka buuxdo??? aqas saa u' necbaan jiray specially' some of them suugo baa ka soo' uri jirtay...ileen crew'gaas adigaa ka mid'eheed :cool: Ms.Word, abaayo sorry to hear all those dilema...what the hell i thought all those fights were over???? guess some places in this world still are facing...what city do u live?? I ain't mad@ya for hatin' ya school like da...so get the hell out of there ASAP..2 months 2 go..don't worry..Ur' Out of there Insha allah. All i gotta say is high school was great place 2 be specially if u spend 6.5 years being there lol (alright i had a crush on this guy that loved coming back 2 school every samister for 8 years)loool jkssssss...i ain't gonna say goin' to classes were fun but when u have another 2 or 3 somali mates up there, it's always fun...u know talkin on ur own language while u'll be doin' calculas 2gether without any1 else intervering or doin' physics assignment and breakin' the whole lab lol or makin the teacher's hair in 2 Yellow.....what can i say, it was always a memorable....and everytime i catch up with my high school friends for some odd reasons we spend hours and hours just talkin' bout high school days like it was yesterday...so make the best out of ur hIgh school days no matter what cuz u'll always remember back in them day's and maybe even miss hearing words like 'nayaa' in early in the morning when ur on ur worst side... Boxer kabax...arkaale i didn't know we have another Cabdi Bile Cabdi on the go

Biyaha Carabta iyo Biyaha Canada isku mid' ma aha'sxb...i think biyaha Kanada waxaa ku jiro geedkoo oo dhiigooda dhan si'kale ka dhigaayo... i guess it's stronger maybe?? lolol But u have a Valid point there. Yes, i'v seen alot of ppl that were born in carabta and when they came to N. America u'll c that same person transformed into something else in less than couple months.....i'mean it's bad enought the one' who grew up and had hard time trying not to adopt it but the one who came yesterday and all of suddenly already adopted everything in couple months???. It seems as living in some of those Carab countries must have done them too much Naqas celin. Many of them think that coming to Canada is like having a Freedom again (which it isn't)...Because they were exposed to a lifestyle which had so much restriction and rules that had to be followed but when you come to do business, in this case when u move to a new place which might not have the same rules, then you deregulate all those restrictions that one' had adopted....guess the new life style is better than the old' one....but is it RealY thou?

^^loool Rock N Roll kute...naa Hibo maxaa tiri...bisinka this ain't rollin' down the rim ya know, somali's were always taught to have babies now matter what. It's in our genes, as soon as u are marry the next thing is "Wali Ma dhalin or ma Dhashay wali". Which means as long as u are marry to ur hubby u better PROduce the Goods in a Good Condition... Back 2 the Topic, I'm still having hard time understanding the 27 yr. who used vasectomy nor would i ever advice anyone to go throught any kind of protections...by any means whatever ALLah gives u should charished...It's great that he honored his wife that much to do that for her...that's a true love but Damn it's a sin, isn't it ???? and Hell no i wouldn't wanna any men going that, we need 2 produce more ciyaal kuni kuni's

Yeah, it is sad not to mention sickening when you have to realize that Somalia is still bleeding....after a decade later we still haven't succeed anything beyond our own borders...it's The Beauty of Somalia has long gone, I just pray that maybe one day it will come back again...As a nation we trully have to act upon ourselves by any means we could...think of those million of kids who are born everyday in somalia and die before they even reach by the age of 5...aint' that heartbreaking?? and then there are those who's hopes in somalia has vanished forever. It's unbearable to end a beloved home out of ur memory to something that's so depressing. P.S Congratz to those who actually put this small vidoe together...made me realize life in somalia still is in NEED OF HELP!!! May ALLah make Life in Somalia easier by each day....Amiin

looooooooool@@@@@Ala ba'aYeeey what a filthy kid that is.....oh MYGod' what the hell is wrong with these kids' minds????