i love wearing the shaash not because it looks great but its silky texture is really good for your hair ,esp at night. man do i feel sorry for those girls in those olden days, with all those restricts.maybe sonkortaa ku yareeed, i too would make up any excuse not to share my tea

^^ don't worry aaliyah they will give you a lesson im sure, if you have the shaash saar thingy. but do people adhere follow that, i mean will they look at me different if im wearing one and arent married ?

loooooooooool MMA i better take of my shaaash then since im not married. so all this time waad igu ciyaaraysay , and im thinking kitchener was somewhere near koronto.

Allaha threadkan waxay aheed riwaayda, ileen sheekoyinka waxaaa loogu tagaa odeyaasha.

you do as i do, avoid watching the news and reading those painful headlines, instead make du'aa for our people and do what you can for them.

^^^please tell me this is some joke. they look like kids. i can usually tell a cilin from others but they have such young faces. MMA please explain??

anagaa is cunay , markas baan dhaaafna maroodi?? i dont think so. altho when my cousin went to galkacyo ,he visited a makeshit zoo.there wasnt even many animals but the owner did take entrance fee.

Originally posted by cynical lady: ps i once made the mistake of asking the soon 2 to be bride y the rush she said " well finaly i will have my own room" i wonder how long that marriage is gona last loooooooooooooooooooooool , gosh my stomach hurts from all that laughing. Cynical did you telll her that she would need to share the room ?

i think you might be right aaliyah. but it would be nice if they didnt trash this place with nonesense.

anyways i just dont understand why girls need to go to this extreme...it sad how that somali mentality of light being beauty has just blinded these women from seeing their natural beauty....black is beautiful...21st century people....grow up , move on and accept yourself for who u are , as it is often said "beauty is in the hand sof the beholder"...

^taliban focus on the messge the brother is trying to get across to u not his hand ,or height......

^^^ why do you guys turn every thread into a chat-room???

^^ wa saas, lol

Originally posted by Dabshid: ^^I still remember this horrific image where I saw an old friend, his wife asking him to change for the baby, while she was on the phone, Subxanaalah, taasi waa naxariisdaro! And he obediently got up and carried out the task, Alloow na astur! bal may u dirsado marka aan ka tagno looooool@bal may suugto markaan tago, dahabshid dhaqanki horey baa kugu googo'eey. i beat your mum aa kuugu duceysay... saying i hope wiilkeyga in uun guursan naaga u dirsan cuniga nappygiisa. im shocked to hear women like theses. it reminded me of the time, my mum and some ladies went to visit my uncle's family, only to come when his wife was out and he was in kitchen cleaning the floor. my mum came home saying "it was great that he was helping his family but it was ceeb ,could he not wait til we left, because there other women and they will say thing about his wife and his raganimo". i found this shocking why would other women talk like this , while at the same time complaining their husbands dont help them with housework.what a stigma ,

very teary .No matter how much my parents told me about how beautiful our country was ,a picture certainly speaks a thousand words.thanks MMA for the pics

CT , what did you serve with the chicken fantastik ? was it baasto?

come hunguri , i didnt say im completely unaware of my surroundings.

^^^ loooooooooooooool looks that way cara.

lol ok im embarressed , so i dont know many somali cities.

thanks hunguri. JB , i dont recognise any of the places you listed but im assuming its in the baadiyo/miyi. but i dont know if i am brave enough to go to qaloocan ,let alone all the places you mentioned. but as soon as i work out the survival gear i need , i might go to the miyi, IA.

yes hunguri im a passing nomad, in the kangaroo land you call it. but i still think we are not as stressed as you think. and you say that aussies arent friendly,depends where you are comparing it too. when i first got here , i was so used to kiwis always smiling , i dont know whether it was sincere or sinister, nevertheless i expected all to be smiles. but it was surely different response. now im so used to people not smiling i think i'm ready to visit somalia.

war hunguri , what is this buufis you talk about, we are known as the most layed-back people(australians that is). i think the buufis award should go to the americans. i guess you didnt get out more on your visit in melb,no wonder you think we are buufis.

^^lol good observation. hunguri,i knw a few sheekhads and they dont really have great personalities and although they try to be polite.anyhow good to see you took my advice. Jb i didnt say you wrote the artice , just pointing out that it's not particular to hargeisa girls.

lol , i did see your list she has to be pretty,educated,sheekhad.that does not mean she has a great personality, dear.by now i thought you be able to throw together your own lug adhi and bariis. i still think you need to re-think your list ,because it does not filter as much as you think. just friendly advice ya hunguri

this is not news to anyone ,the women in somalia n somali women in general are strong , dantoodana waay gartaan.this is not particular to hargeisa yaa JB. lol hunguri ,you preference is interesting ,it seems cooking skills is more significant than personality and trust/truthworthiness. i guess as long as you getting ur luug ari and bariis she can do no wrong.