hahahahaha. darman that is soo funny.. i really liked the wife of today and future.. hmmmmmmmm.

does hakuna matata counts?? hahaha.. i just wanna to say dat. so peace in the middle east.. 1 luv

ladies ladies go easy on the brotha now lol... rudy hahahah yep... i doubt four wives all happy happy sittin together drinkin tea lol... i'll be happy if it only took him a week.. im guessin a month lol.... somalianlover sorry bro i ain't hatin on ya sweety..

latiif that is soo kool.. dym u just proved the fact that im 100% lost somalian kid lol.. but im glad to know there are some videos available.. well im hopin i'll come to mpls around Dec break. so i might get them insha'allah.or try to find them here in my town.... thanks dude.. masallama

good for her. i mean if she is happy that way why not i guess..... malikah lol good one. why u gonna leave huh since he is the one who wants another wife have him leave. smart idea hahaha...

Maajo yeah i hear ya.. where in Pakistan u live at. coz my cozin lives there too i might hook u up with her so u can spend more money lol... Ameenah tell me about.. yes human beings always want more.. but some things are always needed. deen n family for one.. i can be havin worst day but i know when i go home i'll cry to my mom n all lol. and that is happiness yo

hmmm it is really interestin. i guess studies find something new everyday.. thanks lucky.. i'll remember this incase there is any mixed feelins..

Asraa i really think ur friend knows what she is doing and what she wants. so u should just trust her... and to answer ur q yes it does matter to me how long i have known the person.. i understand u said her family knows him well but the family isn't marryin him she is. so it is only fair she knows him.. i have the same problem with my family when they say we know he is from good family and blah blah.... it is plus if my family know him that well but there is no deal unless i have been with that person for while to say okay this it and i know what im gettin myself in to.. other than dat is like sayin yes to stranger...

Conspiracy good luck sweety.. i really don't have new idea to add. but i really like Runaways idea.. just make dat 16 flowers. have her read the first 15 sayin "would u marry me". and u come with the last flower that has a cute lil ring u know she is gonna love. and the answer will be "YES".... ohhhh lol.. yo'll gonna make me fall in love here hahahah... lakkad wallahi u is funny. laser ku laha.. warya what u tryin to do? that ain't way to ask girl lol.. hey when u think u is ready to ask girl let me know i make sure she reads what u wrote up in here and u know what the answer would be "BIG NO" lol... Mizz Unique 7abibiti that is good idea but can i ask u where is a xalimo that lives alone to have some nigga come over and cook?? unless he is gonna ask her parent to leave that day lol.. flyin still say what? home girl u too nice u know dat? i love dat about ya.. stay dat way.. Gedid stop being cheap honey.. get her something for her to remember that day.. Mindstate huh? that is the worst way i ever heard of dude..

Originally posted by Latiif: Does any1 here know Batar? I think its much more exciting than Buraanbur which is only for the durmarka/hablaha. hahahah latiif let me guess it is one of those games u used to play when u was 5 lol just kiddin.. but i was gonna say some of us don't know that buranbur thing and u sayin that batar lord knows what it is ain't helpin. so holdin to that one untill mizz ameenah teachs me that buranbur.. but if it is that easy write all i need to know to learn that dance

Maajo see money comes and goes. plus ppl see things different. as much as i wouldn't mind being rich, i still think as long i have my family, a guy that loves me and my health to do anything i want. and dahh my deen how can i forget that one.. i think i can do anything in this world.... maajo i think all that money talk it got alot to do with livin in pakistan sweety lol....

three things? hmmmm.. let me see. health+my family+my dream guy= true happines for me ...

Originally posted by stpaulchick: [QBMagnoona_Girl: Sista I really don't know if it's Xaram to hang around those type of ppl...but I'm pretty sure it's a really bad thing. Just tell her straight forward that u think she should solve her own problems and don't get into her whole situation about her girlfriend. Just not a pretty sight!!! Hope I helped [/QB] yeah that was helpful sis. and yeah i sure won't go her girlfriend situation.. as long she leaves me alone is perfectly fine with me.. Silent sista thanks for dat sweety.. i guess i gotta have talk with her soon.. coz i really hated havin her around after since she told me.. and i remember all those years we been freind give each other hugs.. im like ewwww lol..

kool lucky u do dat my dear.. somalialover i see. so u was just seein how we would react huh.. kool well insha'allah u will locate the first one my dear and the other three soon hahahha lol

Congrats lovely me. wish u the best of luck. and i pray u two stay happy for ever. i just had one q. why do somalis say Wiil iyo Caano?? shouldn't be wiil iyo gabar? hahahah i don't know but caano sounds weird... flyin still congrats to ya sis.. and i hear ya.. not good idea to tell anything ahead of time lol.. wait till last minute(a week or two before the weddin) to surprise them. coz that is what i'll do...

Originally posted by Khayr: 'IF's' like you women (and yes it is a general statement) very much crave to do, but if you keep living your life thinking of the 'IF's' and prioritize your life that way, then you are gonna be some lonely azz single or divorced HALIMOS. that is so rude yet true. i know it isnot good to live on IF's. but sometimes u can't help it bro. Originally posted by Khayr: Hey, Mizz Lexus, why don't you go back to Somalia/Somaliland (same place to me-HOME!) and try asking these questions and see what sort of response you would get. Let me tell you this, I'm pretty sure that by asking such questions 'Inaankadha HIV Checkup baa kaarabaa', you: a) Get the Dhaacas smacked on your face by both families (yourz included) b) Bring embarassment and shame to your family for being soooo damn rude. c) Be marked around the community for you rudness, to the point that no man would wanna step to your family to marry you. khayr that is the problem we aren't back home. so we can stop sayin if u was back home this or dat. and to clear some things for ya. general check up isn't as bad as it sounds to u guys here.. i don't know about yo'll but the guys i know do general check up on their own and some of them are somalian so i don't see why is it a big deal Originally posted by Khayr: Imagine if the men started asking the question 'Well are you a VIRGIN or is your daughter a VIRGIN? I don't believe it, I need to go and have a look for myself' plus who said askin him to do check up was the same thing as askin the parents if their daughter is virgin and if he can check it on his own? plus both couples are doin the same thing. so it isn't like she is hidin and just makin him do it alone

lucky nah don't take it back pass out the luck sweety lol. somalialover first wanna to say good luck findin mizz forth.. and my q is can u really handle all three that good that u lookin for one more? i seriously have nothing against guy marrying 100 wifes if he wants. but it ain't gonna be only the 4 wives and u. there is gonna be kids in the story.. and do they find time for all of them? and do they love and treat them kids the same way? but good luck brother. wish u the best.. and i hope u don't die young(with headache) lol

hahahaha wallahi we are funny ppl.... aye they are whatever god made them.. i seriously have no idea how or what they are. but im guessin they got good and evil just like the rest of us nin yaban warayhe what was the point of this topic? and why is that u wanna know about their military??? hmmmm something is fishy here lol....

Originally posted by Princess_Sexy: So when do we get to find out the 5 steps to when a somali guy really loves you.... that is what im sayin too... so shyhem since u opened this whole thing u better finish and do the other half of the work

hahahahah im sorry for laughin but i have problem with my friend as it is. im still workin on how to tell her home girl i don't feel Comfortable being around ya or ur girlfriend.. so im the last person to help ya.. but wish u the best of luck... well while we on that subject i hope yo'll can help me too... coz i really care about this girl and i really do respect her.. and now that her whole family ain't talkin to her becoz of being lesb she calls me day n night. i remember one day she called me 9 times and my mom picked up the phone and told her i wasn't home so she end up callin my cell phone over and over..and my mom knows her so she was like what is up with u and her right. i told her and she was like i don't want u talkin to her and blah blah.. i have known her for the last 4 yrs and we been kool friends but i seriously don't like being around here and talkin about her problems and worst of all i hate her girlfriend(some old lady who is just usin her) but i can't tell her dat.. and i was wonderin is it Haram in Islam to be around ppl like dat??

run away virgin the whole idea isn't to be baqabiyos here lol.. we just tryin to find way to use those hoursss we kill on nothing on books and studing.. so im guessin u can do all those just don't forget ur school work and get soo in to that lovely world u know what i mean ... for example i have one problem called "being EXTRA nice" so i talk to some dudes that i have no idea what they was sayin all those hours for nothing and i sometimes get tired and sleepy that i leave my school work there and say tomorrow and lets just say tomorrow is just another is another day of yesterday.. so u see that is what some of us are fightin... and u should be lucky there is fine dudes at ur school lol.. coz mine are full of whites and the few somalis here hmmmm not my type plus i treat them like my brothers younger brothers or i call them uncles haahahaha...

1)Religious( he better be practicin it coz i want him to take our lil boys to masjid with him and make them read quran on weekend) 2) honest 3) respectful 4) he gotta love kids 5) funny( something about funny guys i don't know what it is) 6) he gotta love his family and treat them good( coz i believe a guy that has respect for his parents and siblings will love me and his kids) 7)understanding i think that is more than enough.. HornAfrique who said we inslut u guys? nahh. and nothing wrong with him being Sensitive.. but not when a thief is breakin to ur house that is lol..

dymmm ladies.. go easy on the brothers now lol... but to answer the q yes i would have him do general check up i would do the same thing so no biggy.. not becoz i don't trust him coz dahh im marryin him so i better trust the dude. but for health reasons.. few months before we say our "I DOs" not while we are married already.. and nin yaban say what? what kinda q is dat comin from ya? lol.. hey no one said they was checkin his virginity so why should the ladies be checked? im sure my sisters meant just for health reasons.. plus who cares if he is virgin or not... that is between him and his god ain't my buzz.. peace in the middle east.. 1 luv

Nefertiti sweety u okay?? hahahah gedid it ain't SEXY Honey don't listen to her lol.. home girl don't mislead the poor kid hahahaha.. if u ask me i think it is butt ogly.. i tell my brothers not to wear so i ain't gonna be a liar and tell ya it is sexy.. but it looks good one grandpas u know what i mean.. i find it kool.. young guys please put ur jeans on..

GUN? yeah right. i think if yo'll wanna gun u know where somalia is located at right? well go there please.. personaly i wouldn't carry no gun.. as much as it is sad to see our muslim bro/sis gettin kiled by some lil blacks or mexicans or white i don't think havin Gun is gonna solve our problem.. and we all know 90% of the time that gun will kill someone in ur family so why risk it? no thanks but if god meant for me to die in the hand of Kafer i'll die.. untill then i'll live my life and do what i do best.. peace in the middle east.. 1 luv