Che-Guevara... u can say dat again dude. nice drama up in here.. finest girl. girl done that, hurt mr nice guy, i doubt if there is any girl out here who haven't done that yet be honest ladies.. some add reason we like the bad guys or the person we can't have. but what i would tell u if u really not in to the mr nice guy i would tell u to leave him alone. coz to me u sound like u wanna get guy y back. so just work on dat if u really like him. coz guy x was hurt u don't have to go back to him and believe me he is gonna think oh u back and maybe this time u want him, so no need to do the whole hurtin him again. for reals i have done that too, and the best thing is give them space, after while he'll get over it.. and i don't have much help for mr y coz believe me i have hard time sayin how i feel so i'll let u know when i help myself out lol.. but good luck girl.. wish u the best.. masallama..

aye just go easy on the guy.. so big deal if he doesn't like that nomad thing.. and tagane i hope the admin change it for ya dude..

oh no hindi girl. im so tired, my eyes are red as it is from not gettin enough sleep i don't think i can add that whole 2 hours of cryin.. how about some comedy? we can use some laughing after all..

shamsa any chance u write books for relationships that i can read lol... coz dym i thought i was the queen of dat drama stuff. girl i give u two thumps up.... keep that up... and for the poster next time u have problem just run to shamsa's house is open 24/7 lol....

1. SO MANY MEN, SO FEW WHO CAN AFFORD ME. 2. GOD MADE US SISTERS; PROZAC MADE US FRIENDS. 3. IF THEY DON'T HAVE CHOCOLATE IN HEAVEN, I AIN'T GOING. 4. MY MOTHER IS A TRAVEL AGENT FOR GUILT TRIPS. 5. PRINCESS, HAVING HAD SUFFICIENT EXPERIENCE WITH PRINCES, SEEKS FROG. 6. COFFEE, CHOCOLATE, MEN. . . SOME THINGS ARE JUST BETTER RICH. 7. DON'T TREAT ME ANY DIFFERENTLY THAN YOU WOULD THE QUEEN. 8. IF YOU WANT BREAKFAST IN BED, SLEEP IN THE KITCHEN. 9. DINNER IS READY WHEN THE SMOKE ALARM GOES OFF. 10. I'M OUT OF ESTROGEN-AND I HAVE A GUN. 11. GUYS HAVE FEELINGS TOO. BUT LIKE...WHO CARES? 12. NEXT MOOD SWING: 6 MINUTES. 13. AND YOUR POINT IS...? 14. WARNING: I HAVE AN ATTITUDE AND I KNOW HOW TO USE IT. 15. OF COURSE I DON'T LOOK BUSY...I DID IT RIGHT THE FIRST TIME. 16. DO NOT START WITH ME. YOU WILL NOT WIN. 17. YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO REMAIN SILENT, SO PLEASE SHUT UP. 18. ALL STRESSED OUT AND NO ONE TO CHOKE. 19. I'M ONE OF THOSE BAD THINGS THAT HAPPEN TO GOOD PEOPLE. 20. HOW CAN I MISS YOU IF YOU WON'T GO AWAY? 21. SORRY IF I LOOKED INTERESTED. I'M NOT. 23. IF WE ARE WHAT WE EAT, I'M FAST, CHEAP AND EASY. 24. DON'T UPSET ME! I'M RUNNING OUT OF PLACES TO HIDE THE BODIES.

curly sue u got that right.. is the worst place to be in for reals.. so that is why i don't mess around with it any more. is better off to tell the person ahead of time u don't like them and don't feel the same way about them. instead givin them the idea u on the same page as they are and after couples years tellin them sorry can't do...

i didn't know yo'll can just change name and come back.... how kool... Mosses.. u changed ur cute name?? ohhhhh me liked lakkad.. so what do u think of "roadrunner" hahahaha....

good q. to be honest with ya, i only have seen ppl who my mom knew from way back home that i call them aunt, and uncle. in my house everyone is uncle and aunt so there isn't much of who is what and who is from where... but all im sayin is i got nothing against anyone as long they respect me, and i'll respect them back.. and for the poster i proud of ya for realizin ur mistake. and ihope next time ur mom asks u dat u gonna be like, sure mom insha'allah lol... but here what i think of it. for everyone who says midgan this and dat i think they are the real midgan coz to me to be one isn't like u gotta be born to it, the real midgan is the loser thinkin he/she is better than anyone at all.. and one other thing i really wanna to add is dat those ppl we call them midgan i think they are the cuties ppl wallahi.. they got some fine brothers, and their girls, they cute i even thought they were arabs or something . so whoever is hatin on them gotta be jealous yo... that is my 5 cent so peace out yo'll..... masallama

hahahahah allah hooyo.. im guessin last time for ash ever askin wack questions up in here.. og moti bro thanks for the advice. but im not thinkin that for reals... and yeah my name is big time magnona but im not that crazy thou scorpion sistah.. looooooool I see u still being curious here too ASHTIA..... okay who are u. stop hidin now lol.. but girl this is me. if there is somethin in my head that can't be answer we got problem lol..plus i don't see somalis where i live here (ask mr sd jiggah, he'll tell ya). so the only time see somalis a lot is here. so don't mind me yo'll for askin crazy qs lol... but i got good answers now. so thanks yo'll... masallama... peace in the middle east... n 1 luv

nova thanks.. at least i see someone who understands what i was askin.. clown what can i say they love ya sweety. is all out of somali love lol kaaahin first of all im not pregnant and if was i would killed myself way before dat dude lol... i don't mess around with those kinda stuff trust me. and for the second thing lets just say me no somali. so that lil last part i have no idea what it says.. so help the sista out. peace n 1 luv...

yes if i find the right person comes while im in college now yeah i would get married.. if they are in college,unvi and they can wait for each other i think that is great idea too.. just as long they not in high school.. sorry but that is just crazy idea,

hahahah clown u funny wallhi. nah sweety im not any where close being pregnant or planin to be one anytime soon.. and the reason i asked those q is coz i hear stuff like those everything take my mom somewhere. and thanks for the advise, even thou i learned that from my moma at young age :-D believe it or not my dad went to this one wedding where the girl was pregnant and so called the familia was keepin it in the hush. so i was like why don't we ever learn our mistakes, coz as they say if u make the same misake more than ones u gotta be fool wallahi. so is said to see our community go thro the same shit over and over, yet some of us are religious and not willin to tell the truth.. clown thanks for askin... and incase any of guys wonderin like clown here... the topics i ask mostly is coz i wanna know why, and just wonderin.. mostly they got nothing to do with me as person ..

thanks. i really like it. i'll have print of it in my school folder so whenever i feel like sick and tired i'll just read it ... ones again thanks.. take care.....

im still alive n healthy.. im happy to have lovin n carin family. kool friends who always there for me. and my baby girl who always there to make me smile, no matter how mad i was

thanks for all the replies yo.. shyhem nah bro, as much that can be true, like they say like mother like daughter. but i wouldn't say that has anything to do with the mother... and lol @unauthorised belly enlargement. tamina girl first of all i said excuse my lang, and second i only used the word but i know the kid wasn't the one who made the mistake. but my q wasn't about if the kid to blame or not... my q was don't the parents know there is no nekah for those two ppl coz she is pregnant. so that means they still like gf/bf, even thou they think they are married now.. underdog. that is my point they think they are doing good thing by havin the guy stick around which is good. but she is not his wife thou.. coz they married her when she was pregnant and im surprised the somali sheikhs who are marryin those ppl aren't tellin them none of this makes them husband and wife and that they should wait untill the baby is born... i hope i made few things clear....

sallamz.. good q og moti.. i would say someone who dated before. coz if he dated that means he got his heart broken and been thru all the drama so finally i'll be his lil sweet angel, and he'll be thankful he can finally rest for good, no more drama and all that rejection lol.... i couldn't care less who he dated before( as long he wasn't married before).. hope that answers ur q.. shyhem u want new wifey? i hope u gonna be her mrs new husband then lol. but we can all wish right...

shyhem i was talkin about bf/gf.. but u made good point with the husband and wife. so thanks f... BUT YEAH IF ANYONE KNOES THE REAL REASONS..LIKE YOU BEEN THRU IT YOURSELF LOOL..LETS US UNDERSTAND naya brown what u tryin to say here?? girl i haven't been thru shit wallahi. i was just wonderin coz i heard ppl say dat. this one lady who my mom knows was talkin about one dude who was datin well lets just say the girl is gonna have his baby, but the girl ain't good enough for the nigga, but that lady my mom knows was tellin my mom u know he is gonna stay with her coz she got his baby now. and i was like what??? plus one of my home girl was jokin about it the other day...

dymmm yo'll speak all dat. it sure is fun... me nothing much.. somali( my own somali if i may add lol) english and arabic (which i forgot most of it now) warya idi i want u to teach me urdu...

I always hear this from girls oh he'll stay coz i got his baby.. as if it is guarantee thing just because she is carryin his baby he'll stay with her.. so im wonderin where in earth do they get this stuff from?? who tells them those bull$hit? coz to this day i laugh everytime i hear girl say dat.. is like girl please....

Asallam Alaikum.. how yo'll doing? i hope doing all great and healthy... well i had this q for the longest time... why do as somalis marry girls the minute we find out she is pregnant? don't we know that this kid isn't conceived in a halal way and the fact that we did the nekah while she was pregnant the rest of the kids are still basterdes?(excuse my lang).. i know parents are tryin to marry them so the public won't found out, but for most parts everyone in the town knows about it way before the poor parents. so what is the point? by the way im not tryin to sound no religious person up in here. and im still lookin to find this in print i mean in hadith or in the quran. but i asked this sheikh. and the answer i got was the husband couldn't divorce his wife while she is pregnant so he had to wait untill she had the baby, and he said the same goes for the marryin them too. they would have to wait till the baby is born to get married..

beqair.. keifak anta? Mujahid Al-Jawzy thanks bro.. it makes senses now coz af first i thought to not comment on anything big or small things. and i was like oh woow. but yeah u are right no one would like to have someone in their case 24/7 correcting ya. ones again thanks. masallama...

dymm is my first time to like what shyhem said. how weird lol.. but hassan yeah if it is rejection dude we all face that $hit one way or the other so no big deal.. and if those girls not talkin to ya coz u half naigraian then they got problem.. and as big mom said dude why run after somali girls for. there are other girls who are good muslims mansha'allah so if u are good person just check if she is good muslim n the rest can go to hell.. now mr brotha here listen sweety in a way u are right most somalis would say hells nah no way my daughter or son is marryin outsider but that got nothing do with jareer as u put it. we just don't like to mix with outsiders in general.. plus the guy said he is half somalian that makes one. or am i wrong here??? and since u was askin if any of us here would marry one. hell yeah.. im one. for reals if he is good muslim, treats me good the heck do i care what he is or how we looks like.... while we at marryin outsiders. i have q for alot of somalis here.. why do we feel if one of ur daughter/son marry white is good thing. but when it comes to black person is bad?? even my own (uncles,aunts and reltives) have that bad habbit sayin naya what u doing with waxa madw...seriously is sad that we think white is good and black isn't.....

OH LORD :eek: ....... EXDANE GIRL IM MOVIN THERE WITH YA HAVE SOME SPACE AIGHT( AND TELL MR WINGER U GONNA BE HANGING OUT WITH ASHTIA FROM NOW ON LOL.. BUT FOR REALS GIRL U SOUND LIKE MY SIS... I WISH IF I CAN ADD ANYTHING TO THIS BUT SINCE MY LAZY ASS DON'T WORK OUT IM ONLY GETTING ALL THE INFO EXDANE HAD DOWN.. I'LL START BECOMIN A MEMBER TODAY YO'LL... THANKS FOR MAKIN ME FEEL BAD (IN A GOOD WAY THOU) TAKE CARE GUYS AND STAY HEALTHY

first of all wanna to say that is kool. is good to have it up for the married folks. learn yo'll lol... but i had q about #4 which said to keep quiet n not to comment. i mean if his wife is doing something wrong. so how in earth would she know she is doing something he doesn't like if he ain't tellin her? i hope i don't sound weird askin this but i was wonderin....

hahahah SCORPION_SISTA is being nice here lol.. but i like the idea clean him out... funny... but i'll just say me agree with scropion sista here... let me have my divorce and ta ta.. see u later sucker lol.. with no hard feelings.... coz u know what they say. there is planty fish in the sea so move on....and say "NEXT PERSON"