Originally posted by Modesty: What I want to know is how many of you would marry just for love, putting finances aside? good one.. well i really don't think i would.. unless i know the whole finances issue is just temp thing he is just going thru now, but i know that isn't how he is like normaly. but if home boy can't care of ya. sweety it is gonna be matter of time before that "love" is gone and you two are yelling and ready to kill each other especially if kids come in the picture really soon.. hope that was helpful.. peace n 1 luv

Originally posted by Raage: we were created with a mouth so we should use it to the extent of our ability.... sure enough sounds like it ... INnOUT i feel ur pain.. but what else can u do just act as i u don't know them.... or just have CD player with u at all times hahaha.. play ur favor song and u might not hear them... coz some of us can't do jack about it.. they come to ur work screamin like hell ( when they just trying to say hi) and every one thinks we are fighting hahaha......

well no big plans.. just lil things here and there. 1) take it easy. (less headache) 2) get new job.. coz i can't stand this Dr i work for. :mad: 3) have my first baby by end of 2005 insha'allah..

og girl hmmmmmmm.. waz going on honey.. do i see love in the air or what. hahah.. Ma3alish... do ur thing...

Qacbaro yeah sweety.. just reading this post reminded of someone hahahah.. nah. the reason is blank is coz i made mistake replyin to the wrong post, so i didn't know how to delete it.. "im still reer Badiyo u know" hahaha. Originally posted by Khayr: Salaamz, I can't help but put my 2cents into this... Ladies are turned on by a man when he is WANTED BY MANY LADIES!!! :eek: True to dat... u know us humans always want what ever everone else is runnnin after.. sad but true gotta keep it real yo... as much as i would like to say oh his brain.. the truth is i won't able to know about his brain untill i talk to him for while to say woow..... and weird thing is the guys i know who are smart nerds mansha'allah, i consider them as brothers ... but what makes me fall for guy? hmmm how sweet he sounds (remember the playa, or should i say mista knows how to talk hahahah and we shall get to the brain later.. Masallama

IL CAPO. IM SURE IS ONE OF THE BEST PLACE TO BE.. BUT I DIDN'T SAID ANYTHING WAS WRONG WITH IT JUST SAID I DON'T LIVE THERE REMEMBER HAHAH... AND INSHA'ALLAH ONE OF THOSE DAYS I MIGHT COME THERE SO I'LL LET U KNOW SO ME AND UR WIFEY CAN HANG OUT THAT CRAZY PLACE LOL... I SERIOUSLY SPEND A NIGHT THERE IT WAS OKAY.. IM SURE TO U IS HOME SWEET HOME HUH...

Originally posted by silent-sistah: this old 82yr old lady had a pic of her first love when she was 18, and i was like,,,,daaaamn im dooooooomed! but hey,,,,here i am, at the other end.. HAHAHA.. WHAT KINDA 82YRS OLD LADY WAS SHE? I SERIOUSLY THINK SHE HAS GOOD HEART... I SERIOUSLY WOULDN'T BE 82 AND HAD HIS PIC, BUT I'LL BE 82 AND READY TO KILL HIM IF I EVER SEE HIM THOU HAHAH... AND GIRL GOOD TO HAVE U AT THE OTHER SIDE

sounds good to me.. what should i wear? hahahah... seriously if today was my first time hearing such a thing i would have been like come again.. but i have seen a girl that had a divorce party for herself and damn she was happy.. not sure what to be happy about, but then again it is 2004 soon to be 2005 so everything is kool.

warya ruby, just buy her aight. no need to even ask twice hahah.. lets be honest u gotta end up getting her what she wants so why not just do it now sweety.. and about her wanting gold now. well she had change of heart, and dymm us ladies are good at it.. and while u at it getting her the gold get me some too hahaha...

Originally posted by IL CAPO: Magnoona, Who is the lucky guy? is he the same guy that you introduced me to at the Wedding party that we attended to on Friday night or you got yourself a new puppy? don't forget to ask him if he has a sister so that we can be even,if you know what i mean . IL CAPO.. COME AGAIN...SORRY DUDE I WASN'T AT A WEDDIN ON FRIDAY ATLEAST NOT ANYTIME SOON.. MUST BE ANOTHER FINE SISTER LIKE ME HAHAHAH.. PLUS LAST TIME I CHECKED I DIDN'T LIVE IN GARRISA . AND WHAT U MEAN IF I GOT MYSELF NEW PUPPY?

4-7.. gessss ppl hahah.. naya lucky leave the poor dugsi teacher alone hahah.. them dugsi teachers had no idea, poor them.. sensual healing tell me about it. now that u remember u just laught about it.. my first crush was in 9th grade, guy name Aaron.. he was in my PE and Bio class.. and dym.. he was so cute n kool.. just saw him few months ago. and he was like hi how are ya, funny thing couldn't even talk right.... goshhhhhhhhh lol my last crush.. hmmmm still on it hahahaha..

Section6er thanks alot dude.. comin from a guy. it is helpful... the rest still thanks, and dymmmmm yo'll are crazy lol.. but love yo'll..

Originally posted by Mombasa_QUEEN: i belive in ghost because it happen to me once where i saw these old lady and she just vanished and ya know thats a big shock. Iam from a place called mombasa where ghost is a common thing and i dont know if it haram to belive in it but i do. girl u are right.. when i used to live there. i used to hear weird $hit. to this day when i tell ppl they be like dymmmmmm lol.. and is weird how all the kids in the madrasa always had ghost story to tell.. going back to the topic. nopppppp sorry i don't believe ghost, atleast now that im old.. when i was young yeppppppp big time

geesssssss that was helpful...

Originally posted by NGONGE: quote: and i don't care if we got million kids together, first day and i would be out of that house for good... Now, I’m not trying to justify domestic violence here, nor am I making any judgments. However, given a choice between the odd slap and the total breakdown of your marriage, would you seriously walkout the minute that slap is administered? If you had some sort of secret list of things that are totally unacceptable in a marriage, things that would instantly end a marriage, would a “beating†be top of that list? **Ducks** yes sweety... i mean why should he ever feel like he would have to be beat his wife.. and what gives him that right.. and do u think just because she said stop it he will.. i think ones u let a guy hit u once, he'll keep on doing that unless u show him u mean what u say... i know some girl, she isn't muslim, or somalian. and believe me i see her put up with lots of pull $hit with her man, and he'll even tell ya, oh she can say whatever she wants, i know she won't leave me. so yes when i said i'll leave that house even if i had million kids for him i really mean it... given a choice between the odd slap and the total breakdown of your marriage, would you seriously walkout the minute that slap is administered? what marriage? a marriage with a monster :mad: ... nah thanks..

Sallamz all.. well this is nothing big.. but me and my crazy cuzin been fighting over this.. she personaly believe any guy who knows how to talk is a playa... and that they study ladies, know what to say and when to say it.. me in the other hand think u don't have to be playa in order to talk sweet to a lady.. so for the ones who think it is true give me ur reasons....... thango... masallama

come again? some ladies are "funny" coz i don't wanna use other words for them. what the heck does she mean to beat her once a week? and i don't get ladies when they say i thought it would stop after our first baby.. there is something that is okay and some things are NEVER okay.. so first day he even think of beating me i would kill his azz .. seriously... and i don't care if we got million kids together, first day and i would be out of that house for good... peace n 1 luv.. and yes brothas be kind to ur "babys moma" masallalma

Originally posted by Qacbaro: If u have a cousin, who is educated, good, hardworking man.. for sure ur parents would atleast suggest the man to u.. it happens don't worry... Most of the somali girls, are close to their mothers, and if the mother likes u, most likely that girl is urs because it is habaaro or duco.. u all know that... anyways i think, parents shouldn't be getting involved in this. they could suggest some one to u, but u should know that person well, then decide... but is always blessing when u make ur parents happy, coz atleast your kids would have grandparents.. there for them if it is just the idea them sayin okay we think this person might be good for ya, and butt out so i can talk to the person and see waz his story that is kool.. but if it is, this one person and if u say no all hell break loose. then forget about it..

Originally posted by Aeryn Sun: [QB]I have to say, tho, that what ur describing sounds like a nightmare scenario to me! Someone like that would make me move to another city in the middle of the night. Just shows how different people are. QUOTE] Aeryn with that type of person mizz mombasa is saying i doubt u would have such a thing as midnight to move out of the city .. coz he be callin ya every min remember hahahah...

Originally posted by Barambaro: Defining love: LOVE is a disease which has been infecting humans for decades, its symptoms include hallucination, sweaty palms, accelerated heart beat, incoherent speech etc. If anyone is seen with these symptoms I strongly recommend you rush them to the closest mosque the sheik will know what to do. This disease if not cured can have devastating effects on a person, a person might start talking about broken hearts and start counting their days in a spinster home. This however is again the disease at its worst. So please do visit your nearest mosque. Thank you. A message brought to by the Ministry Health. ta ta hahahah.. that is so cute..

Originally posted by IL CAPO: Ladies, I would like to ask you, with your permission of course, if you would leave the man that you love and trust and know inside out for a man that you've never met before just because your parents believe he is what they call "Good Husband Material" so I would like to know if you'd throw away all the love, laughter and happiness not to mention all the beautiful history that the two of you made together for uncertain future and a new relationship? Mind you, there will always be the dilemma of comparing between the two and since you once loved one and you barely know the other will always cast a shadow over your sense of judgement and that is not fair to the man you chose to marry. Good Night Ladies & Gentlemen. i seriously wouldn't be able to walk out of someone i truly care and love for someone i don't know jack about.. i love my parents, but if i feel that is only person who is gonna make me happy than is on babe..and "mista husband material" can find himself "wifey material" or i can hook him up with my home girls, hahahah.

Originally posted by rudy: yo sista! lookie heya!! pm the admin, story is that he looking for 2nd wife! homie rich too! :confused: for reals.. warya rudy and u didn't tell me, but u had to tell mizz mombasa.. aight i see how our friendship is lol... going back to the topic. girl spoilin? aight im already spoiled thanks to moma and dada, so i want someone to not spoil me please hahah... i get bored easily.. and tellin me how much he likes me every min kills it and about the callin every min.. heck no. did i say heck no hahahah.. as weird as it sounds, i like playa kinda type.. kinda show me u like me, but don't bored me hehehehe...

Originally posted by rudy: plz read the post above me carefully!! aint like a broken record!! xalimos usually treated like that dont last long! remember the days past! when u did that for a xalimo, and man! did she pull the big screw on you out o no where waam! but usually, poor faraax weathers the storm..!! howver, xalimos never let go that easy!! as 2 ladies are prime example!!! :confused: hahahahha.. sorry can't say more than laugh... rudy u okay sweety?

Originally posted by NGONGE: I don’t know about any of the other married people on here. Personally, I visit these forums and all the other chat rooms to find an eager companion. You see, I’m a Somali man. I’m unlike any other type of man in this world. I was born with a roving eye and a filthy mind. One woman is not enough; two women are not enough, fifteen will keep me busy but they’re still far from enough! :rolleyes: dude just say it aight.. all the ladies in this world ain't enough for ya hahahah.. lord have mercy..... :eek:

hehehe.. okayyyyyyyyy.. well there isn't that many ppl "just me" peace n 1 luv