If only more pple reacted to that like you did...maybe things would be different eh? Oh, its not the thought of abortion (altho that itself is bad enuf), its just that I'm generally squeamish...especially when lots of blood is involved. Yuck!

Originally posted by InAndOut: Moderator's sting. Bees Sting harder. Somali Women are then ... I am gonna leave that to the imagination. Why can't you let the brother bring issues bring to light without Bee sting! i am still :mad: Will the whingeing never end? For God's sake get over it already. Its not my fault you decided to ask such a dumb question. BEE iyo FF hala yaabin..waxee ka hareen islaamihii dagmooyinka xamar..Hooyooyinka kacaanka ee ahaayeen..lol..ilaa aa daqartid wax ma dhageysanayaan..dhagax aa wax loogu sheegaa...lol.. GT, LoL...adiga dhagax wax laguugu sheeg! Dameer fooqal dameer.

^ That's nice but I think your pity is misplaced in this case. Might be useful to keep it for someone else. A question: When someone says Asalamu caleykum to you, how do you reply? Wa caleykum wa salaam, or Asalamu caleykum? :rolleyes:

No, I dont find ladies dressed in Islamic code of dress sexy. I dont bat for the other team. Sowwy.

Militias? A choice? On which planet? They would all be dead in the blink of an eye, and so would you if you're lucky, otherwise its rape or worse. If it was me, I would count my lucky stars and get out of there pronto. Negotiate with militias indeed. :rolleyes: Originally posted by x_quizit: ...not to mention Bee, who has long since been a member since JKF was shot I hope you're not calling me old. :mad: Underdog, I thought you were gonna stay clear of this tit-4-tat business? Best laid plans...eh? Anywho, I dont think you can blame DA for wanting to avoid becoming a glorified maid...err...I meant, a happily contented wife.

Ameenah, Southall? :eek: :eek: WaTerLily, Hmmm...sounds very grand.

^ LoL...wateva, man. Sweet and harmless, eh? Only sometimes. Mostly they're very frank and insightful. You could learn a thing or two from them NGONGE. Also, they would have to catch me first before la i sabeexadeeyo.

I'm embarrassed to list the number of organisations I was part of in Uni. Far too many...

Originally posted by NGONGE: I agree, it's a great book. The BBC’s adaptation of the story a few years ago created quite a fuss. Girls were swooning every time they read or saw Mr Darcy. It kicked off Colin Firth’s career. LoL @ 'a few years ago'. I think its almost a decade ago. 1995, wasn't it? In any case, it was a lovely programme. And yes, Mr Darcy was awfully sexy. Yowzer! So, have you seen the bollywood adaptation of P&P? I hear its rather good.

I have read between 3 and 5 hours if you're fit enuf.

^ Walaalo, the elderly are quite complicated. They hate the thought of having to rely on somebody for the simple things they used to be able to do so effortlessly only a little while ago. Haven't you noticed how some elderly women respond if you vacate your seat for them on a bus or train? I have had a tongue-lashing or two from a purple-rinsed old biddy more than once. Sometimes I wonder why I bother, but then I think of my own grandmother and great-grandmother. There are great differences between our elderly and the ajinabi ones too. I'm not sure if the old guy you're talking about is Somali or not (probably Muslim tho, right?), but I find that ajinabi pensioners hardly accept your help, or even if they do, they are not the most gracious about it. While our older people act as if they deserve you help, like you're there solely for them. Probably because ajinabigu are far more independent. The majority live alone or in care homes even in their 80s and 90s, while ours are taken care of at home from the age of 60. I Think, that in your case, he got too used to relying on you for so much, and when you didnt show up...well, it was probably a shock to him. Perhaps he realised how much you mean to him, and responded with anger at ur perceived abandonment. In any case, I think you should firmly explain to him that you can't be there all the time for him, but that you have no intention of abandoning him either. I think he's just lonely. I also think its unlikely that he has any inappropriate thoughts or feelings towards you. What you're doing is wonderful, and because your dealing with people, especially old people, its only expected that things will be get very difficult at certain points. But you've got to hold steadfast. The satisfaction is worth it. PS: You don't work for your local Help The Aged, do you? And if so, which Borough? If you don't mind me asking?

Originally posted by Mutakallim: Jane Austin- Pride and Prejudice-- Woe to he has deprived his mind of a literary feast. You have no idea how many times I have read each and every one of Jane Austin's magnificent books. Incidently P&P has remained my favourite since my English tutor recommended it to me at the age of 11. Gosh, how I loved Mrs Njoroge! *Becoming submerged in nostalgic memories*

QQ & Moti I wonder what's so strange about my wanting to trek the GW of China? Could it be you old fuddy-duddies don't have an adventurous bone in ur unfit bodies? Moti, C'mon now. I dont think there's anywhere in this world where Somalis havent been. I'm sure you would even find some living with the pengiuns in antarctica, if you were inclined to look.

^ LoL... OK then. Just 15 more posts...

LMAO!!!

Hmmm...I think its fairly safe to say we've passed the constructive debating stage. :rolleyes:

^ Because mine is the only one that really matters. Waxa kale waa hogwash. Dawaco, It rains on you because you never carry an umbrella. Duh. SisSade, Qn:while were on somalis are there any somali scientist ??? Of course, there are. In fact we have one right here on SOL. Just Cause is a Particle Physicist (and a mighty attractive one too). Just dont ask me to explain what that entails, coz I failed my Science GCSE. QN:Why is it that you see the most beautiful garments/shoes when your broke, yet you cant find anything worth buying when you have the money?

^^...good point. Femme, Nice piece.

I guess such a reaction is only expected after three children. Good to be back in the list anyway. It was cold out there!

Maymuunah, Congratulations, sis. Bilan, Maryam and Amran are all very beautiful female names!

EWWWWWWWWWW! LoL...NO WAY! Twas a stomach bug, is all.

Khayr, Very luxurious. I would go for adventure any day. Like trekking this monster wall --->

Uhh...I see those pictures are still there in all their revolting glory. You horrible cow @ Diamante. :mad: Femme... Thanks darling and its perfectly readable. Originally posted by Stringer: Amazingly feminists who consider abortion laws a boon for women on the basis of “self-ownership†are gaining momentum among our own sisters….. sadly though some are already advocating this type of murder… Em...hello. What are you talking about? Care to elaborate?

^ Tis the season to be ill, it looks like. I hope you get better soon, Insha'Allah. Originally posted by Ameenah: I was refering to those whome Sherezad, Classique and the other sisters described. Cambaros who notice you alright, stare you out and are just down right hostile. Some people, eh? I guess we're not all brought up with good manners.

Originally posted by InAndOut: Bee, That really stung. Did it? Well, then...my job is done.