Men See You As Playful Men want a challenge and you are the perfect playmate You know how to push men's buttons and attract a wide range of guys You enjoy living and loving - it's one of your most attractive qualities Men are often consumed with desire for you, and you love that! Lies, damn lies.

^ That's awfully caring of you. Much thanks.

Originally posted by Maskax Taabte: maalin kaste bajaqlee magac soo badaleyneeso oo aniga iska kee bursaneeso Wareer Badanaa!!! Well, I was just pointing out the obvious. It would save those of us who dislike dealing with puerile drips the trouble of ur company.

Originally posted by Tuujiye: Aqyaarta sharafta badan, run aan idiin sheego..SOL ma jirto 4real..back in the days meeshaan waxee ahaan jirtay meel qatar ah..laakiin hada waxaa nugu soobatay ciyaalkii dhashay waqtigii qabta.."naxdinta xabada dhawaaqeeda ee FUD!! kusoo dhaheen".. waa ciyaal cirka iyo dhulka u dhaxeeya, ciyaal kibirka ka batay oo wili socodka dhibaya, gabdha yaryar oo kabo taako ka waaween soo gashtay, iyo wiil xunxun oo dhicii kacaanka dhashay baa arlada iska qabsaday..wax fahankii iyo asluubtii baa qasqas ka noqday. I don't see anyone holding a gun to your head. If you don't like it here, you know where the door is. :rolleyes: Kutubeey, Hang on a minute...are you sure you want to join the Baros? Coz I may have to disown you if you do.

OG Girl, thank you. My day has been fine.

QL, Ever so romantic. I feel like sending you a virus.

^ I knew you were my favourite for a reason. Thanks for the hug. Just what I needed. :cool:

Wlc to SOL, Waranle_Warrior. Perhaps you should consider putting away the spear? It looks awfully sharp and we wouldn't want you to hurt yourself....or anyone else for that matter.

Originally posted by Conspiracy.: I still feel GREAT!! :cool: Is that you or the shiisha talking? Con, am warning you...you better keep away from that stuff! :mad:

I feel dull and lifeless and my face aches from the effort of trying to hold back a flood of tears. I'm having such a horrendous day.

Even though everyone can't be helped, If we work together we can provide assistance to high achieving graduates. I stopped reading after ^ that part. Sounds like an excellent idea, UD. So, I go first. Yes?

Hi Qalanjo, Welcome to SOL. Being a newbie and all, I suppose your entitled to make a few mistakes. Let me see if I can give you a quick overview of how things work in here: 1. Never admit to dating!. At all. In any form. Ever. 2. Never admit to dating anyone for 5 YEARS. (Take this one seriously, it might just save ur life) 3. Try not to share very personal information. There's something called Too Much Information Syndrome (TMIS) and it can be a deadly disease. 4. Most ppl here have already replied to more 'I love him and I want him back' topics than you can shake a stick at. So, dont be surprised if they seem a little hostile. Its not you, its your post. 5. Follow the above steps and you should be alright. 6. How can you date someone for 5 whole years without marrying them? :confused:

All right then. :rolleyes:

LoL...interesting. Wadaadadu nooc kaley noqdeen. If he had been refering to SNet, I would have understood - and prolly agreed with him, but SOL? No way, not my beautiful SOL. I believe the site has always offered more than 'dating techniques' and 'clubbing know-how'. What a cheek! And more importantly, what a bizarre wadaad!

Happy B/D MsWord.

TOTD: 'What a bloody gorgeous day!' - Anon

Hibo, You past is yours alone. Whether you choose to share it or not is entirely up to you. I know what you mean about being questioned incessantly (forget about potential beaus, even your local shopkeeper quizzes you these days. What's that all about horta?)...but you don't have to disclose anything unless you want to. That's my take on the whole 'past' thing. And yeah, I know ppl will immediately assume you have something to hide if your not very fortcoming, but what do you care? It should be enough for you to know that you have nothing to hide. So, No, I don't think our past is our future. I think its the past.

^ And how old were you when u were sneaking out? Lucky, My parents were never strict with me while I was growing up and no one has got into my business since I hit 19. So, no, I have never felt the need to sneak out of the house.

AK Sorry, I didnt read everyone's response, so bare with me if someone already gave you this advice. Kutubeey, I would urge you to go to the police and register a complaint. I know there's probably nothing they can do at the moment if he's not an actual threat, but registering a complaint will make it easier for you to take out a Restraining Order at a later date should you need to. Your post truly alarmed me, considering the number of crazy sick ppl out there these days. I wouldn't take any chances if I were you, especially by communicating with him in any way. He's likely to take any response from you as a positive sign, as you've already seen from your earlier encounter. I repeat, go to the police post-haste. You've got me worried for you now.

Originally posted by Baashi: ^ u are not the only one with degree but u r the only one with debt that's bordering to become unmanageable Still there are so many things that u can do if u r prepared to make the painful choices that are necessary to get out of this hole. For one u must learn to live within ur means. Move out to unexpensive city. Get a second job. Cut all ur plastic cards into pieces. Quit shopping excessively. The choices are many but one must realize first that being in debt is an unacceptable position to be in. Once u got that thru ur head then u will be receptive and actually appreciative that I'm raising this issue. No doubt you are right about the problem of being in debt in general. However, student loans are not such an issue as far as I can see. A maximum of two years of hard graft will sort out most student debts. The problem, as I view it, is staying out of debt. Do you see where am going with this? Sure, we can make all the short-term sacrifices needed to pay back our current borrowings, but what about the long term? How should one stay out of debt and still enjoy a good standard of living? Surely we cant go on living in grotty yet expensive bedsits (or worse still living with your parents in your late 20s and 30s :eek: ) and eating beans-on-toast indefinitely, can we? Now, this isnt to say that its ok to bank-roll a luxurious lifestyle with loans/credit cards, of course, but there must be a middle ground somewhere. Lets just hope that ground isnt somewhere in the USA, coz that would be tragique. PS: Did you say 'quit shopping excessively'? God, if you only knew!

"The unfortunate thing about this world is that good habits are so much easier to give up than bad ones." - Somerset Maugham

^ Hmmm...no idea. I find all this 'love' malarkey overated. :rolleyes:

LoL. So your advice is for pre-university Americans? Charming. What about the rest of us? You know, those of us who've already finished and in the process amassed a significant amount of debt; who still want to have a good standard of living and own their own property; who've got crappy jobs (or no jobs for that matter) in an outrageously expensive city? Eh?

^ Not really. If you work and save hard, you will be able to pay off your initial debts. But you won't be able to buy a house/car or anything else major without going right back into debt. Even if you manage to work yourself into an early grave.

Wait..Baashi...I completely forgot to respond to the topic. Are you actually telling us that a life without debt is possible? :eek: