Valenteenah.

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  1. I'm continually surprised by the attention given to this lady. I've have read everything she has to say and I found her lacking in almost everything - be it knowledge of the religion, integrity, intelligence or even simple common sense. There is no sense in flogging a dead horse.
  2. ^ They often are. Always there to pick up the pieces after the shidh hits the fan in a major way. I think that's when ppl really realise that blood is thicker than water.
  3. Originally posted by Khayr: Question-Suppose your cousin divorces-What of them then? Her value has gone down and she will be known as a 'Divorcee'. You will have devalued her worth and her family honor. Also, are you prepared to offer long term emotional and financial support. Remember now, Divorce in the deen is considered to be a critically negative point in someone's life and is contrary to the idea of Tawhid. And for those yapping away about if he beats her, they should divorce ASAP-cut the crap. Who would be there to help them in their time of difficulty that could last for years. Certainely not you nor I, so don't be quick to advocate for the dissolution of the family system which is sacred in Islam. Marriage is the bond that forms society and strengthens the muslim community. Divorce is the anti-thesis of those things e.g. strenght, unity, stability etc. Blah blah blah, yada yada yada. Sorry but I wouldn't stand for my cousin to be abused, least of all by her husband. Despite nacnacdaada, marriage in by itself isn't necessarily good. What makes a marriage are the two people involved, without them, it's just an empty framework. I should also remind you that it's a voluntary union. Nobody should be forced to be with somebody who mistreats them. Divorce may be disliked, but it's available for a reason. Oh and, there is nothing wrong with a divorcee. At least she's alive and well and can marry again. Men (abusive or otherwise) come and go. Your family and friends are there for life. Women should remember that.
  4. Originally posted by Goldy: A somali pride should never smile. ^ Maybe. But a Somali bride on the other hand should. Cute couple, Masha'Allah. God bless them and their household. Amiin.
  5. Typical Daily Mail rubbish. I would give 'em the finger too.
  6. Rokko, that's one mean scowl. You're scaring us! Congrats on the 1000. Originally posted by Miskiin-Macruuf-Aqiyaar: Baddacase, beenta badan jooji. You weren't a boy in 2003 . Jooji sawirka aad haatuf.net kasoo xaday, I can give you the source ee joog. What? Red Sea stole that pic? Lo0oL. That's terrible.
  7. ^LoL, maybe another time. When I have a flattering headshot available.
  8. Puja, damn you're quick. Wiped it off before I even had a good look. It was nice to see you, though. Red Sea, you were a gorgeous kid. :cool:
  9. LoL @ Sheba cat food. She does look feline, doesn't she? NG, alright then. Let's put it another way. I don't see even a slightly tanned soul in there.
  10. Yesterday, I got a roving email telling me to switch off my lights for five minutes, between 8.55 and 9pm last night, in order to make a joint global statement. But I forgot to. Bummer. Reer London are probably the most green nomads in here. Mainly because they only have baths and so resort to taking baaldi-showers, which is good for the environment.
  11. ^ I don't see a single black soul in there. Bax.
  12. ^ And why not? You wouldn't know their capabilities, would you. It might be that Alle-Ubaahne is an experienced businessman. And NGONGE is a winning legal eagle. And Devangle is an expert negotiator. And I am a gifted paper shredder ( ). Etc.
  13. Looking good there, MMA. (Remember to take it down b4 the twelve hours are over. A glimpse should be enough for the SOL masses.) Looking cool there, STOIC. :cool: Me, being there, done that.
  14. Yeah, it's very silly to attach your full name (forename, middle name and surname, sometimes!) to something you wouldn't want your employer to view.
  15. I wasn't referring to the nasty, mind-altering, addictive type, but rather the medicinal, painkiller type. Alright?
  16. ^ You're that pretty, ey? I guessed as much.
  17. ^ I should, shouldn't I? Only I've got to wait till the valium wears off and I can feel angry emotions again. NG - consider this a lucky escape.
  18. LoL @ fanax. Sidaa dheh dee. Che, PM the girl your picture, won't you? She'll only have a look.
  19. Waxaan maqli jirey in sixir badani ka dhici jirey jawhar. You know, like, pretty ladies used to be voodoo-ed(sp?) by smitten men and vice versa.
  20. Alright, come out with it already. Yaad u tirisaysaa? Who's picture do you want to see?