Guten Tag, Serenity! Saw a massive dark cloud on the horizon a bit earlier and was wondering what was burning. Any casualties? Norf, sure London is sunny. Cold but sunny. A'H.

^ Welcome Somali I Am.

Wlc Interpol.

Hi Zii, Che, Layzie. :cool: Originally posted by Zafir: ^Sadex ila dhalatay iyo my other half baa ku jidha. Ma shan baad ku joogtaan? Haye, waxaad ku talo gasheen inaad SOL soo weerertaan miyaa? Originally posted by Faarax-Brawn: quote: Originally posted by Eccentric Nomad: i am also a 'rent a xalimo' for weddings ect How much do you charge? Are you a flat fee kinda Xalimo or you charge by the hour? What kind of acts do you perform? Do you have a video of some of your earlier Works? See,i have a wedding coming soon and my boys have been asking for an Eccentric,vibrant,ethnic girl.Alla edeb darnaa kani. War yur!

Layzie, not sure how I missed it, but that's a truly tragic story. Yikes! Umi, yes, I know what you mean. I love kids too. Only I'm terrified of the birthing process. Urgh.

LoL...welcome Eccentric. Warm welcome to Stewie too.

Some good questions there.

Originally posted by umu zakaria: As for me, i had ababy 5 months back and i want so badly now. i have not even recovred fully yet but i seem to be obbsessed with it! i soud crazy but i dont know abt others that is how i feel and it was worse 3 months back. Umi, how many children do you have altogether?

Originally posted by Fahiye: this topic shows that most of SOL girls are bunch of guumeys in the waiting-- unless they marry of course other single SOLers; thus far I was told there has been 4 wedding as a result of SOL. Perhaps, the vaving grace will come from SOL men . In the real world though, most of these girls are date challenged-- I am purely going on from thier ideas of men whilst discussing gender issues. And that's what they call subtle self-promotion. Neat.

Originally posted by Fahiye: Valanteenah, oo adiga maxaa ku diidey inaad guriga iska fariisato-- provided he will be able to provide all the material goods your heart desires; mise you need to put a good use to your education the only way you feel you can do that is to wake up early in the morning put on some clothes and off you go to work and then come back later on in the evening tired and the only thing you would look forward is hot bath with some aroma whilst listening to some soft melody and then enjoying good old non-sensical tv before you retire to bed? As opposed to watching 'good old non-sensical tv' all day? Tut tut... Waxaa iidiidey inaan guriga iska fadhiyo, dhibta iyo kharashka waalidkey ka soo maray dhinaca waxbarashayda. It would be mighty ungrateful on my part to sit at home and do the basic minimum, considering Allah has blessed me with an able body, a sharp mind (for the most part) and the tools to make a difference to the world around me. Working 9-5 is mind boring as hell unless you feel you are making a diff be it because of the job you are doing or the financial rewards you are getting but many girls feel they have to WORK because they feel they have to because it is liberating; you might argue what is wrong with that nothing wrong with it i would say. It is personal choice, i wouldnt want my 'wife' to work if I can afford to give her a respectable living she deserves. If being the operative word. As you said, it's a personal choice. I find my work satisfying. I would find it even more satisfying if I had more impact, but that requires experience and progression up the ladder. Something I aspire to, as much as I aspire to raising a family and looking after my husband.

^ Exactly. There are very few such xaliimos. What these men are whingeing about are average education and jobs that pay for clothes, rent, the occasional holiday and keep the family off your back. How sad in intaa xitaa loo diidanyahay hablaha. Koley waxaan aqoonsanahay inuu Underdog rabo mid aan nuuxsan uu dhabarka kaga istaago.

Originally posted by Ghanima: Val Haa isku gaayah tiirin.

What's all this talk of tasting 'biyo kale'? Acuudu bilaah. And cidna maan kashifin anigu, I asked a question about something that was posted on another thread for all to see. Adna, please don't be upset. When I read your first post, I assumed you were just asking a general question about whether ppl would make the jump from friendship to love. Then you mentioned your friend has hit on you and you seemed to be considering it, so I naturally became curious. Anyhow, thanks for the clarification. True, relationships do start and end. Speedily from the look of things. Good luck with it all. Andromeda, yes, my short term memory is generally shit, but I recalled this because at the time I thought Adna was very brave to have married a man who couldn't be with her all the time. Layzie and KK - ma fiicnidiin!

Get out! Leave! Right now! As Jojo would say. Safe trip, Cadaan. I'A.

Originally posted by Tuujiyee: quote: Alla ku ceebee. Sir aad ogtahay wallee ma qarsoonto.. [Wink] . Teeda kale I was doing you a favour istaraasho yahaw. Ha iga soo baryin Val email-keeda adoo af jaalo leh . isku *** intuu ku dhamaaday yaah!!!! lol Waraa Val iyo aniga mar hore aan iska tirtirnay bilaa aarabiitare..lol..iyada xitaa weydii..meeqa tundheer aan ka xareeye kkkkkkkkkk (sorry VAL)War ha na sheegan dameer ku tirtiryey ee.

Originally posted by Adna: salaam. I want to thank each and everyone of you, that has taken to respond to my question and gave me the honesty oppinion once again thank ya'all. To respond the point that most of you pinted out, which i shoud have cleared the air at first. However, the situation is this, i have known this dude since early 2004,of course we have gone the same U. Never dated, never had a feeling up to this point, but we have always kept in touch and i did my thing to date whome ever, perhabs at some point he had consulted me with someone he was seing. Meanwhile, we have become close friends where i felt confortable to talk to him about my relationships in the past. He had never said a ward of how his true feelings were, and i never considered having a relationship with him not because he is Ugly or bad person, but because i admire freindship. However, about a week ago he had told me how he really truely felt about me and that he wanted more than just being his frind, and i have felt speachless and that is why i've posted this topic. Once aging i thank you for oppinoins. W/salaam. I'm slightly confused here. Adna, did you not say you were married and in a long distance relationship in a previous thread? :confused:

If you become attracted to a friend of yours out of the blue, it may be worth investigating. Originally posted by Baashi: Be very selfish on this one. If the dude is Mr. Right, snatch him before that other bajaq takes him to her mundul. The pool of responsible dudes is shrinking nowadays -- at least that’s what I heard from Muxubo muuno-beeshayee, moosinkeed waa la moodayee crowd. Baashi, you too? 'Bajaq' isn't a word to be used to refer to women.

I saw a road accident today. Someone got hit by a car on Holloway Road. Poor sod. I said a little prayer for him and hurried on to the tube station.

^ You are misinformed. Rudy is a professor of Gibberish and not 'Shukaansi' as you put it.

Originally posted by Zafir: Hi Val . Hi. Dahia - Another holiday? Is everyone on holiday? :mad:

Originally posted by underdog: Firstly, who came up with this connection between desirability and education? I've seen some of these so-called educated women and I can tell you now the problem is NOT their degrees. The problem is Selfishness, bad attitude, culture confusion and the personality of a barbed-wire fence. Here's some free advice: If you can't see yourself putting your husband and your children first and sacrificing yourself for their happiness, you deserve what you get (which is usually squat). So stop shifting blame and fix yourself. Educated or not, there's a multitude of women out here who understand what it would take for them to be appreciated and loved and the first step towards that is leaving the "me me me" attitude at the door. ...and you better believe that! Underdog, I bet you fantasise about that old Somali tale of the perfect raaliyo. The one where she waits for her husband to return home with a jug of milk in one hand, a belt in the other and with her googarad duluc held with her teeth because she doesn't know what he would like to do first - drink the milk, beat her silly or shag her. Bal candhuuftaada dib u liq, sidani si ma'aha ee! Val, it's in fact true that you're 90% sugar and spice, and 10% everything nice. Yes, Cara. But can I do additions and subtractions? The jury is still out on that one.

Originally posted by Fahiye: PS: Now, I sit back and watch ladies fighting their way in to annihilate me off the forums LoL. Isn't it amusing how each person states their opinion and then assumes they've touched a nerve? Bless.

Originally posted by CLEVER-TREVOR: CARA, You want some Common sense my sista? Really,? Is it not true that women in general are in fact %90 Emotion and %10 in logic? And vice verse in men? First off,that itself should demonstrate how common sense should really be looked at. Hello! When and where did those figures come from? Did I miss something? Because if I was 90% emotion/10% logic, I would surely have topped myself with a bucket of bleach years ago. Other than that, this topic is very funny. Actually reminds me of a line in Bride & Prejudice (the bollywood version).... "I may be healthy, vealthy and vise...but [there's] no life without wife!" In this case, it is more there's no life without a hubby. *Slaps Zu on the wrist for calling Serenity short* Only I'm allowed that privilege! :mad:

Originally posted by rudy: yo val-gd (gold digger) my stock is going up gal! i amna put this offer for you on the table...if you decide to sign and take it, this agreement is non-negiotable for 10 yrs. - house in beverlly hills. - on part time maid. (weekend not included) - pm 1000k/wk (pocket money) - mercedes convertable. - u must attend 2 dinners with at home per week. - 5 romanatic nites per month. - u cant bring family member w/o my permission. - big smile when my friends r around. any violation of the above conditions will terminate your marriage contract. And incase i die, my inheritance goes to my granny in las anod. It's a generous offer, I'm sure, laakiin even gold diggers must draw the line somewhere and I choose to squiggle it all around you, Mr Charm-Vacuum.

Not if he was the last mammal in the Milky Way. Your matrimonial service has no chance if you're this bad at matchmaking. Fix up.