^^^ Just in case you didn't know they are not doctors (i mean those folks who look for forming clauds)- i think they are called rhinotillexomaniacs - Well I thought i may enlighten you..what can I say- I am in generous mood. Cheers

^^^Stay with Rokko....that is cool name <--too :cool: to change!..won't change, shant change and definitely can't change :cool:

^^^ Today is all different game eh!

Waa waagii aan beni aadamka ahayn.... Ma anigaa? mise qubashada ilmadu waa natiijada bilicdan nala soo hordhigay! Cheers

Waar sxb..madax adakidaa - if they are happy it means they are happy family..not romance...gettit- That is end of it Cheers

^^^ You running to madhab now? BTW it appears that I know more of Islam than you do. It was unfortunate that I thought you were a truth seeker and you will follow it up and bring some daleel. But telling me "oh you are muslim you should know" does not let you of the hook that easily sxb. In this case, You were asked for a hadeeth and Aayah and you failed. Simple! Cheers

Dude.... Taking your wife and children to a restuarant or having special events with ur family..isn't that makes happy man? That doesn't necessarily make a man happy - he could be wishing - caruurtaan iyo islaantaan qaylida badan yaa iga wada. or she can prolly be thinking - midkaan canyaaska ah oo aan caruurtaba ka adkayn yaa iga wada! If you reread - the part of my post you qouted - you will realise that it is the acceptance of the reciver that makes the difference and not the act. You could buy flowers, sing or do the incredible for your xaliimo and she could be thinking of you as a nutter. do you see where I am going with? Cheers

Well...you are half way there - Romance is two way - not one's feeling Romance is when you communicate how you feel and the message was accepted by the reciever. if the reciever doesn't accept - you will look plain weird no matter what you do, does that make sense? What does that tell you? you need to know alot about the other person or at least have some understanding of who she is... Cheers

Originally posted by Kimiya: ^Afkaaga caano geel lagu qabay. P.s Cambarro and LOZ, whilst being Somali isn’t an achievement, being self-accepting is… So if I go by your statement - it is not that we are proud of the Somaliness but the act of self appreciating of the Somaliness! Again his question was one of the beingness of Somali, wasn't it? To me, You can be proud of the choosable identities not the existance itself i.e. you can't say I am proud to be Human! BTW your comments about the somali community were spot on, Somalis did achieve alot and can achieve even more! Cheers

sxb..taas kaa saari maysee...Do tell my friend where in the quran or in any hadeeth was qouted Dogs are nijaas? Cheers

Originally posted by man_in_malaysia: Before marriage He/She could be more interest in (Macsi) stuffs No Sxb..This is not Romance this is S E X n the (Macsi) game He/She could do every-action that gratifies, which both cases are not allowed as muslim. Again this is Fetish/Bondage/Kinkyness After marriage, At Bedroom/Bed-game time(isku taga) He/She could engage in every-action that calls for high level of gratification which might include some-action that is not allowed as islam ...No sxb...again this has nothing to do western romance...if you commit the acts you mentioned above in the bed room you committed some xaraam stuff...not romance We Might define Romance in Islam as: Romance is something that makes happy...going to KLCC PARK(is very beautiful place in malaysia which is one of the best tourism places) is romance...it gives you refreshments, breath-taking place...and enjoable place to stay...isn't that makes happy. If your condition of romance is what makes you happy than what about if the ones you defined as unislamic makes some ppl happy? Take your wife your children to restruants or whereever they like is romance... I don't know how this is romance? when did the children become part of romance? more like a good father/husband Wearing BEST clothes you think your husband/wife might like is romance... This is called dressing up not romance Telling your girl your beaufull is romace.. That is being smooth talker or potential liar..init? Sxb..You still need to define romance - you stuffed up this one big time Cheers

Originally posted by rokko: ^^ i'd say Val is worth more than Faadumo Islaan Aadan Wallee Rokko labadaan berri muxuu smooth talker noqday - where are Rahima and Jamiila??? Cheers

Originally posted by Taliban: quote:Originally posted by presidentofsomalia: if not way?? 'Cause dogs are nijaas. ^^ Exactly what do you mean they are nijaas? Cheers

^^^ Laayarad...admit it - you would love a hot boss! Cheers

^^^ LoooL Farax eats grilled *** Skin er I meant maqaar dameer... Adna waxaad sheegaysaa Kirishowmirish Cheers

Does this mean an Arab version of the "L" word is about to hit the roads? Caano - "Administration at colleges do carry out random inspections to prevent such behavior from happening,” I cant help but wonder what a lesbian stop check involves?! ^^ Do you really wanna know? but I also wonder whom of the Admin will do the checking? the Male teachers or the female? Cheers

^^^ You wear Guntiino - xaax iga dheh back to the topic :- Am I proud? let alone being a proud Somali, I'm Proud African, Muslim, Australian, Human, Ina Yusuf, and proud to be Me...What else did I forget oh, Proud Soler as well Whatever identity you assume, biological identities are not the ones you are able deny or accept willingly, but identities you assumed because of choice are the ones you can be proud of - other than that - waad ku qasban tahay dee! Cheers

^^^^ LooooL, if you compare your relatives to everyone you meet you will then end up having a punch of homogenous ppl around you Allow me to brag, there are ppl who have -well -tasted various delicacies in their life time and they know what they are talking about Open Your Eyes Sulekhaay, Cheers

Why am I the last one to join topics in this site..caku time difference! Anyways, I had the privilage of eating fresh yaxaas and I tell yuh...it was daaamn goood... I have to confess here, after I wolfed (as caano would say) it, only then, did I ask my self, whether it is halaal? it tasted like chicken, does that mean it is halaal? :eek: If any of you ever grace us (aussies) with your presence I might be tempted to feed you a Roasted Yaxaas Cheers

^^^ No you little one!, he means "ixtasib cala llaah". Simply put this fundraising was organised amongst friends and for friends. Above all, I do trust Lily, don't you Taliban? Cheers

A hot "boosad" will just do fine! Thank you I once had a female boss she wasn't good looking that is all i can say about her! Cheers

^^^^ then she is doomed!

Something worth discussing in women's Section... Good on you Kimiya! I will come later to comment on this when I have more time... Cheers

Xaliimopatraay, Well..I can assume a lot of reasons why someone would be in the situation you mentioned above... but to ask someone to make a sacrifice like that it can only come from Family or a farax - potential Mr Xaliimopatra . Firstly, If I start with the assumption of Farax being the one to put you in the situation - then I will say the following:- When you decide to join someone's life plan (btw you both joining each other's life plans meaning there will be sacrifices from both sides)…The concept of "I" somehow takes the back seat and "we" is your frontbencher. saying that, I would say don't do things that will sew the seeds of bitterness in your heart that is something u feel inside you shouldn't have done it but you would do it anyway because you convinced yourself it is worth it and later on every step on the way you will remember specially when you upset which of course you then remind him of your sacrifices and that would lead to you to question whether it was all worth it. In a nut shell, I am saying your consideration should be about the bigger picture and understand your plans are not changing because someone desired it or it suited someone else’s life ambitions but the core reason of changing your plan is the fact that you are achieving bigger and better i.e. regardless of the setback, the change of plan should give you a better outcome otherwise it is not worth doing! Secondly; if it is family that asked depending of the severity of the situation, I say you should sacrifice two years of your life for them – cause Allah knows how many sacrifices they have done from the day they got you Cheers PS: disclaimer when i wrote this I was under the influence of time pressure

For some strange reason to me the Hoosgunti is too feminine...Go'ii soomalidii hore ay xiran jirtay i dheh..laakiin geedaan xunta ah oo qosol ku furadka ah...ha igu sheegin Besides the dudes above got too many colours for my liking - and of course I hate colour - prefer gray, black and charcoal... Cheers