Originally posted by CHECKMATE: here is my list ppl..... Quruwaalaha of SOL: Mutakalim Qiyaanoolayaasha of SOL: Il-capo iyo Tuujiye, caravan iyo jacelybaro Quruxlowyaasha of SOL:Gadiid Quuqlayaasha of SOL: Qac Qaac, Laaska, and Og-gal Quruxleeyaasha of SOl: Juxa, Seven of 9,ameenah, FF iyo simply teh best Qalanjisyaasha of SOl: Besbaaso, X-qiuzit iyo diamante Qoyanayaasha of SOL: Baashi, nuune iyo North Qooleeyaasha of SOl: Nafta, ArynS iyo raula Guuxooda ka dheereeyaasha of SOL: Wiilo, iyo FF Maskiinyaasha of SOl:Nur, Jamaal11, Mop-deep iyo QLeap, krupt iyo Admin Munaafaqyaasha of SOL: Libaax sankataabte, Horn, Jumatutu, Ngonge, og-moti Yaanyuuryaasha of SOL: Mombasa-queen, DA, sue iyo Rudy Libaaxyaasha of SOL: Sophist, baashi, horn, Bari nomand, nur, mursal , L,sankataabte iyo jamaal11 Dhagoolayaasha of SOl: Admin Indhoolayaasha of SOl: Admin tukeyaasha of SOL: Ngonge, OG-moti, baashi, tuujiye, nuune, iyo Ilcapo Please ppl let's not take things personal, it's ONLY KAFTAN walaalayaal asxantu Hahaha..Quurawaale..hahaha..sxb..waa iga qoslisay..lakiin liiska waxaa ka maqan.. Orgiyaasha SOL: adi iska bilow - Checkmate..hehehe Legendka SOL (since there can be Only One): Yaa Kale Hee.. Intriguin personalities : Shehrezade,Scorpion Sista. heheheh Salamaaat

Originally posted by Bee: ^Kaalay, you're pretty eloquent when you want to be, ma istidhi? :eek: Do u think so??? :eek: really??? :eek: :eek: To conclude I will close this statement with what my three year old niece says when she is amazed " Allah My God"

Harroooow EvelyOne I have to say this... This is most flawed reasoning I have ever seen... Sorry brother Caveman this is not an attack on you. But a critical analysis of the reasoning you presented to us and How simply the conclusion you reached contradicts the optimal outcome (although the optimal outcome arguably is subjective rather than objective)... Somalia, Kenya, Tanzania, Dubai, Syria, etc…this trend has been going on for a while, but now it has became the norm lately here in N-America. A Trend is a time series and is comparing observations (events) that were recorded at diff interval times. I don’t see how you can call the concept you presented as a trend? No observations that were recorded studied and analyzed? And see how you said "it has being going on for a while"?? Most college and university educated guys seeking life partners over there with Somali ladies with different life style and background Tell me...what is the point of bringing someone with a diff lifestyle or background, and then put them in the same environment that you were saying have effected the Somali girls??? Any guarantees that she wont be effected just as the Somali girls who have been here for while??? Its said intelligent man marry his mother, in sense a woman that reminds him of growing up on her patient, tolerance. Its customary for Somalis to hold at most honor and prestige for the qualities of wife and “marwoâ€, I partially agree with you on the above. But let’s move to the most important part “THE GOOD OF THIS WORLD IS THE PIOUS WOMANâ€. And it’s been like that since the beginning of human history. What gave man the most grieve in this world is woman and what gave him the most pleasure is also a woman. You can even notice this at your local community, any married man at your area with a pious wife, you can notice from his demeanor, his calm his rationale and reasoning and how he rushing home every chance he gets. Completely agree with you that a pious woman is summit. It is the highest point...it is the ultimate target... but are we saying there are no Somali pious woman in the west??? I don’t see the correlation between your statement about the pious woman and the trend you mentioned above. Is the trend (if for the time being we call it a trend) indicating that all the men, who went to the above mentioned countries for brides, have chosen pious women??? However, would I be wrong if I say “You are not comparing the pious women in the west and the pious women from the above countries"? If you are then that would add a whole new dimension to the argument. And if you comparing pious women from the above countries to non pious women from the west, then of course, you comparing apples to oranges. …..And they are incomparable... Originally posted by Caveman: “my wife is a partner, not a competitor in this hassling and wheeling World, and that is what I neededâ€. Wonderful quote but very ambiguous. A partner would not be the best description but I understand where your friend is coming from... I understand he means a partner in life, someone to share everything with, and someone who supports you in the good/bad times... But I believe marriage can not be entirely described as partnership. Partnership is too limited word for such a sacred and deep connection between the husband and the wife...Allah (SW) described it in the Quraan as mawaddah and rahmah... So, most of these Bachelors trade potential ladies with their level of education and understanding, to ladies with different backgrounds then they are. This tradeoff is personal choice and might not be the best decision on all occasions... are all the marriages with couples from diff background and countries successful?? what are the metrics and measurements for success??? 2 yrs or 3 yrs or 10 yrs or 30 yrs?? Ppl's objectives about their marriages are diverse as their characters and personalities... Is it possible that many marriages are failing not because of its the woman's fault or the man's fault but more like the marriage based on generalization (just like the concept above) "Hadda waxaa kacsan in Syria gabar laga keeno therefore waa baxaa middoo aan soo qabsanaa???" Only Time will Tell :confused: .... But for me..I say it is upto the individual and what they want from their marriage. I think this is the longest reply I have eva written...and prolly wont be the last... Salaamaat

Originally posted by Bee: LoL...I guess you dont wanna bite me anymore, eh? Bad move. I was actually contemplating keeping my mouth shut from here on. [/QB] Er' I compared my chinese fangs to Bee's Sting ... Couldn't see my self being bitten by an angry Bee with Hot xaliimolicious temper .. SO I have kindly withdrew my initial comment

Thanks Bro Og Moti. I will gladly take your advice on board. Except I dont see the connection between your daliil and the issue. Need more clarification? or at least reference to the Ulama's fatwa about whether it is permissable or not? or if you can give us a link that would be great. Salaamaat

I know some ppl who had similar problem but masha allah they both together and very much happy... Walaahi they inspire me, everytime I see how much they love each and have accepted each other, the way they support each other, I just pray for them..amazing... But seriously, if you wanna have an opinion on this read " Suratul Maryama" and think about the story of Prophet Zakaria (AS)and his wife. Another good example is Prophet Ibrahim (AS) and His wife Sarah.... I beleive these two stories will give you a clear Picture if You have faith in Allah... When Allah said " dikru raxmati rabiika cabdahu zakariya: id naadaa Rabahu nida'an khafiyah" cajiib walaahi... Prime Example :- May Allah Bless us all and grant us his Jannah inahu kariimun ladhiif Salaamaat

Originally posted by Bee: I repeat, ' the blind leading the blind '. Tragic. :rolleyes: am not leadin anyone, am i? or is it the case where the blind person accuses the other of starin @ them!!!...

Originally posted by Gediid: Horn Bari wuu suroonayaa ee waxba ha ka qorin.I bet he's written down all the good juicy points in uu kaa eryo meesha ayuu rabaa ee dheeg ha u dhigin...... Now intaas kadib saaxiib only one point hasn't been raised yet and thats thats the dress code habeenka aad qaali lulla wadeysid. Me personally I believe in bright colors(red,bright green,orange just to name a few).Where else would she look.You are a product on sale habeenkaas why not be like a walking talking supersign right out off Times square.Meel kaste eey eegto bam its you or a reflection of you.There's nothing that can beat that.You know how the Faranjui say first impression is always the last well I say first is always the brightest.... LooL Gediid..Why are u cutting His leg??? i dont see that but as a pure luggooyo Salaamaat

Hahahaha....I came back to read about the Makiinada cajiinka..and still laughed hard...hahahahah... Thanks one more time wiilo... Salaamaat

Originally posted by wiiilo: Makiinadda Cajiinta agteeda u isitaag markey soo marto labo eray oo macaan ku dheh, isla markaana kala carara oo haddii leyskukiin arko ayadana waa qaraacis iyo guri ku celin shan maaldood... LoooL..hahahahahha....That made me laugh.... hahaha. makiinada cajiinka dheh.. Am still laughin walaahi Salaamaat Thanks for the laugh @ Wiilo

I hope everyone had a wonderful and happy Eid.... I had the most wonderful Eid of All time....I have baked Cookies ..yes..yes..i know..you are thinkin "lair"...am confessing i baked them with the help of mother Zu ...and prepared the desert (this is totally mine)...<--- very proud of himself.... Typically I had the nick "Parasite" behind my name coz i only consume and dont contribute except the eating part....Had a great time with the Nephews and nieces too!! Alhamdullilaah and have a great week of holidays and for those fastin wadac " May allah accept your fasting and reward them to you on the day you need them the most" Salaamaat

I will say the so called intellectual have no place in Somali politics..and Prolly you are wondering why I would say that....simple they have excluded themselves from the course of politics in Somalia and I haven't seen intellectuals being organised and engaging the somali politics and peace process.... have U seen any sort of organisation for Somali intellectuals working tirelessly towards somali peace? have u seen any intellectuals who have come under one umbrella for somali peace? have u seen any intellectuals from different tribes who forgiven/forgotten and became a sympol that Somalis regardless of their tribe can unite and achieve anything?? All I have witnessed was some so called intellectuals who think that they wont achieve anything witout their tribes so they submitted to the will of the uneducated, vicous warlords??? or may be create a meaningless non engagin organisation. Sxb..Forget the somali intellectual...The concept and the notion of somali intellectual saving Somalia is dead!!!... They allowed illiterate warlords to play with Somali dignity and lives... Allah Bless Somalia... the Land of the Brain Dead society Salaamaat

:cool: Aameenah - Afkaaga Caano Lagu qabay.... Wiil iyo Caano, Gabar iyo Chocolate baan kuugu Ducayney.. Salaamaaat

Originally posted by Farax Despiser: Men are jerks simply cause they are men...try not to understand them. They are simple creatures with simple needs. Thats all a woman needs to know. You could have simply said " Read My Name "..but you are beyond farax despiser, aren't u?..u r Men Despiser...HMMMMM Saalaamaat...

Originally posted by OG_MOTI: Bee ala waxaad noo heysato badanaa... but sister we love you.. you are our sister and much appriciation from us to u and speak for the brothers.. peace LoL Og moti U too Nice sxb...Yahuuu..I dont love her....Waa ha lagu qaniino subax iyo habeen... Besides do you know what Bees do to their males.. <--- Staying away.....aayatul kursi aan ka akhristay... Blind men..kulahaa..Yaa ogaada..hoos ay iska leedahay "hmmm...these dudes got game"... Salaamaat

Dear brotha, I know that when we hear someone bashin Islam we tend to get angry and have tendency to handle the matter with our own hands...But.. As a Muslim in this situation, I think You should stand up and defend Islam not By gettin angry or resorting to Violance but to bring a counter argument and tell the Truth about Islam. if you dont have the information or the knowledge required to debate or put a counter argument..I will say At least consult and reach out for those with knowledge and perhaps organise a lecture and Invite a muslim scholar/theologian to talk about islam. This will educate student/college staff. Otherwise the consequences of not speaking up will be too great and may effect you and all other muslim students in a negative way... It may create Student Backlash.. all i am sayin is sxb..you need to make a stand and speak up for ur religion's sake... I think I have said enuf Salaaams Brah..and May Allah Bless you with his mercy and strengthen your Iman.

Originally posted by Qac Qaac: Silance bro... or sis... I know u have a good intension and u wanna save this ppl, for ur effort.. but pls bro try to use wisdom, tell it easy the religion first listen to what they all saying... or else u just chase them from the whole fold of islam... brother reality is that ppl date now, muslims... so it would be step by step to go back to our way.. is just an advice bro... sorry if I hijack the topic.. Well said Qac Qaac... Horn...dont worry about dream dates sxb....dhowr jeer ha kaa jabjabto horta..Practise makes perfect (close to perfection..nothing is perfect anyway)..lets say it is more like Trial & Error...remember every gurl is diff from the other...just you have to know who you are dealing with...simple...sxb... Enhance your listening skills..listen be tentative.... Be in Controll dont be too obvious tho (er dont be control freak!!)..yet dont let everything in loose..otherwise if she talks alot..you will be tortured with unnecessary info... Dont be nacamle'..then she will walk all over you..and dont be arrogant... er'''' stay away from being touchy touchy..you aint datin non muslim chick... Dont be try hard..yet show that you put some effort..na'mean.. And Over all...JUST BE URSELF..U DONT HAVE TO CHANGE TO IMPRESS ANYONE.. then if she dislikes..she dislikes your true self..and if she likes you then she like ur true self..na'mean... Also..KNow ur objectives..sxb..are u up for Halal and marriage or ur after..ehm..uhm..haram...if you after haram...sxb..Piss off!!..but if you are after halal..it is good to put some effort..after all u are meeting the mother of ur future kids..insha allah... Dont follow the above mentioned list to the fullest..they were not meant to be taken as rules..more like general idea..they are not foolproof..they might backfire or may not be applicable to all xaliimos Call that NGONGE dude..he knows too much of this stuff I dont even know why i replied to this topic...May be am too hungry Saalaamaat

hehehhe..he gets confused indeed!!!! :confused: :confused:

Originally posted by nafta: a POSSIBLE scenario...shows how little some people know. This topic might have been started from mentioning that 'scenario' as an example but it actually happens daily. Interestin....It happens daily :eek: :eek: ...actually!!! :eek: :eek: Do you know anyone who had experienced this situation?? have u seen or read about someone who had similar situation?? or u just assumin it could happen therefore it does happen daily??? And I will leave you this for a thought " and over every lord of knowledge there is one more knowing" Surah 12 : 76 Salaamaat and ramadan kariim

Originally posted by NoVa_*: OH ya SOL Is Really OWned by KEnyans Now days with the current wave of Swahili posts, u'll feel like ur somewhere garriso or nairobi or mbombaso..... LoooL Kenyatti aa meesha qabsaday dheh....waxaa dhahdaa...wasujui wote wajinga..oo weliba waxaa u raacisaa..yote mziwa lala aa tihiin.. SOl oo dhan KondoShit ayey ka buuxiyeen..bal yaa lugayawo fahmaaya dheh..haba u darnaadaan Sujui iyo Raula chokoraa ya kigomba dheh iyaguna.. <--mischievious mood... Hehehehe Shyhem..well come back dude... Salaamaat

LoL@ Raami...you couldn't resist huh?.. You have to reply even to a topic like this?? This is how I see the whole thing (a possible scenario..i might be wrong): - One day when jalaqsan and her friends were chit chattin ..they talked about how you cant choose who you gonna fall for as in love...then..as they kept talkin about it and presentin all the worst possible scenarios to them selves... one of them said " oooh imagine If you fall for a convict...even worse what about if he was in jail for being a murderer or a rapist etc..etc.." ... but some of the girls resisted the idea... then prolly one could have said" I can fall for a guy like that if only I loose it as in crazy/insane..but even if i do that...I dont think My family would let me"...and euraka!!! the topic was born... Now sayin all that..I dont want to be a victim of jalaqsan and her friends' chitchats/tests just like their boyfriends!!! Do I??? So for all those who got emotional and had replied to this topic..I say..U have been Punked Salaamaat

Waa wareeey..Raula...U stealing my ideas Now.. You know Zanzibari Taarab/ Jazz and zanzi honeymoon were always on my agenda... <---Silly me...she is tellin me something and I didn't even realise... Raula Dont Panic Hun..am on my waaaaay.....Legend jumps on his Fav Flyin carpet and Slick Kungu Fu Khamiis.... Salaams

^^^ As long as you haven't had any plastic surgery... I will ask my son to give u a chance Insha Allah (assuming he will dig older er' mature chicks) Salaamaat

Eid...After The Prayers.... it all about HALO 2 (IT HAPPENS TO BE RELEASED RIGHT ON TIME) .. Gather My teenage Nephews and it is all in BBQ AND HALO 2...EAT PLAY EAT PLAY EAT PLAY... <--- not necessarily in that order. I am sure they gonna build me a shrine afterwards...hehehehe.. And for the night celebrations....lets leave that to the imagination... Salaams..and Happy Eid Mubaarak Salaams

Er' I dont answer Hypothetical Q's...