how is that a waste of money? Investment in real state is hot.

Sis, it seems you have mis-understood the intention of my posting. I just wanted to fathom what will motivate a girl to do such an action, i am not debating the morality of it all. Was say amused? Nope dude, i was disgusted to the core dude. But hey that is me.

Aight people; the phenomena of myspace. I was browsing the net and I came across couple maryooley pages and they were wild. Seriously ladies who left nothing to the Faraax's imagination. What a shock and horror. Are these girls feeling liberated by posing with skimby (sometimes very playboyish pictures) dresses while they are in the virtual reality?

The human race (at least those who are free from the pig consumption) is jealous folks. We are all in possession of some sort jealousy though with varying degrees. Alas, it is just expected that woman (those who have yet to free themselves from the shackles of jealousy) to feel hostile to this Minyaro business. But, marrying second wife is optional (one has the right to…. Not the obligation…); why then are we so obsessed with second wife? Allah has legislated it thusly there is illuminating wisdom behind it all! That is the reason right?

This Engineer dude is high on Khat all the time it seems.

A red blooded man can only be platonic friend with a lady if he finds her hedious and not HOT. That is the truth hun.

Castro, you mean the first was married because of bearing the children or even worst at the time alot of the older guys didn't discover the pleasures of academic intellectual discussions. And now that they have had their fund and got "educated" all of the sudden there is a hole in their marriage. Whenever they go to dinner parties, watch political debates or even a watch a movie they are confronted with articulate, educated and established women and they all of the sudden feel they have been short changed. The abiding wife seems not to fulfil this hole for similiar reasons of his former life-- lack of western education. She is then either discarded (divorced) or those who are all about duty would like to get their fun with the younger folk who might be in a possesion of such qualities he bcome aware of late. May be the Minyaro thing might closer to truth.

I am warming up to this Rahima character; she seems to have grasped the art of marriage. Briantly put honey.

Castro; and such pursuit I guess come to no fruition? Xiinfiniin; I am not convinced, I think the Castro dude might be on to something.

How is soccer going?

I tried to understand it is was very tiring to read it.

That would be great idea indeed. Let us call it Money Box

Xoogsade, I think wild cat isn't beautiful in the traditional sense. How do I know this? Simply by reading her post, keeping a short her isn't considered beautiful. The long locks of one's her flowing down that long neck has been a subject of many poems. This has been so for centuries. Now, unless you are into alternatives (which I doubt you are; having read your thoughts on Career women); you might not find this poster pretty. Undoubtedly, she is confident otherwise should not have been able to go against the traditional view of beauty (of course she thinks having a short boyyish hair is beautiful).

Being a career woman is acceptable if both parties (that is if they are married) agree and understand each other’s responsibility. The trouble is; it seems most of the ladies here who might not be “career woman†I define it as ladies who gross annual income exceed $100 thousand. Why are you guys wasting your time something that is chimera? Trust me ladies, those of us who want to have a piece of the American dream (all Halal of course) would be very gladly offer the hand of marriage (provided she satisfied all the other requirements—and the list is long trust me) to a career woman. If the both parents working, then that means a better income. By generating this revenue (also the lady for reasons known to her; feels appreciated by the larger society as a contributor of the country's GDP); we can enjoy life in a kosher way. We will be able to send our kids to Islamic private school; to hell with public education and its failings. You see, it is a win and win situation unless you are crazy jelous man in which case you will rot in your self imposing hell.

Thanks guys for the warm welcome. I didn't think you will post replies that quickly. Northener, I am not but I worked for that guy and like his business model. Somaliness; a weird and wonderful combination of the real.

I have long been an outside observer and have read many stimulating posts with varying degree of wisdom. I have decided couple days ago to be a member of this growing online family. Anyhow, I hope my stay will be a possitive one; one that will inject a new blood in your ailing bodies Jokes aside, i hope to bring forth trivia, challenging thoughts and sometimes share with you rather amusing encourters. But, let me ask you guys, what is the singular most important issue that brings as together except the shared faith and nationality. Is there something else that brings this community together? Thanks.