-43 Men should master the Art of listening (As a man learns to listen and interpret a woman's message/feelings correctly communication becomes easier, As with any Art listening requires practice)

26 how about the fact that both women and men dont know what they want and that they are pretty good at pointing the damn finger at each other on which sex/gender on needing more psychological help than the other gender in my dictionary both can live a fortunate life should they caryy on what concerns the immedaite. instead of what should they both come to term on cheers 27...Cant we just get along as two genders who are lovely freinds as ever.........

All Bombers of all nationalities should be detained and givin the highest judgments available, the same goes to any person who have had any intention of takin an innocent civilians life, By all means they deserve the highest punishment around, let it be the death penality cheers

here is my 2 pence on this topic Monday brings you back to reality that u have to earn in oder to fund ur lifestyle and pay your bills and expences for the the week ahead Tuesday is just another lame day since it couldnt replace monday Wednesday is just mid way to friday......workload isnt as heavy as it is during the begining of the week...since monday is just a curse Thursday....is just one day away from friday which is the last day of the working cycle and might be seen by most as a shoppin day for alot of things be it grocery or shopping for shoes or clothes coz u are about to get paid and less than 24 hours away from friday Friday is just the day u have been waiting for it all week long since the last week end... God bless Friday happiness is what you make of it in the current situation, succees is only experieced within faiures to make U a better person, and make U appreciate who U r currently.......while baring in mind the hardship you have been through cheers PS May God Bless us all and Forgive all our sins Aamin

life isnt simple as that U could choose a simple lyrics of a song to currently describe Ur love life or current status in a single song ( may be in 10's of songs if they were all summed up) ppl now adays have 1000s of songs in their cd collections not to mention the songs they have stored in their pc's or laptops .......so to ask for one song that sums up their current description of love life is a wee a bit over the top currently playing in the playlist memphis bleek---Infatuated followed by Dont stop--by janet jackson feat Elephant man and so on

First of All... was that afsoomaali... waayo waxba waanka fahmi waayey walal...... Qoute 1. Kuun Kuun Lamina 2. Kabteey Bilataa 3. Dhakac Dhakac 4. Hal Lugeey/Lug ka bood 5. Gariir/Imbiili 6. Baliil/Boojo mise waa af-xamari slang......dont mind me somali slang is hard enough as it goes let alone regional slang bal next time bal afka yar jilci walal... cheers

8 You are focused on learning the satisfactions to be found in the material world. The Life Path 8 produces many powerful, confident and materially successful people. You are apt to be very independent, forceful and competitive. Your routine is involved in practical, down-to-earth affairs, and there is relatively little time for dreams and visions. You will want to use your ambitions, your organizational ability, and your efficient approach to carve a satisfying niche for yourself. Most of your concerns involve money and learning of the power that comes with its proper manipulation. This Life Path is perhaps the one that is the most concerned with and desirous of status, as an accompaniment to material success. You are endowed with tremendous potential for conceiving far-reaching schemes and ideas. You also possess the tenacity and independence to follow them through to completion. In short, you are well-equipped for competition in the business world or in other competitive fields of endeavor. You know how to manage yourself and your environment. You are practical and steady in your pursuit of major objectives, and you have the courage of your convictions when it comes to taking the necessary chances to get ahead. The negative 8 can be dictatorial and often suppresses the enthusiasm and efforts of fellow member of the environment. Often, the strength of their own personality excludes close feelings for other people with whom they come in contact. Material gains and rewards often become issues of utmost importance, even to the neglect of family, home and peace of mind. Dedication to success can become an obsession. Emotional feelings are often suppressed by the negative 8, resulting in isolation and loneliness. All Life Path 8 people must avoid discounting the opinions of others. Good one OG_gal

What a total disaster! Why marry so many when U can hardly provide for a one or two let alone shit loads of them, and he blames his government for not helping to provide for them.... what a nutter, more like he should have thought with his head b4 he opened his zip every time he wanted to get laid....Lord have mercy on those who he brought to this world cheers

Qoute TAKING THE MICKEY OUT OF ME [big Grin] is still an english slang..... You might wanna simplify this more for our Yankee somalis.....as in Thought He/she was pulling my leg kinda of thing....they were pulling a joke on me cheers

sis pucca there absolutely nothing wrong with the good old sit up's or push up's. but U have to keep in mind that....To shed the fat quickly, aerobic exercise is essential -- it is not an option U and I or others have to debate about it.....simply Many people will begin to see results just from doing Aerobics alone. if for the sole reason of being tired of being soft or un-toned is the main reason why U in the first place jumped in the fittness wagon, than my frined there is alot more to being toned with especific desired results. I'm sorry, it's the truth. No amount of crunches, ab gadgets or special hanging abdominal exercises will make your abs magically appear nor will any amout of upper body work outs make U stand out. You cannot spot reduce. In other words, you can't burn abdominal fat simply by doing abdominal exercises nor could U choose to single work on the upper body limbs for a quick fixes. simply sis ....To accelerate your fat loss and increase your muscle mass, you need to train with weights and alternate your Cardio/ resistance trianing days with intentions to allow your muscles the necessary time to recuperate. Good exchnage topic so far for the well being of Women...cheers

God Almighty Bless the Good old britz....we rise above others simply said......... instead of pointing fingers to so called scape goats...........proud member of the Brit Society cheers

Why not use your qabiil name as your family name openly if that’s what you value and stand for Family surname as burco boodhweyne somethin by ancestorial track but originally known as a civilized members of the somali societ that breads abroad happily ever after cheers

what an excellent solution...good one.. weed makes you forget problems ever existed to start with

The Test Three men who were lost in the forest were captured by cannibals. The cannibal king told the prisoners that they could live if they pass a trial. The first step of the trial was to go to the forest and get ten pieces of the same kind of fruit. So all three men went separate ways to gather fruits. The first one came back and said to the king, "I brought ten apples." The king then explained the trial to him. "You have to shove the fruits up your butt without any expression on your face or you'll be eaten." The first apple went in... but on the second one he winced out in pain, so he was killed. The second one arrived and showed the king ten berries. When the king explained the trial to him he thought to himself that this should be easy. 1...2...3...4...5...6...7...8... and on the ninth berry he burst out in laughter and was killed. The first guy and the second guy met in heaven. The first one asked, "Why did you laugh, you almost got away with it?" The second one replied, "I couldn't help it, I saw the third guy coming with pineapples."

New Answering Service at the Mental Health Institute: Hello, and welcome to the mental health hotline *If you are obsessive-compulsive, press 1 repeatedly. *If you are co-dependent, please ask someone to press 2 for you. *If you have multiple personalities, press 3, 4, 5 and 6. *If you are paranoid, we know who you are and what you want. Stay on the line so we can trace your call. *If you are delusional, press 7 and your call will be transferred to the mother ship. *If you are schizophrenic, listen carefully and a small voice will tell you which number to press. *If you are a manic-depressive, it doesn't matter which number you press - no-one will answer. *If you are dyslexic, press 9696969696969. *If you have a nervous disorder, please fidget with the hash key until a representative comes on the line. *If you have amnesia press 8 and state your name, address, phone number, date of birth, social security number and your mother's maiden name. *If you have post-traumatic stress disorder, slowly and carefully press 000. *If you have bi-polar disorder, please leave a message after the beep or before the beep. Or after the beep. Please wait for the beep. *If you have short-term memory loss, press 9. If you have short-term memory loss, press 9. If you have short-term memory loss, press 9. If you have short-term memory loss, press 9. *If you have low self esteem, please hang up. All our operators are too busy to talk to you.

First of all who are we (complete strangers to ur or ur intentions) to tell U what to do second of why would our advice matter to start with its Your life and what ever step U take/ do in regards to kiss or not would be totally up to Third of all, what Century are we in for U to ask whether a simple kiss is harmless or not Do as U desire, as what ever advise we give irrelavant..... Simplly its a matter of choice cheers

Lolz we somalis are from another bread/planet. So its okey to talk about qabil or region of decent by some standards Yet a forbidden fruit to acknowledge or a topic of taboo to touch when it comes to respect for others regardless of their beliefs. Its funny that we Somalis even though we live peacefully and co-exist with non believers of other religions and they have but welcomed us humble refugees and offered re-settlement. Its seriously shocking that we hardly even appreciate a single tinny bit of it, and simply believe that it was our family members that filled the sponsors or whatever scheme is it that allowed U/us to the enter the country. Does the fact that this country that have embraced U as one of its nationals, and respected for the love of human kind for U to worship your own believes mean a single thing apart from acquiring their Passport, not to mention providing health and social benefits that our mother country wouldn’t provide in a 100 years. I guess No, we still are big on critiquing the west (non believers) Such is Life as friend of mind Use to say…… Cheers

Would any Of you Sponsor a child in third world Countries? Where by the money You send….depending on ur resident country could be US$20.00 ( or around 15 pounds, close to 20.00 euros/ CAD $25.00 or may be A$30.00)……..Come to thing of it this is same amount of money U could literally spend on a few latte’s on your way to work or may be a few days out of the month as take away option while at work or at University……… Where as on the same note You could be literally saving a child’s life. This is some of the things ur donation of that amount could do for the unfortunate child born in to poor neighborhood or country in civil war or may be of a Corrupted regime in this matter: World Vision's HopeChild or even Safe the children Appeal sponsorship program changes lives! Sponsor a Child today. For just $ certain amount a month you can sponsor a Child in African countries and other countries around the world and help turn the tide of the HIV/AIDS pandemic! You can provide things such as: Clean Water Nutritious Food Health Care Health Care, including AIDS Prevention Care for Sick or Dying Parents Educational Opportunities Spiritual Nurture (regardless of religion) HIV/AIDS Counseling And yes some of the responses might be…..but all somalis at home are also facing starvation, what makes it realistic or more humane than to sponsor other countries while we could it give it to our own kind? Well as humans we should discriminate on the needy, besides places in somali and somaliland always or some how would have relatives out there sending some sort of dahab shiil xawilaad….lolz…I am just kiddin….. The moral of the story is donate what ever U can afford without discrimination on the basis of country, religion or colour And Yes its all tax detectable for all of You’s that claim back your taxes during the financial year, whether it be business related expenses or charity related….. cheers

Quote DUDE R U MY ROOMATE [Razz] CUZ SHE READ THE DA VINCI CODE AND IS READING THE OTHER BOOK APPERENTLY THE DA VINCI IS A SEQUEL TO ANGELS AND DEMONDs WIERD EEH [Embarrassed] [Embarrassed] Lolz unfortunately now dude, just for the record I am not a harry potter fan either, those sort of trilogies is for the fun loving kidds, no offence intended dude I am sure U are a grown up. Quote Reading will help you understand your sorroundings better.An individual who is a know-how is definately more equiped to face the world than one who is not a know-how(like me).Reading will help you know where the diamonds are burried around the world.Heck reading will even equip you with something to brag about.Who will turn down a vivacious girl who has read classical novels.Now reading will equip you with a vivid imagination and colors.You will have a mind that is like a steel trap;Your insights in to problem solving would confuse and mystify people of less keeness( what Ngonge does to us on his postings).If you become an avid reader trust me you will be witty, clever, delightful, brilliant, and entertaining(not that you are not now). [big Grin] Well said and explained stoic Cheers

Goonle, my newly found critic Hope You are getting a kick out of this back and fort posts……..God Know I am having a laugh on how idiotic it seems….. Any way bro,they say Good Social connections add about 9 years to your life expectancy, compared to bad connections, so I am gone be a good sport here, and pretend that what U understood in the context of my earlier post is as you may already conceived it be and play along that role……… For the sake of argument Yes I am firm believer of equality when it comes to both sexes, and Yes I do tend to speak my mind out, but what the heck on earth does this have to do with U passing on judgments like and I quote in one of Your posts in regards “a muslima havin a fag somewhere†[Foxy Brown] [a society that has historically placed women in a second class position.] I see we got an up and coming Ayan Ali Junior wannabe. Sweetheart its a terrible thing when u refuse to live within the parameters of womanhood simply because you re in constant denial and competition with men. All this feminism will lead u to a lonely apartment at the age of 40, with no man nor kids. Accept your position in society and ulle have less comptempt. If I am not mistaken its You who is taking the context out of proportion, but needless to say this conversation isn’t going anywhere and I rather let it rest to dust than argue about it. Optimism and positive thinking have the benefits of transforming negative events in to positive ones. peace

Hello Gals I must admit all the above shoes are to die for…….Good choice……. It is a plus for the short ladies to wear platforms or high heels but for those with natural hight its recommended not to over do it…lol Gypsy lookin skirts with bright colors are the way to go for spring and early summer……… I must admit that in the world of fashion, it seems that just about every lifestyle to its trendiest seems to have a bit of the Utililty look even though it has been around in couple seasons if not decades, but designers are feeding on it like there is no 2morrow….Now a days Team cargo pants/rugged jeans with heels…U-Vola You have an instant sex appeal Not to forget the good old Military look… Khaki-greens and brown are perfect teamed with metallic accessories like macramé belts, and earthy jewelry, Gives U the instant Urban look……..may we say more>>>>> Pocket details are big now a days, You just cant get away from them, besides I must admit its every womens desire to have as many pockets available on a bag, let alone pants or skirts, For once we will have somewhere to put all over extra’s……… White and lime light green colours seem to be the in thing Just like Orange and lightish yellow were in last year….. Must say, black tops (whether see through or not) with beaded shirt overlay paired with hipster darker shade jeans is in thing, with the must have platform shoes/open toes flat ones There is also the whole trend on the trainer Glam now adays…….. there is this urban style notion that is promoting the idea of “ this gear isn’t for the Gym, Its leisure wear at its most comfortable†Mixing yellow and blue, with white and blue for having a summerly feel to it.. Trends for the working class Gal….. Straight-leg pants and single-breasted jackets always look professional and wont date……Buckles on bags and belts pull the look together Cheers

Jacaylbaro....atleast You are good sport at having a go at it....Good On You Bro..... a crush course of the above would do anyman some good housekeeping skills cheers

Hello Gals Nafta In everyday language, we describe things by comparing them with other things. The term or name Xaliima’s is just language used in a figurative or non literal sense, So my friend if that is not to ur desired liking then tough cookie dear. About soy milk, I guess if you are Lactose Intolerance, which another case then soy milk is an alternative, but what I have heard is soy milk doesn’t provide the same recommended dietary Allowance per day as normal cow’s mild would its said that a glass of soymilk would only provide 1/3 of what normal dairy milk would……but then again if its taste we are talkin about, then its merely by choice which one of the above U would choose……. Vitamin supplements its said that our body only needs a small amount of vitamins every day. A varied diet generally provides enough of each vitamin and mineral. Its also said that most of the vitamins you get from the food you eat are better than those contained in pills. However, some people may need supplements to correct deficiencies of particular vitamins or minerals, so a multi vitamin for women which is largely found in many health shops would be a good alternative. I am currently using one of those Multi Vitamins for Women, which U only need to take twice a day and has loads of minerals and vitamins recommended for women. So sky is the limit on which brand or product suits your purpose…… Xafsa…..are U allergic to all fruits or only to one or two……how is it U cant consume fresh fruits yet are able to do so when it comes to canned fruits…..just wondering? I hope that helps Cheers Gals

sorry meant Xu

Lolz Zu....none so far but planning to apply for one soon as their Sales and marketing department...just kiddin am strapped for time now, but will log on later to few a more comments cheers gals