Many, including me complain when a thug wanna-bee pulls his pants down,, now days girls pull their shirts down to adjust it with the skirt or pants when sitting infront of you. So she sits infront of you in a class, but can hardly focus the lecture because she's worried that you will take your chances to see some strech marks in the back. I'm sure most of you have experienced this at some point. That's why I hate to sick behind somali girl. Just make sure you are parallel to her or upfront if you want her to chat with you comfortably.

She must be pregnant with her 4th baby by now with the same guy she was having an argument with. lol,

R u kiddin' me Cara? Then why get married? Only production? Well, sharing the quality of life with ur lover in Halal way is Ajr(sunna) and yea the closer you get to Allah, the more exciting and happy life you will be in. Even without mentioning religion, if we compare it to being single, u think it's exciting to go to worthless somali party or clubbin' all nite with a tipsy one and at the end you don't know if you were invited to the HIV community due to the gloves failure. Aaaaaaaaaaaahhhhh, that sucks walahi.

Don't you guys also think this thread illustrates that it's not good idea to think of premarital sex in the first place? I mean what's so exciting about marriage if you've already done it with the person you love? It's basically marriage and commitment demotivator.

I don't care whether her stories were make up , or his thread was a myth, but the two most interesting NOMADS were, Jacelybaro and Fartun, Strenghts of Fartun- -Non-offensive Stories, -Real life issues -Managed to resist despite the offensive comments she recieved in return. -Doesn't care to express the need of xalimo to farah(unlike many other) -And so on....) Jacelybaro -Non-offesive thread. -Not baised. -Not sexist. -Very interesting threads. -Friendly with all the Nomads. -And so on

If Faarax doesn't, then who does? Bob Marley's tribe may be? I heard some somali gurls in London are disgraceful to the somali community. "does a faarax has a reputation anyways" You know that you included everyone right? Do you only have a mother? hhmm You might wanna rephrase ur statement hommie.

L.X. I think you're right. Whenever I read each of dem men, I had someone that I know in my mind. But I was anxious to know under which category I fall in. lol.. But one comment I would like to add is that, being nice to a girl sometimes is ok as long as you don't have any hidden agendas in ur mind. But I disagree to be very close friend to a girl unless she's ur g/f. I don't know about other guys but I feel annoyed when a girl talks to me about her b/f. Not that I'm hatin' on the brotha but it's silly... lol....(do you see dirac on me) then back off.

Buuxo I kinda agree with you that the wify shouldn't be more educated than her husband. She will attempt to dominate the family assuming that she can make better and effective decisions. Religiously speaking, our muslim women are honered and they are responsible of the household (internal affairs) and men externals. My point is not to degrade women, but Man gotta be the president. That's why if divorce occurs, 90% is the man's fault coz he supposed to set a good structure for the family to be begin with.

I was watching this Muxaadaro last night, walahi the Sheikh said we're in illussion that somali will soon be rich. That we will get oil and gold. He said that's all myth because we somalis are in Fitnah now. And God promised that if Macaasi (danuub) happens among muslims, Abaar iyo Gaajo ayaa lagu saladaa. There would not even be rain but xoolaha naxaristooda darteed aa roobka u iman. I love my country, but I hope we will be on the right track and rule by the Quran, not the so called democracy, thus we will get oil, gold, daimond and everything we wish from God. peace

Glad that you undertood my point. I'll be glad if you exercise such idea. Not only you, but society in general (from Somaliland to wherever the kenyan border is)

Good to see part of Somalia growing finacially. But what are your implications of only focusing one region in the country and one person from that region. Critically thinking, is this gonna unite us or will alert us, to feel seperate and discriminated each other. I would love to see someone from South of Somalia to post those pics of garowe, and you, the other way around. If you know what I am talking about. p.s. I'm not saying it's wrong to love the motherland, but I prefer diversity as it's our solution for cudur qabiil. peace N Luv

s/a I just have a quick question for General Duke. seems that you're supporting an Individual. All your news was about President A/Yusuf flew there and met that. Im just wondering what's your interest? how can you attract readers in favor of the TFG. tip. If you could diversify TFG elements in your thread, I assure you would influence many. But right now, it looks like you're up in here for self centered interest. salamu caleykum

Cajiib, So in other words, she's overqualfied? I'm not just gonna assume, but this is just my opinion. As I read your thread, I took several facts for granted to consider your statement. 1- For a somali woman to reach her self actualizatoin stage, she needs to get only Bachelors Degree. 2- That a Somali man is afraid to reach woman due to the lack of his education. 3- That it's harder for a Somali man to earn Bachelors Degree than a woman does, to equalize the ratio. If those above are true in the Somali Community, then I understand the problem she's experiencing. If those above are false, then she must have been identifying her problems fausly.

Interesting Topic, In a simple answer, PPle get divorced to keep the word DIVORCE alive in the Dictionary. Let's think of DIVROCE Algebraically. They will X out each other. If there's no DIVORCE = no MARRIAGE. haha,

Aaah, come'n why u gettin' me outta ur thread? I don't really care whether you hate, marry or whatever you decide with ur life. You just broke our heart us men to lose one you as one of the goody intelligent xalimo's, and so as Ibtisam. Can we have u guys back pliz? Basically you decreased the ratio of girls to men by two points. lol

looooooooool. Men,,,, who really likes them anyways? ahaha Dem girls that that are everywhere like us. I believe Mantra likes men more than almost all the girls. She's just experiencing one of those old inherited somali tradition that "it's shame for one express feelings" Caadi waaye huuno, You can love someone and I'm sure you will find one of our good Farah's when the day comes. "Alla macaan badanaa, if I know this, I would have done it before" said the 38 year-old newly married xalimo. lol

Alla it means masterbation I guess...!!!!! But that's not needed coz she already got the original version, no need for the copy version of sex........... I think this topic is gettin' nastier, segis kulahaa.

Val,, it ain't relevant. It was a response to those girls that mentioned they demand more when it comes to guys and some of them even said they don't need a man whatsoever. I call that suuro. I sometimes get annoyed when xalimo says she doesn't need a man, ohhhh that and that, just cut it out. It's a fact that we all need each other and just coz u had a bad experience with one dude, doesn't mean to apply all.

It means, living independently and Not needing anyone else to involve in ur life. GET IT...

As some of you know, Southern Sudanese pple can't pronounce P, so they say Fa. This dude calls 411- to ask if they can give him Papa Johns Pizza phone number.. Operator- Can I help you sir? Sudanese- Yes, Can I have Fafa johns phone number? Operator- Say what!! Sudanese- Fafa Johns..... You know the Fizza Flase? He meant "Papa Johns..... the Pizza place..

It's a fact that every society have ups and downs. Somali women as well have their ups and downs. Downs- Suuro badan- I was talking to this suuro badney girl and honestly she was nice in any other way except that Suuro. Once I asked her what is her reason for Suuro like she was defending her self from me, her answer was "Abowe Hoyadey aa igu Dhashay Suuraha" Suprisingly I asked the same question to another girl hours later just to collect more feedbacks, She answered exactly the same. My point here- Somali women feel good of themselves when they demand more and ee suuroodaan. I'm not saying it's a bad thing, I just know it's our somali culture women to behave such kind. Matter of fact, We men expect that behavior from girls knowing that they don't mean whatever ee dhahaan, but it's just suurahooda.

As it's hard to play basketball or soccer before you warm up, it's necessary to 4-play before any real sex takes place. U will feel discomfort if you hit the target as it's your first and last

It's not even ICU,,, IT IS UNION OF ISLAMIC COURTS UIC A.K.A. UNION OF TALENTED ISLAMIC COURTS.... NOT TRAITORS. THOSE THAT MAKE JOKES ON ISLAM HAVE NO PLACE IN SOL as it's Islam owned web.

jaceylbaro what would make u cheer for Gaalo and critisize ur muslim coutrymen brothers. They stabalized Mogadishu and other regions for the past 6 months and we should give them credit for that as I am sure Allah will praise them. They are being chased for the sake of us the society by united kufaar, intaa niyada iyo afka ka caawin laheyd, aa cayneysaa. Sxb ilaah ka cabso, we will all die walahi and God will be the only to ask help. Not gaalo or qabiil or whatever you base ur support on.

Don't worry girls, as long as you're not picky, you will find one. Personally, I don't think education is MUST as long as the person is religious and loves you much. We do consider finacially secure person now days, but there's this saying "Al qhina, qhina nafs" Richness is when you think of your self as rich, but now what you have practically. I rather end up with someone that I love than educated girl. But I still prefer the educated one..lol.