sisters and brothers i need your help, i love my dad and so i don,t want disappoint him he is a great person. my dad arranged a marraige for my big sister who just turned 18 and iam 15 years so my sister didn't like this idea so she disappeared and now my dad turned on me he said he promised this guy a girl ,and if he don't get him one he will be lair. so what should i do should i go for this man whom i have never seen or should i disappoint him like my sister. so sisters and brothers should i tske this risk chance. iam confused about this, i told my friends this but they said iam in america not africa or whereever i don't really know what america does with this iam talkind about dad not where iam anyways i wouldn't blame me for this this is his flaut but stil there must be a reason for doing this everybody makes mistake. i know he blames this on him self and amreica he says if he were in somalia he wouldn't be feeling this way. to tell you the true, yesterday when he was asking me to he was crying really tears i never sees my dad cry even when my grandfather died.