I was reading the replies in this topic it was preetty cool but i just couldn't stop commenting on Fuoad replay NUMBER"3" when he said "(NO HANDICAP)" I thought it was rude for all the sisters and brothers that might be reading this topic who could be handicaped.I think Handicaped sisters and brothers are no less than normal people. I am not saying this cuze i am handicaped but I am just thoughtful of disabled people.(I HOPE I DON'T SEEM RUDE) ANWAYS BACK TO THE TOPIC What i find the most sexy about a guy is his intelligual thinking. A guy could have a 6pack, sexy lips , cute face, ect.. but all the that is nothing with out a Man with a mind. And by the way I adore a guy with Beatuiful Smile

loooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooool GETTTTTTTTTTTT A lifeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee plz :mad:

HUMMMM I don't like to date guys based on figues. But the guy HAS TO BE SMART , in school, educated like me, sweet and nice , respect ALL WOMEN AND me , has to be open and honest and WITH BIG BIG BIG BIG SMILE ALWAYZ AND SENSE OF HUMOR

Nuune! As I was reading most of the replayz I found many disagree with ex model waris opionions about Somalia in her book. I think what waris wrote was based on her expreiences. Personally I found most of things she wrote about Somalia is true. I am really honest person. I think most of somalians don't wann live in the reality or to say it better don't wanna know their mistakes. If I am worng or right i admitt it and try to CORRECT IT AND TRY TO BE BETTER PERSON. :eek:

sorry SORRY !ON THE PREVIOUS MESSAGE when i said "thridly" i misspelled Tennacious_J NAME

sorry SORRY !ON THE PREVIOUS MESSAGE when i said "thridly" i misspelled Tennacious_J NAME

sorry SORRY !ON THE PREVIOUS MESSAGE when i said "thridly" i misspelled Tennacious_J NAME

THANXs ALL FOR UR REPLAYS, First DAD9000 thanx bro 4 ur sweet replay and descriping me as unique. Secondly, ROCKS CHICK sis I know that alot of somalian plp don't like to be described as Arabs. When in the reality we are Arabs. Yes Somalians are PART OF ARAB NATIONS. Nationally we are Arabs we are not part of AFRICAN OR EUPEAN NATION. THIS IS THE TRUTH AND IT COULD BE THE SAD TURTH FOR ALOT OF SOMALIANs BUT THIS IS THE REalITY. Since the last president of somalian, somalians have been part of arab nation. Thridly, Tennise, bro my conflict is not about citizenship u can have 10 passports and u won't feel that u belong to any of them. My conflict is about culture differences that i face daily basis. As most of somalians in foreign countries we are all requied to make discions daily basis choices in which we should react that favor of that culture or not. Cultures sometimes don't really agree with each other but make conflict. Bro u said that ALL ARABS FEEL SUPERIOR OF SOMALIAN . first as i told ROCKS CHICK that somalians are ARABS yes ARE ARABS. Just because u experienced that that some arabs non somalians ones feel superior that their neighbor arabs it doesn't mean they ALL DO FEEL THE SAME. I lived in them I KNOW SOME OF THEM DO FEEL THEY ARE AND OTHER NOT. That's life there are good and bad in every person and after all WE ARE ALL EQUAL. Just because one arab person thinks that arabs feel superior over somalians THAT it doesn't mean that THEY ALL DO. And U said that if all plp think like me the somalian tradional that hold tigh will fell...lol and since when it was strong . The somalian cuture is starting to fade as u see in somalians wed where there is THE WHITE DRESS AND THE ANGLES AND HIP HOP MUSIC ON. Somalian guy and girls wearing new world clothes going to club dirnking and what so ever. I am not saying that all somalian plp don't follow their culture but i think it is already fading. And i think mine is starting too but i don't want it to fade cuze i am somalian and i love being it. That's why I wrote this q to help me understand and regain the culture again. And by the way i know alot of somalian who feel the same.

THANXs ALL FOR UR REPLAYS, First DAD9000 thanx bro 4 ur sweet replay and descriping me as unique. Secondly, ROCKS CHICK sis I know that alot of somalian plp don't like to be described as Arabs. When in the reality we are Arabs. Yes Somalians are PART OF ARAB NATIONS. Nationally we are Arabs we are not part of AFRICAN OR EUPEAN NATION. THIS IS THE TRUTH AND IT COULD BE THE SAD TURTH FOR ALOT OF SOMALIANs BUT THIS IS THE REalITY. Since the last president of somalian, somalians have been part of arab nation. Thridly, Tennise, bro my conflict is not about citizenship u can have 10 passports and u won't feel that u belong to any of them. My conflict is about culture differences that i face daily basis. As most of somalians in foreign countries we are all requied to make discions daily basis choices in which we should react that favor of that culture or not. Cultures sometimes don't really agree with each other but make conflict. Bro u said that ALL ARABS FEEL SUPERIOR OF SOMALIAN . first as i told ROCKS CHICK that somalians are ARABS yes ARE ARABS. Just because u experienced that that some arabs non somalians ones feel superior that their neighbor arabs it doesn't mean they ALL DO FEEL THE SAME. I lived in them I KNOW SOME OF THEM DO FEEL THEY ARE AND OTHER NOT. That's life there are good and bad in every person and after all WE ARE ALL EQUAL. Just because one arab person thinks that arabs feel superior over somalians THAT it doesn't mean that THEY ALL DO. And U said that if all plp think like me the somalian tradional that hold tigh will fell...lol and since when it was strong . The somalian cuture is starting to fade as u see in somalians wed where there is THE WHITE DRESS AND THE ANGLES AND HIP HOP MUSIC ON. Somalian guy and girls wearing new world clothes going to club dirnking and what so ever. I am not saying that all somalian plp don't follow their culture but i think it is already fading. And i think mine is starting too but i don't want it to fade cuze i am somalian and i love being it. That's why I wrote this q to help me understand and regain the culture again. And by the way i know alot of somalian who feel the same.

THANXs ALL FOR UR REPLAYS, First DAD9000 thanx bro 4 ur sweet replay and descriping me as unique. Secondly, ROCKS CHICK sis I know that alot of somalian plp don't like to be described as Arabs. When in the reality we are Arabs. Yes Somalians are PART OF ARAB NATIONS. Nationally we are Arabs we are not part of AFRICAN OR EUPEAN NATION. THIS IS THE TRUTH AND IT COULD BE THE SAD TURTH FOR ALOT OF SOMALIANs BUT THIS IS THE REalITY. Since the last president of somalian, somalians have been part of arab nation. Thridly, Tennise, bro my conflict is not about citizenship u can have 10 passports and u won't feel that u belong to any of them. My conflict is about culture differences that i face daily basis. As most of somalians in foreign countries we are all requied to make discions daily basis choices in which we should react that favor of that culture or not. Cultures sometimes don't really agree with each other but make conflict. Bro u said that ALL ARABS FEEL SUPERIOR OF SOMALIAN . first as i told ROCKS CHICK that somalians are ARABS yes ARE ARABS. Just because u experienced that that some arabs non somalians ones feel superior that their neighbor arabs it doesn't mean they ALL DO FEEL THE SAME. I lived in them I KNOW SOME OF THEM DO FEEL THEY ARE AND OTHER NOT. That's life there are good and bad in every person and after all WE ARE ALL EQUAL. Just because one arab person thinks that arabs feel superior over somalians THAT it doesn't mean that THEY ALL DO. And U said that if all plp think like me the somalian tradional that hold tigh will fell...lol and since when it was strong . The somalian cuture is starting to fade as u see in somalians wed where there is THE WHITE DRESS AND THE ANGLES AND HIP HOP MUSIC ON. Somalian guy and girls wearing new world clothes going to club dirnking and what so ever. I am not saying that all somalian plp don't follow their culture but i think it is already fading. And i think mine is starting too but i don't want it to fade cuze i am somalian and i love being it. That's why I wrote this q to help me understand and regain the culture again. And by the way i know alot of somalian who feel the same.

Thanks bro u really made me imagine .Tt's carry to imagine death but this is reality. I believe it's important to always remember ALLAH and always remember UR CONSINCOUS IN WHAT EVER U DO. SALAM, PEACE

Thanks bro u really made me imagine .Tt's carry to imagine death but this is reality. I believe it's important to always remember ALLAH and always remember UR CONSINCOUS IN WHAT EVER U DO. SALAM, PEACE

Thanks bro u really made me imagine .Tt's carry to imagine death but this is reality. I believe it's important to always remember ALLAH and always remember UR CONSINCOUS IN WHAT EVER U DO. SALAM, PEACE

Thanks bro u really made me imagine .Tt's carry to imagine death but this is reality. I believe it's important to always remember ALLAH and always remember UR CONSINCOUS IN WHAT EVER U DO. SALAM, PEACE

Brother u are on the right track. You know u haven't been doing what u could the best and now u trying to correct it cuze u know u can do better. I know alot of teens who go into adulthood with hearing that voice (bettering ur self) so u should be glad u did and it's not too late to start a new beginging u still are young. It won't be eazy starting a new begining cuze I bet there is always something remainds u to the club, drinking and what so far. All I can tell u is that Challenge them. Take them as a chanllenge that u won't go the club, dink or what so ever when there is something better that u have to do. Put ur proiotes first. Don't just say i wanna change cuze i want to BUT say i wanna change cuze i need to get to school to be..... and to do...... What I want u to do is to to set GOALS GOALS GOLAS. I said three times cuze it's very important thing cuze if u know ur goals and ur really really DESIRE TO SET IT(UR GOALS)u can be who ever u want. Just focus on ur goals on a daily basis when u feel like going back clubing remember u goals then and say in ur mind WHAT DO I REALLY NEED TO ACCOMPLISH MY GOALS OR MY CLUBING LIFE. This is my personal favourte i write my goals on a paper and i will read them when i get distracted from acheiving my goal. If i were u i would read my goals almost every day if not twice a day at least so i can always remember them when need to. In order to accomplish ur goals U need to be PATIENCE cuze u know it won't be easy getting what u want. And another thing bro don't think that u would change in one night just like that being a new human being these things takes TIME AND PATIENCE so take it step by step for ex. instead of going to club every weekend go the club every other weekend untill u find ur self not going there anymore. BEST OF LUCK PEACE

Brother u are on the right track. You know u haven't been doing what u could the best and now u trying to correct it cuze u know u can do better. I know alot of teens who go into adulthood with hearing that voice (bettering ur self) so u should be glad u did and it's not too late to start a new beginging u still are young. It won't be eazy starting a new begining cuze I bet there is always something remainds u to the club, drinking and what so far. All I can tell u is that Challenge them. Take them as a chanllenge that u won't go the club, dink or what so ever when there is something better that u have to do. Put ur proiotes first. Don't just say i wanna change cuze i want to BUT say i wanna change cuze i need to get to school to be..... and to do...... What I want u to do is to to set GOALS GOALS GOLAS. I said three times cuze it's very important thing cuze if u know ur goals and ur really really DESIRE TO SET IT(UR GOALS)u can be who ever u want. Just focus on ur goals on a daily basis when u feel like going back clubing remember u goals then and say in ur mind WHAT DO I REALLY NEED TO ACCOMPLISH MY GOALS OR MY CLUBING LIFE. This is my personal favourte i write my goals on a paper and i will read them when i get distracted from acheiving my goal. If i were u i would read my goals almost every day if not twice a day at least so i can always remember them when need to. In order to accomplish ur goals U need to be PATIENCE cuze u know it won't be easy getting what u want. And another thing bro don't think that u would change in one night just like that being a new human being these things takes TIME AND PATIENCE so take it step by step for ex. instead of going to club every weekend go the club every other weekend untill u find ur self not going there anymore. BEST OF LUCK PEACE

Brother u are on the right track. You know u haven't been doing what u could the best and now u trying to correct it cuze u know u can do better. I know alot of teens who go into adulthood with hearing that voice (bettering ur self) so u should be glad u did and it's not too late to start a new beginging u still are young. It won't be eazy starting a new begining cuze I bet there is always something remainds u to the club, drinking and what so far. All I can tell u is that Challenge them. Take them as a chanllenge that u won't go the club, dink or what so ever when there is something better that u have to do. Put ur proiotes first. Don't just say i wanna change cuze i want to BUT say i wanna change cuze i need to get to school to be..... and to do...... What I want u to do is to to set GOALS GOALS GOLAS. I said three times cuze it's very important thing cuze if u know ur goals and ur really really DESIRE TO SET IT(UR GOALS)u can be who ever u want. Just focus on ur goals on a daily basis when u feel like going back clubing remember u goals then and say in ur mind WHAT DO I REALLY NEED TO ACCOMPLISH MY GOALS OR MY CLUBING LIFE. This is my personal favourte i write my goals on a paper and i will read them when i get distracted from acheiving my goal. If i were u i would read my goals almost every day if not twice a day at least so i can always remember them when need to. In order to accomplish ur goals U need to be PATIENCE cuze u know it won't be easy getting what u want. And another thing bro don't think that u would change in one night just like that being a new human being these things takes TIME AND PATIENCE so take it step by step for ex. instead of going to club every weekend go the club every other weekend untill u find ur self not going there anymore. BEST OF LUCK PEACE

Brother u are on the right track. You know u haven't been doing what u could the best and now u trying to correct it cuze u know u can do better. I know alot of teens who go into adulthood with hearing that voice (bettering ur self) so u should be glad u did and it's not too late to start a new beginging u still are young. It won't be eazy starting a new begining cuze I bet there is always something remainds u to the club, drinking and what so far. All I can tell u is that Challenge them. Take them as a chanllenge that u won't go the club, dink or what so ever when there is something better that u have to do. Put ur proiotes first. Don't just say i wanna change cuze i want to BUT say i wanna change cuze i need to get to school to be..... and to do...... What I want u to do is to to set GOALS GOALS GOLAS. I said three times cuze it's very important thing cuze if u know ur goals and ur really really DESIRE TO SET IT(UR GOALS)u can be who ever u want. Just focus on ur goals on a daily basis when u feel like going back clubing remember u goals then and say in ur mind WHAT DO I REALLY NEED TO ACCOMPLISH MY GOALS OR MY CLUBING LIFE. This is my personal favourte i write my goals on a paper and i will read them when i get distracted from acheiving my goal. If i were u i would read my goals almost every day if not twice a day at least so i can always remember them when need to. In order to accomplish ur goals U need to be PATIENCE cuze u know it won't be easy getting what u want. And another thing bro don't think that u would change in one night just like that being a new human being these things takes TIME AND PATIENCE so take it step by step for ex. instead of going to club every weekend go the club every other weekend untill u find ur self not going there anymore. BEST OF LUCK PEACE

hey all my somalian plp! U know how plp talk about who is mature and who is not. So I am just wondering when does a person gets that level that we call him/her mature?!

hey all my somalian plp! U know how plp talk about who is mature and who is not. So I am just wondering when does a person gets that level that we call him/her mature?!

Girl! U got the hole idea worng. Frist marriage is not just about sex u might think so but the opposite is. And secondly i honestly think is an im proper question for a muslim girl to ask (i assume). Our muslim values teaches what marriage is. Marriage is about respect and understanding of each spouse not all about sex. and living with each other happily with understanding. anywaz next time plz think abot the questions u ask first. :rolleyes:

Girl! U got the hole idea worng. Frist marriage is not just about sex u might think so but the opposite is. And secondly i honestly think is an im proper question for a muslim girl to ask (i assume). Our muslim values teaches what marriage is. Marriage is about respect and understanding of each spouse not all about sex. and living with each other happily with understanding. anywaz next time plz think abot the questions u ask first. :rolleyes:

Girl! U got the hole idea worng. Frist marriage is not just about sex u might think so but the opposite is. And secondly i honestly think is an im proper question for a muslim girl to ask (i assume). Our muslim values teaches what marriage is. Marriage is about respect and understanding of each spouse not all about sex. and living with each other happily with understanding. anywaz next time plz think abot the questions u ask first. :rolleyes:

Girl! U got the hole idea worng. Frist marriage is not just about sex u might think so but the opposite is. And secondly i honestly think is an im proper question for a muslim girl to ask (i assume). Our muslim values teaches what marriage is. Marriage is about respect and understanding of each spouse not all about sex. and living with each other happily with understanding. anywaz next time plz think abot the questions u ask first. :rolleyes:

I am a girl who been blessed to be from 3 different countries. The country i am from somalia, raised almost all my life in arab country and the country i am living now in usa. Which is great to be in all those countries but there is something that is not great about it. Sometimes i wonder who am I really? when plp ask me where am i from? I tell them somalian but i am not totally cuze i left there when i was six so i think of telling them an arab country and no i feel sometimes telling them AFRICAN AMERICAN since i am almost becoming an citizen. I know that sounds crazy and alot of plp is going to tell believe in ur self and u will find ur self. But alot of times I feel hunted by cultures. I feel that I can never be the Ideal somalian for the majority somalian plp becuze I don't really speak the accent well and i don't really believe in somethings they do. In the same i can't be from that arab country that i am from beauze i belong to my roots being a somalian and i wasn't born there and becauze i still carry my somalian culture that mom remainds about all the time being who i am . Which is always stress me about it? (i know she is right beauze to be sucessful u got to know ur roots) AND today being a teen in this new world i feel like saying an AMERICAN as i am from here or something u know. But i am not . ANYWAYZ every where i go i feel hunted by cultures, traditions and behaviors of culture.....just replay tell me what u think i am sure alot of somalian plp has been through this like this.