First What worried me was the fact that many get mixed masseges from the imams, why do they disagree so much?? & secound my curiosity about anal-sex had taking me to talk to many sister's and yes this happens even in some very religious homes....see them sisters i chatted with first felt to ashamed and sceard to talk but then it was hard to listen to them cause knowing that their still married and their husbands are known as religious men i was confeused.....All we do is fight on this kind of topic instead we really need to help eachother. Them sister's i talked to rather be silenced and worry about people's reaction then to step forward and speak about their problems!!! I have invited them to this topic and surly they are reading each reply so please let's be helpful! JUBA i hope i was able to help you understand better now Thanks

Sex has changed alot through-out them years and many care more for games then love & intimacy, i haerd/read alot about them disagreements between Imams when it comes to this topic and i honestly think they are giving a piece of their own idea's instead off trying to pass the rightious answer to them lost brothers and sisters out their. I also wonna know why some brother's have problems understanding the fact that anal-sex is forbidden.....I can see alot off sister's with them problems, i read once in a hadith that the secound youz two have such contact your marriedg is over what do you do iff your husbands fantcy is the end off your MARRIEDG besides my curiosity this is an issue in our comunity and really am interested in why something like this happens.... feel free one love

we talked about that piece of shit in many threads thus far. if you do a search in this forum you should find a link to that movie she did.. I didn't know that, thanks anyways! HASNA:Hello SOlers I just think that she needs attention. She is hungry and dying for more and more. I seriously think she is confused. I hope she trully gets help. She has become a puppet for the Gaalo Mps. I also think people do make mistakes and Inshallah Allah will lead her to the right path. Well said, i really hope that too! Thanks and sorry normads

That was easy why can't some see the dogs i did twice....ooo i c

I think I feel sorry for her, in the sence that she confeused, her messeage is not clear to anyone, what is it that she is wanting to achieve with the drama.....Did anyone see the movie by the way..? I think she is putting her life and health in danger.....! what you think?

All I was seeking for was islamic Perspective off devorce i"m glad i got that now... I have never expected marriage to go smoothly, i was just avoiding zina alhamdulilah and i guess their was no way i could have provented this from happening it was all written ! Jaza-khallah kheran nomads!

first wa-salaam Caveman, this ain't curiosity, really take my word i did try to make this marriage work i guess a terrible option is better then living terriblely each blessing day.....!! yes their is abuse involved and many things i can't even write if i tried... I really want us to get along for the sake of our onborn but things just ain't that easy....!! I heard devorce is strongly discouraged but not haraam so.....what iff he is not ready to devorce me does only his vote count?? ????? :confused:

Can a female divorce a male? I mean shouldn't woman have a choice, let's say a sister would like to get out of a marriedge and she has a damn good reason can she just end it?? to make it more complicated she is preagnant and she wonna divorce like right now what does islam say??? I really would appriciate some Help out.....!! Thanks

I see you have got lack off attention and i really wonna give you some but " 'Inanta yar' needs to show respect for something called intellectual property. P.S: I was speaking generally." waarbaal taloow....Haye iwat shekadaah Somali wiiq apearently you dont look far to start something....damii daabka Huno am not the war type one love

I'm a big fan of Elizabeth Bowen some off her books i read( The Death of the Heart,The Last September...holding the dictinary while reading is what i do I like the complicated english words she uses helps me get better..! No Laughter Here,by Rita Williams-Garcia was also fun to read!

switching 'rum and coke' for 'milk and thee(sic)' classifies as writing it. Cut it out people. Leave the work of the talented untouched and unclaimed. Or I'll be breathing down your neck. And you DO NOT want that. This is how I got the poem from a friend and i thought to pass it on....so just dont asume nothing

It wasn’t a moonlit night Nor even a bright sunny day It wasn’t over a romantic dinner Nor on a sandy beach did we lay It was indoors and under a white tube light On yet another tiresome office day That our eyes met and held each other’s gaze For how long, neither could say It wasn’t his quick-witted banter Nor the smile he flashed my way It wasn’t even the way he was dressed Nor the attitude he did portray It was the way he’d looked at me And then softly said my name That he took my breath away And on my heart he had laid claim It wasn’t a whirlwind romance Nor a courtship you may say It wasn’t a sluggish wooing Nor an irksome dilatory display It was a friendship that began to blossom With every passing day It was the fondness that grew and grew And soon love did friendship betray It wasn’t through a touching love letter Nor a romantic melodious song It wasn’t through a declaration of love Nor a sense of a commitment lifelong It was over a milk and thee And some gourmet somalian cuisine That I put my hand on his And from my heart I did come clean. It wasn’t euphoric agreement Nor did a smile emerge on his face It wasn’t a rueful response Nor of remorse was there a trace It was a gentle and evasive look As he glanced at me to say We’ll talk about this later You are not yourself today It wasn’t ever spoken about again For there was never an appropriate day It wasn’t even forgotten For neither could keep the feelings at bay It was with time that each began To understand the other’s way It was then that the love was deepened It now transcended time and space It wasn’t a flirtatious fling Nor a frivolous love affair It wasn’t an amorous liaison Nor a passion of despair It was the tacit affirmation Of a love so very rare The unuttered implicit attraction That will be nurtured with utmost care. And so it continues Till this very present day So much both have to say That neither can yet convey Hope you guys enjoy this one as much as i did