Inaa lilaahi wa inaa ileyhi rajicuun Lander No doubt it is tragedy but what u need to understand is, a human being can’t prevent any thing without the will of Allah. Their time was up though is sad but they couldn’t have died better place then performing hajj. Is impossible to control millions of people. Plz bro don’t sound like the west who have no faith (iman) whatsoever and blaming the accident on the saudi’s, is their way (west media) of sending wrong image of islam world. Stop critising Saudi government, they deserve respect and appreciation, they do their ultimate best to look after pilgrims & the two masjids. If you ever been their u would have known the great job they have done in the past and still doing.

Asalaamu Aleikum Wr Wb Indeed it is a beautiful article to remaind us as long Allah with us we will always succeed. Mansha Allah jazaaka laah kheyr brother.

Asalaamu Aleikum Wr Wb Is really sad walaahi especially in this blessed month. Allahu Aclam who is behind these tragedies, but I think the west is behind it & they using Muslims to get their revenge. I don’t think a group of Muslims will intentionally do such a think if they don’t have anything in it for them. Let’s be realistic the west sorounds all over Middle East they control all of those countries. So why not suspect that they used caloshood u shaqeeysato to destroy our Muslim brothers & sisters. History is repeating, about 50 years ago, it was the west who made Muslims enemy to each other which resulted the distortion of dulatul cuthmaniyah in turky & occupations of Palestine. In this century they distroying us in our own countries first Afghanistan, Iraq & list will continue. Allahu Aclam what is going on but as long as we r afraid of the west our blood will shed both at muslim soul or non muslim soul.

Asalaamu Aleikum Wr Wb Originally posted by Mujahid: Buubto and Lakkad did you make it? Yes I did made it mujaahid thanks for asking. It was good experience I liked the ceel gaab place in london (weblley) excusese my spelling mistake!. I felt like I was in somalia being in weblley . I went to southall & i felt like i was in India . Yes I did checkout a few places it was good. But dam how tinny is the city & not to mention the houses. Oh god the roads gave me big friad, how tinny is it with so many cars. Walaahi I was so scaried I thought I was going to have car accident the two weeks I was there. Ovrall it was good I enjoied it.

Asalaamu Aleikum Wr Wb I was told that a somali brother was participating the competition, so I watched from the first night walaahi I felt nothing but embarrassed. I hoped & made dua that he won’t progress further than top 100. Alhamdulilah he didn’t, walaahi I feel sorry for him, such a good voice don’t need to be wasted on sheedhaan (singing). The brother got a good voice, I just hope he focus’s on making Islamic nashiida & reciting qur’aan rather than running after music contract.

Asalaamu Aleikum Wr Wb Inaa lilaah wa inaa ileeyi rajicuun. Allaha u wada naxariisto marxuumiinta. Ilahay ha u wada danbi dhaafo (Amin). Walaahi it hurts me to see our people in this kind condition. For those who r in the west we barley surviving in this western society. For those in Somalia they r in endless war. Subxaana laah umad inkaaran ayaan nahay ilahay hanoo gar gaaro. (Amin).

Asalaamu Aleikum Wr Wb Horta marka hore Allihii na’abuurtay aan ku xamdino, waayo manihin dad baaba ah oo aan meel ku sugneen dhaqan & diin wax ay heystaan aan lagaraneyn. Qofna qofkale in uu xaqtiro ma wanaagsan saa awgeed inagu yeenu is xaqtirin. Waa run dad qalafsani wey inagu jiraan, taana waxaa sabibisay aqoon daro dhanka diinta & magaalo joog xumo. Sida igu maqaalaha ah somali badankood reer mii ayee ahaan jireen, mii & magaalana isku mid ma’aha. Macdalaa iyagoo west-ka la keenay. Waageena hore ma aynu aheen dad ku ad adag dhanka diinta & dhaqanka. 60s & 70s hadii aan eegno walidiinteena sawiradooda & habnoleedkooda wuxuu ahaa mid yurubiyaan ah dhanka labiska & fikradaha. Somalida waxey ku maah maahdaba “orka hore meesha uu raaco ayuu oorka danbena raacaa”! cuurta sida lagu bar baariyo ayee noqonayaan. Bulshadeena waxey aheed mid qadaris & jecel in ey dhaan dhaanjiyaan dhaqamada kale iyadoo la modayo in ey tahay ilbax nimo. Haa dugsi waa lageeyay, balse tagistiisa mexee tartay hadii aanba la fahmeeni micnaha qur’aanka & ulajeedadiisa. Dhaqankeena wayahaan danbe ayaa la xushmeyaa, waagii hore meshii gablee shibir, dhaanto & etc ka dheeli lahayeen ayee disco dance dheeli jireen. Meeshii laga xiran lahaa garees mini skir & canbuur garbaha ka qaawan laga xiran jiran. Marka dhibatadan ma’aha mid dhalinyarada hada la timid oo waa mid waligeed soo jiri jirtay. Waxaa un is badashay dadkeeni oo diintii fahmay.

Asalaamu Aleikum Wr Wb Inaa lilaah wa inaa ileyhi rajicuun. shyhem ilahay ha u naxariisto aabahii, ilahay ha ka yeelo kii kitabkiisa gacanta midig lagasiiyo (Aamin). khabrigiisana ilahay ha u nuuriyo (aamin).

Asalaamu Aleikum Wr Wb RC wlc back sis Oh my god u remaind me when i was obsessed with gariir. dam I missed that game. Most of the times I find myself saying “eey aa cunay” or subxaana laah. i know this is off topic. but why do ppl say it isnot good to sing the bathroom or shower whatever u call it?? Magnoona girl Sis to answer ur q, the reason we not allowed to even speak in the bathroom is because it is the house of the shedhaan. When we enter in the bathroom the two angels on our two shoulders wait for us in front of the bathroom until we get out. If we speak it means the angels have to get in the bathroom & note down what we said. The other reason the shedhaan is more likely to persuade us more in the shower then we r in the outside. That is why we have to read the “du’aa “Alahuma acuudu bika banal qubthi wal qabaaith” b4 we enter in the bathroom. Hope that answered ur q.

Asalaamu Aleikum Wr Wb I believe nabsi exist, simply we know that if u make promise & u break it, it is a sin. So keeping a promise is a very important as far as our religion goes. Nabsi will hunt u down if u don’t keep your word depending the satiation, it doesn’t just happen it depends whether the person is truly honest & fears Allah. There is lot’s of hadiths that speak about nabsi, I can’t remember exactly but there was this man who was looking after his old father who was blind, can’t walk, feed himself or even go to bathroom. After few years he couldn’t look after him & left him under big tree, because wuu karaahsaday. (subhana laah). The man who did that to his father got old & blind, his son was looking after him, the old man was same condition as his father, and his son couldn’t look after him any longer & took him & left him under a big tree. The old man asked his son, what sort of tree is it? & where does it locate at? It turned out to be the same tree that he left his father. The old man replied I left my father under this same tree. (Subhana laah) In our life time we see it happen. There is lots of story i could tell u i am sure u have seen it or heard. Ilahay dhib ma abuurin that is why we have rules to fellow, if u think is not going to work tell the person & ask them forgiveness. If u unsure, do not commit any commitment, let time take it’s course if it worked then Alhamdulilah if it didn’t then Alhamdulilah too.

Originally posted by Lakkad: [QB] Salaams---Buubto manooleed?--glad to see u walashis Thanks nice to see u too, glad to see u not one of the old nomads who changed thier shirts & dirac's. I can't reckognise them :mad: to see a familiar name makes big differece . This ppl with Jinn R fakking and they is fakes-sabaabto ah one of my uncles aa maalin boolis(eey wato) ayuu ku bursaday(and he did it for the hecks of it!)and he made em confess str8 up that they was deceptive and wax kajiro maleh!....lakin it works for the ppl-- Allahu yaclam, since we came to west i am yet to see a lady with duulal even the one's who had it, seem to be fine all the sudden :rolleyes: . Maraqooda muufo u gashay they don't need to ask their needs any more

Asalaamu Aleikum Wr Wb Juxa I agree with ya Those young girls r innocent & blind, they don’t know how to live in this life their guidance mislead them. Kids r like animal if u don’t lead them to walk in the bush rather than on the road, they won’t know unless u direct them on the right road. I hate when I see prance who say I am powerless, that is crap. Were u powerless when u bought them in the west? Were u powerless when u were raising them? All the sudden u r powerless simply u r too weak & too ignorant to set the rules. They saw it in the prance, so like typical teenagers they test your patience & how much u can take it, if they see a little breathing space they walk on u. Our people say “orka hore meesha uu maro ayuu orka danbena maraa”. If the prance isn’t on the right truck how can u expect the kids to be on the right truck? Most Somali prance don’t know how to raise kids, they r absolutely ignorant when it comes to kids; they think beating & yelling at them is the answer. Infact when u beat them; it creates curiousness to try what u r preventing from them. Often Somali prance don’t build a very close relationship with their kids, when I say close I mean:- 1. Having intellectual conversation with them 2. Spending a lot of time with them, not by being in the house & speaking on the phone while the kid’s r either on the net or watching TV. Do thing with them, for example taking them to park & playing with them etc. 3. show them u not only their prance but u r their best friend 4. Educate them about life by reflecting the stages they going through 5. Own their trust in u, so they can tell u whatever on their mind Our Somali culture the way to raise kids is to keep them in darkness, it might work in the olden days, but not at present. That is why we see communication breakdown between the prance & kids simply the prance r not willing to connect with kids & educate them. The only way we can over come this problem is if the prance get educated by simply taking parenting classes.

Asalaamu Aleikum Wr Wb Originally posted by MIZZ-UNIQUE: buubto naagti dariska wa buubi jirtay haye.....lol lol buubid ku ronaa rako wey ka dartay lol i also remember cunuga marki lacayuumo wax baa lasiiya..i think it was mal mal Don't they use mal mal to stop sucking the thump? I remember they used on me & my sister :rolleyes:

Asalaamu Aleikum Wr Wb Originally posted by Miskiin-Macruuf-Aqiyaar: [QB] Buubto, LooooooL. Waxaa ka hadloysaa aan u maleynaa boorame . Isn't boorame a city's name? I don't know excatlly what they called it but i do know it, as saarasha dadka ku soo dago, mingis ka tumid or duulal. Whatever they call it, it is scary. Qofkii jadeeco heyso, geed geedaha kamid eh caleentiis aa loo qasaa madaxa laga saraa. dam laa ilaha ila laah ha isoo xasuusin, i remember markuu jadeeco igu dhacay, it was so horrible caleen la kar kariyay plus an animal blood ayaa la igu qubeeyay, i do remember feeling disgusting afterwords. By the way, do you guys know there was a famous doctor in Xamar who immigrated from Burundi named Dr. Didoneeya ? Or Ditoore Burundi as of his nationality. Gabar Soomaali uu qabay, and the guy was really anything but Soomaali. Yes i do know him he was a family doctor. why is he expart in somali medicene?

Asalaamu Aleikum Wr Wb How about “duulal” the person completely changes speaks in different language often the voice changes as well, to an old men. She (the victim) will order whatever she wants (though they say is the jin’s who request their needs). One’s I remember our neighbors housemaid had this disease, duulashii ayaa ku soo kacay, she jumped over the fence to our house jumping up & down in strange way & threatening everyone. So an old lady helped her, cuud ayaa la shiday, She ordered maraq with hilib when she ate it, then she ordered some drums, other ladies came & they plaied the drums, they said is the way to cure it, after a while she was fine like nothing happened. Subhana laah, that is one of the strange things I have seen.

Asalaamu Aleikum WR WB Originally posted by silent-sistah: like the sister said,,the most popular hair style for a hijaab is the bun yep i do use the bun as well, i don't think u could do ur hear in other style if u wear a hijab, because the fact is going to look puffy & funny. Every girl i know that wears hijab uses the bun.

Asalaamu Aleikum Wr Wb LATEAFHA Sis Jazaaka laah kheyr, indeed it is a very good reminder very well designed & get's the message a cross loud & clear. Trully it is the best reminder i have come a cross. I listen it more than 10 each time different feeling. May Allah protect our soul (Amin).

Asalaamu Aleikum Wr Wb Barwaaqo & Amina couldn't said it better. Blasma Whether we r extra cautious about our future or not, we won’t miss what is written for us, no matter how aware we r. our future plans is in the hands of Allah subhana watacalaa, no 1 can control it. Whatever happened, it happened for a reason but to regret it is not the way to deal with it. Shaley wa xaraan. Ku hamdi wuxuu Alle ku siiyay. U told us u r religious, if u r why r u questioning what happened? Why can’t u have faith in Allah, & take it as a test to ur patience & faith? U don’t make sence at all. Waa adiga shalaynayee ma isweydiisay waxaad isku qumeyneysid in uu yahay sida kheyrka kugu jirto iyo inkale? Waxaa lagayabaa in ey shar kuu aheed uu ilahay kaa xijaabay. Subhana laah inta aad gacmahaaga kor u taagto Alle ku hamdi waxa aad heysato. Allah gave u the opportunity to establish a career, knowledge is a gift, and stop thinking about what might have being and start helping the poor people with your knowledge, or wealth. Raxmada Alle lagama quusto, wax walibana amarkiisee ku dhacaan, adiguse duco un baa lagaa dooni. Like other sisters said age is not a factor, if Allah meant for u to get married u will no matter what is ur age even if it is 60. Everything happenens according to Allah's Will

Asalaamu Aleikum WR WB There r a lot of good signatures, but the one that i liked the most when i read it was OG_Girl . "أعظم كلمة هي . . . الله" when ever i come a cross her signatures it puts on my face.

Asalaamu Aleikum Wr Wb Walaal Quit Storm Subhanalaah this is very sad & heartbreaking to see our people behaving this way even the educated ones, over what a useless soccer game. What a childish act, for god sake get your acts together. Stop tribalism & support Islamism, for one’s obey Islam rather than qabiil. Sooner or later we will leave this earth our tribe is not going to save us, but our deeds will. but what made me post this topic is the way some southern people diss Somalilanders and pretend that nothing happened back in the civil war, thousands of people have been killed and many have been buried alive or shot to death by our Muslim brothers from south, now put yourself in my shoes what would you have done? Truly our heart is infected & making us practice tribalism, to over come this problem don’t judge people because of their tribe judge them because of their individual behavior. What one man did do not represent a whole nation, if u r angry about what is done a decade ago be angry at him not to all nation, and learn how to forgive, cuz Allah subhana wata’ala forgives ppl. No need to come here & take ur anger to all of us, learn how to direct your anger to the individual causer. Besides not only a Somaliland’s were effected by the war, it effected all of us we all lost our close relative members or immediate families. (siyad bare) didn’t give dam about anyone he was dictator who was after one thing leadership. Don’t make it seem the whole Somalis were against Somaliland, not at all. we have been tortured and I am not talking about Qabil here we are talking about the people of Somalia back then (North Somalia) just put yourself in my shoes for 1 min and answer me …..would you go back to the old regime and pretend like nothing happened …or would you rather have your own government and be proud of it……what I am trying to say is that what happened back then is what lead to separation and civil war I am 50% somalilander myself I truly love them & want what is best for them, but digging the buried pain isn’t going to solve anything, my family were effected during this war too. Honestly I don’t see distancing others would heal the wound, the only way to over come this corruption is if all Somalis unite and together learn how to treat their wound. Separation won’t solve anything it will only increase hate & anger. Looking at my family is really hard for most of them to forgive but we getting their, and I hope u do the same. Ilahay qeyrka hana waafajiyo (Amin).

ooooooooooooops double posted :rolleyes:

Asalaamu Aleikum Wr Wb Originally posted by Latiif: Its becomin too much walaahi!! Spot on I absolutely feel the same, I thought I was the only one that thought the forum turned to relationship export. Is it me or people got brain washed by Hollywood fairy tail movies. Following hollywood relationship game tips foot steps is not the answer to ur problem. If u have relationship problems solve it according to Islam & our beautiful culture, plus discuss it with elders & people who really know u, not cyber people who hardly know u. Originally posted by LiBiN: I agree with you. The whole concept of forum and chat is deduced to this matter by some. Please lets keep love affairs for private and use the forum for the other beneficial purposes. [/QB] Couldn't say better

Asalaamu Aleikum Wr Wb Jamaal waad ku mahadsantahay ogeysiiska waa loo bahanyahay buugagtaan oo kale. any info where i could get the book from? the website doesn't say anything.

Originally posted by LATEAFHA: [QB] To be Really Really Really HONEST, I'd love to meet BUUBTO sHE'S So awesome in everway. She's so well Educated Islamicly. Waaaaaaaaaaw indeed I am flattered thanx a lot sis Lateafha, I am not sure being awesome & well educated islamicly, I try my best. Me too I would love to meet you, I love reading your posts too. Since we neighbors one day it might be possible. There is a lot of people I like reading there posts & don’t mind meeting them. Kamila (very nice & open minded sis with good sense of humor) Muslimah (talented sister with strong Islamic qualities & good sense of humor, love reading her posters in Islam section) Mizz hurricane (a wise girl with good Islamic knowledge) Xafsa (an open girl with cool personality) muslim sis (nice sis with strong Islamic qualities) Ilahaam (great sense of humor with cool personality) MMA (funny dude with good sense of humor love reading his posts always puts big smile on my face ) LST (good personality) Mujahid (talented bro with good Islamic knowledge) Jamaal 11, OG Moti, Barwaaqo, Amiinah (Nice nomads with good sense of humor, like reading their posts). P.s I Have being in S.O.L for nearly 2 years now, there is lot’s of nomads that I enjoying reading their posts & don’t mind meeting them. Unfortunately I can’t mention all of those nomads otherwise the list won’t end.

Asalaamu Aleikum Wr Wb Nice Q & A Og neatly done as much as it is ..........I kind like it lol many folks here r wondering why u did this let me fill them in a bit of info of ur difficulties to immigrate in Australia. Oh how sad what a poor man og moti is. This year is his 5th year in a raw applying to immigrate to Australia, but sadly & heartbreakingly John Howard (Australian prime minister) doesn’t allow him. About 3 times he was caught on boat that was full of asylum seekers heading to Australia illegally. OG in the other hand is refusing to give up, every morning he is at the front of the Australian embay in Cambodia begging an entrance to Australia. His obsessions & anger forced him to make fun of Australia. So folk’s plz make du’a for him. Lately I am becoming a fan of your halirious posts so don't retair yet keep them coming .