Asalaamu caleykum wr wb This is a question dat I asked myself million times, asked others don’t seem to get right answer. So Nomads wat is ur opinion I know u r sick & tied of hearing this. But does love really exist or is just exist in Hollywood world? Nowadays ppl get married 4 other reasons such as, interest, family reasons, nationality, tribe, biological clock, gold digger, service, production & etc. so is it really love dat bonds ppl & forces them to get married? Or is it the above reasons I mentioned? I asked myself if it is 4 the sake of love this ppl r getting married why the divorce rate is high? Or there is no such a thing called "love", lust is wat ppl think is love? plz have ur say. thanx 4 reading. Peace

Qalanjo Sis I am back again with different opinion. If u were with him 4 2 years & nothing changed plus he is 10 years older than u. is crystal clear dat u don’t have any feelings 4 this guy & u won’t probably have any feels 4 him in the future. Don’t push ur self more than u did, tell the bro ur decision & end the relationship. cuz nothing won’t change, except things will only get worst & time is running out 4 him to get another lady. Just end it as soon as u can in a nice way. 10 years is big gab, maybe ur rejection towards him is cuz of the age difference as it is huge. Remember if he is not in ur heart there is no use, having second thought. Well again good luck.

Well sis, is really hard decision to make, either way is a risk dat u have to take. If I advise u wat u should do I could be wrong cuz is really hard decision. But just want to let u know this. Don’t ever waste golden chance, is few men with all those qualities u mentioned this days. How do u know u will find some1 ur hearts cherishes? Sometimes we have to settle down with second choice, if u didn’t get the first choice. For example if the guy performed around 95%, take it & don’t look the other 5%. No one is perfect. Is impossible to find a guy dat fully full fields ur needs. Our ppl say “waxaad rabtay hadii aad heliwaydo waxaad ka badin weydo ayaa lagu ekadaa”. Don’t let fantasy rule u. besides u might find some1 u love one day, but the question is, does he love u as much as u love him? Remember go 4 some1 who loves u, cuz u know they will always be their 4 u, as time goes on u will probably develop same feelings 4 him. Like they say “True love comes after marriage”, don't let Hollywood persuade u. Sis i wish u all the best. Remember to pray salaatul istiqaara asking Allah to guide u to make the right decision. Hope u make the right decision Peace

Good question. Nomatter how hard u try sis to get this massage widely heard, nothing is gonna change. Cuz ppl will always complain no matter wat, they never satisfy with anything. That’s how human beings r. they need to have faith & believe in Allah. No 1 can make ppl understand, Allah provide them his book to make them understand life in general. Da majority ignored No luck still the same. Have u heard the story dat took place asxaaba times, or it was hadith I can’t remember exactly. There was this man he asked Allah to give him jawaan full of gold, Allah accepted his dua & gave him, then he asked some1 to help him carry all of this cuz he can’t. Allah took away the jawaan full of gold. see the point is, he asked something and got it but still he is not satisfied. So dat is how humans r. satan is doing his job.

Caydiid@lol no thanx i prefer my original name Buubto as it is unique than sitay manoogto El~nino dat is halirious. [This message has been edited by Buubto (edited 01-19-2002).]

that is good.

Ppl often think I got weird name “Buubto”, they think I am some sort of psycho girl . This is how I got the name in my childhood waa fududaa. i was always runing so my family & ppl around me at dat time called me “Buubto” or Biibto. So when I joined here I thought I might get a nomad passport with the nick “Buubto”, as it is part of my past. ppl often call me Biibito & boobto . i hate it. plz ppl get my name right. Offcourse I am not dat “Buubto” now but wish to be though as childhood life is truly unique nothing beats it. I am still "Buubto" in different way Cyber fly Girl [This message has been edited by Buubto (edited 01-16-2002).]

Maskiin Canbuulo aaaaaaaaah, especially nightka disaster night maa ka dhigee see camal. Non-stop kanooni lee waqtiga lagu dhamenaa. Sidii sacuudiyiinta camal inta dabada kor loo jeediyo oo kanooniga lagamo ayaa ladhahaa mansha Allah mabruuk. Marka sheekada kanooniga gam habalyo halagu dhaho, lee maa cashada loogabaxa duqa? Yasalaam habenkaas guriga uunsi beelo ayaa lagu shiday Hibo sis nice recipe. Great idea insha Allah mine is on the way I will write it as soon as I get some spare time.

Maskiin xaa ku daray wali ma soo guur guuranosaa? xaaji khamsiintii waa hore ey kaa tagtay . u right those r great somalian names, but times had changed it seems they were farewelled with the 20th century, just like other wonderful somali names such as batuulo, ceebla, madiino, macaanto, xasno, mako & etc. Nowadays ppl seem to interest new names as they r unique & wonderful names. Like our ppl say “wixii cusub caalamka ayaa jecel”. Ow maskiin dhaqso soo orod ha soo taag taagsan xaaji khamsiinta 21th century so khabso. [This message has been edited by Buubto (edited 01-16-2002).]

LF sis warfaa is girls name not guys name, is arabic name i guess u not familiar with it. Jihaan is also girls name again it is arabic name as well. is unique name Jihaan i like it. i guess i answered ur q. [This message has been edited by Buubto (edited 01-13-2002).]

Well i would say Ismahan,Ilhan, sumaya, axlam, jihaan, najaat, xayaat, shariin, Nawaal, Asmaa, warfaa, Hanaa, Ibtisaam, Warda, Najwa & Riim. will do as they not many of those in our society .

Sis don’t drop out school cuz of 1 or 2 year difference that is nothing. If u really serious about education this shouldn’t bother u is nonsense. Is mistake that being done b4 nothing u could do about u either live with it or drive urself mad about it, yet have nothing. There is thousands of ppl who r dieing to be in ur shoes cuz wat they care is education not age. U lucky having all this opportunity, why waste 4? Even if u drop wat is the point u have no education? Age is number sis, it shouldn’t bother u. wat should matter Is ur education, no matter how old u r. u see at the age of 17 I was at year 10 with younger kids, they all knew I was 17 used to make fun of me. Yeah it did bother me did I care? no, cuz my first priority was getting my high school certificate. So sis I would say cool off & concentrate ur studies. Surely in ur life education is wat will safe u. remember most Somalis in western world have same problem as u. U not alone sis. This country is not ur country unfortunately this is the disadvantages u have to deal with it. [This message has been edited by Buubto (edited 01-12-2002).]

Asalaamu Caleykum wr wb Nice topic. I don’t have anything against dating other races unless da person u dating is muslim & u both fellow exactly according to the religion rules. Wat pisses me off is, our men dating other races doing watever they want disobeying Allah’s rules. When they r technically ready to start a life, coming to innocent, decent, religious, cultural somali girl. Not even any somali girl but getting married to good one’s expecting her to be 100% perfect when he isn’t. and our society allows these men to betrayed their sisters. How does dat work? Is time our society stops being sexiest & start being fair. In the other hand if a somali girl dates other races & disobeys Allah’s rules. Even if she changes & comes back to her own community ppl will always treat her harshly & moreover no men wats to get married to her. How unfair is dat. Why r we always harsh on girls & we aren’t harsh on men? They both commit same sin from Allah’s, why wlc one & betray da other? Surely is b/w them & Allah wat they did. We don’t have to judge them, simply we just have to wlc them & make du’aa for them to become good muslims. If Allah is forgivable why can’t our society be polite & welcoming to both genders? That is wat I can’t understand. Have nice day. W/Salaam Peace

I agree with prefessor on this. unix bro give it a chance u can't expect to reach a success stright away. Everything requires time & patient, we r in real world not Hollywood world. Don't worry u will have ur chance to chat with girls

dat was good one, very funny well done i wounder wat a saudi guy would say? probably Mansha Allah

dat was hilarious

Thanx Admin Unix@lol

Well sis the only right person dat could answer is u. cuz the q is “what does somalianqueen do when she likes a guy” & ur name is somaliqueen so is inappropriate 4 us to answer. Any ay I wouldn’t advice u to call the guy & tell how u feel, cuz simply u r a girl & u shouldn’t be making first move. If u do the guy won’t respect u, he will always see u as cheap & easy to get. Like our ppl say “laxba meesha ey isdhigto ayaa lagu goracaa”. If the guy has feelings 4 u he will come forward, if he doesn’t well 4get & move on. If u choice to tell him, well be ready to handle the consequences.

Asalaamu Caleykum Wr Wb My dear sisters & brothers let’s forget about the hate that exist in somalinet. We don’t want this wonderful site dat we all trying to make it different then somalinet, to be somalinet2. if ninxoon is here well like sis ladyfatima said we welcome him dearly & hope he stops his nonsense attitude towards somali girls. If the guy is here he deserves every right to be a nomad like us. So let’s quit childish behaviour & start act mature. W/Salaam Peace

Asalaamu caleykum Wr Wb First of all about circumcision is curl practice in our society. Depending on the way is being done, they do go over the line then wat the sunnah & the book of Allah says. Suni circumcision is allowed 4 females, as we all know they do cross the line and practice it like the fircooni’s used to do. This causes lots of physical problems 4 the females, which sometimes puts their life on risk. Back to waris dire book, well her last book I haven’t read it yet, but I did read her other book. The lady is insane she is totally out of line. The things she says half of it is fake. She is not honest, she gave us bad name each accusing our men being women abuses, fathers who only care money then their daughters happieness, a nation that mistreat women & a monaster nation who just want to design the ladies in the way of men wants. Which is untrue. The reality is this lady just wants to sale her book so the reads thing that she is a true survivor in order to get money. subxaana laah. She is knowledge less both in Islam & our decent culture, the kufaars r using her so they can make us bad name in the name of Islam. All of this is publicity it isn’t the reality. Whoever got a heart I would recommend u not to read her book, and imaging she does not exist. P.s the lady can't even wear the gabarsaar probably how can she present us somalis in general when she doesn't even know how to wear her traditional cloth? W/salaam peace [This message has been edited by Buubto (edited 01-04-2002).]

Asalaamu Caleykum Wr Wb Subxaana laah Listen up mr islam expose watever ur name is, don’t come this trash in our forum. We all know that isn’t wat islam is all about many ppl tried to destroy this blessed religion since first it is being introduced till now, but did they succeed? No & that is the way it will remain. Plz visit other islam sides to get clear view about Islam. www.islamway.com www.islamcity.com www.ahlusunna.org www.islamseek.com

Girl that was funny. Peace :?

Athena sis wat is speciall about u that u r trying to make us guess who u r? well whoever u r we welcome u to somaliaonline dearly. i think u might be either collagegirl or hatergirl. Muslimah sis wat takes to be nomad is when u post enough posters that could convince somaliaonline that u passed ur exam & honored urself a Nomad. heng in there u about to grap the Nomad Passport . Peace ppl . [This message has been edited by Buubto (edited 12-29-2001).]

Isra, Hibo, Jaber & muslimah thanx 4 ur sympathy & understanding. Well the passed is the passed I hope we could all move on & live in our own land one day happier then ever Insha Allah, we will. Let’s pray 4 our country & it’s ppl. Surly “wadankaaga hooyo waa laba huraan”! insha Allah I will be going there 1 day helping my own ppl, Insha Allah. Peace

Isra, Hibo, Jaber & muslimah thanx 4 ur sympathy & understanding. Well the passed is the passed I hope we could all move on & live in our own land one day happier then ever Insha Allah, we will. Let’s pray 4 our country & it’s ppl. Surly “wadankaaga hooyo waa laba huraan”! insha Allah I will be going there 1 day helping my own ppl, Insha Allah. Peace