Asalaamu caleykum Wr Wb VAGirl “laxba meesha ey is dhigto ayaa lagu gooracaa” if u leave ur prance 4 a man, no matter whether they r unreasonable or reasonable either way is wrong. Remember one day he will leave u on the streets with no respect, cuz in the first place he got u cheap, meaning u disobeyed ur prance over him. Nabsi waalid is really bad. Note one thing “waano waalid waa malab” u might thing is unfair wat they doing, but is the right decision. Ur prance always wants ur best interest, cuz they r ur blood but this guy can not match or even come close to ur prance. So don’t be stupid & fool, stick with ur prance let the blood rule. Besides if u run away with this guy, 4 one u will disrespect ur family name, secondly u will disobey ur prance which is sin, thirdly u get married with out ur prance will meaning marriage without wali is haram. so girl don’t let teen world to rule u. use ur brain rather than ur heart. all the best Peace

Asalaamu caleykum Wr Wb VAGirl “laxba meesha ey is dhigto ayaa lagu gooracaa” if u leave ur prance 4 a man, no matter whether they r unreasonable or reasonable either way is wrong. Remember one day he will leave u on the streets with no respect, cuz in the first place he got u cheap, meaning u disobeyed ur prance over him. Nabsi waalid is really bad. Note one thing “waano waalid waa malab” u might thing is unfair wat they doing, but is the right decision. Ur prance always wants ur best interest, cuz they r ur blood but this guy can not match or even come close to ur prance. So don’t be stupid & fool, stick with ur prance let the blood rule. Besides if u run away with this guy, 4 one u will disrespect ur family name, secondly u will disobey ur prance which is sin, thirdly u get married with out ur prance will meaning marriage without wali is haram. so girl don’t let teen world to rule u. use ur brain rather than ur heart. all the best Peace

Asalaamu caleykum Wr Wb VAGirl “laxba meesha ey is dhigto ayaa lagu gooracaa” if u leave ur prance 4 a man, no matter whether they r unreasonable or reasonable either way is wrong. Remember one day he will leave u on the streets with no respect, cuz in the first place he got u cheap, meaning u disobeyed ur prance over him. Nabsi waalid is really bad. Note one thing “waano waalid waa malab” u might thing is unfair wat they doing, but is the right decision. Ur prance always wants ur best interest, cuz they r ur blood but this guy can not match or even come close to ur prance. So don’t be stupid & fool, stick with ur prance let the blood rule. Besides if u run away with this guy, 4 one u will disrespect ur family name, secondly u will disobey ur prance which is sin, thirdly u get married with out ur prance will meaning marriage without wali is haram. so girl don’t let teen world to rule u. use ur brain rather than ur heart. all the best Peace

Whoever got a well functional brain can realise is all propaganda. America & its allies are too shamed to admit they lost, the fact that they don’t have the right religion. This big scene is all about religion, it always being since angel Satan choice to be in hell fire. Allah warned us in the Qur’aan that they are our enemy. Non believes only need to look these points & they will realise who is the victim: _ 1. A criminal always makes up stories 2. A criminal always accuses the defender 3. A criminal uses media to attack the defender 4. A criminal who is wealthy always wins 5. A criminal always lies 6. A criminal usually gets support 7. Criminal want ppl to be lake him 8. A one who is loosing the competition always makes up stories 9. They say we got the false religion why islam is the fastest growing religion? 10. They brainwashing ppl with (bible) changed every year 11. Muslims got the true book of Allah which is not changed like the bible 12. Victim always straggles but wins at the end (Muslims will win at the end) That is what I would point out whoever asks me why Muslims are terrorist, fandamantalisms or etc. I will let them to make their brain-work in order to get the answers. That is my suggestion ppl.

Is Somali person the current overweight human being in earth? R we in top 20 fat’s human being on earth? No right well safe ur 2 cents 4 something else. Babe Somalis r overweight yet healthy. So tell ur Ethiopian doctor to help his own ppl, rather than wasting his time on us. We don’t need nonsense fake article. Maybe Ethiopians r jealous of us oh yeah fat & beauty that’s us Somalis . That’s god’s gift sorry skeleton non-gorgeous (Ethiopian) . p.s tell him to take research classes personally I think he doesn’t have clue how to do a research

Asalaamu Caleykum Wr Wb This article I recieved by email, is really wake up call & touching as well. I thought I might shear it with my fellow somalis. it is remainder I will advise u to re-read as much as u can, it is surly good remainder. It was early in the morning at four, When death knocked upon a bedroom door, Who is there? The sleeping one cried. I'm Malkul Mawt, let me inside. At once, the man began to shiver, As one sweating in deadly fever, He shouted to his sleeping wife, Don't let him take away my life. Please go away, O Angel of Death! Leave me alone; I'm not ready yet. My family on me depends, Give me a chance, O please prepense! The angel knocked again and again, Friend! I'll take your life without a pain, Tis your soul Allah requires, I come not with my own desire. Bewildered, the man began to cry, O Angel I'm so afraid to die, I'll give you gold and be your slave, Don't send me to the unlit grave. Let me in, O Friend! The Angel said, Open the door; get up from your bed, If you do not allow me in, I will walk through it, like a Jinn. The man held a gun in his right hand, Ready to defy the Angel's stand. I'll point my gun, towards your head, You dare come in; I'll shoot you dead. By now the Angel was in the room, Saying, O Friend! Prepare for you doom. Foolish man, Angels never die, Put down your gun and do not sigh. Why are you afraid! Tell me O man, To die according to Allah's plan? Come smile at me, do not be grim, Be Happy to return to Him. O Angel! I bow my head in shame, I had no time to take Allah's Name. From morning till dusk, I made my wealth, Not even caring for my health. Allah's command I never obeyed, Nor five times a day I ever prayed. A Ramadan came and a Ramadan went, But no time had I to repent. The Hajj was already FARD on me, But I would not part with my money. All charities I did ignore, Taking usury more and more. Sometimes I sipped my favorite wine, With flirting women I sat to dine. O Angel! I appeal to you, Spare my life for a year or two. The Laws of Quran I will obey, I'll begin SALAT this very day. My Fast and Hajj, I will complete, And keep away from self-conceit. I will refrain from usury, And give all my wealth to charity, Wine and wenches I will detest, Allah's oneness I will attest. We Angels do what Allah demands, We cannot go against His commands. Death is ordained for everyone, Father, mother, daughter or son. I'm afraid this moment is your last, Now be reminded, of your past, I do understand your fears, But it is now too late for tears. You lived in this world, two score and more, Never did you, your people adore. Your parents, you did not obey, Hungry beggars, you turned away. Your two ill-gotten, female offspring, In nightclubs, for livelihood they sing. Instead of making more Muslims, You made your children non-Muslims. You ignored the Mua'dhin Adhaan, Nor did you read the Holy Quran. Breaking promises all your life, Backbiting friends, and causing strife. From hoarded goods, great profits you made, And your poor workers, you underpaid. Horses and cards were your leisure, Moneymaking was your pleasure. You ate vitamins and grew more fat, With the very sick, you never sat. A pint of blood you never gave, Which could a little baby save? O Human, you have done enough wrong, You bought good properties for a song. When the farmers appealed to you, You did not have mercy, tis true. Paradise for you? I cannot tell, Undoubtedly you will dwell in hell. There is no time for you to repent, I'll take your soul for which I am sent. The ending however, is very sad, Eventually the man became mad With a cry, he jumped out of bed, And suddenly, he fell down dead. O Reader! Take moral from here, You never know, your end may be near Change your living and make amends For heaven, on your deeds depends. If this poem inspires you, It can help someone too.

Asalaamu caleykum Wr Wb The best feeling i have, Is be close to Allah worshiping him 24/7, remembering him every second & have faith in him. Knowing as long as I am close to god I am safe both in world & Akhira, in that way as much as i love Allah i know he loves me too. What other feelings could I possibly need as long as I am guided & protected by Allah S.W.T? May Allah all direct us to the right path Amin. W/Salaam Peace [This message has been edited by Buubto (edited 02-24-2002).]

Ismahan that was nice recipe sis. i will try it soon & let u know. can already tell is delicious from reading it. don’t feel bit down. Girl keep it coming is handy especially to boys Here is mine I am going to cook my favourite casariye is a cake. Is really easy & delicious. Is handy when unexpected visitors drop in. oh yeah I know that feeling ! 1. 7 eggs the egg juice (xabka – the white part) pour it into baaquli 2. Mix it all up 3. When is nicely mixed add ½ sugar (depending how sweet u like) 4. Add the remaining egg (kan jaalaha) 5. Add half small spoon packing-powder 6. Add very small amount of vanilla 7. Mix it all up until is nice & smooth 8. Add 7 spoon of plain flower 9. Mix it all up until is nice & smooth 10. Get a flat cake pole (baquliga dolshada mid fitsan) 11. Put it in the oven approximately 35 minutes with 190degrees 12. After 35 minutes make sure is nicely cooked checking with cake tester 13. When it cool down ku rid tray asagoo sidiisa u fidsan 14. Top of the cake mari jam (any flavour u like) 15. Then top of it add coconut make use is nicely spreads around the cake. 16. Finally put it in the fireach so it could cool down (it is nice when it is bit cooler) Trust me u gonna love it. let me know what u think of it folks. Peace Remember to keep it coming those nice recipes. [This message has been edited by Buubto (edited 02-20-2002).]

That is good one i liked. wat a talented guy u r. thanx 4 shearing with us. Peace May Allah all beless you. ------------------------------

Somalia my shining country My spirit of life that keeps me going Day and night I picture u in my heart Wishing I was in my own land Wishing I was setting under big gumtrees No need to turn on air-condition or heater no air pollution Just laying there enjoying Somali’s natural weather It’s country gifted by Allah natural resources No food chemical & food engineering A warm milk that is just being milked from a cow A fresh meat slaughtered same day Fresh vegetables Together we are undefinable nation Full of energy & educated people I have being to so many countries Seen new technology & so-called modern world Yet there is no place like home The true nature, its fresh resources & unique life Are unchallengeable Or Perhaps we not all that….. I ask myself every minute If Somalia is a gift from Allah Why are we enemies? Why are we so ignorant? Why can’t we say Alhamdulilah & get on life? Why do we have to divide ourselves? We share one religion & one culture Yet we fighting We are educated people yet can’t civilise We say we not tribalist yet we fund the world-loads We say we want peace yet refuse to support the current government. We say we Muslims yet obeying tribalism We live foreigner countries together Still the problems exist. My heart breaks to see our people like this They live in one country, yet Every tribe lives different suburbs We educate our kid’s tribalism We want no other different tribe to mix with us I wonder when this corruption will ever end? We say we are not hopeless yet we are actionless What is our future? I sit here wondering If Somalia my Shining country will ever recover? I have one hope For Allah to re-unite our hearts And to open our eyes to reality [This message has been edited by Buubto (edited 02-16-2002).]

Waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaw dat is one hell romantic story wuuuuuw let me caught my breath it is really touching. Now I know love exist but is dam rare to find it.

Mataan dat was good one i can't stop laughing

Wat I was going to say LF said it all, well said may God bless u sis. To the author:- yeah take ur anger on us. We know a brother like u so plz don’t bad mouth us. Say wat ever u want the reality is “waxaad tahay ayaa tahay hadal ku badalmi meysi”. If somali girls reject u cuz of ur……………..go 4 the other girls u want we will see wat they do 4 u. in the mean time shut ur mouth. Af daboolan waa dahab. & dat is the truth.

Asalaamu Caleykum Wr Wb Thanx all 4 ur input. Well I guess it does exist & over exaggerated. I am yet to come a cross a couple who truly love eachother, other than Hollywood fantasies. I don’t think it does exist in our community though [Allahu Yaclam]. W/salaam Peace [This message has been edited by Buubto (edited 02-02-2002).]

gacaliso the letter is sweet no doubt about it. But girl the guy could be right u know . like other girls said nin waa af macaane dhaqan xume. so if they had those two equal af macaane dhaqan wanaagsane. Then they wouldn't be homeless juwing qad would they? No offence guys lol@jaber is it one of mahamad suleyman tubeec songs? [This message has been edited by Buubto (edited 01-30-2002).]

lol@LF iyaa waa la isla wada arkay wadaada. girl horta i got to agree with u. taas oo kale wax u dhaw anaa arkay, in ey faq faq badanyihiin nimankaas. teeda kale 2 kayar maba ka dageyso in ey ka sii badiyaan moyee. anoo walaahi xan iga aheen. waa sida aad sheegtay miskiintaan shekadaas ayaa ku soo socoto aan u maleen. Ilahay amuuraheeda ha u sahlo (Amin).

ONKOD walaal Wat is wrong with u the marriage is only six months old, usually the first few years is hard. Why r u already outlining the negativity side? beside our sis is new to somali community, so she needs to understand our culture & how we operate things. Bro I know u r fighting 4 ladies right, at the same time u got to be fair cuz u don’t know wat is really going on. Try to be optimistic here, cuz Allah loves the one’s who works building a family. Gabadha haka cabsiin see Alle kuu galay. sorry if i offended u in any way. [This message has been edited by Buubto (edited 01-26-2002).]

Asalaamu Aleikum Mansha Allah first of all congartulations 4 converting to Islam discovering this wonderful religion. May Allah bless u & make u a great muslimah (Ameen). Maryama I do feel ur pain & I am sorry about wat u going through. Sis Somalis majority of them r talkative ppl when they have something to say, they usually take the long way they don’t know shortcut. They could spend on the phone for hours discussing something yet haven’t reached the point. That just us. sis i reckon all this suspisions is part of getting use to new culture, since ur marriage is new. May Allah stronger ur faith (Ameen). Try to be patient, insha Allah after a year or so u will slowly adoubt this new culture. Since ur husband is in dahwa he might be giving them some lectures over the phone or helping out Allahu ahlam. U got to communicate with ur husband in nice manner & tell him this bothers u. see wat he says insha Allah things will cool off. Try to be reasonable, don’t let the satan take advantage of u. But sis since he is talking to a married ladies, u have nothing to worry cuz they r married. the brother might be right helping them out. since our ladies r talkative firing one question after the other. (Alahu Alam). Tell him If he is giving them lectures then they should come to lecture centres where he gives out the dahwa. so they won't waste his pressures time with his family. Wishing u all the best hope everything works out 4 u, insha Allah it will just hang in there.

Sis if u keep on paying attention to wat ppl say u will never be happy & satisfy with ur own life. Ppl will always talk about u whether u did the right thing or the wrong thing. Gossip is their energy to go on. So just be urself & ignore them. Wat matters is personality not tribe. If he satisfies u & u love him go ahead wat stoping u? Why r u choosing ur happieness over wat others say?

There is no way I will call a guy, if he wants to chase me he is wlc but am not going to be da one taking his number. I would tell him in his face da I won’t call & I am not gonna take da dam phone number. U could call me rude or wat ever, but dat is me.

Well 4 me Allahu yaclam. I am just going to live like the prophet said “if u going to bed tonight don’t expect u will be alive tomorrow, if u r in daylight don’t expect u will reach at night” in another word know dat u could be gone in any minute. I just hope if I am alive 4 the next 15 to be good muslimah, living her own land & helping her ppl. If not I hope in uu ilahay iga xijaabo cadaabul qabr (Amin).

xafsa@lol dhiq dhiq dhiq girl we r the same is true when u said “tintiyoo isku quruntay baan xijaab nab ku siinaa..and i'm done. . girl i do da same Sis lulla I can’t help either, cuz I am Ms xijaab don’t give dam about beauty. On the face once in a blue moon I put on little bit of oil, with yougort (caano fadhi) & khajar la shiiday mix it all together & put on the face. It makes smooth & look shinny. About hair I am same with sis xafsa, unless i am going somewhere especial & dat day i am off to hairdresser . Me 2 I am wondering to learn new tips so girls fire away plz. [This message has been edited by Buubto (edited 01-22-2002).]

Yeah me 2 I got sick of it, i have seen so many ppl using it. cajaaib dad aan garaneyn magacooda somaalaay ceeb kugu habsatay, jahiliin waaxid ayaa nahay lol. thanx 4 informing us teacher maskiin. wat is our next cashar macalin?

i agree with LF xafsa Sis I feel the same wallah, there is thousands of somali girls who feel the same. but u have to be aware dat ur parents love u no matter wat. The reason they r behaving like this cuz they want wat is best 4 u. I know they have funny way of showing it, but being over protect is good sign sis. Just know one thing u have to be urself, communicate with them a lot that helps me. Try to be very close to them like ur best friend. Have conversation with them about issues dat bother u most offcourse without not giving them hints, but enough to make u realise where they stand & the way they r thinking. Sis ur prance know wat they talking about cuz simply they being there & have good knowledge about wat can go wrong. Like our ppl say “wayeel meel dheer ayuu wax ka arkaa” or “nin aad dhashay kuma dhalin”. I know we see it as being offence & harsh, but seriously is not sis, just be bit understanding & u will know wat I am talking about. About marriage thing. Well remember to have full approval from ur prance, cuz simply they will always be ur blood but this man won’t be. Besides if the man got all the qualities dat expected from muslim man & they rejection is cuz of qabiil. Try to take advantage of ur prance be close to the one who r more like to approve. Try to divide them, communicate them a lot without not pushing offcourse do it in unsuspected way. Try to persuade them, be honest to them dat u really want this guy. The other advantage is:- whatever u say try to take an ayah from the qur’aan concerning about qabiil & marriage, keep on taking xadiths & qur’aan as a backup. I am sure it will work 4 u. but just hang in there. Wishing u all the best. [This message has been edited by Buubto (edited 01-21-2002).]

I honestly think Islamic government is the only solution 4 our country. Since we all r Muslims that is the only thing our ppl hearts can bond them together once & 4 all. Even establishing a Islamic government in Somalia right now, is really difficult thing to do, cuz there is warlords who hold weapons, rule some part of the city & who r knowledge less about Islam. to make it even harder 4 them not to approve, the US & it’s allays r targeting every single Islamic government in this earth. Even if our ppl decides Islamic government is wat we need, we going to be next talabans. Nevertheless we could do this & beat the kufaars, we just need our ppl to forget their loyalty to tribalism, & be united to govern their land. May Allah merge Somalis heart together (Amin).