Scenerios iga dheeh..Well he will never bad mouth the company or the ceo because he sucks up to the big Man.lool About the white chick I don't think it will happen but if they do that...and mostly they just hire bimbos, who have no idea of what the hell they are doing..same as him he had no idea of what the hell he was doing.I will just have to sabotage her or send one of the boys to discredit her. Even better I will turn in my notice and give them a heart attack like before.

I want his job. Why do I have to do the work and not get paid Shiiiiiiiiiiiidh

Originally posted by Legend of Zu: ^^^ Now that you know what will you do with that info? Cheers Zu I have couple plans boiling but I will ask for a Raise A very Big Raise and then I will go from there. You know what I think I will go and make friends with the girls so they can give me info whenever he drops off. Revenge is surely sweet. Zafir thanks for the Article.

I can see parents in that area having a field day! This cowboy espresso is basically two minutes away from my work. Am not really a coffee person but my coworkers go out for coffee delievery every morning all the way to Starbucks. I can see my Boss going on a Drive by Lunch every hour, little perv And we were wondering where he was dissapearing to...

Alle Ubaahne walaalo am a Muslim first before anything!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! even if the people of puntland are my people or not. Secondly Please do me a favor a read what you wrote "the family is known for everyone, and that family must be the family of Sheytaan, or a clan that is taken by sheytaan for its evil projects against the Muslims." It is wrong of you to judge a whole clan and call them a sheytaans. You can pick a bone with Abdulahi Yusuf and his government but please don't insult a whole clan. I myself don't agree with TFG and Abdulahi Yusuf. I don't agree with Ethiopians being on our land. Brothers fighting against each other. I hate all this. If anything walaal the reason for my roar today is a family member has died in the war. A brother who had his entire life ahead of him. He just started his own family. May ALLAH give him mercy and all that died in this war Amin. This whole war could have been prevented If The two sides could get over their huge egos. I tell you only the innocent die in the middle. Don't paint me to a qabilist You know me better than that Alle Ubaahne. Assumptions can sometimes get the better of us all. I will give you the benefit of the doubt that you meant maybe just maybe meant to use other wordings. You were in mistake today and as your muslim sister I have the right to tell you that. Baashi raali iga ahaaw about your thread awoowe.

Originally posted by Alle-ubaahne: ^If a whole clan, or presumably their majority, agrees one thing, which is to defeat Allah's religion from becoming the rule of law in the country, isn't that a sign of something that makes them not only the problem of our nation but the enemy of Islam? the family is known for everyone, and that family must be the family of Sheytaan, or a clan that is taken by sheytaan for its evil projects against the Muslims. that is an observation, not a Quran or a hadiith, awoowe! Alle Ubaahne today you dissapoint me mate,,,,your true colors are showing,,,Like I told you before Your hatred for Mr Yusuf blinds everything. MaY Allah cure you.Amin

Originally posted by Tami: Guilty pleasure: Grey's Anatomy...I know I gotta stop it someday soon. Best new show: Heroes, though I missed few episodes. RC I'm coming over soon...you have it in DVR as promised right? Best Fox show: Prison Break, I have to get this on DVD...I missed way too many episodes. House seconds . I'm happy to report I've stopped watching reality tv shows..lol, starting with ANTM and Project Runway. Tami am with you on that list girl. Greys Anatomy is Fav, I have managed to get all my friends and CoWorkers addicted to it. Who could resist all the Mcdreamy,Mcsteamy and Soon to be Mcsexy Second in line is Prison Break,What can I say about MR Wentworth ohh LA LA LA LA his eyes speak for them selves. and then CSI miami. Although my friends have been raving about Heroes, haven't seen any episodes will wait until DVD hits. I have missed the season pre of Prison Break 3 and CSI Miami I just love horatio. I don't have time these days, so am glad who ever invented DVR.

The Wife That Nobody Knows About Question I recently got married. I am a second wife and my husband's first wife does not know about me (along with everybody else in his family). My husband has told me that he promises to tell her and the reason he did not tell her before is because he is scared she will leave with his children. Can you please give me some information as to whether our marriage is valid and what can I say to him to let the truth be known. Name of Counsellor Layla A. Asamarai Topic Second Wife Answer My dear sister, The second wife is rarely heard from as it is usually the first one whose complaints are received by society. In regards to whether you marriage is valid or not, I could not begin to answer that as that is a question that you would need an Islamic scholar to respond to. In terms of how to let your husband tell the truth to his family including his wife, it seems like there are so many factors in your situation (i.e. his kids, wife, community, etc) that are dictating if and how he tells them of his marriage to you. Sharing with him the reasons why you would like the marriage to be known as well as how you are impacted by the secrecy are good places to start. Unfortunately, I cannot say that I have much more than this to offer given that your situation is likely a very complex one. The difficult thing about a situation with multiple wives is that if the marriages are to be equitable, there needs to be balance between each wife’s needs and situation. In addition, what you do about it has a lot to do with what is Islamically appropriate to do. I pray that you gain solace and comfort and that Allah helps you in your time of need. Another example Taking a Second Wife in the West Question Respected scholars, as-salamu `alaykum. I am living in the UK. I have two wives. When I married the second wife, my first wife was unaware but she had informed me previously that if I married another women she would divorce me. I repeated this information to my second wife before the nikah (wedding contract), although I did tell her that I would not divorce my first wife from whom I have a child. Now after two months of my second marriage, my second wife is asking for a divorce because the first wife has not divorced me, which the second wife thought would happen and she is not willing to live with me while I am still married to my first wife (although I was not informed of this condition before the nikah). Please could you inform me what does Shari`ah state in the above situation and what would be the proper method of divorce. Jazakum Allahu khayran. Date 10/Sep/2006 Name of Counsellor Zienab Mostafa Topic Polygamy Answer Wa`alaykum As-Salamu wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh. In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful. All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger. Dear brother in Islam, thanks a lot for your question, and we earnestly implore Allah the Almighty to guide all human beings to the light of Islam and to grant Muslims insight to understand Islam in the best way. First of all, we'd like to stress that Muslims living in a non-Muslim country should respect the laws of that country. Muslims should set a good example for others in all aspects of life. Muslims are not allowed to deceive or lie or break their promise. Furthermore, Muslims should never take marriage and divorce lightly. Responding to the question, Zeinab Al-`Alawani, instructor of f iqh and Islamic Studies, Graduate School of Islamic and Social Sciences, states the following: First of all, it seems to me you were OK with your first wife from whom you got a child, so why did you practice polygamy while it is illegal in the UK? Secondly, if your first wife told you previously that she is going to divorce you if you plan to get a second wife, why you did not respect her choice if you agreed with it in the first place? If you know that according to law you have to divorce your first wife before you take the second one, why did you not do it? Marriage and divorce are not a game, and Almighty Allah gave the most details in the Qur'an about how solemn this contract is, especially the role of men in protecting and maintaining their wives. I think you made this issue complicated and you have to accept the consequences. It seems to me that the only option you have is either to divorce one of them legally because you can only be married to one wife under the law, or to move to a country where polygamy is legal and you keep your two wives, if they accept this decision and are willing to do it. ]Salaam Brother Nur What do you think of this situation that this sister and brother brought forth? Wasn't he supposed to tell his wife before he marry another wife? Doesn't the second wive deserve to be in a union where all secrets are out and she doesn't have to hide the fact she got married and celebrate with everyone? Am sure the first wive feels deceived by her husband, when she finds out about this union. Isn't marriage supposed to be about honesty and much more? The reason I put this example is it happens most of the time and I understand the stance of polygamy in our religion. Some people have used it as a tool to harm their first wives, to entertain themselves, satisfy their desires, and tout their ability to acquire two, three or even four wives without being qualified either financially, physically, morally or ethically for this undertaking. Virtuous individuals should attest that this person is honorable and that he has not been indicted in human rights, unethical behavior, or criminal cases. The prospective husband should also be physically, socially and financially qualified to marry again and should not neglect his duties towards all of his wives and children. I think that most pay attention to the whole 'Yes Islam allows polygamy, Our Muslim brothers are allowed four wives' Lakiin the rules are not being followed. You should really maybe make a thread that gives details of what is expected of our brothers and ways to go Islamically about it, because of this and families who in the first place were happy are divorcing. Allah subhanawatacala gave you (brothers) the right to marry(polygamy) four wives and their are rules to be followed, and most are abusing it. "If you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly with the orphans, marry women of your choice, two, or three, or four; but if you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then (marry) only one…" (Qur’an 4:3) Brother Nur since so many in this forum look up to you and many admire you please concentrate more on the rules of Polygamy instead of just the basic. Allah Almighty knows best.

Tuujiye haya its going down miyaa caawa Good luck my brother and Listen stop the wishy washy. Gabarta ruunta uu sheeg like I told before. If all goes well maybe Tuujiye will get hitched Alhamdulilah markas nee he will stop his ruubsho.

Consult a Dermotologist and please don't use these product people list,,Proactive, Acutane etc. Its better you see a doctor and then they will take blood test and check for any complications. I have seen people use these products and wasted lots of money, until they went to a doctor. Good luck

I watched it last night Although I was rooting for 1 pound I felt really bad for Nick and his family. It would definately be nice if he won. 6 kids in two bedrooms. Hey the better man won though. That fight was Great. Nick mad 1 pound work for that win.

Somalis are especially being targeted because they are easy targets. Not only that, but the areas they are is not so safe. They are being target because the thugs know that we don't have security and well the corrupt police won't do anything about it. That is the price people pay when you have majority of the people dying of aids and hunger. All the kinds of ugly things that people will do for money. In the last two years two family of mine were killed over there. Just last week my abti was killed in South Africa while tending to his shop allahu naxariso. While death is inevitable it is just the way he died that even makes it more painful. Inshallah Bob will be fine and my prayers are with you dear Sala kahle Ngikufisela inhlanhla

Mashallah mabruuk Duke and family. May Allah make your daughter, one who benefits her family and her deen. AMIN Fatherhood is a blessing. Now you will know the love of being a aabo. Mashallah aboowe hope abayo and the baby are doing great. Congrats

First of all stop using different kinds of products on your hair. Stick to one, if you relax your hair,,,maybe that is a big part stop doing it. Also consult your doctor you might need to change your diet. Also stress does that. My doctor recommended Vitamin A pills. Good luck

Thanks baashi for the update I guess not much has changed since I was last in Nairobi. Aboowe how is the sharci thing, are those askaris still asking for Kipanda or was it kitambulisha? Most of these bizness's that are huge now, mind you they started with nothing. Did you have hard time at the airport? Did you only go to kenya? Reminds me of the food in eastleigh,,,The mukati mayayi at jump street. Even the somali restaurants. The food in Africa is soo tasty not like these overprocessed chemical foods. A friend of mine is touring in Africa....checking out of new business ventures. Places like Uganda, Tanzania( Arusha, Dar and Zanzibar), Angola which is a diamond boom town, especially Luanda, it is a growing country at the moment..after the civil war. There is alot of things to do back in the MTC. Inshallah am planning to visit this winter. Travel to Uganda, then Kenya drive through Tanzania, Go to my hometown Zambia and then go all the way to SA inshallah. People are creating $1000 businesses into millions. I tell you.. the market is wide open. Baashi please share pics.

Scarface wrote Its nothing new they been fagtts for yrs.....arabs are disgusting tossers Yoll lot are quite funny...Stop generalizing all arabs,, May be some of you hate arabs that is fine but please don't generalize all. Am sure we have Somali GAYS out there. To top it all OUR NOBLE PROPHET MOHAMED (saw) WAS A ARAB.

Qac congrats walaal Mabruuk Mabruuk.... Willo baal ii waraan gabareey maxaa isku dhacdhaacayo noo Long time no see. Xaajika igu salaan yakhey. Its getting very bolitikal or in other words its going down

Caasho Yusuf ahh lool thanks for making me laugh.

Mashallah may Allah sw help you in your journey to finish half of your deen and finding your Zawj and mithaq. amin Inshallah Don't be pressured or talked into a marriage.Your heart must feel good about it. Sis don't do because someone said it do it for all the right reasons, And that you want it for yourself and Mainly because of Allah. Also marriage is calaf. Make lots of dua's Don't forget about praying Salat-I-Istikhara. Oh Allah! I seek Your guidance by virtue of Your knowledge, and I seek ability by virtue of Your power, and I ask You of Your great bounty. You have power; I have none. And You know; I know not. You are the Knower of hidden things. Oh Allah! If in Your knowledge, (this matter*) is good for my religion, my livelihood and my affairs, immediate and in the future, then ordain it for me, make it easy for me, and bless it for me. And if in Your knowledge, (this matter*) is bad for my religion, my livelihood and my affairs, immediate and in the future, then turn it away from me, and turn me away from it. And ordain for me the good wherever it may be, and make me content with it. Transliteration: Allahumma inni astakheeroka bi ilmik. Wa'astaq-diroka biqodratik. Wa'as'aloka min fadlikal-azeem. Fa'innaka taqdiru wala aqdir. Wata lamo wala-a lam. Wa'anta-allamul ghuyoob. Allahumma in kunta ta lamu anna (hathal-amra*) khayul-lee fi deenee wama ashi wa ajila amri wa'ajilah, faqdorho lee, wayassirho lee, thomma-barik lee fih. Wa'in konta ta lamo anna (hathal-amra*) sharrul-lee fi deenee. Wama ashi. Wa ajila amri. Wa'ajilaho. Fasrifho annee. Wasrifnee anh. Waqdur leyal-khayr haytho kan. Thomma ardini bih. Marriage is for life, for eternity. There is a swahili saying goes like this haraka haraka haina baraka meaning hurry,hurry has no blessing or the english saying haste makes waste. Wish you all the best. P.s my appologys if you feel offended sis

Originally posted by nuune: Sweden will win da cup Nuune they way they played today am in spectacle. Lets see how Henrik does the rest of the games. Sweden better work harder if they want to win. Also Trinidad and Sweden spoiled the whole fun for group B. England ahh what a dissapointment really I was expecting more fun and play then a safe planner goal. Where was rooney haa. Ivory Coast and Argentina well am :mad: Argentina did a great job. Ivory Coast on the other hand what the hell was going on with the individualism horta and waiting for the ball to come to them. Argentinas defends was good they wear ganging up on Drogba like hungry pack of wolves. They need to get they act together. Work on their defence and Drogba needs help up on the field its not a one man show Lets see how the other LIke Angola and IRan do tomorrow.

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MC haha thanks for the video suprisingly I saw some friends in video funny ... and the guy in the floral grey shirt is saying that the youth of today who are wearing pants below the waist, girls almost naked, tatoo's, kids becoming part of the gang and all the "yo yo wasup momma crew" to return to their roots and something along those lines. Mashallah its great to see brothers like you who love Somalia and want the best for it. Your quite a good representation,,,pass my greetings to your wife and the family. On the other hand I didn't grow up in Somalia and would have loved to see what beautiful things, I often hear. Ofcourse it is the land of my hooyo and aabo macaan(allahu naxariso)loved so much and we should not forget and lose our culture. So MChamar am in the same boat as you. Peace and love to the motherland.

Wow am quite a fan of your poems and books abaayo. While I was searching for poems by Africans on a website. I stumbled upon this one of your poems and then, that was were I started my journey of knowing your existence, one of our very own Writers and poets. I have also read mighty collision of two worlds. This one is my fav by Safi Abdi (author) Somalia If She Survives (a poem on the predicament of the Somali woman) Poem: If She Survives It's her fate to suffer the foolish The only glue cementing the ruins A dried flower without the care. She feeds the baby And keeps the man on board, too. An expert in ducking bullets Graceful to the core Though offended, Wholesale, The woman In the flowing dress's a veteran, Voiceless in a tragedy absurd. Her plight no hairs ruffle Her hopes neglected remain Overwhelmed by men Sightless in the daylight She hawks her wares In the sunlit mess; Knowing God counts her woes. If she survives this reckless age It's no thanks to the man on board. Welcome to Sol abaayo and its great to have you aboard.

Congrats Amelia

Ladies you need to carry a mase or this pepper spray there are some with key chains. they also look like this just make sure if you live around children that you put it away. THis is how you use it http://www.peppersprayinc.com/faq_about_pepper_spray.htm Make sure you aim and wait for the right moment although sometimes that is not possible, at least when you spray it will give you time to escape and call the police due to the chemical temporarily blinding them. Also when you spray them the uv lites stay for at least a week on them. Hope that helps Make sure you look behind you and your surroundings and always try to get an escort of security if possible to your car or bus.