Kool Kat Someone looks like their are guilty Or is it another way of Confessing

As far as I know they are all Maqbiyo( hope i spelled it right) Wiilo you very welcome sista girl

Their wasn't fairness until YOU <Look this way

I would love to join if yoll will have me And i have lots of recommendations in line for books since i can not mention it right know since the mother of the thread has to go first. Ladies first P.s I just started reading Gabriel Garcia Marquez LOVE IN THE TIME OF CHOLERA

Ohhh my Goodies If am not mistaken it think rendavous is a male or a guy

Besbaso nice poem very deep Naa Heedhe yoll are in ssaw? What a small world Keep on doing your thangs sea town Queens

Xoogsade well said very true!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Caveman YEs she is somali Everywhere you go we have the same problem..Anything i can tolerate but abortion is when i draw the line. A few years ago i went to a conference about abortion and their was this lady called Sarah Smith She was a surviver. Even though they tried to abort her Allah almighty didn't let that woman die. Today she is one of the biggest supporters against abortion and i think she said she was one of the cases that made Roe Vs Wade very controversial.

Your topic kinda reminds me of when i was growing up. My mom and dad (Allahu naxariso) would give anybody who spoke anything but somali at home a very nice punishment. And we didn't grow up in somalia so my parents made it a must for us to learn our culture. What helped even more was that I want to an islamic school where we learn everything in normal school also arabic, Quran, hadith and fiqh classes. No use though i forgot almost all of my Arabic The only thing i missed out on was i didn't get to see somalia. Am very thankful that my parents did that because if they didn't i would be a lost child. Very good points FF

FF I mentor alot of somali teens and walahi Allah helps us the things that these kids do you will not believe. It is becoming very common. I personally know of a 16 year girl who had sex with a boyfriend. Well she got pregnant....told the 18 year old boyfriend obviously he kicked her to the curve. She was told her mother and mother suggested naaya you go have an abortion, the daughter refused and said you can disown me but this is my baby and am having it either you like it or not. Next thing i know the whole family gangs up on the girl. I can't believe the biggest worry her mother had was ohh my god what will the neighbours and her somali friends, ppl say. Anyways next thing i know the girl had an abortion. And yes her somali mother took her to the plan parenthood office easy as 1 2 3. I wanted to shoot the mother walahi Their is alot of sh&* happening my gosh their is a juvenile jail about 10 minutes from where i live as of today their are 27 teenage somali boys all under 18 years old and their are 21 somali girls... Can't write anymore be back later

^^^^ We should all say May Allah Give us nin or naag khayr leh.Amin Walahi if you are Allah Fearing and you live for the hereafter then we will have no problem finding our perfect Calaf inshallah

Congratulation sareeda here is a website that have muslims names and they also give you the meaning too http://www.muslim-names.co.uk

Definately a problem that is arising everyday. Where i live when a situation like that happens and whatever the kids nationality is. The social services particularly child protection agency calls the masjid and lets us know that their is a kid that needs a home and they are giving us a chance to give the child to a muslim family. May be you can talk to the community their is always muslim families that want to adopt or foster children. Instead of that kid going to some kafir family and that kid growing in a gaalo household. Even some somali families want to take in kids like parents who can't have children. P.s MAy be at friday prayers imam can let the people of the this situation... just a suggesting hope that helps May Allah help those in need at the desperate hours. Amin

Totti and Underdog Ina lilahi wa ina ilaihi rajicuun May Allah give you and your families sabir and iman.Amin And may Allah grants them Janatul Firdos.Amin

I second you Shayma Damn why can't we all get along Oky peoples come on Group Hug

Mahasanid walaal good that we are on the same conclusion then. and raali ahow again Big brother moti

Salaam brothers and sisters At first when i first read the comments on this topic gosh my blood was boiling i couldn't wait to press the page 5 and skip all the other comments so i can give my two cents in this topic but since i didn't do that and i read all the comments. I have calmed down and thus i can give my opinion without being biased.. If my brothers want to go and marry back home or wherever it is so be it or do whatever rocks their boats. First the is Alaf and what Allah almighty has in store for us. Laakin it is a grave sin to say that women (generalizing all women)in the west have become westernized. Yes their are those that good and bad just like our brothers in the west ( good and the bad. I think what we are forgetting is the reason for high divorce rates in the west especially if we are somalis is because the deen is not being followed accordingly. If both of the partners in the same household are following the deen and afraid of Allah Almighty Most Merciful walahi i think that household would be a powerful, because the shaytan is not present in that house. Our lord, grant us wives and offspring who will be the apples of our eyes and guide us to be models for the righteous" In its 'ibadah aspect, marriage is an act pleasing to Allah because it is in accordance with his commandments that husband and wife love each other and help each other to make efforts to continue the human race and rear and nurse their children to become true servants of Allah. Simply if you follow the deen than Allah will reward you we understand Islam as more than one specific religious dispensation, instead the entire body of Allah's (swt) revelation to the cosmos, then we can say that there are those who are generically muslim who may not neccessarily follow the specific shari'a as we know it from Prophet Muhammad (saw). The Qur'an says that *any* (not just "Muslims") who believe in Allah (swt), believe in the concept of being held accountable for one's actions, and do good works "shall have their reward with their Lord; on them shall be no fear, nor shall they grieve" (Surah al-Baqarah 2:62; Surah al-Ma'idah 5:72). Tranquility on the other hand is a state of being which is achieved when peace has been established. Tranquility is compromised when there is tension, stress and anger. It is a mistake to take tranquility to mean perpetual state of bliss. Since being Muslims does not make us immune to tragedies and catastrophes. In fact Allah tells us in the Quran that we will be tried (2:155,57). What a state of tranquility does is to empower us to handle life's difficult moments with our spouses as obedient servants of Allah. Allah in His infinite Mercy also provides us with the tools by which we can achieve this state of peace and tranquility. The second principle besides Shura on which the Islamic family life is based is Mercy (Rehma), and in this verse Allah is telling us that He has placed mercy between spouses. We are therefore inclined by our very nature to have mercy for our spouses. Mercy is manifested through compassion, forgiveness, caring and humility. It is obvious that these are all ingredients that make for a successful partnership. Marriage in Islam is above all a partnership based on equality of partners and specification of roles. Lack of mercy in a marriage or a family renders it in Islamic terms dysfunctional. It is not good to point fingers and generalize. Brothers and sisters. I live in the US If a sister is educating herself and is doing really well isn't it the benefit of the husband and its community, family, children and our religion. Brothers you should be happy that your sisters are expanding their minds that means it is better for all of us. We will not be Jaahil (oky am not saying that the sisters back home are jaahil) for those who like to twist words. I think i have said enough

Originally posted by OG_MOTI: lool hasna, no sister I didnt take your words personal, and it is not about me, it is my wonder how you guys are tricking young kids and now ur preferences has went to as low as 12 years or even younger, to me that is unacceptable.. inhumane and abusive.. it is a very serious matter to trick a young kid to ask your hands, ma anigaa yaabin, sow wax lala yaabo ma aha... balo, Allah kariim Peace :rolleyes: And its perfectly fine when an old man almost my grandfathers age marries a girl who is 14 or even younger....Motiyow... Are you telling me that they are not tricking the young girl? Well if you are really sincere about somali women or even women issues then i think you would not talk like u just did? Don't justify such insinutions please!!! :mad: I don't understand why you would jump to the gun if a women marries a younger man or even a boy but when an old man does.. YOu probably say yeahhhhhhhhhhh walahi odayka waa khaatar.... and even maybe (rolling my eyes) admiring him.. Well i think that is also abusive and inhumane.... brother Moti my advise to you is just because you are a man doesn't mean that everything a man does is right. Brother MOti Wise men are instructed by reason; men of less understanding, by experience; the most ignorant, by necessity; the beasts, by nature. Don't take what i said as a wrong way and if you did brother that was not the intention rather showing you a light at the end of the tunnel.

SALAAM CAVEMAN WELCOME MY BROTHER TO FAMILY OF SOL... JAZAKALAH FOR YOUR BEAUTIFUL ARTICLE I LOVED IT VERY MUCH...YOUR MESSAGE WAS VERY HUMBLE AND SINCERE....THUS HERE COMES THE BASHING....HA HA HA JUST KIDDING IN EVERY SENSE OF THE ARTICLE WALAHI IT IS VERY TRUE AND YOU MADE A VERY GOOD POINT. THANKS FOR THE HISTORY OF THE BLACK AND WHITE WEDDING ATIRE. I LEARNED SOMETHING NEW. THANKS SOL FAMILY THIS BROTHERS SHOWED US THE LIGHT AT THE END OF THE TUNNEL PLEASE LISTEN TO HIS MESSAGE HOPE YOU ENJOY YOUR STAY CAVEMAN

This is regarding Odaay Moti Excuse my zulu but am new here and i see that, you have always something to say about women especially somali chaqitos... marka walaal baal imika halkaan fiiri...You are stuck on what i call status quo.. You don't like change...Change is absolutely not in your vocabulary... thus going to the point It is 2004 and the temperature is about to bowl very very hot hot marka waan guursaneyna wiilal yaar ohh fresh ahhhh The younger the better... i think you better run for it aboowe moti... this year old men like you will not marry fresh girls like Femma Fatalos like she said cooking, cleaning, picking after you adiga you....is not in her vocabulary P.S MOti hope you don't take this to heart

Abdinur brother if am not wrong meaning if you live in HOme of the somalis mineapolis. Your state has the biggest Somali student association. You can go to National Somali Students Association www.nassu.org They should have a chapter for MN Hope that helps

Nervouso Girl One Hundred years of Solitude by Gabriel Marguez ohhh that was great book one of my fav all time You have to read his other books too I am addicated to All Nicholas Sparks Notebook Read it unbelievably 17 times Walk to remember To many to mention Memoirs of a Geisha The Alchemist Les Miserables - Victor Hugo The Illiad - Homer The Odyssey - Homer Of MiceOedipus Rex - Sophocles and Men - John Steinbeck sis too many Books are extremely my Serendipity

Il Capo Dada I swear i fell off my cubicle chair.... My co workers are wondering what am laughing about...Kix KIx Kix Go on silently Awaits for the Drama to continue

Eid Mubarak to my Sol Family I wish this Eid for all the muslim ummah Happiness and joy Eid. May allah show mercy to all of us on Judgement day. AMin EIDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD MUbAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAARAKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKk I love you all Hasna

The French military hospital where he had been treated for nearly a month said he died at 3:30 a.m. The Palestinian leader spent his final days there in a coma. Palestinian Cabinet Minister Saeb Erekat and Tayeb Abdel Rahim, a top Arafat aide, confirmed that Arafat died in a conversation with reporters at Arafat's headquarters in the West Bank city of Ramallah. Arafat's last days were as murky and dramatic as his life. Flown to France on Oct. 29 after nearly three years of being penned in his West Bank headquarters by Israeli tanks, he initially improved but then sharply deteriorated as rumors swirled about his illness. Innailahi Wa inailahi rajicuun.... May Allah mercy be with him Amin May he be the one's in Janatul Firdos Amin