The path of marriage 10/6/2005 - Education Social Religious - Article By: E Mansor, F Eunos & O Sidek IslamiCity* - "Your goal in the end is towards Allah: He will tell you the truth of the things wherein ye disputed. It is He who hath made you (His) agents, inheritors of the earth: He hath raised you in ranks, some above others: that He may try you in the gifts He hath given you:..."(An'am, 6:164-165) Life is a journey but there is no journey quite like Life. It begins from Allah and ends at Allah and the events that unfold in the journey are also premeditated by Allah . It is a journey specifically designed for mankind and, like most journeys, the experience therein is meant to enrich the traveler. Life on Allah's Earth is His scheme for Man's development. As Man journeys through, opportunities for his growth may come in the form of trials and challenges or as favors and gifts. Though we are given freedom to choose which path to travel on, we have also been shown the path called " Islam " which promises success in the Hereafter. It is a path that calls mankind to strive for comprehensive harmony with his Creator, society and Nature as a "way of life" in his pursuit to fulfill his potential as the best creation of Allah (Quran 95:4-6). As Man is mind, body and soul, Islam prescribes the attainment of correct thought, action and motivations as equally important prerequisites for well-balanced growth of the human personality towards its perfection. Thus iman (conviction), amal (action) and ihsan (God-serving conduct) are inter-linked in a comprehensive definition of the Islamic way of life, as found in the discourse between the Prophet Muhammad and the angel Jibrail 1 Marriage is not an incidental aspect of this way of life. Instead, it is part and parcel of it, as it figures significantly in each of the three aspects of iman, amal and ihsan. As a matter of faith (iman), Muslims regard it as a form of gift from Allah . As such, we enter into marriage with a great sense of responsibility and reverence. And being from Him, we are always careful not to abuse it for selfish gains. Instead, our marriage and family should be a major source of strength and support in our service to Allah . and society. For this purpose, in the practice (amal) of Islam, an aspect of Islamic law (Shariah) is devoted towards marriage and family. And through law, Islam proactively guides the conduct of partners in marriage to ensure that they transform their families into a cohesive unit of contributors to society. In principle, Islamic family law (munakahat) aims at ensuring harmony within the family and the community at large, in good times as well as in instances of divorce, as illustrated in Section III. When harmony prevails in the community and order is maintained in a family unit - broken or otherwise - the family unit functions in its best form possible and will thus, be able to maximize its potential in cultivating true servants of Allah and of society at large. Ultimately, the aim of Islam is to cultivate human character and, at the social level, human culture with the disposition of peace and harmony, out of love for Allah , mankind and the world. However, Islamic character and culture are more than just a matter of faith (iman) and action (amal), as they involve our entire being - in other words, every moment of our existence should be a conscientious service toward Allah And this is what the Prophet . defined as "best character" or ihsan. The attainment of ihsan however, requires a lifetime of attention and nurturing by the more enlightened ones who understand human nature and the necessary process for cultivating good characters. For a child, the family atmosphere of love, affection and joy is their best chance for getting the attention and nurture from more enlightened parents and other significant adults. Thus, marriage and family are part and parcel of Muslim life, as they figure significantly in the development of our iman, amal and ihsan. In a manner of speaking, if life is a journey and Islam is the path to a successful destiny, marriage is a vehicle well-suited for the journey towards peace and tranquility in this life, and success in the other. When we achieve peace within ourselves and with our spouse, we can then contribute to the development of the community by undertaking the task of spreading the peace of Islam to others. This could be in the form of being involved in community services or by helping others who are in need. At the very least, we will represent the image of Islam and our good and kind conduct to others, serving to publicize the teachings of our faith. Thus, at another level, we strive to extend tranquility beyond ourselves toward others. Across this entire process, what will be uppermost is the attainment of Ultimate Peace with our Creator. "And among His Signs is this, that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that ye may dwell in tranquility with them, and He has put love and mercy between your (hearts): verily in that are Signs for those who reflect." (Rum, 30:21) Source: "Tranquil Hearts" by Enon Mansor, Fatimah Eunos & Osman Sidek

sheherazade, may Allah Ta'ala smile upon you always. Allah, the Exalted, says: "Worship Allah and join none with Him (in worship); and do good to parents, kinsfolk, orphans, Al-Masakin (the poor), the neighbour who is near of kin, the neighbour who is a stranger, the companion by your side, the wayfarer (you meet), and those (slaves) whom your right hands possess; For Allah loveth not the arrogant, the vainglorious;'' (4:36) Ibn `Umar and `Aishah (May Allah be pleased with them) reported: Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said, "Jibril kept recommending treating neighbours with kindness until I thought he would assign a share of inheritance". [Al-Bukhari and Muslim].

Originally posted by *Proud_Muslimah*: quote:Originally posted by Khayr: ^^^^ Salamz, Question quote: The Se7en under the Shade are: 1. A Just Ruler 2 A youth who grew up in the worship of Allaah 3. A man whose heart is attached to the mosques 4. Two men who love each other for Allaah's sake, meeting for that and parting upon that 5. A man who is called by a woman of beauty and position but he says: 'I fear Allaah' 6. A man who gives in charity and hides it, such that his left hand does not know what his right hand gives in charity 7. A man who remembered Allaah in private and so his eyes shed tears What do these 7 have that relates them to each other and makes them different from the rest??? Fi Amanillah Assalamu Alaikum, They are all worshipers of Allah (SWT) and what makes them different from the rest is that they don't follow they desires...they don't fall into temptations (i.e. A man who is called by a woman of beauty and position but he says: 'I fear Allah'). LOL...I'm just guessing Good Questin! I'm guessing, but is it Ihsan, that they have in common, which is also related to over-coming your desires. Allahu-A'lam

» Asalamu Alaykum, Halxidhaalahan bal isku daya; waa mid fudud; Aw-Axmed Diini: Shan kun oo nin oo wada shaxdoo shir iyo ceel joogta Oo wada sharaaka ah haday naftu shaqaynayso Asaan shaado xoollo ah lahayn wadana shoobaysa Aan shabaabka iyo sheekha iyo sheybku kala soocmin Wadana shiil modow ah aan casaan ciddi ku sheegaynin Maxamuud hadaad shicir taqaan sheeg hadaad garato?

Jafarel. Islamic Quiz includes Islamic History. Answer to your question: Zulaykha Rashiid - your correct! Ibn Sina(Avecina). New Question: When did the Battle of Hattin took place, and why is it a significant event in world history?

» Asalamu Alaykum, The Se7en under the Shade are: 1. A Just Ruler 2 A youth who grew up in the worship of Allaah 3. A man whose heart is attached to the mosques 4. Two men who love each other for Allaah's sake, meeting for that and parting upon that 5. A man who is called by a woman of beauty and position but he says: 'I fear Allaah' 6. A man who gives in charity and hides it, such that his left hand does not know what his right hand gives in charity 7. A man who remembered Allaah in private and so his eyes shed tears learn more here new Question: who wrote the book al-Qanun, known as the "Canon" in the West, an encyclopedia of medicine extending over a million words.

looooooool @ Zu Originally posted by iPod Athena: I've a plastic pig too (got it for free from a fresher's fair) and it will stay where it is in my room. :rolleyes: it is either the angels or the pigs, your choice!

Originally posted by ALexus.: Thanks brother M u h a m m a d It was a great read however I am familiar with all different types of stories that has to do with Jinn's. Adaa Mudan Walaal ALexus. ps. pls share some of those stories with us. :eek:

Originally posted by fat boy: isn't also said that there will be fewer women entering janah than men? who said that?

insha'Allah I will always accept your 'du'allars' sis, specially in this blessed month, when the gates of heaven are open.

wiilka buuran Allah(swt) has more than 99 names. 99 are the attributes that are mentioned in the Quraan. try the above question.

ok walaal; Q) How old is The Qur'aan? and How old is Islaam? fi'amanillah Salaxuddiin

nice one Dune, welcome to SoL fear is the mind killer

» Asalamu Alaykum, Let the Quiz continue, Insha'Allah. Ramadan Kariim

In Islam - It is(also) a crime to wrong your ownself. and in the Yawmal-Qiyamah, even your fingers will speak and be a witness for or against you. peace

Castro, Viking, well said! Originally posted by Don't Kill Xu: quote: Some, such as Turkey , Pakistan and Iran, have tumbled backward. Gosh, and here I thought Turkey in a moment of frenzied EU-bandwagon jumping, decided to ban headscarves for their civil servants and students.Xu, but Turkey's 'Islamist' AK party didn't participate in Operation Iraqi Liberation.

Saudi Arabia Nigeria(north) Malaysia Pakistan Somalia .. and others not necessarily in that order

Ramadaan Kariim Walaalayaal Originally posted by Shams-ud-Din: I’m sorry to say that my excitement wore off a bit since I read the newspaper this morning about the annular eclipse. Not the usual excitement when it is just “us†Muslims who normally watch the skies in a breath taking fashion, without the astronomical hype of non-Muslim world hijacking our event, just because the moon happened to be crossing our viewing line of the sun. Anyway, it automatically meant that the moon was sighted and Ramadan was on. Ramadaan kariim to all! [/QB] It is strange to think of it, how they enjoy watching eclipses and 'shooting stars, and how the prophet(pbuh) would act when he saw a eclipse.

Originally posted by Tukaale: Thanks bro, Muxamad ya rasuulalaahi salaa Calayka wasaalimal-mawlaa Maxamaaaaaaad Remember that qasiidah enjoy this one » Mawla ya Salli Wasalam

Jazakallah Khair sis Proud Muslimah a beautiful username, for the kind reminder. welcome to SOL May Allah(swt) reward you for your efforts and increase you in Ilm, Iman and Hikmah. Amiin “Allâh has promised to the believers - men and women, - Gardens under which rivers flow to dwell therein forever, and beautiful mansions in Gardens of 'Adn (Eden Paradise). But the greatest bliss is the Good Pleasure of Allâh. That is the supreme success.†(At-Tawbah 9:72) اللهم إني أسألك الجنة وأعوذبك من النار

Abrar walaal May Allah(swt) forgive you sister Abrar - your sins, from the beginning to the end of your life, whether committed deliberately or intentionally, few or many, abstruse or manifest, old or new, secretly or openly. May Allah(swt) administer your affairs and give you sustenance, good health, iman and wisdom. May Allah(swt) give you the knowledge of Diin, the Quraan and the Shariah. May Allah(swt) give you the best of everything in this Dunya and the best of everything in the Aakhirah. Amiin

^ wa iyaki walaal

JZK walaal Pacifist. May Allah(swt) give you health, wisdom and understanding May Allah(swt) give you peace, felicity and security May Allah(swt) grant you, your du'as, dreams and goals. Amiin

Asalamu Alaykum Khair, JZK for opening this. well my goals are the same as yours; - finish reading/listening to the whole Quraan Al Kariim - finish reading/listening to Sahiih Bukhaari/Muslim and memorize some Insha'Allah - pray Taraawiih(due to my schedule If I make half Alhamdulilah). as for loosing weight, I actually hope to gain some. I.A. Fi'amanillah Salaaxuddiin

some more links: BBC - ISLAM Islam Today Islam's Furthest Frontier