According to studies, the first letter of your first name reveals your sexual identity ... Ladies I don’t know about yall but I am searching for guys by their first names now. I will preferably be searching for “J” names and avoiding “G” names. LOL -A- You are not particularly romantic, but you are interested in action. You mean business. With you, what you see is what you get. You have no patience for flirting and can't be bothered with someone who is trying to be coy, cute, demure, and subtly enticing. You are an up front person. When it comes to sex, it's action that counts not obscure hints. Your mate's physical attractiveness is important to you. You find the chase and challenge of the "hunt" invigorating. You are passionate and sexual as well as being much more adventurous than you appear; however, you do not go around advertising these qualities. Your physical needs are your primary concern. -B- You give off vibes of lazy sensuality. You enjoy being romanced, wined, and dined. You are very happy to receive gifts as an _expression of the affection of your lover. You want to be pampered and know how to pamper your mate. You are private in your _expression of endearments and particularly when it comes to lovemaking. You will hold off until everything meets with your approval. You can control your appetite and abstain from sex if need be. You require new sensations and experiences. You are willing to experiment. -C- You are a very social individual, and it is important to you to have a relationship. You require closeness and togetherness. You must be able to talk to your sex partner before, during, and after. You want the object of your affection to be socially acceptable and good looking. You see your lover as a friend and companion. You are very sexual and sensual, needing someone to appreciate and almost worship you. When this cannot be achieved, you have the ability to go for long periods without sexual activity. You are an expert at controlling your desires and doing without. -D- Once you get it into your head that you want someone, you move full steam ahead in pursuit. You do not give up your quest easily. You are nurturing and caring. If someone has a problem, this turns you on. You are highly sexual, passionate, loyal, and intense in your involvement, sometimes possessive and jealous. Sex to you is a pleasure to be enjoyed. You are stimulated by the eccentric and unusual, having a free and open. -E- Your greatest need is to talk. If your date is not a good listener, you have trouble relating. A person must be intellectually stimulating or you are not interested sexually. You need a friend for a lover and a companion for a bedmate. You hate disharmony and disruption, but you do enjoy a good argument once in a while it seems to stir things up. You flirt a lot, for the challenge is more important than the sexual act for you, but once you give your heart away, you are uncompromisingly loyal. When you don't have a good lover to fall asleep with, you will fall asleep with a good book. (Sometimes, in fact, you prefer a good look.) -F- You are idealistic and romantic, putting your lover on a pedestal. You look for the very best mate you can find. You are a flirt, yet once committed, you are very loyal. You are sensuous, sexual, and privately passionate. Publicly, you can be showy, extravagant, and gallant. You are born romantic. Dramatic live scenes are your favorite fantasy pastime. You can be a very generous lover. -G- You are crap in bed! ( Remember....I didn't write this!!!! LOL) -H- You seek a mate who can enhance your reputation and earning ability. You will be very generous to your lover once you have attained a commitment. Your gifts are actually an investment in your partner. Before the commitment, though, you tend to be frugal in your spending and dating habits and equally cautious in your sexual involvement. You are a sensual and patient lover. -I- You have a great need to be loved, appreciated...Even worshipped. You enjoy luxury, sensuality, and pleasures of the flesh. You look for lovers who know what they are doing. You are not interested in an amateur, unless that amateur wants a tutor. You are fussy and exacting about having your desires satisfied. You are willing to experiment and try new modes of sexual -expression. You bore easily and thus require sexual adventure and change. You are more sensual than sexual, but you are sometimes downright lustful. -J- You are totally marvelous! -K- You can be very romantic, attached to the glamour of love. Having a partner is of paramount importance to you. You are free in your expression of love and are willing to take chances, try new sexual experiences and partners, and provided it's all in good taste. Brains turn you on. You must feel that your partner is intellectually stimulating; otherwise you will find it difficult to sustain the relationship. You require loving, cuddling, wining, and dining to know that you're being appreciated. -L- You are very romantic, idealistic, and somehow you believe that to love means to suffer. You wind up serving your mate or attracting people who have unusual troubles. You see yourself as your lover's savior. You are sincere, passionate, lustful, and dreamy. You can't help falling in love. You really enjoy stimulating yourself, though you are fairly new to it. You fantasize and get turned on by movies and magazines. You do not tell others of this secret life, nor of your sexual fantasies. -M- You are emotional and intense. When involved in a relationship, you throw your entire being into it. Nothing stops you; there are no holds barred. You are all consuming and crave someone who is equally passionate and intense. You are willing to try anything and everything. Your supply of sexual energy is inexhaustible. You are very social and sensual; you enjoy flirting and also enjoy mothering your mate. -N- You need constant stimulation because you bore quickly. You can handle more than one relationship at a time with ease. You believe in total sexual freedom. You are willing to try anything and everything. Your supply of sexual energy is inexhaustible. You are a flirt, yet once committed, you are very loyal. You are sensuous, sexual, and privately passionate. Publicly, you can be showy, extravagant, and gallant. You are born romantic. Dramatic love scenes are your favorite fantasy pastime. You can be a very generous lover. -O- You are very interested in sexual activities yet secretive and shy about your desires. You can re-channel much of your sexual energy into making money and/or seeking power. You can easily have extended periods of celibacy. You are a passionate, compassionate, sexual lover, requiring the same qualities from your mate. Sex is serious business; thus you demand intensity and diversity, and are willing to try anything or anyone. Sometimes your passions turn to possessiveness, which must be kept in check. -P- You are very conscious of social proprieties. You wouldn't think of doing anything that might harm your image or reputation. Appearances count, therefore, you require a good-looking partner. You also require an intelligent partner. Oddly enough, you may view your partner as your enemy; A good fight stimulates those sex vibes. You are relatively free of sexual hang-ups. You are willing to experiment and try new ways of doing things. You are very social and sensual; you enjoy flirting and need a good deal of physical gratification. -Q- You require constant activity and stimulation. You have tremendous physical energy. It is not easy for a partner to keep up with you, sexually or otherwise. You are an enthusiastic lover and tend to be attracted to people of other ethnic groups. You need romance, hearts and flowers, and lots of conversation to turn you on and keep you going. -R- You are a no-nonsense, action-oriented individual. You need someone who can keep pace with you and who is your intellectual equal the smarter the better. You are turned on more quickly by a great mind than by a great body. However, physical attractiveness is very important to you. You have to be proud of your partner. You are privately very sexy, but you do not brag, you are willing to serve as teacher. Sex is important; you can be a very demanding playmate. -S- You are secretive, self-contained, and shy. You are very sexy, sensual, and passionate, but you do not let on to this.Only in intimate privacy will this part of your nature reveal itself. When it gets down to the nitty-gritty, you are an expert. You know all the little tricks of the trade, can play any role or any game, and take your love life very seriously. You don't fool around. You have the patience to wait for the right person to come along. -T- You are very sensitive, private, and sexually passive; you like a partner who takes the lead. Music, soft lights and romantic thoughts turn you on. You fantasize, but do not tend to fall in and out of love easily. When in love, you are romantic, idealistic, mushy, and extremely intense. You enjoy having your senses and your feelings stimulated, titillated, and teased. You are a great flirt. You can make your relationships fit your dreams, oftentimes all in your own head. -U- You are enthusiastic and idealistic when in love. When not in love, you are in love with love, always looking for someone to adore. You see romance as a challenge. You are a roamer and need adventure, excitement, and freedom. You deal in potential relationships. You enjoy giving gifts and enjoy seeing your mate looking good. Your sex drive is strong and you desire instant ratification. You are willing to put your partner's pleasures above your own. -V- You are individualistic, and you need freedom, space, and excitement. You wait until you know someone well before committing yourself. Knowing someone means psyching him out. You feel a need to get into his head to see what makes him tick. You are attracted to eccentric types. Often there is an age difference between you and your lover. You respond to danger, thrills, and suspense. The gay scene turns you on, even though you yourself may not be a participant. -W- You are very proud, determined, and you refuse to take no for an answer when pursuing love. Your ego is at stake. You are romantic, idealistic, and often in love with love itself, not seeing your partner as he or she really is. You feel deeply and throw all of yourself into your relationships. Nothing is too good for your lover. You enjoy playing love games. -X- You need constant stimulation because you bore quickly. You can handle more than one relationship at a time with ease. You can't shut off your mind. You talk while you make love. You can have the greatest love affairs, all by yourself, in your own head. -Y- You are sexual, sensual, and very independent. If you can't have it your way, you will forget the whole thing. You want to control your relationships, which doesn't always work out too well. You respond to physical stimulation, enjoy necking and spending hours just touching, feeling and exploring. However, if you can spend your time making money, you will give up the pleasures of the flesh for the moment. You need to prove to yourself and your partner what a great lover you are. You want feedback on your performance. You are an open, stimulating, and romantic. What are you?? Is it true for you?

******THIS EXCLUDES CHILDBIRTH******** We all know that would be a hands down winner for all the moms on the board. Mine was once when I was about 12, my brother and I were playing in the house and he ran in the bathroom trying to get away from me. I stuck my hand in the little opening in the door by the hinges. Well you know how, theres a little space there when the door is open and when you close it, it closes. Well my index, middle and ring fingers were in the little space and my brother SLAMMED the door and threw all his weight up against it trying to keep me out. I damn near blacked out from the pain. ur turn?????????

What is the problem?!?!?! Why is it that kids these days rule their parents instead of the other way around. When we were young, we couldn't even look at our parents crooked without getting a back smack. I'm standing in line yesterday and why did this Somali woman have to keep saying to her son, "stop, behave yourself, stand still, come here, stop, stop, stop". I wanted to take that kid and his sorry excuse for a momma and kick them both out on their azz. People, do you have this much drama with your kids? Do you have to constantly tell your kids to behave themselves or does it only take one time? If you ask me, the third time you have to tell the same thing to the same kid, their asking to seriously get embarrased in front of whomever is around.

How did you meet your significant other?

MINE ARE: fresh-frozen sad clown rock opera wholesome working vacation friendly fire Living Dead Peace Force good junk BY THE WAY I"M BACK Y'ALL... SALAM.

What do you see when you look at me Do you see someone limited, or someone free All some people can do is just look and stare Simply because they can't see my hair Others think I am controlled and uneducated They think that I am limited and un-liberated They are so thankful that they are not me Because they would like to remain 'free' Well free isn't exactly the word I would've used Describing women who are cheated on and abused They think that I do not have opinions or voice They think that being hooded isn't my choice They think that the hood makes me look caged That my husband or dad are totally outraged All they can do is look at me in fear And in my eye there is a tear Not because I have been stared at or made fun of But because people are ignoring the One up above On the day of judgment they will be the fools Because they were too ashamed to play by their own rules Maybe the guys won't think I am a cutie But at least I am filled with more inner beauty See I have declined from being a guy's toy Because I won't let myself be controlled by a boy Real men are able to appreciate my mind And aren't busy looking at my behind Hooded girls are the ones really helping the Muslim cause The role that we play definitely deserves applause I will be recognized because I am smart and bright And because some people are inspired by my sight The smart ones are attracted by my tranquility In the back of their mind they wish they were me We have the strength to do what we think is right Even if it means putting up a life long fight You see we are not controlled by a mini skirt and tight shirt We are given only respect, and never treated like dirt So you see, we are the ones that are free and liberated We are not the ones that are sexually terrorized and violated We are the ones that are free and pure We're free of STD's that have no cure :confused:

HAPPY B-DAY GIRL...

My place full of blacks, and white too but hey i'm ok with that...

Originally posted by stpaulchick: Ya'll don't know about the Midwest Swang it's called "NINA POPPIN'" not midwest swang...

What are your favorite body sprays and lotions from Bath and Body Works, Victoria's Secret, and any other place that sells body sprays and lotions? ps. by the way i'm back ya'll.....

Originally posted by OG_Moti: i said i see apple pie waiting just for me to stick my fingers into it.. and for no reason at all she slapped me ... stick my fingers into it?????? and u asking why she slaped ya, u luck she only slaped ya..

Originally posted by Darman: why do u think there is sport called Formula 1 and with millions of fans.... that's excatly what u get by watching too much movies...beside darman formula 1 is a move ok is not real so don't compare it to the real this...anywayz, take care peace.

i missed getting beat up for some dummmmm reasons........

I hate to sound lazy, but i hate helping people move!! :mad: :mad: They never have stuff all the way together and they always want you to move the HEAVIEST ISH!! :eek: :mad: "Here playa, why dont you move that there 60inch television out of the living room into our bedroom upstairs!"

Darman that was beautiful, i don't know what to say but i agreee with everything, more power to ya darman...peace.

Well i hope ur friend get well soon ok...inshallah..salam.

Originally posted by MiZz_LeXuS: CUTE_LILGIRL no need to worry Summer is a long, long, long time away. Just relex till then. huh where u at sis???????? to us its summer already and it's almost gonna end, i don't know where u live.... ps. i'm usa.

DON'T PUT ACRYLIC TIPS ON YOUR TOES, EWWW DON'T WEAR SOCKS WITH SANDALS MEN, DON'T WEAR SANDALS, PLEASE!!! DO PUT LOTION ON LEGS AND FEET...NO CRUSTY HEELS PS... IF U kKNOW U SWEAT CARRY DEO WITH YA...IT BE TOO HOT TO BE SMELLING SOMEBODY. THAT PISESS ME OFF........ Y'ALL TURN

This is an inspirational post. I don't know how big this thing is gonna blow up...but I had to spread this to u all. With everything that's going on in the world...it's hard to trust ANYONE!!! I mean...friends killing friends...can't have fun due to club stampedes...porches falling on people...houses catching on fire and people are trapped inside... Life is indeed short. U never know when your time will come. So, live your life right. Tell your loved ones u love them...try to be nice even if the woman is a total B.I.A or that guy is a total JERK! I met up with a co-worker who's house was on fire JUST last week. He looked fine and happy, but I knew he was sad that he lost most of his belongings and his house. He should thank GOD he didn't lose his wife and child. U JUST NEVER KNOW PEOPLE!!! Today u have it all...Tomorrow u lose it all!!! Live right and live through Allah. Keep the faith! Thank u...

i don't know how i missed this topic...wow OG_moti do ur thing ok and u betta treat her good aight......peace. ps. that was funny i can't believe someone will fall in love wit OG_moti, wow suprised

Why Women Dump Men? WHY IT CAN'T BE OTHER WAY AROUND......???

Darman u are one crazy guy...u should go and pray that u came out of this safe and sound....and by the way, never and will never gone that high...but look ate the bright side u broke the record, oops let me rephrase that u broke MY RECORD...take care Darman...

Elhamdullah i am, see that's one of the things that i'm thanksing Allah with...for keeping on praying, i'm not saying that to show off or anything but i hope all y'all do that or start cuz when u start some how it's gonna be a habbit which is a good habbit that'sw what excatly happen to me so good luck to y'all and...inshallah all y'all will start good muslim and follow our Deen the right way...

Originally posted by CLOWN: quote: P.S you know what? i am tired of being Clown let somebodyelse entertain S.O.L it hasn't done any good for me only made the guyz like you mad at me :mad: :mad: :mad: na'mean? soon i will even change my avatar. 1 LUV. [/QB]no no no don't change ur name clown, u name is funny and so are u so plz don't u don't have to listent to rude u know....u are fun so stay like that, don't worry about what ppl say aight...so have fun that's all....peace.

Originally posted by DA_BEAST: p.s i love my Somali Queens to Eternity. . Not after all that list bro......